My personal advice is to chat to the first, find out the boundaries, what their expectations are from a 3some and the dos and donts. As a single girl I often found myself in uncomfortable situations due to lack of communication prior to the meet. Also remember you arent just there to make up the numbers!!! Most important thing is to have fun x Hope it goes well x |
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As above, talking and communicating are the most important things so you know the boundaries before you start. Once all agreed and everyone understand those limits, a great time can be had. Oh, and remember you are there for everyone’s pleasure, not just your own. I don’t mean to have suck the male off, but appreciate what he is getting off on. You will have a great time |
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As others have said talk to the other two people. I would also say make your own boundaries clear and don't be afraid to say if you're not comfortable. Single men can sometimes be treated as if their opinion of requirements are secondary and that's not fair. |
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If you are talking about mff, my biggest advice is get to know people because you like them, not because you want to have sex with them. Women tend not to like being used as sex toys and don't consider themselves as being here to fulfill your fantasies. If you value them as people you are much more likely to get somewhere.
We think there is a strong liklihood that we'll end up in bed with a particular Fab friend of ours. Lots of couples say it's difficult to achieve. For us it's been very easy because haven't had that as a target. We like her and want to stay friends, whatever that friendship may look like. If it becomes sexual, that's a bonus, not our reason for knowing her. |
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