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So, You’re sitting in a pub...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are
‘Will you be my friend?’
Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?
You’re views?
Is it just us that finds it odd?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldn’t it be more like “I want to see your naughty photos, will you be my friend”? And that would definitely be weird!"
Wouldn't it just be a dick pic and the words "fuck now"? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wouldn’t it be more like “I want to see your naughty photos, will you be my friend”? And that would definitely be weird!"
Yes, that’s often the purpose
The buggers don’t even wear the statutory raincoat when they are clicking their old mouse either! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wouldn’t it be more like “I want to see your naughty photos, will you be my friend”? And that would definitely be weird!
Wouldn't it just be a dick pic and the words "fuck now"? "
Pretty much
Well written profile by the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are
‘Will you be my friend?’
Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?
Its more.....
Sits down, looks at the pics on your phone and never says a word
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could be worse, he could show you his knob then ask if you could be friends
At least that would show a modicum of social sophistication "
I'll keep that in mind when I'm in that pub next  |
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"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are
‘Will you be my friend?’
Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?
You’re views?
Is it just us that finds it odd?
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We don’t add or accept friend requests unless I’ve spoke to them for a bit |
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When you order your next drinks, the barstaff asks you if you'll be a friend to a guy in the pub. They don't tell you which guy, just pointing to a dark area of the pub, where you can see black silhouettes. They say they'll take some of your photos over, so he can get to know you better.
You hand your phone over, so your pics are copied and the barstaff let you see a cock pic from the guy.
You have a great evening  |
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"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are
‘Will you be my friend?’
Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?
You’re views?
Is it just us that finds it odd?
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You're not sitting in the pub half naked with your tits nearly out looking for 3somes with a sign saying you like anal, DP and the like
R
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That happens to me quite a bit OP. I'm a charismatic kinda person.
Fab is a weird place. Before I put a picture of me up on our profile no one was interested in even looking at our profile. Now we get a few. If I put my wife's tits up then I will have friend requests coming out my ass. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That happens to me quite a bit OP. I'm a charismatic kinda person.
Fab is a weird place. Before I put a picture of me up on our profile no one was interested in even looking at our profile. Now we get a few. If I put my wife's tits up then I will have friend requests coming out my ass. "
This  although D did receive a fair few fabs and a lot of messages on his cock pic which we didn't expect  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That happens to me quite a bit OP. I'm a charismatic kinda person.
Fab is a weird place. Before I put a picture of me up on our profile no one was interested in even looking at our profile. Now we get a few. If I put my wife's tits up then I will have friend requests coming out my ass.
This although D did receive a fair few fabs and a lot of messages on his cock pic which we didn't expect "
More power to him
I remember my wife getting a lot of messages about a jacket she was wearing from ts/tv's. It was random and she took it as a compliment. |
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We've all got a common interest on here so instantly there's a chance that we can be friends.
If the dude in the pub slides over some naked pics that would be weird.
If the dude in the pub is chatting and laughing with you, asking if we can be friends (on Facebook) or asking for your telephone number is not unusual behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are probably the only two that couldn't care less about being at the pub not something we've missed whereas swingers clubs we have missed  "
Us too, we do go once in a while, but it’s no big deal. Quite often not the best of places to have a proper conversation and sometimes there are some very annoying people in them who love draw attention to themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We've all got a common interest on here so instantly there's a chance that we can be friends.
If the dude in the pub slides over some naked pics that would be weird.
If the dude in the pub is chatting and laughing with you, asking if we can be friends (on Facebook) or asking for your telephone number is not unusual behaviour."
Point totally missed, the dude in the pub has not spoken previously etc
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are probably the only two that couldn't care less about being at the pub not something we've missed whereas swingers clubs we have missed
I haven't exactly missed pubs more the idea of a pub without a tv blaring out a football game and a bunch of morons shouting.(ahh the good old days of conversation with the person in front of you and them actually looking at and listening to you?)
God I'm getting old or do others feel the same?  "
Yes that’s a pretty accurate picture on a lot of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are
‘Will you be my friend?’
Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?
You’re views?
Is it just us that finds it odd?
We don’t add or accept friend requests unless I’ve spoke to them for a bit "
Exactly, the normal way of doing things on or off the web. But perhaps you’re just intelligent and have some sense of how things should work, it seems many can’t seen to manage to get to that level of development. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you order your next drinks, the barstaff asks you if you'll be a friend to a guy in the pub. They don't tell you which guy, just pointing to a dark area of the pub, where you can see black silhouettes. They say they'll take some of your photos over, so he can get to know you better.
You hand your phone over, so your pics are copied and the barstaff let you see a cock pic from the guy.
You have a great evening "
Probably works fine for you |
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"Having a quiet drink when a guy you’ve never met or spoken to before comes up to you and his first words are
‘Will you be my friend?’
Happens all the time on fab, is there a difference?
You’re views?
Is it just us that finds it odd?
"
Am I sitting in the pub naked with a short description of what I'm looking for sexually on the table and a little notice that allows people to ask to be my friend or say they like how I look? |
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If that's the analogy, from our experience they don't even say anything on here, just send a friend request.
I guess it would be more like a grunt then grab your phone off you to scroll through pictures |
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I think there is a big difference between fab and a pub. In a pub you don't have the option of ignoring and then blocking the person/s who randomly asks to be your friend, it's not just men who send random friend requests we get a lot from couples too. Not many people sit in pubs in various poses with scanty clothing on.
In my personal opinion the reasons for going to a pub and joining fab are quite different so the rules of engagement wi be different too. |
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