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How many unread messages are currently in your inbox. This should hopefully give guys who feel hard done by when they dont receive a reply an idea of what there up against. I’ll start..
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over a year ago
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0, which is my average |
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"How many unread messages are currently in your inbox. This should hopefully give guys who feel hard done by when they dont receive a reply an idea of what there up against. I’ll start..
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currently 6 unread , but usually read and delete straight away if not interested x |
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3 at the min as above i read and delete if not for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 unread
Not even any saying happy birthday |
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I was just about to post about this sort of thing. We keep getting "accused" of being flooded with hundreds of messages a day. Not chuffing likely, esp after 4/5 messages are obvious instant deletes.
Do we really look like a 50 unread messages kind of couple??!
Don't know how many there are, but the oldest is 2 months old.
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By *akbearMan
over a year ago
Newbury |
About average today, 0 at the moment. |
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By *ecker30Man
over a year ago
Northwich |
0! And when I do its usual off a man who cannot read! Lol |
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216, one of them is a site supporter reminder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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8 so far today ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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10 currently. Cleared out 6 in the last hour |
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Just 1 as i keep on top of them but no way hundreds a day -average is 20 i would say. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
Unread-1. It was zero as I'd just finished opening a load, but one has just popped up. |
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"0 unread
Not even any saying happy birthday "
Happy Birthday  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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371 unread xx |
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6 right now, but if we’ve been in chat or similar it can be 50-100 easily. |
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Zero unread. We did have one from Fabswingers to say our account is upgraded, but we read that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"499 in the last few days. "
Bloody Nora! |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago
scunthorpe |
Big fat 0 from me just like me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A big 0 ahahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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25
All "straight" men in their 60s |
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2 unread, 4 read.
I like to keep the inbox clean, but sometimes come to the site and have about 10 unread messages, which frustrates me because it looks messy 
Her x |
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"5158.
Px"
Quack.. I need you girl.. I need you Baaaaaaaaad!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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481  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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152 unread |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
I read mine straight away so, none. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero unread. I do get a notification when I get a new one though, so tend to read it fairly quick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"O as usual lol"
Surprising with those pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1, which surprises me, its normally zero lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5158.
Px"
Blimey. How big are the mailboxes? Makes you wonder when you see ‘inbox was full, so deleted’ on profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 it's well tended |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
0 as per normal. Did have one last week  |
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By *enithWoman
over a year ago
closer than you think |
0 I don’t get many anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2
But i tend to read most even if i dont reply, unless i can read the whole message without opening it |
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4 but I’m obviously not doing as well as some Tgirls on here
All will be replied to eventually  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5158.
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Blimey. How big are the mailboxes? Makes you wonder when you see ‘inbox was full, so deleted’ on profiles "
Mine auto deletes 50-250, depending how big it got, every month
I wish there was a friends /interested folder so you could easily find friends mails |
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"5158.
Px
Blimey. How big are the mailboxes? Makes you wonder when you see ‘inbox was full, so deleted’ on profiles
Mine auto deletes 50-250, depending how big it got, every month
I wish there was a friends /interested folder so you could easily find friends mails"
Yes me too I frequently lose people I don’t want to lose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The usual 0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not many thank god other wise I wouldn’t be able to keep up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many unread messages are currently in your inbox. This should hopefully give guys who feel hard done by when they dont receive a reply an idea of what there up against. I’ll start..
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581 since I joined around 18 days ago.  |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
Zero as I reply to all of mine unless people don't listen to my replies or are rude to me and others |
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2..im straight, these are off the same sex.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nada. Which is cool as I realise I'm not everyone's cup of tea so I don't feel hard done by Maybe soon it'll change lol |
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"5158.
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Ffs remind me to never message you haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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11. I'm not looking in my inbox until I've finished eating |
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Strangely its always a round number - 0 |
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By *ilthyBIMan
over a year ago
Stoke- Newcastle staffs |
12 . They are unopened from Married Males who can not accommodate. They all ask me the same same can i get them some BI fun or can they come my party .
I even have it on my Profile telling males not to contact if they can not accommodate but they ignore me so i ignore them.
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Jaysus lads we don't stand a chance haha, we need to he doing funking cartwheels just to get noticed lol, 9.999999999999 % of the time we just get lost in the flurry of messages the women on here receive lol  |
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"Jaysus lads we don't stand a chance haha, we need to he doing funking cartwheels just to get noticed lol, 9.999999999999 % of the time we just get lost in the flurry of messages the women on here receive lol "
Haha this was my aim of the post so guys can see the quantities single women and couples particular have to go through, so next time when she deletes your msg you wont be too hard on yourself and just move on to the next one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 at the min as above i read and delete if not for me x"
3 .. as if lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3, this is unusual, normally 0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Today is a grand total of 0 |
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23...just waiting for Rosie to finish work later and maybe read and answer them. No point in me answering them as they are all for she  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 at the minute... but I’m also too curious not to read and respond straight away.. only 2 received today.. as I haven’t been making the effort to reach out to friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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11 unread |
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By *im2203Couple
over a year ago
colchester |
None a normal day on fab . |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
None. Filters stop me getting a lot of messages so I rarely have any unread for long . |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
0 I'm super efficient |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 like most men on here I would hazard a guess at |
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85 - I read a few which are rude/crude so feel disillusioned and hop over to the forum for a quick look instead |
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Zero.
We get relatively few messages and most of those we receive are the "how r u?" or " what ya doin'? " type of thing.
Perhaps we're doing something wrong and need to rewrite our profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5158.
Px
Blimey. How big are the mailboxes? Makes you wonder when you see ‘inbox was full, so deleted’ on profiles
Mine auto deletes 50-250, depending how big it got, every month
I wish there was a friends /interested folder so you could easily find friends mails"
I’ve suggested this in the suggestions forum |
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"How many unread messages are currently in your inbox. This should hopefully give guys who feel hard done by when they dont receive a reply an idea of what there up against. I’ll start..
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Hurrah 1 today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero zilch zip |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
None. I cleared them all. We get between 50 and 100 per day. Most of them single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 unread. Maybe more not replied too as from not our thing. We get about 5 a day. We must be mingers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None |
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I literally just hidden my profile so I can get on top of my replies x |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
It's taken me 15mins to count & the answer is '0' haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The big 0 |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
I actually had 2 yesterday, first for a while though even from friends. |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
[Removed by poster at 13/04/21 23:24:58] |
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Late Last night I bulk deleted 1068 (which was received by abuse), I’m now back up to 161 |
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After some verification from the judges the outcome is still 0 |
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Grand total of 0 messages received today. But that's the same number as we have sent.
K |
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12 uuunread currently.. probably about average for us.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol I got 2
But only because I have to work out what there saying the talk in code I’m 51 and every work is shorter like tbh wtf lmao |
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"Lol I got 2
But only because I have to work out what there saying the talk in code I’m 51 and every work is shorter like tbh wtf lmao "
More than happy to get messages
And chat about anything but in old English lmao |
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By *an.thisMan
over a year ago
Torbay & Bournemouth |
My Total 07411903685 messages oh No that’s my phone number & I forgot to say it’s probably about the same in sent messages ! Inbox 65 x |
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"371 unread xx"
Oh wow that’s a long tongue
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Just the one, unread on purpose.
It's why my profile is private! I can't cope with the deluge! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women on here get far more messages than guys x it must be a good feeling to get hundreds or thousands of messages but it must be a pain in the arse deleting them all and hard to know what ones that you should read and reply too xx |
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"371 unread xx"
Oh wow that’s a long tongue
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By *an.thisMan
over a year ago
Torbay & Bournemouth |
"Lol I got 2
But only because I have to work out what there saying the talk in code I’m 51 and every work is shorter like tbh wtf lmao
More than happy to get messages
And chat about anything but in old English lmao "
I never studied Latin at school lol
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"How many unread messages are currently in your inbox. This should hopefully give guys who feel hard done by when they dont receive a reply an idea of what there up against. I’ll start..
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0 |
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By *newinkMan
over a year ago
Durham |
Zero in mine don't get any or replys |
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Just 1 at the moment, we're a couple and get few messages also so it's not just the single guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero...great admin team |
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By *newinkMan
over a year ago
Durham |
"Just 1 at the moment, we're a couple and get few messages also so it's not just the single guys"
Well if yous want another one to sit unopened and unread let me know lol |
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961 but that is because I have not bulk deleted for ages. In my defense I have answered alot more than that number. |
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0 like usual and it’s not because I read them we don’t get many average probably 2 a week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero, zip, nada, NIET, zilch, none |
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"961 but that is because I have not bulk deleted for ages. In my defense I have answered alot more than that number."
Shame would of been 972 if I was allowed to message you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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785. Quiet day for me |
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42
Usually less, since I'm filtered to the max these days and haven't been online much recently x |
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Unread 2
I don’t dare count the read ones, while I am slowly deleting getting there
Bx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big fat ZERO, can't remember the last time one arrived |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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412 xx |
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Only 31 today been trying to get through them all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None at the min |
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0 at the moment but 5 when I checked first thing this morning |
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Had 3 but thats high end lol....i think if a message is tasteful everyone should at least say not interested and why... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've 955 unread at min but some are being automatically deleted also by site system  some women have way more...and yes msgs are automatically deleted...I never ever ever get to see all my mail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually got 1 today! It was a lady saying she’d sent me a friend request by mistake, but a message is a message! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some days more than others if in chat. Not all cpls get loads of messages. Single women get so many they have have to bulk delete them to cope. Not all us cpls get bogged down with messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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8 |
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In Fabox 0 unread & 12 un-replied
In mailbox 4522 unread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Currently 3219 unread
I should really bulk delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually got 1 today! It was a lady saying she’d sent me a friend request by mistake, but a message is a message! "
It is indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only one so far |
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628 , really must get on with some replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 from the site support ..... so a good day then haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment 0 have just got through a lot lol x |
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1,site supporter is about to run out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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big fat 0 it be nice if i even get a reply no thanks if i do get a reply i always say thanks for replying |
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I'm. In the zero club... Popular club no restrictions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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72 I’m going to get round to reading them at some point lol |
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I try to keep up with inbox , so currently 1 |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
13. It's a good job I'm not superstitious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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696 this is how I forget who I’m taking too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually got 1 today! It was a lady saying she’d sent me a friend request by mistake, but a message is a message!
It is indeed "
Made my day ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Non as usual. |
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0 usual for on here lol no love what so ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5158.
Px
Blimey. How big are the mailboxes? Makes you wonder when you see ‘inbox was full, so deleted’ on profiles
Mine auto deletes 50-250, depending how big it got, every month
I wish there was a friends /interested folder so you could easily find friends mails
I’ve suggested this in the suggestions forum"
There's a little smiley face next to the header on messages from friends . Hope this helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sweet fa |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
995! I need to do some admin x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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103! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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166 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0
Zilch
Zero
None
Nada
Etc |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
I had over 500 but bulk deleted. |
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