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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, I am a little confused with some of the guys on here.
Firstly, there profiles claim to be "Straight"...
Secondly, these so called "Straight Guys" will meet females and TV/TS, but still have single guys or MM couples blocked.
Finally, these soo called "Straight Guys" will message other gay and bisexual guys asking for sex.
   
I am well confused, or are these guys confused..... are they closet gay/bisexual or just soo horny they dont really care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I am a little confused with some of the guys on here.
Firstly, there profiles claim to be "Straight"...
Secondly, these so called "Straight Guys" will meet females and TV/TS, but still have single guys or MM couples blocked.
Finally, these soo called "Straight Guys" will message other gay and bisexual guys asking for sex.
I am well confused, or are these guys confused..... are they closet gay/bisexual or just soo horny they dont really care "
 tend to agree with you - your either Straight - Bisexual or Gay/Lesbian : simples really
come our of closet people say what you are and be honest - although as mentioned many times elsewhere; the reasons they dont is becuae they are "hunter/gatherers" on the prowl for sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we get around 10 messages a day from straight guys saying the are bi really, just dont put it on their profile so as not to put others off, well, they are either lieing to us or llieing to others, either way jog on..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" tend to agree with you - your either Straight - Bisexual or Gay/Lesbian : simples really
come our of closet people say what you are and be honest - although as mentioned many times elsewhere; the reasons they dont is becuae they are "hunter/gatherers" on the prowl for sex "
I don't think its as simple as that at all. The definition of bisexual is being either romantically or sexually attracted to both men and women. I'm not romantically or sexually attracted to guys but I'll play with another guy in a mmf because its fun and I like to play with a cock as well now and again but I don't find men attractive at all. I find women
Going by the dictionary definition, or FAB choices either for that matter, that doesn't fit any tick boxes so despite what you might think, its not quite as simple as that.
What what the hell, this is Fab and as long as everyones happy with the fun their having and what bracket they fit into, its not really a big deal is it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we get around 10 messages a day from straight guys saying the are bi really, just dont put it on their profile so as not to put others off, well, they are either lieing to us or llieing to others, either way jog on....."
my point exactlly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alot of Bi guys who are Listed as straight do so because alot of Straight male/ bi or straight fem couples won't meet with Bi guys. which is their choice but if guys can maximise their field a little by lieing about being bi they will... because alot of these people have no scruples when it comes to getting into bed with someone... the same as married or cheating men who claim they are single... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" tend to agree with you - your either Straight - Bisexual or Gay/Lesbian : simples really
come our of closet people say what you are and be honest - although as mentioned many times elsewhere; the reasons they dont is becuae they are "hunter/gatherers" on the prowl for sex
I don't think its as simple as that at all. The definition of bisexual is being either romantically or sexually attracted to both men and women. I'm not romantically or sexually attracted to guys but I'll play with another guy in a mmf because its fun and I like to play with a cock as well now and again but I don't find men attractive at all. I find women
Going by the dictionary definition, or FAB choices either for that matter, that doesn't fit any tick boxes so despite what you might think, its not quite as simple as that.
What what the hell, this is Fab and as long as everyones happy with the fun their having and what bracket they fit into, its not really a big deal is it? "
sorry fella - your just plain and simply bisexual - end off - stop denying it lol hehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alot of Bi guys who are Listed as straight do so because alot of Straight male/ bi or straight fem couples won't meet with Bi guys. which is their choice but if guys can maximise their field a little by lieing about being bi they will... because alot of these people have no scruples when it comes to getting into bed with someone... the same as married or cheating men who claim they are single... "
I refer yu to my answer i gave a few mins ago lol hehehhe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I find out someones a secret bi I'd never meet them since what else haven't they told me"
 as an openly Bisexual guy - i do find it hard to understand why men lie about it just to bed people ..grrrrrrrrrr double grrrrrrrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As an openly bi guy, I would say 90% of my new messages come from "straight" guys. Unfortunately these always seem to be of the "nice cok m8 u got more pics" variety. This tends to lead to a thanks but no thanks type reply. I tend not to meet guys for 1 on 1, I dont particularly like text speak, and I prefer a bit of conversation. |
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Similarly, how many have you found stating on their profile that they are bi or bi-curious but have a string of verifications from men but none from couples or women?
Most of my mail is from these types of guys who just want to suck cock without playing with women too 
I like women
I like women a lot
And I like women who like guys sucking cock but I don't wish to play with guys alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Similarly, how many have you found stating on their profile that they are bi or bi-curious but have a string of verifications from men but none from couples or women?
Most of my mail is from these types of guys who just want to suck cock without playing with women too
I like women
I like women a lot
And I like women who like guys sucking cock but I don't wish to play with guys alone "
This pretty much sums it up, although I'm not averese to a group of guys. Just dont enjoy mm one on one too much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Similarly, how many have you found stating on their profile that they are bi or bi-curious but have a string of verifications from men but none from couples or women?
Most of my mail is from these types of guys who just want to suck cock without playing with women too
I like women
I like women a lot
And I like women who like guys sucking cock but I don't wish to play with guys alone "
 thats a fair point you made - just add into that, that us genuin bisexual men who meet fems/couples have problems in getting those fems/couples to verify you because they (the fems/couples) tend not to want to openly advertise that they meet bi men - we just accept that and therefore value those who do verify us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Similarly, how many have you found stating on their profile that they are bi or bi-curious but have a string of verifications from men but none from couples or women?
Most of my mail is from these types of guys who just want to suck cock without playing with women too
I like women
I like women a lot
And I like women who like guys sucking cock but I don't wish to play with guys alone
thats a fair point you made - just add into that, that us genuin bisexual men who meet fems/couples have problems in getting those fems/couples to verify you because they (the fems/couples) tend not to want to openly advertise that they meet bi men - we just accept that and therefore value those who do verify us "
Exactly!!!!! |
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" tend to agree with you - your either Straight - Bisexual or Gay/Lesbian : simples really
come our of closet people say what you are and be honest - although as mentioned many times elsewhere; the reasons they dont is becuae they are "hunter/gatherers" on the prowl for sex
I don't think its as simple as that at all. The definition of bisexual is being either romantically or sexually attracted to both men and women. I'm not romantically or sexually attracted to guys but I'll play with another guy in a mmf because its fun and I like to play with a cock as well now and again but I don't find men attractive at all. I find women
Going by the dictionary definition, or FAB choices either for that matter, that doesn't fit any tick boxes so despite what you might think, its not quite as simple as that.
What what the hell, this is Fab and as long as everyones happy with the fun their having and what bracket they fit into, its not really a big deal is it? "
If you get turned on by other guys bodies, ie their cocks, surely that is being sexually attracted to them? You might not "fancy" guys as such, but in my book that still makes you bi. Even fantasising about sex with both sexes makes you bi as sexuality is a spectrum and I doubt whether anyone is 100% straight or 100% gay and where they are on the spectrum changes throughout their lives. |
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"Similarly, how many have you found stating on their profile that they are bi or bi-curious but have a string of verifications from men but none from couples or women?
Most of my mail is from these types of guys who just want to suck cock without playing with women too
I like women
I like women a lot
And I like women who like guys sucking cock but I don't wish to play with guys alone "
In many cases, it is probably because it is hard for single guys to find couples/women to meet them, but many guys will meet them at the drop of a hat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we get around 10 messages a day from straight guys saying the are bi really, just dont put it on their profile so as not to put others off, well, they are either lieing to us or llieing to others, either way jog on....."
Sums it up for us
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we've heard all the excuses there is why some guys claim to be straight on their profile "
We are sure you have heard better excuses than most of us. Be honest in what you want sexually from here, is our motto.
PS Fantastic user name |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we get around 10 messages a day from straight guys saying the are bi really, just dont put it on their profile so as not to put others off"
I get lots of those too |
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"we get around 10 messages a day from straight guys saying the are bi really, just dont put it on their profile so as not to put others off, well, they are either lieing to us or llieing to others, either way jog on.....
my point exactlly "
exactly.. forget anything else if you are a guy and like to play with a cock that isnt your own you are bi and if you claim not to be for whatever reasin you are lieing to others as well as yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we get around 10 messages a day from straight guys saying the are bi really, just dont put it on their profile so as not to put others off, well, they are either lieing to us or llieing to others, either way jog on.....
my point exactlly
exactly.. forget anything else if you are a guy and like to play with a cock that isnt your own you are bi and if you claim not to be for whatever reasin you are lieing to others as well as yourself."
I agree pretty much...but I can sympathise with some of the guys. I found for a while that by putting 'straight' on my profile, I'd at least get half a chance. With 'bi' so many people thought I was either a cross dresser or feminine or wouldn't be able to keep my hands off their husbands/bf's! I finally caved in and have just left it as bisexual as it should be but to be honest, as I always say, why can't we all just say we're 'sexual' and then talk about preferences?! I hate the way the labels throw up all kinds of stereotypes and expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I am a little confused with some of the guys on here.
Firstly, there profiles claim to be "Straight"...
Secondly, these so called "Straight Guys" will meet females and TV/TS, but still have single guys or MM couples blocked.
Finally, these soo called "Straight Guys" will message other gay and bisexual guys asking for sex.
I am well confused, or are these guys confused..... are they closet gay/bisexual or just soo horny they dont really care "
Denial is not just a river in Africa!! |
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If you get turned on by other guys bodies, ie their cocks, surely that is being sexually attracted to them? You might not "fancy" guys as such, but in my book that still makes you bi. Even fantasising about sex with both sexes makes you bi as sexuality is a spectrum and I doubt whether anyone is 100% straight or 100% gay and where they are on the spectrum changes throughout their lives."
Totally agree with this that no one is 100% one way or the other but even so why do people feel the need to label themselves - I don't identify myself as either bi or straight - I am what I am in the heat of the moment and enjoy it for what it is!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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basically means we are all different..... some slightly more honest than others, but what does it matter if the ppl they are meeting with who presumably are bi? can't see the problem myself.......you could say the same about cpls who say sep room on their profile but when you actually meet tell you oh sorry we only do same room........ loads do it, so just move on i say !!!! |
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All those labels!
In my profile, you will find the words 'situationally Bi'. I enjoy being naked with other naked humans. Some I find attractive and play and do nice things with, some I don't. I'm not in the habit of being put off/encouraged by that particular humans gender.
It's all good fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok, I am a little confused with some of the guys on here.
Firstly, there profiles claim to be "Straight"...
Secondly, these so called "Straight Guys" will meet females and TV/TS, but still have single guys or MM couples blocked.
Finally, these soo called "Straight Guys" will message other gay and bisexual guys asking for sex.
I am well confused, or are these guys confused..... are they closet gay/bisexual or just soo horny they dont really care "
oh come on, your an adult, you dont really need us to tell you why most bi guys wont openly admit they are bi
Most of the bi guys i meet on here have straight on their profile
so what?
personally so long as they are what im looking for when talking i really dont give a monkeys what sexuality they choose to admit to on their profile
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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If you get turned on by other guys bodies, ie their cocks, surely that is being sexually attracted to them? You might not "fancy" guys as such, but in my book that still makes you bi. Even fantasising about sex with both sexes makes you bi as sexuality is a spectrum and I doubt whether anyone is 100% straight or 100% gay and where they are on the spectrum changes throughout their lives.
Totally agree with this that no one is 100% one way or the other but even so why do people feel the need to label themselves - I don't identify myself as either bi or straight - I am what I am in the heat of the moment and enjoy it for what it is!!"
I totally disagree that no one is 100% hetrosexual, there are and that should be respected and not questioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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bisexual is a mental state of mind as well as a physical exchange
some people are more comfortable with it physically than they are mentally
just because they do it, doesn't mean they are comfortable with it
thread starters like this don't help
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"I think we humans are obsessed with putting each other into neat little boxes and those of us that question the definitions of these boxes are often ridiculed,  "
Agree with you entirely on that. The more experiences I have as a swinger, the more I'm discovering myself. Whatever label we choose or avoid, the bottom line is we do what we are attracted to, whatever the gender. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Labels and boxes are okay when we're tidying up.
Seeing as overtidying is the mark of an OCD is it the same type of OCD that just has to hold others up to the light and dissect minutiae over their habits and how they use the site, and kick up when their way of doing things doesn't match their own?
Each to their own, live and let live.
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There was an interesting documentary on a few months ago about people going to the Far East for sex changes, it also included their partners which included 1 guy from the UK who considered himself straight.
I think that this goes a little deeper than the labels here on the site.
It definitely does seem to confuse some though...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Until I joined fab I'd never had any bi curious thoughts it intentions.
Though after seeing some of the tgirls especially one inpaticular who really seems to get me turned on I'm getting more and more curious
Though taking that initial first step |
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I'm bi and it's on my profile and I don't message couples who say they don't meet bi guys. I also get loads of messages from 'straight' guys who want to suck my cock but it doesn't take long to email back 'no thanks'.
I'd describe myself as 70% straight 30% bi |
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"I'm bi and it's on my profile and I don't message couples who say they don't meet bi guys. I also get loads of messages from 'straight' guys who want to suck my cock but it doesn't take long to email back 'no thanks'.
I'd describe myself as 70% straight 30% bi "
Good for you.. shame everyone isnt like you.. Upfront honesty is what you need for good adult fun. If you are honest about it everyone knows where you all stand and none of the is he or is she etc. And i am sure some avoid bi's more because of them not being able to be honest than for any other reason.
And to the earlier post no the difference between bi and straight is not the amount of beer.. thats the attitude that causes issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm bi and it's on my profile and I don't message couples who say they don't meet bi guys. I also get loads of messages from 'straight' guys who want to suck my cock but it doesn't take long to email back 'no thanks'.
I'd describe myself as 70% straight 30% bi "
good on you fella
as a Bisexual man who is open and honest abouthis sexuality; it does make me scratch my head when people offer themselves up as straight and are embarrassed to say they are bi
equally to contridict myself straight away; i understand ther motives as mostly are men who are just not sure what to expect if they declare their sexuality
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So I'm about 90% straight and 10% bi. Due to this I have put straight on my profile. Much more of the majority of me is straight so that's what I am.
Yes I may reply to a few guys saying nice cock, and yes I have tried a couple of sexual experiences with guys. But these experiences have mainly happened just because I have not found a girl. It only takes 1 message on a site like this and you could have a guys mouth round your cock in 5 mins. It's really just accessibility.
Discuss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I'm about 90% straight and 10% bi. Due to this I have put straight on my profile. Much more of the majority of me is straight so that's what I am.
Yes I may reply to a few guys saying nice cock, and yes I have tried a couple of sexual experiences with guys. But these experiences have mainly happened just because I have not found a girl. It only takes 1 message on a site like this and you could have a guys mouth round your cock in 5 mins. It's really just accessibility.
Discuss."
1000% true. |
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Oh and for the people who say they don't understand why a bi guy would get embarrassed saying they are gay...
It is very unfortunate but on this day and age you can't just go around saying you are bi and not be judged for it. If I told my housemates I was bi, which still isn't true, then I would just get too much stick, and unfortunately loose some friends over it; that's just how the world is working at the moment.
I do believe sometime in the near future it won't be so frowned upon, in the same way that a few years ago it was frowned upon to have sex toys... |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
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I don't care what people are straight, gay, bi or curious that's up to them but I'm straight and love straight men.
I have had men asking me to hook up yet when I go into chat I find out they suck cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't care what people are straight, gay, bi or curious that's up to them but I'm straight and love straight men.
I have had men asking me to hook up yet when I go into chat I find out they suck cock "
Oh well you are just lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and for the people who say they don't understand why a bi guy would get embarrassed saying they are gay...
It is very unfortunate but on this day and age you can't just go around saying you are bi and not be judged for it. If I told my housemates I was bi, which still isn't true, then I would just get too much stick, and unfortunately loose some friends over it; that's just how the world is working at the moment.
I do believe sometime in the near future it won't be so frowned upon, in the same way that a few years ago it was frowned upon to have sex toys..."
But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I find out someones a secret bi I'd never meet them since what else haven't they told me"
I totally agree and it just boils down to honesty. A guy declaring himself straight, mailed the other day. He had no verifications but had about 12 guys as friends and they were all bi. I mailed back as I am a polite person, stating that I suspect he was bi and I received a mail back stating that he was totally straight. (figure that one out) |
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"If I find out someones a secret bi I'd never meet them since what else haven't they told me
I totally agree and it just boils down to honesty. A guy declaring himself straight, mailed the other day. He had no verifications but had about 12 guys as friends and they were all bi. I mailed back as I am a polite person, stating that I suspect he was bi and I received a mail back stating that he was totally straight. (figure that one out) "
Perhaps you should try and deal with your rampant homophobia rather than worry about people hiding things |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I find out someones a secret bi I'd never meet them since what else haven't they told me
I totally agree and it just boils down to honesty. A guy declaring himself straight, mailed the other day. He had no verifications but had about 12 guys as friends and they were all bi. I mailed back as I am a polite person, stating that I suspect he was bi and I received a mail back stating that he was totally straight. (figure that one out)
Perhaps you should try and deal with your rampant homophobia rather than worry about people hiding things"
Me hiding things, interestingly enough I notice you have blocked me _iewing your profile. What are you trying to hide from me lol. Are you another straight guy that visits bi guys and TV guys. I do not have a phobia about this at all. Why does someone have to have rampant homophobia about this. Its quite simple It does not bother me but it bothers my hubby so we dont see bi guys. When I have mentioned this in similar threads before, my hubby gets verbally abused for being homophobic. (He isn't) just a matter of choice |
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"If I find out someones a secret bi I'd never meet them since what else haven't they told me
I totally agree and it just boils down to honesty. A guy declaring himself straight, mailed the other day. He had no verifications but had about 12 guys as friends and they were all bi. I mailed back as I am a polite person, stating that I suspect he was bi and I received a mail back stating that he was totally straight. (figure that one out)
Perhaps you should try and deal with your rampant homophobia rather than worry about people hiding things
Me hiding things, interestingly enough I notice you have blocked me _iewing your profile. What are you trying to hide from me lol. Are you another straight guy that visits bi guys and TV guys. I do not have a phobia about this at all. Why does someone have to have rampant homophobia about this. Its quite simple It does not bother me but it bothers my hubby so we dont see bi guys. When I have mentioned this in similar threads before, my hubby gets verbally abused for being homophobic. (He isn't) just a matter of choice "
No, I block all homophobes as a matter of choice, don't fancy such people _iewing my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I find out someones a secret bi I'd never meet them since what else haven't they told me
I totally agree and it just boils down to honesty. A guy declaring himself straight, mailed the other day. He had no verifications but had about 12 guys as friends and they were all bi. I mailed back as I am a polite person, stating that I suspect he was bi and I received a mail back stating that he was totally straight. (figure that one out)
Perhaps you should try and deal with your rampant homophobia rather than worry about people hiding things
Me hiding things, interestingly enough I notice you have blocked me _iewing your profile. What are you trying to hide from me lol. Are you another straight guy that visits bi guys and TV guys. I do not have a phobia about this at all. Why does someone have to have rampant homophobia about this. Its quite simple It does not bother me but it bothers my hubby so we dont see bi guys. When I have mentioned this in similar threads before, my hubby gets verbally abused for being homophobic. (He isn't) just a matter of choice
No, I block all homophobes as a matter of choice, don't fancy such people _iewing my profile."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know..."
Exactly, and when you consider most cpls on here only have pics of the woman, with the man nowhere to be seen, it is hardly slightly bi guys who are hiding anyhting |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night! "
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
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Don't sweat that poster, he's a notorious white knight |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
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erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment! |
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"If I find out someones a secret bi I'd never meet them since what else haven't they told me
I totally agree and it just boils down to honesty. A guy declaring himself straight, mailed the other day. He had no verifications but had about 12 guys as friends and they were all bi. I mailed back as I am a polite person, stating that I suspect he was bi and I received a mail back stating that he was totally straight. (figure that one out)
Perhaps you should try and deal with your rampant homophobia rather than worry about people hiding things
Me hiding things, interestingly enough I notice you have blocked me _iewing your profile. What are you trying to hide from me lol. Are you another straight guy that visits bi guys and TV guys. I do not have a phobia about this at all. Why does someone have to have rampant homophobia about this. Its quite simple It does not bother me but it bothers my hubby so we dont see bi guys. When I have mentioned this in similar threads before, my hubby gets verbally abused for being homophobic. (He isn't) just a matter of choice
No, I block all homophobes as a matter of choice, don't fancy such people _iewing my profile.
and I really believe it is the woman posting"
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment! "
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above... |
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"If I find out someones a secret bi I'd never meet them since what else haven't they told me
I totally agree and it just boils down to honesty. A guy declaring himself straight, mailed the other day. He had no verifications but had about 12 guys as friends and they were all bi. I mailed back as I am a polite person, stating that I suspect he was bi and I received a mail back stating that he was totally straight. (figure that one out)
Perhaps you should try and deal with your rampant homophobia rather than worry about people hiding things
Me hiding things, interestingly enough I notice you have blocked me _iewing your profile. What are you trying to hide from me lol. Are you another straight guy that visits bi guys and TV guys. I do not have a phobia about this at all. Why does someone have to have rampant homophobia about this. Its quite simple It does not bother me but it bothers my hubby so we dont see bi guys. When I have mentioned this in similar threads before, my hubby gets verbally abused for being homophobic. (He isn't) just a matter of choice
No, I block all homophobes as a matter of choice, don't fancy such people _iewing my profile.
and I really believe it is the woman posting
Im so glad "
See, I have helped you out. Instead of being annoyed and looking at my profile, you can get back to the Mailonline |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment!
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above..."
Which one? The 'any holes a goal one' or the '90%' straight one? |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment!
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above...
Which one? The 'any holes a goal one' or the '90%' straight one?"
haha, would love to be as full of bile |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment!
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above...
Which one? The 'any holes a goal one' or the '90%' straight one?
haha, would love to be as full of bile"
Well, give it a while and maybe some nice man will fill you up! |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment!
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above...
Which one? The 'any holes a goal one' or the '90%' straight one?
haha, would love to be as full of bile
Well, give it a while and maybe some nice man will fill you up! "
Oh,many have |
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By *at1980Man
over a year ago
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I am totaly straight but played with a guy infront of his wife cause it turned her on so much it didnt do anything for me at all totaly not attracted to guys at all didnt turn me on at all but how she repayed tge favour did |
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"I am totaly straight but played with a guy infront of his wife cause it turned her on so much it didnt do anything for me at all totaly not attracted to guys at all didnt turn me on at all but how she repayed tge favour did"
Me think the lad doth protest too much ' |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment!
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above...
Which one? The 'any holes a goal one' or the '90%' straight one?
haha, would love to be as full of bile
Well, give it a while and maybe some nice man will fill you up!
Oh,many have"
Good for you! I must say though, for a 'straight' lad you certainly get about eh! |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment!
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above...
Which one? The 'any holes a goal one' or the '90%' straight one?
haha, would love to be as full of bile
Well, give it a while and maybe some nice man will fill you up!
Oh,many have
Good for you! I must say though, for a 'straight' lad you certainly get about eh! "
Have to find a way around the homophobes who hate bi guys on here mate. The cpls post pics that are teh yrs old, I dont tell them I like cock. |
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment!
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above...
Which one? The 'any holes a goal one' or the '90%' straight one?
haha, would love to be as full of bile
Well, give it a while and maybe some nice man will fill you up!
Oh,many have
Good for you! I must say though, for a 'straight' lad you certainly get about eh!
Have to find a way around the homophobes who hate bi guys on here mate. The cpls post pics that are teh yrs old, I dont tell them I like cock."
So, you lie then? |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
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But imagine your roommates surprise when you (a straight guy) turn up with a tv/ts in tow for the night!
Exactly, so why should I tell them if it's something they probably wouldn't like knowing, and really just don't need to know...
erm, but why would 'a straight' guy turn up with a tv/ts in the first place? That was the nub of my comment!
I thought I had already explained that in one of my two essays above...
Which one? The 'any holes a goal one' or the '90%' straight one?
haha, would love to be as full of bile
Well, give it a while and maybe some nice man will fill you up!
Oh,many have
Good for you! I must say though, for a 'straight' lad you certainly get about eh!
Have to find a way around the homophobes who hate bi guys on here mate. The cpls post pics that are teh yrs old, I dont tell them I like cock.
So, you lie then?"
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"Oh and for the people who say they don't understand why a bi guy would get embarrassed saying they are gay...
It is very unfortunate but on this day and age you can't just go around saying you are bi and not be judged for it. If I told my housemates I was bi, which still isn't true, then I would just get too much stick, and unfortunately loose some friends over it; that's just how the world is working at the moment.
I do believe sometime in the near future it won't be so frowned upon, in the same way that a few years ago it was frowned upon to have sex toys..."
Agree with your comment regards work etc and away from site. but do feel that honesty on the site is best policy.
and there is a difference surely gay men only want men whereas bi men play both ways whatever the percentage of men to women etc if you play with both for whatever reason then you are bi thats what it means.
Each to their own. However its the dishonesty on the site that spoils it for everyone. we feel if you are (anyone thst is not aimed at anybody) not honest with yourself and happy to say openly on the site what you are into then the fun is no where near as good as it can be with complete honesty between parties involved.
Its the dishonesty or avoidence of the truth or maybe altering the truth a tad just to get sex that is the issue.
And its not just amoungst the bi or gay men either honesty escapes alot on the site. We have plenty who we check profiles of people that veiw ours and then they message despite their profile not being suitable but supprise next time you check they changed theirs to fit what you are looking for.. instant block. |
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I prefer the secret ones to the full on ones personally
When they turn up in a long jacket, collar up wearing a blonde wig and dark glasses, they are far less conspicuous than the ones that turn up looking like a Vegas showgirl with feathers coming out of their head and arse. |
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