"Any tom boy bi girls around ,i find you a real turn on ...Batgirls x "
depends what you mean by tom boy, I can be just a happy in skirt & heels as I can covered in oil & grease from cars (latter is preferred over former lol) |
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"I don't know why, but I find tom-boys a massive turn on! Love them x"
from my experience, massive turn on =yes...partner material = no, especially once they figure out I can change tyres faster than them even in heels haha
I find I emasculate many tbh without meaning to or trying, just independant. |
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"I don't know why, but I find tom-boys a massive turn on! Love them x"
Same, I used to date a goal keeper on here she was lovely , very strong legs. Mostly into MFF which I assisted her with of course. We used to chat about cars, sailing, biking, house maintenance , she had more cars, bikes , climbing and sailing kit than me ! |
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"I don't know why, but I find tom-boys a massive turn on! Love them x
from my experience, massive turn on =yes...partner material = no, especially once they figure out I can change tyres faster than them even in heels haha
I find I emasculate many tbh without meaning to or trying, just independant. "
Yeah tbh I find that too! I can’t change tyres, but I find men who are looking for a relationship seem to think they have to “compete” when they find out how much I make. I get subtle (or not so subtle) negs about my job, my house etc. I don’t even have the attitude that men should “provide”, but still men bring it up or subconsciously feel they need to put me down  |
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"I don't know why, but I find tom-boys a massive turn on! Love them x
from my experience, massive turn on =yes...partner material = no, especially once they figure out I can change tyres faster than them even in heels haha
I find I emasculate many tbh without meaning to or trying, just independant.
Yeah tbh I find that too! I can’t change tyres, but I find men who are looking for a relationship seem to think they have to “compete” when they find out how much I make. I get subtle (or not so subtle) negs about my job, my house etc. I don’t even have the attitude that men should “provide”, but still men bring it up or subconsciously feel they need to put me down "
I'm would say I'm not superior money wise but looking back I have always earned more despite that more being in the lower wage brackets overall. It's a whole other level of misogamy tbh. I've had so much of it just for being a female mechanic. I'm full on mechanic/welder...that's funny cos I hand make my own metal panels too! I will admit I'm quite competitive especially against men, It's comes from years of feeling I needed to prove myself good enough (or better) to have my opinion & knowledge accepted.
this kinda sums me up perfectly https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wP4hqkJx5U
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"I don't know why, but I find tom-boys a massive turn on! Love them x
from my experience, massive turn on =yes...partner material = no, especially once they figure out I can change tyres faster than them even in heels haha
I find I emasculate many tbh without meaning to or trying, just independant.
Yeah tbh I find that too! I can’t change tyres, but I find men who are looking for a relationship seem to think they have to “compete” when they find out how much I make. I get subtle (or not so subtle) negs about my job, my house etc. I don’t even have the attitude that men should “provide”, but still men bring it up or subconsciously feel they need to put me down
I'm would say I'm not superior money wise but looking back I have always earned more despite that more being in the lower wage brackets overall. It's a whole other level of misogamy tbh. I've had so much of it just for being a female mechanic. I'm full on mechanic/welder...that's funny cos I hand make my own metal panels too! I will admit I'm quite competitive especially against men, It's comes from years of feeling I needed to prove myself good enough (or better) to have my opinion & knowledge accepted.
this kinda sums me up perfectly https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wP4hqkJx5U
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You sound extremely cool!!! |
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"I don't know why, but I find tom-boys a massive turn on! Love them x
from my experience, massive turn on =yes...partner material = no, especially once they figure out I can change tyres faster than them even in heels haha
I find I emasculate many tbh without meaning to or trying, just independant.
Yeah tbh I find that too! I can’t change tyres, but I find men who are looking for a relationship seem to think they have to “compete” when they find out how much I make. I get subtle (or not so subtle) negs about my job, my house etc. I don’t even have the attitude that men should “provide”, but still men bring it up or subconsciously feel they need to put me down
I'm would say I'm not superior money wise but looking back I have always earned more despite that more being in the lower wage brackets overall. It's a whole other level of misogamy tbh. I've had so much of it just for being a female mechanic. I'm full on mechanic/welder...that's funny cos I hand make my own metal panels too! I will admit I'm quite competitive especially against men, It's comes from years of feeling I needed to prove myself good enough (or better) to have my opinion & knowledge accepted.
this kinda sums me up perfectly https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wP4hqkJx5U
You sound extremely cool!!! "
thank you, really I'm a small figure of chaos, who has no idea of the 'box' other than what people tell me of it, never mind trying to fit in it
Remember when they point a finger 3 insecurities point back at them.
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