I read somewhere that for a lot of females male penis penetration simply does not do it for them. Only engage really cos it seems right and to please there guy?
If this is so ... what are we guys doing wrong ? And what gets you off with guy other than penetration? |
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I read somewhere that for a lot of females male penis penetration simply does not do it for them. Only engage really cos it seems right and to please there guy?
If this is so ... what are we guys doing wrong ? And what gets you off with guy other than penetration?"
These type of women like it up the bum  |
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Hhhmm?
Thanks for the swift replies was,nt sure how this query would be received to be honest.
Then ....I in agreement that talking to the lady is key. However when and if you should raise subject could be the issue.
I) if to early female may? perceive guy as a bit odd.
II) Could female be offended as to suggestion from guy that he senses she is not enjoying it or worse faking it..
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Personally you can have a lot more fun at times with kissing, oral, fingers and toys. Learn to be more tactile, a light stroke down the body can be exhilarating. This is why some people enjoy being blindfolded, restrained, etc. It heightens your senses and every touch is unexpected.
Penetrative sex can be amazing but it can also be over in a few minutes. You can spend hours bringing your partner to climax if you learn a few techniques. |
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"Personally you can have a lot more fun at times with kissing, oral, fingers and toys. Learn to be more tactile, a light stroke down the body can be exhilarating. This is why some people enjoy being blindfolded, restrained, etc. It heightens your senses and every touch is unexpected.
Penetrative sex can be amazing but it can also be over in a few minutes. You can spend hours bringing your partner to climax if you learn a few techniques. "
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"Hhhmm?
Thanks for the swift replies was,nt sure how this query would be received to be honest.
Then ....I in agreement that talking to the lady is key. However when and if you should raise subject could be the issue.
I) if to early female may? perceive guy as a bit odd.
II) Could female be offended as to suggestion from guy that he senses she is not enjoying it or worse faking it..
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I think you're over analysing.
No-one can absolutely answer your questions other than the partner you're engaged with.
The answers may come from direct conversation, intuition and experience of the individual. |
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Thanks for the swift replies was,nt sure how this query would be received to be honest.
Then ....I in agreement that talking to the lady is key. However when and if you should raise subject could be the issue.
I) if to early female may? perceive guy as a bit odd.
II) Could female be offended as to suggestion from guy that he senses she is not enjoying it or worse faking it..
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If you're planning a meet with someone initiate a conversation (if they don't) along the lines of "how do you like things to go? I like x, y and z. How do you feel about that?" |
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Penetration can be very satisfying, but there is so much more to having a memorable experience than just pushing ahead (pardon the pun). Even at the point of penetration you can tease your partners senses no need to rush that’s for sure. |
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I rarely reach orgasm through penetration, but I still enjoy it!
I tend to get there through oral and fingers etc but the penetration still feels amazing.
Every woman is different, talk to her even if it feels awkward |
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As it is for guys as well as women that what one person enjoys, the next person might not enjoy. But just because a woman may not orgasm from penetration doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy it, I’ve been with someone who can’t orgasm from penetration but loved the feeling and got really turned on by it, but just needed clit stimulation without penetration to orgasm |
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"I read somewhere a lot of females love penetration and it's not just about the orgasm.... 
This is most definitely the case for me. I just love to be fucked. The orgasm is a separate thing for me entirely. I can cum from penetration alone, however it's very rare and I've only managed it when indulging in a little self lovin  But the penetration is still my favourite part  "
That's definitely the case for me too. |
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By *yphodMan
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"For me foreplay is the bestest fun , penetration is the icing on the cake , the intimate part  "
For me the foreplay is the intimate part penetration is the more animalistic part.
Even with penetration different women like different things. Some like to be banged hard some like is slow and soft. |
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"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*
Could get Tony christie and Peter Kay on an Amarillo spoof..."I'm on my way to clitoral area. Pretty soon you'll be biting your pillow"
Or maybe not"
Dreaming dreams of blowing your load, sweet orgasm waits for me. Sha la la la la la la |
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"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*
Could get Tony christie and Peter Kay on an Amarillo spoof..."I'm on my way to clitoral area. Pretty soon you'll be biting your pillow"
Or maybe not
Dreaming dreams of blowing your load, sweet orgasm waits for me. Sha la la la la la la "
Christmas number one right there, imagine it would be hard to radio edit though |
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"Personally you can have a lot more fun at times with kissing, oral, fingers and toys. Learn to be more tactile, a light stroke down the body can be exhilarating. This is why some people enjoy being blindfolded, restrained, etc. It heightens your senses and every touch is unexpected.
Penetrative sex can be amazing but it can also be over in a few minutes. You can spend hours bringing your partner to climax if you learn a few techniques. "
One of the main reasons we prefer to soft swap. |
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Stop forcusing on the end game. I prefer foreplay to last a long time. Tease her to the point that is gagging for you to penetrate her or she will rip your clothes off and ride you. Fucking is the end game. Foreplay winds you both up to the point you cannot hold back the fucking any longer. Pleasure her well first and most women will give you the ride of your life mate. |
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It’s always interesting to explore individual experiences that is not always about penetrative sex. Exploring connected intimacy that is non penetrative can not only yield sexual pleasure of unimaginable intensity; but it reminds us to celebrate our partners too. |
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As the others have said everyone is different. But most women would normally like something inside them during play. Which could be fingers, tongue, toy or even a cock.
Not many can cum from just a cock inside them. Although had a few playmates who did & they can make you feel like a fucking sex god! lol
If you're playing with a woman respond to what she's telling you. If she wants your cock to fuck her you'll soon know about it |
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"*Posts directions to the clitoral area*"
Hmm, I popped into WH Smiths, but they didn't have any maps with that area on it. Are you sure that it's in the UK and if so, do you have a post code as I can try the post office
On a more serious note OP. Each woman is different so it's best to go with the flow and find out what works for that lady. Most will soon tell you if you are pouncing about or not and if you don't know where her clit is then learn, same as her G spot |
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I can cum quite easily with clitoral stimulation but for me to cum from penetration it needs a certain frequency of movement.
Basically I need a hard pounding with the cock pulling virtually right out and slamming back in for me to cum but when I do it's like a train. |
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