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Been wrong about the person you planned to meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Omg yes. He rocked up and there was just nothing about him. Very awkward. I said look I'm sorry but your just not doing it for me and he started begging. Please please I'll lick your pussy just please let me. Was just like no sorry you gotta go. Was just a awful meet |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes and probably people have met us and we've been quite different to how they expect us to be. Until you meet in person you just don't know what someone is going to be like"
Exactly. There's no predicting how things will be really. Quite often we form a mental image of someone based on our life experiences, our perceptions of how they are. That can only ever be 2D until you've met someone. |
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"Omg yes. He rocked up and there was just nothing about him. Very awkward. I said look I'm sorry but your just not doing it for me and he started begging. Please please I'll lick your pussy just please let me. Was just like no sorry you gotta go. Was just a awful meet "
You told me that would be kept between us!!! |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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Once that stands out.
He was a lot older and fatter than his profile made him out to be; which wasn't a problem, but his personality changed once we got down to the nitty gritty.
Nothing horrible, just not what I was expecting from the conversations. |
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"Have you ever planned to meet someone then it turned out to be not what you expected? "
Always the ones who im not sure about turn out to be the best...lol. never judge a book by its cover. And never meet anyone who tells you exactly what they gonny do as the disappointment is real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Omg yes. He rocked up and there was just nothing about him. Very awkward. I said look I'm sorry but your just not doing it for me and he started begging. Please please I'll lick your pussy just please let me. Was just like no sorry you gotta go. Was just a awful meet "
I had a meet like this. My friend rescued me and called me after I texted him to get me out of the situation, I was about to leave and he said can I just slip it in for a sec |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Many many times.
It’s why I insist on a social first or go to clubs.
I actually enjoy being surprised by the difference between what I have imagined the person to be like and the reality. Not enough to give anyone a pity shag these days though |
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Another time was in a MMF and 3 minutes the other M was done, i was like really and burst out laughing, my Lady host was not happy with his performance and showed him the door, he talked a lot but was gone in 60 seconds. |
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Anyone else reading this thread hoping you don’t appear in one of the horror stories?
I had a meet when I was in a couple (about 6 years ago) to meet another couple from here. Turn up, the guy is in a wheelchair and has no use of his lower body. Hadn’t told us about it.
My partner decided “fuck it, we’re here now” and so the swapping began.....about 5 mins later we swapped back to our original partners and finished the night
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a meet planned and he ghosted us. Few days later came up with some crazy story that he fell off a roof and was in hospital for a few days.
We kept chatting to him anyway and met him a couple of weeks later. He still had the bruises and was a bit sore. Was a fantastic meet though. Really lovely guy. |
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"We had a meet planned and he ghosted us. Few days later came up with some crazy story that he fell off a roof and was in hospital for a few days.
We kept chatting to him anyway and met him a couple of weeks later. He still had the bruises and was a bit sore. Was a fantastic meet though. Really lovely guy. "
I cancelled a meet because I landed in hospital |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a meet planned and he ghosted us. Few days later came up with some crazy story that he fell off a roof and was in hospital for a few days.
We kept chatting to him anyway and met him a couple of weeks later. He still had the bruises and was a bit sore. Was a fantastic meet though. Really lovely guy.
I cancelled a meet because I landed in hospital "
Did you ever meet them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had one who seemed to be a gentleman, wanting a social and full meet. I met him at a hotel, he immediately wanted to go to the room, stripped off the instant the door closed and shoved it in, then pounded away until he came (in about 5 mins). Then left. I think he was married too. I just felt like a free prostitute tbh xx |
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"I always meet for a no expectation social first that way there is no awkwardness. I do find some men gain years, weight or shrink in height on the journey somehow " Agree we meet socially and get a good "feel" of who we may be playing with at a later date ...getting a sexxy surprise later on is a nice bonus |
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By *renzMan
over a year ago
Between Chichester and Havant |
Never.
More often than not, a social is organised prior to a play meet.
Research is done before a social. By research I mean many messages exchanged before even a social is made. Due diligence! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is one of the reasons i have only been playing at clubs for sometime, no expectation, no disappointments,
however,
my first ever meet of a guy, when he opened the door it was a completely different person than I was expecting, I was quite suspicious until I checked my phone. It was all my fault, I had looked at the wrong profile. It was actually a great meet and wish I'd stayed longer |
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Quite a few, over the years but I'm much better at filtering out the unmatched.
1 man was much shorter and rounder than his photos - I pointed out his height difference and he exclaimed he normally wore height enhancing shoes , i didn't progress things to the next stage, to find the other inconsistencies.
When they turn up after using what could be their sons pics, there is immediate distrust. |
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I have been so fortunate that I’ve chosen wisely with my meets, I think it’s because I spend a few weeks chatting to them before I meet. I’ve met them on more than a couple of occasions too. How someone messages tells me everything and so far I’ve been right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many times, hence I changed my profile few times over the years, once I met one guy in a eating place, there was a group of elderly people in the next table, his hands were everywhere I asked him to stop as people were looking, his reply was so let them look at that point I just wanted to leave, got out to my car and he was trying to get my dress up I slapped him hard and told him to fuck off, that was the worst one.. |
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"Many times, hence I changed my profile few times over the years, once I met one guy in a eating place, there was a group of elderly people in the next table, his hands were everywhere I asked him to stop as people were looking, his reply was so let them look at that point I just wanted to leave, got out to my car and he was trying to get my dress up I slapped him hard and told him to fuck off, that was the worst one.. "
I take it he got the message you should of kicked him in the balls |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many times, hence I changed my profile few times over the years, once I met one guy in a eating place, there was a group of elderly people in the next table, his hands were everywhere I asked him to stop as people were looking, his reply was so let them look at that point I just wanted to leave, got out to my car and he was trying to get my dress up I slapped him hard and told him to fuck off, that was the worst one..
I take it he got the message you should of kicked him in the balls "
His idea of a good time was to take me to the motel fuck ne so hard I wouldn't be able to walk,!! I mean charming or what and there was no clue to this barbaric behaviour when chatting. Hence why I am very hesitstant yo meet single men on my own now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always meet for a no expectation social first that way there is no awkwardness. I do find some men gain years, weight or shrink in height on the journey somehow "
Yep we agree with this, a no expectations social first and if it doesn’t feel right for all involved it’s a thanks but no thanks
It’s all part of the fun and not knowing how things will go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever planned to meet someone then it turned out to be not what you expected? "
yes many time most of the time its found before the meet happens but if the meet happens and not happy i say so and walk away ... most of the time its because they look nothing like the pics they have provided or the age is a mile off ... did have one guy trying to slag other women off ..i just made my excuse and left |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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also those that lie and bullshit always get found out we know a guy on here who we chat to every now and then who claims hes 51 but then proceeds to tell us about his first wife he married young in 1965 when he was 19 well do your maths makes him 75 and he wonders why it only ever chat lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a few people that turned out weird.
One woman for lunch social was just an argumentative bellend she transpired to be. Was very funny when we left as both said good bye and will not be messaging again
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"I have been so fortunate that I’ve chosen wisely with my meets, I think it’s because I spend a few weeks chatting to them before I meet. I’ve met them on more than a couple of occasions too. How someone messages tells me everything and so far I’ve been right. " |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
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"Had one who seemed to be a gentleman, wanting a social and full meet. I met him at a hotel, he immediately wanted to go to the room, stripped off the instant the door closed and shoved it in, then pounded away until he came (in about 5 mins). Then left. I think he was married too. I just felt like a free prostitute tbh xx"
Who says romance is dead lol ! |
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Socials are a must! Was quite interested in a very intelligent man but the entire social was him telling me things that made him grumpy! He was ridiculously self-righteous eco warrior type who genuinely felt dying people shouldn't fly to go swimming with dolphins as it was bad for the planet and they should just shuffle off this mortal coil sharpish! Eventually on the way out I challenged him to specify 5 things that made him happy. He managed "aliens" and "glow worms in a cave in new Zealand" but followed up by ruling out the aliens, as we couldn't tell if they existed.
He did not get to see any of my bits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, guy was 8st heavier at least.. Didn't send me latest picture!
Felt sad for him.. Lots of hard times he'd been thru.
Makes us realise, we are all a stones throw away into sadness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, guy was 8st heavier at least.. Didn't send me latest picture!
Felt sad for him.. Lots of hard times he'd been thru.
Makes us realise, we are all a stones throw away into sadness"
That is really, really gracious of you.. Big up yaself! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had one who seemed to be a gentleman, wanting a social and full meet. I met him at a hotel, he immediately wanted to go to the room, stripped off the instant the door closed and shoved it in, then pounded away until he came (in about 5 mins). Then left. I think he was married too. I just felt like a free prostitute tbh xx"
This is the very reason why girls are very wary of us guys *le sigh* |
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I can honestly say that it’s rare for a meet that turn out as planned..
I’ve met some wonderful people though, some went no further than a social and some did ..
I’m not desperate and won’t fuck anything.. but I’m also a gentleman and I’m grateful to everyone I’ve met .. I love meeting and getting to know new people.. |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
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All the meets we've had with couples have been a let down tbh for various reasons.
Same for single guys, one in particular we suspect is married.
On the other hand Mr met a guy he didn't get on too well with at a gb. After a year or so at another event things clicked and he became a good mmf partner with the Mrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had one who seemed to be a gentleman, wanting a social and full meet. I met him at a hotel, he immediately wanted to go to the room, stripped off the instant the door closed and shoved it in, then pounded away until he came (in about 5 mins). Then left. I think he was married too. I just felt like a free prostitute tbh xx" I am confused please explain why you went along with this if the whole situation made you feel unhappy or uncomfortable?
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"Had one who seemed to be a gentleman, wanting a social and full meet. I met him at a hotel, he immediately wanted to go to the room, stripped off the instant the door closed and shoved it in, then pounded away until he came (in about 5 mins). Then left. I think he was married too. I just felt like a free prostitute tbh xxI am confused please explain why you went along with this if the whole situation made you feel unhappy or uncomfortable? " |
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