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Why do couples mainly show pics of the lady?
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "
So how do you think the lady of a couple looking at such a profile will feel about just seeing pics of the lady? We know men are limited on underwear choice but it’s unfair. On our couples profile we won’t make contact with such a couple. |
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over a year ago
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "
But you’re not in any of yours |
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Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by
Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile  |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by
Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile "
I disagree. As the lady of a couple profile and I run our profile, it’s only fair I see pictures of the male. |
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people
But you’re not in any of yours"
There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video |
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over a year ago
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people
But you’re not in any of yours
There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video "
You the m or f |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
I need to see clear pics of the male of the couple, not just their cock in the woman’s mouth.
If I like the look of the male I’ll contact the couple, if it’s mainly female pics then no contact will be made. |
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people
But you’re not in any of yours
There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video
You the m or f"
Female but we are both here |
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over a year ago
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people
But you’re not in any of yours
There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video
You the m or f
Female but we are both here "
How have you been on here over a year and had zero verification |
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people
But you’re not in any of yours
There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video
You the m or f
Female but we are both here
How have you been on here over a year and had zero verification "
We have had meets arranged but then cancelled due to time wasters and we have been in lockdown the last year so can't arrange anything just now to get verifications |
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"Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by
Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile
I disagree. As the lady of a couple profile and I run our profile, it’s only fair I see pictures of the male. "
Very true, I was just stating my personal view, thanks for replying |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by
Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile
I disagree. As the lady of a couple profile and I run our profile, it’s only fair I see pictures of the male.
Very true, I was just stating my personal view, thanks for replying "
No problem but my view is that if there are only mainly pics of the female, that couple are using her to attract the males of other couples so why aren’t they allowing females of other couples to see him? Lack of underwear etc is in my book an excuse for laziness on their part. It’s all about the female only wanting attention. |
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over a year ago
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We try to keep it an even split of male/female photos.
I think more people on here are interested in what the female half looks like (what her body looks like) but as we are a package deal you need to see the entire package. No point being shy on here |
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "
Agree mostly, there's some well thought single male photos that could easily be incorporated to the M of couple |
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We don't on our public pictures, it's very much 50/50. In our humble opinion that's how it should be. our private pics are more towards L. Reason, L likes to take pictures of herself. Scotsman is shite at taking a good pic! |
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We always try to ensure a good balance of male & female pics, & look for other profiles that do the same.
So many profiles only have the female in pictures and possibly one or two dick pics/action shots of the male. There needs to be attraction for all involved & I generally need more than a penis portrait to base it on.
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
Why worry how others choose to present their profile?
If it doesn't suit you, simply move on to another that does!
We are only looking for straight, single guys so we tailor our profile to what we believe best suits that search.
Am I pig ugly? (nicely put by the way) Niki obviously doesn't think so.
Are we fake? No
Do I get involved? Yes, but I don't care what the other guy looks like because I don't want to kiss, bum or blow him, and presumably he wouldn't care what I look like, because we would both be focused on Niki.
I hope that explains why 99% of our pictures are of Niki.
K
If you were a single man, everyone would be telling you that if you're posting from a couple's point of view, then best use your couple's profile. |
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Hey guys, thought we'd weigh in...when we started our profile it was a choice between having explicit pics with faces blurred and normal face pics in private, or going full on with faces (no nudity) in public and the dirtier stuff hidden for friends etc etc....as we decided have nothing to hide, we went with faces on display so potential contacts can see from the off whether there is an attraction
Of course not everyone is happy with this and that's totally understandable but we chose to have some of us together, some of just Paul and more of just Alyson as she takes a cracking selfie and looks gorgeous! 
It is a tad frustrating when a couples profile shows only the lady but a simple question to ask for face pics is all that's needed to make a decision after a few messages have been exchanged....
The lady is generally who 'sells' the profile tho which is why we think a lot of profiles are very female oriented
Paul and Alyson x x |
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "
There are lots of imaginative male picture options other than boxers/dick pics. |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people
But you’re not in any of yours
There is a couple of pics of the male on our profile not many but they are there and he's obv in the video
You the m or f
Female but we are both here
How have you been on here over a year and had zero verification "
Stupid boy. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
Hi Bhubaysi.
For us it's because it's only her that plays, I watch 'her', so whether she plays with a male or female you wouldn't be a present for me as it's not yourself who's my focus. As I'm present I do send a face pic when a meet has been arranged and some have asked for me to join in so I don't think I'm pig ugly, lol, just going by the responses but that's for others to judge. But getting back to the question, ours is purely because it's her who's doing the playing on our set up regardless of who we meet. X |
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over a year ago
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"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
Everyone have their reasons but mainly because the female half is centre of attraction. We find it annoying when there’s no pictures of the male half showing on a couples profile as we predominantly seek couples to meet up with . All the best in searching what you’re looking for |
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"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
We mainly have pictures of me on our profile as that’s how we prefer it Od doesn’t enjoy taking pics of himself and he likes “showing” me off. He isn’t pig ugly, (far from it) and we definitely aren’t fake. If we talk to someone about meeting we would obviously share a picture of him if they ask. Freya |
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"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
No dog in this fight. But I'd imagine simply because it's what they want and it's their profile. It's hard and pointless to guess at what motivates people and how they put their profiles together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
Ours is hidden at the mo but has pics of us both. Yours only has your legs and feet and none of your body so a bit double standard i think asking this question. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
As above we do try to have a mix but we do love our photoshoots and Kiki's the poser 
It's also quite hard to be as inventive as the ladies and not have them become too "samey" |
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Hopefully there's sufficient (without face pics) to see both of our physiques and we would always include face pics if we wish to message someone that we find attractive.
We agree with a previous comment on here that's it's a bit hypocritical to call out couples for not having any pictures of the man. Perhaps if the man only posted pictures of his toes, fingernails and lower legs you'd be able to decide if you find him attractive and want to engage with them as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to see the male half on couples profiles! Its different for hotwife couples or cuck couples but when the lady wants you as the fem to ‘seduce’ her parter thats hard to do if theres no pics of him to gauge initial attraction. Even with threesomes everyone needs to be attracted. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I'm half a couple and agree, so many profiles have no pics of the male, we just avoid those profiles and don't respond to messages /winks from them.
As a straight woman, I need to see the male on a profile, it's up to the couple how they run their profile too and up in past experience we've chatted a while and then when I finally get to see the male, there's been no attraction to him.
I can see why couples who only look to meet men have no pics of the Mister, but think if you're seeking other couples, there should be 1 or 2 of the man. |
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When I have photos up they are only of me as its only me who plays.
Did have a single female profile but it was changed so I don't really have a choice on the couples profile thing.
Plenty of reasons why only female pics are displayed, not just because someone is fake.  |
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"When I have photos up they are only of me as its only me who plays.
Did have a single female profile but it was changed so I don't really have a choice on the couples profile thing.
Plenty of reasons why only female pics are displayed, not just because someone is fake. "
Exactly, not one size fits all. Don't like a profile, just move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our photo's are only of the Wife because it is only her that a Straight Single Male should be interested in. I being the male half only join in with pleasuring the wife! |
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I understand the couple profiles that are just looking for men so only have photos of the female but I do want to see both the couple if they are looking for women or another couple.
Some single male profiles have brilliant photos of the man, not all dick pictures either so saying its because the female is more photogenic is a bit of a cop-out, plus you've got a photographer to get great shots of each other or use a tripod & timer to get you both in shot.
If I was in a couple I'd have so much fun, having a fun & sexy photo shoot.
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"Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by
Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile "
As a straight woman in a couple I'm genuinely perplexed by this answer. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
Not this yet again. Just remember that people can use their profile however they want. If it works for them, that's fine. If it doesn't work for you, that's fine too. Just find another profile that does, there are plenty to choose from.
Isn't it a bit strange to look at a profile and think "It's not attracting me, they ought to change it so it does"?
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"Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by
Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile
As a straight woman in a couple I'm genuinely perplexed by this answer. "
no! Even as a straight woman, you must fancy me  |
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"Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by
Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile
As a straight woman in a couple I'm genuinely perplexed by this answer.
no! Even as a straight woman, you must fancy me "
. I understand the various combinations of couples but if a straight couple want to meet a straight couple it seems obvious to me that the women in those couples are going to be more interested in the men.  |
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"I need to see clear pics of the male of the couple, not just their cock in the woman’s mouth.
If I like the look of the male I’ll contact the couple, if it’s mainly female pics then no contact will be made. "
Exactly us, I hate it when you're overloaded of beautiful pics of the women and then the odd one of her blowing him. I wanna see his face and not just have to take one for the team because his wife is hot lol x I hope we have a good balance on our profile, we're certainly trying lol x |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"Let’s be honest, ladies are generally more attractive then men... even a straight lady would (surely most of the time) agree, and like above said they have more poses positions and lingerie to pose in and men have ‘boxers and the old hold it straight to make it look longer’ to get them by
Now yes it’s good if the male is generally attractive but it’s rarely the deciding factor when looking at a couples profile
I disagree. As the lady of a couple profile and I run our profile, it’s only fair I see pictures of the male. "
People run their profile as they see fit, not for other to think what is fair to them. If a profile is not for you then they are not for you. Not for anyone to preach what people should do or not to do because their expectations aren't met. We don't like genital pictures but we wouldn't dream of telling anyone their profile doesn't match what we expect. Fab is here for all, some people like some people don't, can not please everyone. A profile that matches what you are looking for is good and a profile you don't find what you are looking for is good also as people can move along  |
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"Wow this thread is helping with my filters. Thank you. "
That works both ways ..You say you have a couples account with a friend well technically you aren’t a couple so that would put a lot of people off.You can’t really criticise how others choose to run their profiles when all your profile shows is that you like gin and you have nicely painted toe nails ..
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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago
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There’s a few reasons I guess.
Ladies photograph better. They look sexier than guys!
Ladies can also take many pictures in different lingerie, outfits, positions etc. For a guy, after a few pictures it’s just being repetitive!
For us though, it’s both of these, plus mr like photography as a hobby, so tends to take more pictures. Xx |
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over a year ago
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"Wow this thread is helping with my filters. Thank you. That works both ways ..You say you have a couples account with a friend well technically you aren’t a couple so that would put a lot of people off.You can’t really criticise how others choose to run their profiles when all your profile shows is that you like gin and you have nicely painted toe nails .."
That was our reply also. No body shots, just legs and feet. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"Wow this thread is helping with my filters. Thank you. That works both ways ..You say you have a couples account with a friend well technically you aren’t a couple so that would put a lot of people off.You can’t really criticise how others choose to run their profiles when all your profile shows is that you like gin and you have nicely painted toe nails ..
That was our reply also. No body shots, just legs and feet. "
It’s against site rules to critique my profile when I’ve not asked for feedback. I asked why some couples don’t show pictures of their men. I am allowed to ask this from my single profile. If you don’t like the thread or my relationship with my good friend then pass by to a thread that suits you. Enjoy the rest of your day. |
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women are just nice to look at in general; for woman and men. Wether you’re a dabbling lady, fully Bi or a Lesbian they’d all prefer to see a lady in lingerie. Than a guy in crumpled boxers in a bedroom that needs tidying and a good hoover.
He has a few bum shots and a couple of cock shots in our private album. But mostly Me in stockings, heels and the odd basque her and there.  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I guess it’s a case of the kind of connections that they’re looking for. If it’s female only connections, then it’s fair but if the male of the couple is involved, but there aren’t any pictures, then it starts to get questionable.
I do feel that if you’re both meeting but the male is an afterthought in the pictures, then you’re essentially ‘fishing’, using the one partner as bait.
Women get more attention, that’s the nature of the site, you only need to look at hot pics to understand that, but I think that it’s disingenuous to have a couples profile without pictures of both partners in rough parity |
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I never put pics on this profile. Only Sam does. He takes all the pics so they are obviously going to be of me as well. We are happy how our profile is and don't really give a shit if people think it's too one sided. If you don't like it move on
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"I never put pics on this profile. Only Sam does. He takes all the pics so they are obviously going to be of me as well. We are happy how our profile is and don't really give a shit if people think it's too one sided. If you don't like it move on
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"I need to see clear pics of the male of the couple, not just their cock in the woman’s mouth.
If I like the look of the male I’ll contact the couple, if it’s mainly female pics then no contact will be made. "
This .... completely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
Because they are more attractive |
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We have a good mix but we tend to have C as our profile pic as she attracts more people to our profile.
We also have a good number of couples pics so people can also see us together...
We don’t buy into guys being limited with pic choices...if you have a good imagination you have plenty of options
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"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
We only have pics of the female because although we only meet as a couple, only she plays whilehubby doesn't. That's why. |
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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people "
Your correct plus women look more sexier |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
I think we have a decent split, but as I tend to be the one taking the photos, it can be hard to be in them.
Also as we are not just looking to meet for sex, having naked photos of me is unlikely going to entice the sorts of people we want to meet. |
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"We normally mingle at parties and socials so you can see us both. If we chat on here we have face pics in our friends only. Everyone works differently that’s your choice. X"
Choice, freedom, respect, not rules, are what’s important when swinging |
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I'm a firm believer that if a profile catches your attention then a conversation should be started..during said conversation bring up the request to see a picture ..it's more than just physical to me...gotta know a good time can be had and that means conversation and laughter too..it's the main reason I prefer meeti_g couples in clubs / socials... |
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"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
The reality is that more often than not the male half of couples look like old boot leather. There are a lot of fakes too, some even manage to get verified. |
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It's a bizarre situation that has baffled me for ages, especially when people say that they are struggling to find the right woman or mf couples - it will generally be much harder to get the fullest chpice, if your sales tools are selling you well to others, such as guys, but not to all of the people who you want to meet. |
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"The lady has more choice for lingerie etc and can pose better than men for photos lol for men it's just boxers or dick pics and that can be off putting for a lot of people
Your correct plus women look more sexier "
Not to me they don’t. I guess you put photos on to attract your target audience so guess most couples who display more of the female are looking to attract straight males. Couples wanting bi females or couples will put photos on of both. |
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"It's a bizarre situation that has baffled me for ages, especially when people say that they are struggling to find the right woman or mf couples - it will generally be much harder to get the fullest chpice, if your sales tools are selling you well to others, such as guys, but not to all of the people who you want to meet. "
Exactly this ... |
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"It's a bizarre situation that has baffled me for ages, especially when people say that they are struggling to find the right woman or mf couples - it will generally be much harder to get the fullest chpice, if your sales tools are selling you well to others, such as guys, but not to all of the people who you want to meet. "
I guess people are looking for different things or maybe they play more in clubs so they can see Mr face to face.
Their profile, their choice, as baffling as it is to everyone else.
We want to attract couples and singles so that’s why we have a selection of pics to (hopefully) entice our target audience(s)
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"It's a bizarre situation that has baffled me for ages, especially when people say that they are struggling to find the right woman or mf couples - it will generally be much harder to get the fullest chpice, if your sales tools are selling you well to others, such as guys, but not to all of the people who you want to meet.
I guess people are looking for different things or maybe they play more in clubs so they can see Mr face to face.
Their profile, their choice, as baffling as it is to everyone else.
We want to attract couples and singles so that’s why we have a selection of pics to (hopefully) entice our target audience(s)
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Lovely photographs I might add |
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"It's a bizarre situation that has baffled me for ages, especially when people say that they are struggling to find the right woman or mf couples - it will generally be much harder to get the fullest chpice, if your sales tools are selling you well to others, such as guys, but not to all of the people who you want to meet.
I guess people are looking for different things or maybe they play more in clubs so they can see Mr face to face.
Their profile, their choice, as baffling as it is to everyone else.
We want to attract couples and singles so that’s why we have a selection of pics to (hopefully) entice our target audience(s)
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Oo I LOVE your photos ..... |
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"I don’t meet couples on my own. I’m not a play thing, I’m not bi, I’m not a present for the man.
I’ve a couples profile with my friend but get put off contacti_g couples who have mainly pics of the lady on their profile. We won’t contact these couples.
Why do couples mainly have pics of the lady on their profile?
Is the man pig ugly? Is it a fake profile? Does the man get involved?
Bhubaysi "
Maybe they are only looking for single men so only put up pics of the lady? Maybe they think the ladies don't want to see the male half who knows |
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"It's a bizarre situation that has baffled me for ages, especially when people say that they are struggling to find the right woman or mf couples - it will generally be much harder to get the fullest chpice, if your sales tools are selling you well to others, such as guys, but not to all of the people who you want to meet.
I guess people are looking for different things or maybe they play more in clubs so they can see Mr face to face.
Their profile, their choice, as baffling as it is to everyone else.
We want to attract couples and singles so that’s why we have a selection of pics to (hopefully) entice our target audience(s)
Oo I LOVE your photos ..... "
Thank you |
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We try to have a balanced selection of pictures but the only ones which get fabbed are of wifey...totally understandable!
When looking at other couples profiles if there are lots of pictures of the guy and they are all dick pics and only one half assed snap of the lady that usually is a warning sign for us x |
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"We try to have a balanced selection of pictures but the only ones which get fabbed are of wifey...totally understandable!
When looking at other couples profiles if there are lots of pictures of the guy and they are all dick pics and only one half assed snap of the lady that usually is a warning sign for us x "
That’s become men out number women on here about 8 to 1 .... |
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You shouldn't need to ask for photos of the man , it is about achieving a four way match after all. I'd like to think that ours provide enough to stop time wasters |
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We try an keep a balance of both partners in our profile pics. From experience, there are lots of lovely ladies on here, but the male partner doesn't come up to the same standard (maybe that's why there aren't so many male photos?).
For some couples, the lady gets the final say on meets, so it's important that there are plenty of male photos in couples' profiles. |
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