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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Does anyone else find the idea of swinging and not being safe completely nuts? I understand for people or couples that are exclusive but if you are let’s say an experienced user of fab I find that worrying. So my question to the people that don’t play safe why do you do it and are you not afraid of the risk?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

bearing in mind that the forums are a very very small part of fab and the swinging scene that you wont get a balance answer ... most swingers do what they want to do they dont follow a forum ..

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

There's no such thing as completely safe, unprotected oral carries risk and condoms don't protect against everything.

I think it's best to be completely honest about it, that way others have the choice of meeting you or not.

We play as safe as possible but acknowledge that even this brings risks

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"There's no such thing as completely safe, unprotected oral carries risk and condoms don't protect against everything.

I think it's best to be completely honest about it, that way others have the choice of meeting you or not.

We play as safe as possible but acknowledge that even this brings risks"

Agreed. Everything is risk mitigation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does anyone else find the idea of swinging and not being safe completely nuts? I understand for people or couples that are exclusive but if you are let’s say an experienced user of fab I find that worrying. So my question to the people that don’t play safe why do you do it and are you not afraid of the risk? "

I know the risks and I accept that there is a limited risk. I don’t play often or with lots of people and I’m choosy and I get tested regularly. I have other hobbies or interests that carry a much higher risk to my health and wellbeing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everything is risk based. And fucking random strangers unprotected is an unnecessary risk. Which I hate, because I have such a cum fantasy. But, I'd never be brave enough to go through with it. I know how little people in the swinging world tell the truth.

(I had a wife knock at my door once!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Condoms only, as others have said it’s an unnecessary risk

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By *ornycouple44Couple over a year ago

St austell

"Everything is risk based. And fucking random strangers unprotected is an unnecessary risk. Which I hate, because I have such a cum fantasy. But, I'd never be brave enough to go through with it. I know how little people in the swinging world tell the truth.

(I had a wife knock at my door once!)"

hope you took her to bed aswell

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

(I had a wife knock at my door once!)"

I completely agree. Nothing is 100% safe. My ex used to have a huge cum fetish which wore off on me as loved giving it! but I would never consider doing that to anyone I didnt know. Obviously people have their own reasons for it which I accept but that’s a bit too much for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?"

If there was a male pill I would take it 100%

What do other blokes think about that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

If there was a male pill I would take it 100%

What do other blokes think about that?"

I imagine you’d get a few side effects, think I’d rather wrap up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

If there was a male pill I would take it 100%

I wouod too..200%

What do other blokes think about that?

I imagine you’d get a few side effects, think I’d rather wrap up"

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

If there was a male pill I would take it 100%

What do other blokes think about that?"

The problem with that is that 99% of women wouldn't believe you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never liked the feel of condoms, and a guy finishing inside me is a vital part of sex from me, both for the physical enjoyment and and emotional. It don't know if its a kink or fetish or something, but I don't find safe sex satisfying xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?"

Yes I'm on the pill, and yes I've forgotten to take it occasionally.

In my experience most men don't even ask xx

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By *ecretescapeCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

If there was a male pill I would take it 100%

What do other blokes think about that?

The problem with that is that 99% of women wouldn't believe you.

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Too right!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ecretescapeCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

Yes I'm on the pill, and yes I've forgotten to take it occasionally.

In my experience most men don't even ask xx"

Same experience here. Am shocked over and over and over by men pushing bareback

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By *ollydoesWoman over a year ago

Shangri-La

I don't worry about what other people are doing.. just myself.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

My Easter Forum Bingo Card is doing well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

Yes I'm on the pill, and yes I've forgotten to take it occasionally.

In my experience most men don't even ask xx

Same experience here. Am shocked over and over and over by men pushing bareback"

I'm fine with bareback. But it would be sensible of men to at least double check if there is any contraception. Some guys do pull out, but many don't xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would only go bareback with someone who has had a resent test and are clean as I am & I can trust them and are regular playmates.

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By *aturing bullMan over a year ago

TOOTING

I do think about the risk but I prefer it. I try to see the same people on a regular basis and when I get tested I share my results with regular partners. As someone said it is really about “risk management” and trying to constantly question myself about who I am seeing and why and is seeing this person worth the risk. The mental aspect is more exhausting than when I played safer but on the whole less enjoyable. P.s big fan of Jessica

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My Easter Forum Bingo Card is doing well

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Prior to being on fab I'd say 98% of my encounters have been bareback

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By *tickler2000Man over a year ago

St Agnes

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?"

I've had the snip but still bag it. Unless in long term relationship

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By *ain and sortedMan over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

(I had a wife knock at my door once!)

hope you took her to bed aswell

Haha

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By *_the_impalerMan over a year ago

canterbury

As a previous post says nothing is 100% so getting regularly tested and playing safe is the way to go unless of course you are exclusive partners who have previously been tested

I.e cuckold cpl and wife has a bull and they exclusively play bareback together and both been tested and husband uses condoms.

Of course other types contraceptive will be needed

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By *69meMan over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

Yes I'm on the pill, and yes I've forgotten to take it occasionally.

In my experience most men don't even ask xx

Same experience here. Am shocked over and over and over by men pushing bareback

I'm fine with bareback. But it would be sensible of men to at least double check if there is any contraception. Some guys do pull out, but many don't xx"

I'd bareback you! You look gorgeous!

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By *eavenNhellCouple over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?"
well little tommy aint mine had the snip 20 yrs ago and the little fishies dont swim

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We are a bareback couple,it is part of the enjoyment for us. We have found a hell of a lot who say safe only, will in fact admit they prefer bare, but don't want to be judged for it, so don't say it openly

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By *ee And MikeCouple over a year ago

Cannock

We are cuckold couple and enjoy bareback, love to get the opportunity to clean up if allowed.

We don’t just meet anyone, which I know pisses a lot off on here that think you are desperate to meet at the drop of a hat, we like to build up a relationship with a bull and it’s up to my wife if she wants to take him bare.

She says she love the intimacy of the guy pumping his cum inside her and the cuddling afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

I've had the snip but still bag it. Unless in long term relationship"

Same here i had the snip but not worth the risk barebacking

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By *um6a9funMan over a year ago

Messy End

I prefer bareback, and this is something I’m always open about during conversation. I have my own way to assess, and I have certain rules I use and stick to, which I appreciate also have risks. We all make choices, and we should all be big enough to accept other people’s interests, opinions and choices, if we don’t like them, move on, but I do feel that bareback friendly people should also be open to others, so the safe only people can step away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Up until a few years ago I rarely used condoms. As I hot older I thought perhaps maybe I should be a bit more sensible now.

But I'd happily play bareback with someone from here now, if they assured me that they had been recently tested. I'd still get myself tested after for peace of mind though...

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By *anchestercreampieloversCouple over a year ago

manchester

"We are cuckold couple and enjoy bareback, love to get the opportunity to clean up if allowed.

She says she love the intimacy of the guy pumping his cum inside her and the cuddling afterwards."

totally agree, we are a bareback couple too, the amount of guys who message us that are “Safe sex only” is quite shocking

We know the risks and are quite happy to indulge in our pleasures xx

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By *ersey GirlCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

we will only ever be a bareback couple

r&s

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan over a year ago

Salford

Oh really, do tell how that wife knocking went down.

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan over a year ago

Salford

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

Yes I'm on the pill, and yes I've forgotten to take it occasionally.

In my experience most men don't even ask xx"

I think it's hot when you fuck a woman when she is not on any birth control

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By *enuinemidscoupleCouple over a year ago

wolverhampton

Has anyone ever asked the guest for evidence of a clean sti test ?

We meet someone semi regular and he wants to have bareback and cum inside al

We don’t have a problem with the act itself but want to stay safe !

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

Yes I'm on the pill, and yes I've forgotten to take it occasionally.

In my experience most men don't even ask xx

I think it's hot when you fuck a woman when she is not on any birth control"

I just don't even know how to reply to this...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On Bareback threads there's always talk of STIs. But what about the knock at the door in 9 months?

"This is little Tommy, he's yours".

Men, are you sure she's on the pill?

Ladies, ever forgot to take the pill?

Yes I'm on the pill, and yes I've forgotten to take it occasionally.

In my experience most men don't even ask xx

I think it's hot when you fuck a woman when she is not on any birth control"

I hope you at least pull out...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well this thread got me horny as

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple over a year ago

Manchester

"We are cuckold couple and enjoy bareback, love to get the opportunity to clean up if allowed.

She says she love the intimacy of the guy pumping his cum inside her and the cuddling afterwards.

totally agree, we are a bareback couple too, the amount of guys who message us that are “Safe sex only” is quite shocking

We know the risks and are quite happy to indulge in our pleasures xx"

We are quite open about bareback. People can read our profile and decide for themselves whether they wish to make contact or not.

What annoys us is the amount of sanctimonious posturing and hypocrisy that is continually exposed on this type of forum topic.

It's hilarious to see people on their high horse condemning bareback and assuring the world of the high level of respect they feel for their own sexual health.

The very same individuals who have contacted us for bareback fucking!!!

Absolutely true