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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Looking for an obedient sub to worship and service me when i need it dm me x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Interest, good luck

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By *oxy lady40Woman  over a year ago

bridgwater


"Looking for an obedient sub to worship and service me when i need it dm me x"
lol good luck with your search, you are going to need it

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By *egmelpoolMan  over a year ago

liverpool

I am a submissive man who is looking for a domme. I am in Liverpool.

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By *irtySekretsCouple  over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

I really don’t think it’s going to happen x

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By *oxy lady40Woman  over a year ago

bridgwater

Opens a thread then hides his profile

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By *CandBCouple  over a year ago

Taunton

Try Faslane.

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By *elloWoman  over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Opens a thread then hides his profile "

Possibly because he can't cope with all the applications, he must of been inundated.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How much you need and until when?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The sarcasm on this site is hilarious.

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By *atenaWoman  over a year ago

Hyde


"Looking for an obedient sub to worship and service me when i need it dm me x"

I'm herreeeeeee

Falls at your knees

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Looking for an obedient sub to worship and service me when i need it dm me x"

Join the Royal Navy, think they have obedient subs, than you can steer n direct

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Try sub way

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Ha ha ha ha ha ha!!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple  over a year ago

Cumbria

Been 17 hours much luck pal.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman  over a year ago

Guildford


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

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Sorry but if someone is going to demand people DM directly in a forum to worship and serve them, don’t hide your profile.

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By *irty PrettyWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

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You are when it’s relevant to the thread.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

You are when it’s relevant to the thread."

No you're not, and you can get banned for it.

You may only discuss a person's profile if they ask you to.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

Sorry but if someone is going to demand people DM directly in a forum to worship and serve them, don’t hide your profile. "

He is entitled to do what he wants with his profile, and ask for what he wants, as long as he isn't breaking any site rules.The same as everyone else on the site.

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By *heonixRaven 777Woman  over a year ago

Guildford


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

Sorry but if someone is going to demand people DM directly in a forum to worship and serve them, don’t hide your profile.

He is entitled to do what he wants with his profile, and ask for what he wants, as long as he isn't breaking any site rules.The same as everyone else on the site.

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While I share your opinion and agree with what you say, I am ok with having a different opinion to yours as well.

I can simply say I agree but disagree with you and that’s all good with me.

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By *irty PrettyWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

You are when it’s relevant to the thread.

No you're not, and you can get banned for it.

You may only discuss a person's profile if they ask you to.

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The rules state “Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread”.

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By *irty PrettyWoman  over a year ago

Cardiff


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

You are when it’s relevant to the thread.

No you're not, and you can get banned for it.

You may only discuss a person's profile if they ask you to.

The rules state “Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread”."

And just to be clear, posting on the forum “I want a sub” without giving details of his experience as a Dominant; what he wants from a sub; and whether he wants casual play or a dynamic (as a bare minimum) means that people will look to his profile for those details and if they aren’t there either, that’s relevant.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This talk of rope and cake reminded me of a monthly munch I used to attend called "kink & cake!" Ah. Those were the days!

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By *ick270Man  over a year ago

Here

Might as well ask then looking for 2 females for a 3 some ill clear my inbox ready

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well, to the ladies wondering whats missing! You'll have to beg!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow! Impressive. Lads... hilarious!

Ladies if you aint interested keep your gobs shut!

Such nasty s***b**s! Fill in the blanks! "

Come on now OP play nicely. Have you had much interest?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Looking for an obedient sub to worship and service me when i need it dm me x"

what do you have to offer in return???

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By *ersey GirlCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

Commenting on someone's profile isn't allowed and taking the piss out of someone shouldn't be either

R

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

Sorry but if someone is going to demand people DM directly in a forum to worship and serve them, don’t hide your profile.

He is entitled to do what he wants with his profile, and ask for what he wants, as long as he isn't breaking any site rules.The same as everyone else on the site.

While I share your opinion and agree with what you say, I am ok with having a different opinion to yours as well.

I can simply say I agree but disagree with you and that’s all good with me. "

Not being allowed to discuss profiles isn't my opinion. It's admin's rules.

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By *irtydevil666Man  over a year ago

bristol

Interesting read.......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey OP.

Porn is not the best marketing place for D/s relationships, should that be where you are coming from.

Also “know all’s” equally aren’t a great source either.

Talk (don’t demand) to sexual submissive people, they will let you know what they need.

Never listen to Doms (put five in a room and they will come out with nine different opinions).

Remember to have fun OP, please not at others expense.

Then explore if there is a common synergy.

A journey of a hundred miles starts with a single step, think you might be pointing the wrong way at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i noticed hed hidden profile it’s not a subs place to ask why he might give you an few lashes unless he meant looking for a subway"

What would be wrong with a sub asking a question? Surely that's a very reasonable thing to do!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i noticed hed hidden profile it’s not a subs place to ask why he might give you an few lashes unless he meant looking for a subway

What would be wrong with a sub asking a question? Surely that's a very reasonable thing to do!

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subs do as they are told not question

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"i noticed hed hidden profile it’s not a subs place to ask why he might give you an few lashes unless he meant looking for a subway

What would be wrong with a sub asking a question? Surely that's a very reasonable thing to do!

subs do as they are told not question "

Thats not true at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile."

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off. "

I think that fab has rules and I think they are there for a reason whether or not people liked his opening post is beside the point they absolutely had no business ripping apart his profile.

He made a request and got the piss taken out of him so I actually don't see an issue with his opening post at all.

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"i noticed hed hidden profile it’s not a subs place to ask why he might give you an few lashes unless he meant looking for a subway

What would be wrong with a sub asking a question? Surely that's a very reasonable thing to do!

subs do as they are told not question "

No they don't!! It's a 2 way street...

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By *atenaWoman  over a year ago

Hyde


"

subs do as they are told not question "

Wow....... how wrong can someone be

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off.

I think that fab has rules and I think they are there for a reason whether or not people liked his opening post is beside the point they absolutely had no business ripping apart his profile.

He made a request and got the piss taken out of him so I actually don't see an issue with his opening post at all."

I re read the fab rules and its ambiguous in this case i’d say. Maybe a mod needs to give some clarity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off.

I think that fab has rules and I think they are there for a reason whether or not people liked his opening post is beside the point they absolutely had no business ripping apart his profile.

He made a request and got the piss taken out of him so I actually don't see an issue with his opening post at all.

I re read the fab rules and its ambiguous in this case i’d say. Maybe a mod needs to give some clarity. "

I'm sure they will be along shortly.

People may not have liked the wording but they have turned this thread into a pisstake and yes the OP came back with an unpleasant comment but this thread has hardly been friendly towards him.

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By *ersey GirlCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off.

I think that fab has rules and I think they are there for a reason whether or not people liked his opening post is beside the point they absolutely had no business ripping apart his profile.

He made a request and got the piss taken out of him so I actually don't see an issue with his opening post at all."

There wasn't. It's bang out of order what people have said. A bit of advice instead of an arse ripping would have been more beneficial

R

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off.

I think that fab has rules and I think they are there for a reason whether or not people liked his opening post is beside the point they absolutely had no business ripping apart his profile.

He made a request and got the piss taken out of him so I actually don't see an issue with his opening post at all.

There wasn't. It's bang out of order what people have said. A bit of advice instead of an arse ripping would have been more beneficial

R"

Completely agree.

The mocking tone of many is very sad to read.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off.

I think that fab has rules and I think they are there for a reason whether or not people liked his opening post is beside the point they absolutely had no business ripping apart his profile.

He made a request and got the piss taken out of him so I actually don't see an issue with his opening post at all."

Totally agree here, this has been one of the saddest threads I've seen. On him like a pack of wolves then patting each others backs with in-jokes and talking about cake. The OP had every right to ask his question. He has every right to view BDSM how he wants to. If it doesn't gel with your view of it, no need to rip the piss and in some cases be really personal,nasty and downright pretentious. Sad that admin seem to have looked the other way and sad that this kind of pack mentality is still happening way too often

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off.

I think that fab has rules and I think they are there for a reason whether or not people liked his opening post is beside the point they absolutely had no business ripping apart his profile.

He made a request and got the piss taken out of him so I actually don't see an issue with his opening post at all.

Totally agree here, this has been one of the saddest threads I've seen. On him like a pack of wolves then patting each others backs with in-jokes and talking about cake. The OP had every right to ask his question. He has every right to view BDSM how he wants to. If it doesn't gel with your view of it, no need to rip the piss and in some cases be really personal,nasty and downright pretentious. Sad that admin seem to have looked the other way and sad that this kind of pack mentality is still happening way too often "

In fairness unless people report the thread the mods are unlikely to know there is an issue.

If I see something that is against site rules I report it and ask the mods to take a look.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

Sorry but if someone is going to demand people DM directly in a forum to worship and serve them, don’t hide your profile. "

His profile has nothing to do with the thread or what he is asking for. You and the others spoilt his thread altogether. It really did have some unpleasant posts too

Lets have some respect for other people please, if you can't do that then please don't post

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"You know you're not allowed to discuss people's profiles.

You are when it’s relevant to the thread."

It isn't relevant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thank you for clarifying mod!

The thread may turn itself around theres plenty more comment spaces left. Good luck OP

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"Wow! Impressive. Lads... hilarious!

Ladies if you aint interested keep your gobs shut!

Such nasty s***b**s! Fill in the blanks!

Come on now OP play nicely. Have you had much interest? "

Seriously? The amount of nasty posts on this thread towards the OP and you question his when he fights back?

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. I personally had a dim view of BSDM. I joined fab learned more, researched more and am now more open minded. Had i have seen this OP before learning bdsm has vast depth and range I would have written the whole lifestyle off.

I think that fab has rules and I think they are there for a reason whether or not people liked his opening post is beside the point they absolutely had no business ripping apart his profile.

He made a request and got the piss taken out of him so I actually don't see an issue with his opening post at all.

I re read the fab rules and its ambiguous in this case i’d say. Maybe a mod needs to give some clarity. "

Maybe read them again, they clearly say "No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere."

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


" Sad that admin seem to have looked the other way and sad that this kind of pack mentality is still happening way too often "

I knew it would get to attacking mods.

To clarify, mods are not online at all times, if they are online they may not be reading every thread

If people report a post a Mod would be able to check it quicker

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Could you remove my comments then please if they have cause harm to the thread. Thanks

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

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"I really don't know why people feel the need to comment with such sarcasm if your not interested then that's fine but there's no need to rip into the OP or his profile.

Do you think this OP is ok? Bdsm gets a bad enough rep as it is. Threads like this and attitudes like the OP’s do not help. "

There is nothing wrong with his OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Sad that admin seem to have looked the other way and sad that this kind of pack mentality is still happening way too often

I knew it would get to attacking mods.

To clarify, mods are not online at all times, if they are online they may not be reading every thread

If people report a post a Mod would be able to check it quicker"

Didn't mean to attack mods sorry, just wrongly assumed someone would have seen it. Lornajo is obviously right, should report if there's an issue

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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To the OP, welcome to the forum. I am sorry you had to put up with the nasty and unpleasant attacks towards you, please be assured mods will deal with it when seen

Please don't be put off posting.

To anyone else this applies to , the forum is for everyone, please respect other people when posting a simple request.

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