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Appealing to you or a turn off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't mind it but I am a bit precious about my hair.
Sir likes it tied up when we play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a bit and not too rough for my wife along with other things but for us it’s a fine balance.
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If on all 4s I luv it, will even run my clit while it happens... if I am on top don’t touch my hair |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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So many don’t know how to play with hair safely, getting close to the scalp, and instead yank on the ends which is likely to cause more pain and damage the hair.
But each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many don’t know how to play with hair safely, getting close to the scalp, and instead yank on the ends which is likely to cause more pain and damage the hair.
But each to their own."
Just get a good handful near the middle. Don't get a few strands or too close to the end. It's supposed to be painful (within reason), ask her first obviously. Xx |
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"So many don’t know how to play with hair safely, getting close to the scalp, and instead yank on the ends which is likely to cause more pain and damage the hair.
But each to their own."
Refreshing to see this reply. Although your profile name gives it away why you know. Good bit of education for others, thank you. |
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You have to know your partner before you can go there, it's a dynamic that is pushing into agreed upon territory, I'd never dream of just pulling someone's hair on a first encounter with knowing that sort of thing is acceptable.
With this in mind I do find it a turn on. |
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago
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Bend me over one hand with my hair wrapped in it pulling, other hand scratching my back, slapping or playing with my arse   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I quite like it. Guys are scared to do it tho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't stand it. |
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"I like it xx"
I ware mine in a small pony tail so my bf gets to pull it hard i got so turned on one night he nearly pulled it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With a lover I trust, I love it. Do it without discussion and it'll earn you a knee in the groin. |
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"With a lover I trust, I love it. Do it without discussion and it'll earn you a knee in the groin. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Giving, yes; receiving, it depends. Not sure I could shag a bald guy as what is there to hang on to! |
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It's all about getting her back arched for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simply put I love it. On all 4s one hand pulling my hair the over slaping my arse and tell me how naughty I am. mmmmm yes please xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it |
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Horny when your balls deep in sexy arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know someone who loves it. I suppose it’s similar to me liking fingers down my back, it just has to be done right. |
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"Horny when your balls deep in sexy arse."
Yes so raw! |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
There is something carnal about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doggy style hand full of hair and arse spanked..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck yes... While being handcuffed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it, with the right person and consent. |
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Love it but please don't pull mine, it doesn't stay where its meant to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it! If it's done in the right way
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes please - best when getting it from behind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who. From hubby I love it. Anyone else, nope x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a guy yanked out some of my new extensions on a meet years ago i was fuming haha |
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"Love it! If it's done in the right way
Her x"
You have nice hair |
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"a guy yanked out some of my new extensions on a meet years ago i was fuming haha "
I hope you made him pay for new ones? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love it! If it's done in the right way
Her x
You have nice hair"
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a guy yanked out some of my new extensions on a meet years ago i was fuming haha "
Oh no!   |
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Huge turn on for me when Mike is fucking me from behind and wraps my long hair round his hand and pulls. He knows exactly how hard to pull so the pain level is just right. Wouldn't want anyone else doing it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always best to ask if someone likes it, or go gentle to begin with |
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"Always best to ask if someone likes it, or go gentle to begin with"
Consent is a must |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off |
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"So many don’t know how to play with hair safely, getting close to the scalp, and instead yank on the ends which is likely to cause more pain and damage the hair.
But each to their own."
Exactly this if you get closer to the scalp and get a good handful but don't yank it, it's a very pleasurable sensation....instantly soaking wet..  |
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My wife loves it and chocking makes her cum harder ???? |
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I haven't got any hair but I would hate it if I had braids and someone pulled them |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Love it! Heightens the pleasure and gets us in that raw, no holds barred type of aggressive sex mode which we both get off on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it too |
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By *pun84Man
over a year ago
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"Bend me over one hand with my hair wrapped in it pulling, other hand scratching my back, slapping or playing with my arse "
Damn right and then pound hard n deep and thts only way lol x |
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"Love it! Heightens the pleasure and gets us in that raw, no holds barred type of aggressive sex mode which we both get off on."
Omg yes, it really is very primal and very hot. Heightens the sexual pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much love it.. Massive turn on |
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I love my hair being pulled, such a turn on |
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"I love my hair being pulled, such a turn on "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off if it's pulled hard and causes pain turn on if held and used to control the head.... |
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"Turn off if it's pulled hard and causes pain turn on if held and used to control the head...."
I agree it is a skill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with a bit of hair pulling and light choking! |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
If i ask for it in the throws then yes, its a huge turn on...if i dont its a swift kick to the bollocks.
Ive had occasions where ive met someone for the first time and during kissing theyve yanked my head back...one even injured my neck quite badly...and there had been no prior conversation about that kind of play...bloody idiot! |
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"If i ask for it in the throws then yes, its a huge turn on...if i dont its a swift kick to the bollocks.
Ive had occasions where ive met someone for the first time and during kissing theyve yanked my head back...one even injured my neck quite badly...and there had been no prior conversation about that kind of play...bloody idiot! "
That is an assault.. It is a skill and the timing needs to be perfect |
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"Always best to ask if someone likes it, or go gentle to begin with"
mmm yes...I love it but if they don't know what they're doing or do it without talking about it before then nope! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr is always grabbing my hair, i love it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s no for me chief |
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"It’s no for me chief "
Fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't be best pleased if someone pulled my hair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Light pulling is okay.. hard it’s a no from me. I care about my hair/scalp haha |
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"Light pulling is okay.. hard it’s a no from me. I care about my hair/scalp haha "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a yes form me! |
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When I got my hair I made sure there was enough to pull. So yes please
Bx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you can find enough of mine to hang onto , be my guest !! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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No, it's not for me ...
There are situations where I can enjoy pulling somebody else's, if that is something they enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to know your partner before you can go there, it's a dynamic that is pushing into agreed upon territory, I'd never dream of just pulling someone's hair on a first encounter with knowing that sort of thing is acceptable.
With this in mind I do find it a turn on. "
This
But also yes love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will only partake if its wanted by properly grabiing &
almost yanking there heads back .
Ive seen some guys who just barely grab hold .
If the woman is into it grab a proper handful & yank .
If the woman isnt then best leave alone .
Play by her rules always & lots of fun can be had
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very much yup. I'm lucky to have not found a single partner that doesn't love it. |
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"With a lover I trust, I love it. Do it without discussion and it'll earn you a knee in the groin.
Chuckling
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same, except I like my men with long hair & by long I mean at least shoulder length so I can do it back |
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"With a lover I trust, I love it. Do it without discussion and it'll earn you a knee in the groin.
Chuckling
same, except I like my men with long hair & by long I mean at least shoulder length so I can do it back "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn on within reason.. I love a good hair pull but don't want to be de-scalped either |
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It can be hot when doing doggy and he pulls my hair.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Appealing to you or a turn off?"
Only if your gentle with me |
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"It can be hot when doing doggy and he pulls my hair...."
That is the right skill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No most men don’t know what they are doing and try an scalp you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely but as others have said it has to be near the middle or the scalp. It also has to be consistent not just tugging. |
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Love a good hair pull when your getting fucked doggy makes me more horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love my hair been pulled. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife likes it while groping her big tits from behind |
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Love hair pulling both ways. The gentle version. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its even better if their hands are tied behind there back
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a finger in the bum is better |
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My wife loves light hair pulling |
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"Appealing to you or a turn off?"
Very appealing, if done without ripping my hair out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as long as it's not my hair were all good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn on x100
Long as my hair is gripped at the root for real control |
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There's a right moment for it, best kept in the box of special treats & not brought out weeknights during the ad-break in Corrie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many don’t know how to play with hair safely, getting close to the scalp, and instead yank on the ends which is likely to cause more pain and damage the hair.
But each to their own."
Ypu be supprised how many guys pull on a woman hair like the reins on a horse. Close to the scalp gives more control without to much pain. Also most women get so turned on using this technique. Jenny gets soaking very quickly when i grip her this way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it
And with lockdown, for the first time in years I have hair long enough to grab a handful of |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me on top, pinning her down with a bit of light choking and hair pulled back.. Love doing it! (and so does the recipient lol) |
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Little hair pulling and choking from mr really gets my juices flowing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only if you've bought me a meal first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bloody love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it |
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I saw a sticker on a car with a female driver , it said .
If you’re going to ride my arse
At least pull my hair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm, defiantly..
And his hand round my throat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm, defiantly..
And his hand round my throat!"
I enjoy doing the above and knowing shes enjoying it excites me more... |
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When fucking doggy style, my wife loves it pulled hard so she arches right back |
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Not into it. Pull it and it'll just come off, so best leave it be x |
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Love it if it’s done correctly and not playground style. Nice big handfuls of hair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try it and see, Iv probably stood for over an hour blowing it for the meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy a good grip
A proper fistful.
LOVE his hands in my hair or holding when kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as no pain I like it |
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I like my hair held firmly, especially if I have a pony tail, but not pulled.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally depends on the situation and how things are going, but do love pulling on a ladies hair when fucking her from behind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it during doggy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since meeting my fwb he does this and oh my goodness it turns me on so much |
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"Appealing to you or a turn off?"
Mmmm I love having my hair played with and tugged....it's a massive turn on... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn off, I can’t understand if |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy a good grip
A proper fistful.
LOVE his hands in my hair or holding when kissing. "
His......sounds specific lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please ...lol |
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By *ood Time RMan
over a year ago
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Love bending a sexy lady over and pulling her hair while fucking her deep and hard doggystyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Massive turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy a good grip
A proper fistful.
LOVE his hands in my hair or holding when kissing.
His......sounds specific lol"
There could be several guys reading this wondering if they were ever that "his: lolè |
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"I enjoy a good grip
A proper fistful.
LOVE his hands in my hair or holding when kissing.
His......sounds specific lol
There could be several guys reading this wondering if they were ever that "his: lolè"
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Wife loves her hair pulled it's a real turn on for both |
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By *illy76Woman
over a year ago
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Hair pulled while being fucked from behind hand firmly round my throat....love it |
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Any guy who tries that on me in the future will get more than he bargained for.
I hate it.
Stems from my violent father dragging me around by the hair. It brings back horrible memories.
I have told men before playing not to touch my hair but once their dicks become excited all feelings of respect disappear! |
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"Any guy who tries that on me in the future will get more than he bargained for.
I hate it.
Stems from my violent father dragging me around by the hair. It brings back horrible memories.
I have told men before playing not to touch my hair but once their dicks become excited all feelings of respect disappear! "
Sorry to hear about the abuse and men should respect your choi. |
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"Any guy who tries that on me in the future will get more than he bargained for.
I hate it.
Stems from my violent father dragging me around by the hair. It brings back horrible memories.
I have told men before playing not to touch my hair but once their dicks become excited all feelings of respect disappear!
Sorry to hear about the abuse and men should respect your choi."
It’s made me not wishing to do certain sexual acts because men don’t listen..... |
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"Any guy who tries that on me in the future will get more than he bargained for.
I hate it.
Stems from my violent father dragging me around by the hair. It brings back horrible memories.
I have told men before playing not to touch my hair but once their dicks become excited all feelings of respect disappear!
Sorry to hear about the abuse and men should respect your choi.
It’s made me not wishing to do certain sexual acts because men don’t listen....."
I am sorry to hear it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs loves it! Being fucked on her hands and knees, arse lightly spanked and hair tugged at! Amazing for me to watch her being taken like that too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Turn off if it's pulled hard and causes pain turn on if held and used to control the head...."
yea, or just held for the feeling of gentle pressure. |
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"Turn off if it's pulled hard and causes pain turn on if held and used to control the head....
yea, or just held for the feeling of gentle pressure.
marvellous"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me . Mrs P |
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I love hair pulling. Especially during doggystyle! Though it has to be done right otherwise its painful for the woman. And not the good type of pain either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many don’t know how to play with hair safely, getting close to the scalp, and instead yank on the ends which is likely to cause more pain and damage the hair.
But each to their own."
agree hubby knows how to do this when to and when not to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A must..... xx |
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"A must..... xx"
You sais it perfectly. Your beautiful hair looks designed for it. |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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I used to see a lady who loved her hair pulled. I quite enjoyed it but not something I would do unless asked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A must..... xx
You sais it perfectly. Your beautiful hair looks designed for it. "
Even better in bunches so my head can be controlled xxx |
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I do not mind hair pulling in certain situations as long as it does not come out in someones hands. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hair pulling is part of our play but I wouldn’t let other guys do it, a privilege for me etc |
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"Hair pulling is part of our play but I wouldn’t let other guys do it, a privilege for me etc "
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
When done by a person I know..... I love it
V x |
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"When done by a person I know..... I love it
V x "
Need trust
X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like having my hair pulled when I’m giving oral |
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"Bend me over one hand with my hair wrapped in it pulling, other hand scratching my back, slapping or playing with my arse "
Ditto |
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