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over a year ago
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What do you like? What/who interests you?
Don't rush. Spend time learning what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Find people that are right for you. As your confidence grows you might look to branch out (so to speak), or you might choose to stay with a select group with select interests. Whatever makes you happy, that's the important thing.
Go into things with no expectations and pressure, on yourself or others. Nothing wrong with just a social or going to a club to get a feel and not playing, or even getting undressed.
Don't get disheartened by rejection, expect it, but keep trying with others. If you're nice, have a good profile, and put some effort in (and show it) you'll stand out from the crowd and find people.
Be honest with yourself and others about what you really want/do.
That's the best I've got. But if you want your first experience to be a 50 guy no holes barred bareback gangbang in a club dungeon with a gagged and bound girl while hitting her with a paddle or whip then go for it! No one has a right to judge.
Enjoy and good luck xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you like? What/who interests you?
Don't rush. Spend time learning what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Find people that are right for you. As your confidence grows you might look to branch out (so to speak), or you might choose to stay with a select group with select interests. Whatever makes you happy, that's the important thing.
Go into things with no expectations and pressure, on yourself or others. Nothing wrong with just a social or going to a club to get a feel and not playing, or even getting undressed.
Don't get disheartened by rejection, expect it, but keep trying with others. If you're nice, have a good profile, and put some effort in (and show it) you'll stand out from the crowd and find people.
Be honest with yourself and others about what you really want/do.
That's the best I've got. But if you want your first experience to be a 50 guy no holes barred bareback gangbang in a club dungeon with a gagged and bound girl while hitting her with a paddle or whip then go for it! No one has a right to judge.
Enjoy and good luck xx"
very good advice |
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Figure out what you’re looking for in particular first of all, don’t be scared to say no to things if it’s not what you want.
Be polite and courteous, nobody likes an arsehole.
But mostly explore the scene and respect your own and other peoples limits.
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"What do you like? What/who interests you?
Don't rush. Spend time learning what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Find people that are right for you. As your confidence grows you might look to branch out (so to speak), or you might choose to stay with a select group with select interests. Whatever makes you happy, that's the important thing.
Go into things with no expectations and pressure, on yourself or others. Nothing wrong with just a social or going to a club to get a feel and not playing, or even getting undressed.
Don't get disheartened by rejection, expect it, but keep trying with others. If you're nice, have a good profile, and put some effort in (and show it) you'll stand out from the crowd and find people.
Be honest with yourself and others about what you really want/do.
That's the best I've got. But if you want your first experience to be a 50 guy no holes barred bareback gangbang in a club dungeon with a gagged and bound girl while hitting her with a paddle or whip then go for it! No one has a right to judge.
Enjoy and good luck xx"
Now where do we go about signing up for that last part  |
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"What advice would you give to someone who wants to try swinging but is scared of taking the plunge?
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Go for it. What can go wrong if you feel secure even enough to talk about it.  |
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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
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"What do you like? What/who interests you?
Don't rush. Spend time learning what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Find people that are right for you. As your confidence grows you might look to branch out (so to speak), or you might choose to stay with a select group with select interests. Whatever makes you happy, that's the important thing.
Go into things with no expectations and pressure, on yourself or others. Nothing wrong with just a social or going to a club to get a feel and not playing, or even getting undressed.
Don't get disheartened by rejection, expect it, but keep trying with others. If you're nice, have a good profile, and put some effort in (and show it) you'll stand out from the crowd and find people.
Be honest with yourself and others about what you really want/do.
That's the best I've got. But if you want your first experience to be a 50 guy no holes barred bareback gangbang in a club dungeon with a gagged and bound girl while hitting her with a paddle or whip then go for it! No one has a right to judge.
Enjoy and good luck xx"
This is excellent advice, other than that chat to nice people and have a few socials which are a good laugh anyway.
Above all else go at your own pace and only as far as you want to go.
Enjoy!  |
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"What do you like? What/who interests you?
Don't rush. Spend time learning what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Find people that are right for you. As your confidence grows you might look to branch out (so to speak), or you might choose to stay with a select group with select interests. Whatever makes you happy, that's the important thing.
Go into things with no expectations and pressure, on yourself or others. Nothing wrong with just a social or going to a club to get a feel and not playing, or even getting undressed.
Don't get disheartened by rejection, expect it, but keep trying with others. If you're nice, have a good profile, and put some effort in (and show it) you'll stand out from the crowd and find people.
Be honest with yourself and others about what you really want/do.
That's the best I've got. But if you want your first experience to be a 50 guy no holes barred bareback gangbang in a club dungeon with a gagged and bound girl while hitting her with a paddle or whip then go for it! No one has a right to judge.
Enjoy and good luck xx
This is excellent advice, other than that chat to nice people and have a few socials which are a good laugh anyway.
Above all else go at your own pace and only as far as you want to go.
Enjoy! "
I couldn't have said it better myself! Great advice to adhere to. |
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"What advice would you give to someone who wants to try swinging but is scared of taking the plunge?
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What would you tell them OP?
You say in your profile that you’re not new to the scene after all.... |
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"What advice would you give to someone who wants to try swinging but is scared of taking the plunge?
What would you tell them OP?
You say in your profile that you’re not new to the scene after all...."
I will sy"Take the plunge' it is worth it |
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