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Ladies i am unusual in that it takes me 1hr of sex before i can orgasam.reason for this bad chialdhood so can never fully relax to orgasam.ive had many women say arnt you enjoying it you havent cum but i am rock hard.do women prefer fast orgasam or 1hr like me |
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I get the feeling the OP is looking for some reassurance.
In the sense of how long I guess some may be pleased and some may find it too much, if you connect with somebody it will be somebody that no doubt understands what you have to do. Conversely; if a woman took that long to orgasm then a lot of guys would give up, the expectation is that we don’t and that’s absolutely right! |
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"No one wants to have sex non stop for an hour, it will get painful
I'd happily take that
Be disappointed with less
An hour of non stop penetration....you'd actually enjoy that?"
I wouldn’t. I had that once, almost an hour and a half of penetration in missionary, no variation. I was bored stiff, and pretty sore by the end of it, because I got dry. He was so pleased with himself for how long he’d lasted that I didn’t have the heart to tell him. |
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As for OP, as you have a psychological problem that causes this, I think you should probably consider therapy. Whether that should be a trauma therapist, a sex therapist, or both, I don’t know. But I do think you’d benefit from it. |
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"As for OP, as you have a psychological problem that causes this, I think you should probably consider therapy. Whether that should be a trauma therapist, a sex therapist, or both, I don’t know. But I do think you’d benefit from it."
^ this |
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"As for OP, as you have a psychological problem that causes this, I think you should probably consider therapy. Whether that should be a trauma therapist, a sex therapist, or both, I don’t know. But I do think you’d benefit from it.
^ this"
There’s such a stigma around having therapy of any kind, even now, but it’s been incredibly beneficial for me over the years. |
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Most of my psychological and sexual issues stem from being abused by a very sick couple as a kid. The guilt and shame associated will never entirely go away, but seeking counselling / therapy will help a lot if you haven't already done so please do it as soon as possible. |
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Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions |
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"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions"
I think you’ve misunderstood the majority of the comments. No-one said they prefer “wham bam”, but an hour of penetrative sex without any oral or other stimulation becomes boring and even painful for a lot of women. Worse than that, many women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Also three orgasms in an hour doesn’t seem like a great outcome for most women, honestly.
If you don’t want to pursue therapy, that’s up to you, but it’s not ok to get passive aggressive when women say they don’t like to have sex the way you describe it. |
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"As for OP, as you have a psychological problem that causes this, I think you should probably consider therapy. Whether that should be a trauma therapist, a sex therapist, or both, I don’t know. But I do think you’d benefit from it."
Totally agree. 
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"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions
I think you’ve misunderstood the majority of the comments. No-one said they prefer “wham bam”, but an hour of penetrative sex without any oral or other stimulation becomes boring and even painful for a lot of women. Worse than that, many women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Also three orgasms in an hour doesn’t seem like a great outcome for most women, honestly.
If you don’t want to pursue therapy, that’s up to you, but it’s not ok to get passive aggressive when women say they don’t like to have sex the way you describe it."
Passive aggressive? |
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"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions
I think you’ve misunderstood the majority of the comments. No-one said they prefer “wham bam”, but an hour of penetrative sex without any oral or other stimulation becomes boring and even painful for a lot of women. Worse than that, many women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Also three orgasms in an hour doesn’t seem like a great outcome for most women, honestly.
If you don’t want to pursue therapy, that’s up to you, but it’s not ok to get passive aggressive when women say they don’t like to have sex the way you describe it.
Passive aggressive? "
Yes. The whole tone of the post I quoted was one of “you’re all in the wrong for not liking it”. |
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"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions
I think you’ve misunderstood the majority of the comments. No-one said they prefer “wham bam”, but an hour of penetrative sex without any oral or other stimulation becomes boring and even painful for a lot of women. Worse than that, many women can’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Also three orgasms in an hour doesn’t seem like a great outcome for most women, honestly.
If you don’t want to pursue therapy, that’s up to you, but it’s not ok to get passive aggressive when women say they don’t like to have sex the way you describe it.
Passive aggressive?
Yes. The whole tone of the post I quoted was one of “you’re all in the wrong for not liking it”."
The "tone" of the written word is subjective and open to vast misinterpretation. Nowhere in his written word does he say "you're all in the wrong for not liking it"
They are your words,,, as are passive aggressive.
Which in my opinion are OTT
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the sugestion the specialist said its nothing short of a miracle that i am normal i shud be like hanibal lecter.just my luck that no woman enjoys long deep slow sensual sex in many positions for over 1hr i guess most women like wham bam.but with my prob i luv to give women the long slow burne .usualy women have 3 to my one .so i guess its just greedy girls in the future who like to have orgasam after orgasam all nite long.thank for all youre opinions"
Think you need to report your “specialist”, their job is to extract information, not plant it.
Sorry OP you are starting to come across incongruent. |
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