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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello! I really want to give light BDSM a try either with a couple or a single female  However with me being so young this is something that I am finding haard to find. Any tips or advice would be appreciated? |
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I would class light bdsm as being chained upside down to a saltire with electrodes on my testicles and a rectal probe inserted
Heavy bdsm would include being nailed to the cross, water boarding and branding
It's how I get my kicks, so what do you have in mind to start? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice would be to read up on the subject... To think about what sort of things you have in mind..
You always need to have an idea of what your looking for.
perhaps sign up to the bdsm sites and have a read around..
Good luck
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it is something I have yet to try so it would be more just the people I am with who decides what :/ x"
You haven't really thought this through have you...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the advice so far My ideal thing would be being a sub to a woman! Tied up with no control of what she could do to me. We can dream ey!"
What she could do to you with no guidance or limits from you encompasses quite a lot. And she may not really know what she's doing herself. Do some research and choose your play partner for this very carefully, please! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some clues...
Do you want to be spanked? Beaten? What with (hairbrush/slipper/crop/cane/flogged/whip/etc)? Do you mind being bruised? Where/where not? How about being beaten until blood is drawn?
Do you want things shoved up your bum?
How about things being inserted into your urethra?
Pegs? Clamps? Weights? Being trampled in heels? Being Pissed on? Spat on? Dressed as a sissy? Called names and humiliated? Being forced to drink piss? Foot worship? Boot worship?
Breathplay? Lead round on a lead? Fed from a dog bowl?
I know you said "light" but everyone has a different idea of what that means.
Maybe find a couple of BDSM checklists online and look at those. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its just tieing and gagging, the feeling of being not in control light whips but no extreme pain. Being miss treated, verbally abused and being used as a 'fuck' toy. Its hard to say exactly what I want at the moment I think I just need to research and give some stuff a try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the last time I'll try and get this across. If you do not clearly specify your limits you may get a nasty surprise. Especially if you are gagged.
If you're gagged make certain you agree a safe signal, meaning Stop! beforehand.
And just remember some people nail other people's cocks/balls/toes to bits of wood for mutual kicks. NEVER say you have no limits, want to try New things and they should use you as they like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone starts somewhere..
When I met my Master I was clueless...
To be honest if I had been asked what I wanted back then I couldnt have told you..
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some clues...
Do you want to be spanked? Beaten? What with (hairbrush/slipper/crop/cane/flogged/whip/etc)? Do you mind being bruised? Where/where not? How about being beaten until blood is drawn?
Do you want things shoved up your bum?Ye a lot of your list is my list ! Love it when I plan comes together
How about things being inserted into your urethra?
Pegs? Clamps? Weights? Being trampled in heels? Being Pissed on? Spat on? Dressed as a sissy? Called names and humiliated? Being forced to drink piss? Foot worship? Boot worship?
Breathplay? Lead round on a lead? Fed from a dog bowl?
I know you said "light" but everyone has a different idea of what that means.
Maybe find a couple of BDSM checklists online and look at those."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its just tieing and gagging, the feeling of being not in control light whips but no extreme pain. Being miss treated, verbally abused and being used as a 'fuck' toy.
Thats called 'being married' !!!  "
No, he said no extreme pain |
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