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Can accommodate, but can’t!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah but, no but?
What is with this??
Just be honest!!
We can’t accommodate because of children at home.
 
Well I can if your ever in the area lol xx "
Cheeky! |
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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago
Worcestershire |
"Yeah but, no but?
What is with this??
Just be honest!!
We can’t accommodate because of children at home.
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I think that's very common for couples.
I can accommodate for select people who are discreet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t like fab meets in my home.
Prefer hotels.
Thats subject to change if its heading towards a long term situation but for one offs hotels work.
Most ppl have genuine reasons for not hosting.
I suppose the same rules could be applied to traveling. Some don't mind trekking across the country for meets, others prefer to stay local. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but, no but?
What is with this??
Just be honest!!
We can’t accommodate because of children at home.
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We can’t accommodate for the same reason, coupled with ‘rona and our cautious approach to trying out the lifestyle we are often met with suspicion which can be a little frustrating! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but, no but?
What is with this??
Just be honest!!
We can’t accommodate because of children at home.
Well I can if your ever in the area lol xx
Cheeky! "
Always |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
When I was on here in my previous incarnation, I couldn't accommodate, I lived on work premises, and held large amounts of cash and booze.
Since getting my own place away from work that no longer applies |
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I can accommodate but prefer not to initially as I live pretty remote so it's more a trust issue with me. However that's a double edged sword, as I'm not sure a lady would want to drive to the middle of nowhere. So socials are a must for me |
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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"Best one is
Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing "
Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile says I can't but I can
A pointless effort at deterring attached men ..l"
Haha I'm similar
It doesn't work - but if I don't get invited to their house then they don't get invited in my vagina or my home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best one is
Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing
Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple "
Get that but how a meet can be planned?
To pick up or by using public transport
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
Almost every man I've spoken to who has can accommodate on their profile has said they can't, as they have moved back home, or someone has moved in with them.
That's not people who accommodate in hotels.
I really don't know what the problem with that is.
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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"Best one is
Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing
Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple
Get that but how a meet can be planned?
To pick up or by using public transport
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Always public transport/taxi after meeting socially first.
Its amazing how many say they can accommodate & after meeting socially (pre covid) can't & are actually married or in a relationship. Wasted mine & there time so I make it clear on my profile. |
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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"Best one is
Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing
Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple
Get that but how a meet can be planned?
To pick up or by using public transport
Always public transport/taxi after meeting socially first.
Its amazing how many say they can accommodate & after meeting socially (pre covid) can't & are actually married or in a relationship. Wasted mine & there time so I make it clear on my profile. "
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I went all the way to the Embankment by tube once, to find out after an hour of chatting that the person had just moved in with housemates and couldn't accommodate.
Then was looking around for an alley for a quick blow job.
That's when I stopped doing socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t like fab meets in my home.
Prefer hotels.
Thats subject to change if its heading towards a long term situation but for one offs hotels work.
Most ppl have genuine reasons for not hosting.
I suppose the same rules could be applied to traveling. Some don't mind trekking across the country for meets, others prefer to stay local. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Almost every man I've spoken to who has can accommodate on their profile has said they can't, as they have moved back home, or someone has moved in with them.
That's not people who accommodate in hotels.
I really don't know what the problem with that is.
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 it's amazing how many adult males live with other people or with parents on here 
Or are single fathers - which make up such a small percentage on the planet- it appears they're all on Fab |
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"Best one is
Can't accommodate and can't travel status. More confusing
Not at all...can't accommodate as have three teenagers who all go to college but at least one will be at home. Can't travel as I'm not looking for anyone outside of the town I live, pretty simple "
At least you explain on your profile. Congrats on the Uni job btw! |
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This does my head in.
I can't accommodate due to children at home too.
I specify on my profile that the male must be able to accommodate, otherwise they're wasting both our time by messaging, right?
So I've gone on socials with guys only to find out they can't accom when their profile says they can. So frustrating! |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"I don’t like fab meets in my home.
Prefer hotels.
Thats subject to change if its heading towards a long term situation but for one offs hotels work.
Most ppl have genuine reasons for not hosting.
I suppose the same rules could be applied to traveling. Some don't mind trekking across the country for meets, others prefer to stay local. "
I also prefer hotels .. neutral ground and all that. I have my youngest still at home which makes accommodating difficult but not impossible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My home is my private space, if a meet is not going well, I can get up and walk away, not easy to do if in my own home. Plus being a si gle woman in a rural area its not safe to do so, plus teenage boys lol don't think they would be impressed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This does my head in.
I can't accommodate due to children at home too.
I specify on my profile that the male must be able to accommodate, otherwise they're wasting both our time by messaging, right?
So I've gone on socials with guys only to find out they can't accom when their profile says they can. So frustrating!"
Do they think been caught out lying at the social stage isn't going to effect the chance of a meet following?
How you called them out on the lie? What was the reason / excuse?
KJ |
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Ye and this one can’t accom and can’t travel ??? We can accommodate and do
Some view/ define 'travel' as a long distance expedition,rather than just a few stops on a bus, few minutes walking/driving. They should take it a bit more literally. |
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"Yeah but, no but?
What is with this??
Just be honest!!
We can’t accommodate because of children at home.
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Tell them they need to raise £350k for a local charity, give then a tent and then kick then out into the back garden. Once they are there invite everyone round for hard core sexual pleasure. Simples... |
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