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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
I was once asked if I'd like hot wax on my nipples. Uuhhh, not my thing I'm afraid. Kick me in the balls instead please.
What have you been asked to do that crossed your boundaries and the answer was simply "No". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be fully dominated by another woman from a couple and call her Miss .... from then on.
Her x
Was it the dom aspect that put you off or something else?"
We'd only been on the site no longer than a month, it was all a bit too much!  |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts |
Yesterday I got offered to cat fight with a woman, by a man. When I asked what I get out of this he said its hot and would give me adrenaline to want to get fucked..... this was a no for me! |
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"so much stuff. been asked if they can get me pregnant, if i can dress/ act like an under age girl, if i can beat them up/ be beaten up, asked if they could shave my head and keep the hair"
Seriously what is wrong with some people. This is why its still a taboo subject in everyday life as everyone thinks "within reason" that's what swinging is. |
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"Yesterday I got offered to cat fight with a woman, by a man. When I asked what I get out of this he said its hot and would give me adrenaline to want to get fucked..... this was a no for me!"
Don't blame you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would I be a gift for her husband on his birthday.. hard pass thanks. "
I’ve been a gift for someone’s wife a while ago. Was a bloody good evening and night to be honest. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"so much stuff. been asked if they can get me pregnant, if i can dress/ act like an under age girl, if i can beat them up/ be beaten up, asked if they could shave my head and keep the hair"
Blimey! So much so wrong in that list. It's quite disturbing that anyone has an underage desire even as a fantasy. Barely legal at least is acceptable. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block."
Why did you have to eat sweetcorn and mushroom if HE was going to shit on you?!
I'm not saying the whole thing was acceptable in the first place, lmao, but the whole process seems topsy turvy. |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block.
Why did you have to eat sweetcorn and mushroom if HE was going to shit on you?!
I'm not saying the whole thing was acceptable in the first place, lmao, but the whole process seems topsy turvy."
Or maybe arse about face  |
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"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block.
Why did you have to eat sweetcorn and mushroom if HE was going to shit on you?!
I'm not saying the whole thing was acceptable in the first place, lmao, but the whole process seems topsy turvy."
It is a little confusing, certainly. |
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"A guy once asked if he could shit on me. But I had to eat sweetcorn and mushrooms the night before. Just ewww instant block.
Why did you have to eat sweetcorn and mushroom if HE was going to shit on you?!
I'm not saying the whole thing was acceptable in the first place, lmao, but the whole process seems topsy turvy.
Or maybe arse about face "
 lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once got asked to be part of a cock and balls torture scenario, sorry but that was a hard no for me. Literally wanted the full works stomping on it, kicking his crotch etc. Literally does nothing for me and was worried about causing actual damage |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Was once asked to burst a balloon on the end of a guys dick as he came"
Oh my days. Haha. Where the fuck do people get this shit from.
You know, when I started this thread I never thought I would get stuff as random as this! |
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"so much stuff. been asked if they can get me pregnant, if i can dress/ act like an under age girl, if i can beat them up/ be beaten up, asked if they could shave my head and keep the hair
Blimey! So much so wrong in that list. It's quite disturbing that anyone has an underage desire even as a fantasy. Barely legal at least is acceptable."
yeah i did end up reporting him, he was asking me to act as a literal child, like 13/14- i was just disgusted tbh i’m already young so whenever a guy asks me to act young i get wary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the last week or so, same guy keeps messaging and without going into specifics, his scenario involved a labradour and an alsation.
Instantly blocked, but I assume he deletes his profile, then sets it up again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m fairly open minded so I don’t mind people suggesting their fantasies.
However, I really dislike being told what someone wants to do to/with me before I’ve even spoken to them. |
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Ours quite boring compared to 99% on here ! but normally it's stuff we say we have "Interest" at all ..but the fave in the current climate is if they can buy mrs4 knickers ?? but been informed a fair few times what of they were going to do to mrs4 ..lmao  |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Over the last week or so, same guy keeps messaging and without going into specifics, his scenario involved a labradour and an alsation.
Instantly blocked, but I assume he deletes his profile, then sets it up again."
There are at least 3 here (including one in private) who have cited someone asking to involve dogs in their sex games.
Are some people presuming an incorrect definition of "dogging"?! Lol |
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Had a guy wanting to beat me up and abuse my face, when i said no he continued to ask while offering to pay. Safe to say he got blocked but he made a new account asking me to do similar but with his friends. Creeped me out and nearly quit fab cause of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a guy wanting to beat me up and abuse my face, when i said no he continued to ask while offering to pay. Safe to say he got blocked but he made a new account asking me to do similar but with his friends. Creeped me out and nearly quit fab cause of it"
That really is a whole new level of creepy and I think I would have been the same as you about wanting to quit 
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"Had a guy wanting to beat me up and abuse my face, when i said no he continued to ask while offering to pay. Safe to say he got blocked but he made a new account asking me to do similar but with his friends. Creeped me out and nearly quit fab cause of it
That really is a whole new level of creepy and I think I would have been the same as you about wanting to quit
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Thankfully he disappeared but he made me lose trust in all guys and im yet to get that back (this was about 3 years ago ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get the usual ones... rent/loan the Mrs out... buy her used underwear and toys.... get her pregnant... the weirdest one was they wanted to tie me to a chair and force a cock into my mouth... then fuck me in the bottom while my wife watches... I'm fairly open minded but erm nope.... jog on... Still getting messages from strange people beginning to think we attract them |
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"Had a guy wanting to beat me up and abuse my face, when i said no he continued to ask while offering to pay. Safe to say he got blocked but he made a new account asking me to do similar but with his friends. Creeped me out and nearly quit fab cause of it
That really is a whole new level of creepy and I think I would have been the same as you about wanting to quit
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Agreed - whilst there are some odd kinks on here most are pretty harmless; but harassing someone in that way when they’ve made it clear that they’re not interested really isn’t on. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"First message - your fit can I lick your asshole 
Erm that's a nope and delete from me
Lexi"
So what part of that offended you? Lmao
Personally I think the americanised use of asshole versus arsehole would have put me off. Haha. |
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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago
Bridgwater, Somerset |
"First message - your fit can I lick your asshole
Erm that's a nope and delete from me
Lexi
So what part of that offended you? Lmao
Personally I think the americanised use of asshole versus arsehole would have put me off. Haha."
I'm not overly keen on the act in general to be honest and to request it from the first message is rather off-putting
Plus don't get me started on misspelt words  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whenever someone offers something to try and entice you into meeting.
“I have drinks” “I have *illegal substance*” “I have shoes/clothes you can have”
I’ve had all of those multiple times... it’s an instant no from me. If I wanted any of those things I’m far beyond capable of getting them myself. I find it very patronising and condescending (not to mention I find sex involving any kind of substances to be a real turn off and quite scary. Not for me). |
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"Whenever someone offers something to try and entice you into meeting.
“I have drinks” “I have *illegal substance*” “I have shoes/clothes you can have”
I’ve had all of those multiple times... it’s an instant no from me. If I wanted any of those things I’m far beyond capable of getting them myself. I find it very patronising and condescending (not to mention I find sex involving any kind of substances to be a real turn off and quite scary. Not for me)."
I get that alot, i dont mind a drink now and then and some fun but it really turns me off when they use that to entice you, or cash. Ive had alot of "illegal" offers too and its an immediate block. |
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A couple on a first meet wanted to fist my ass. The Wife luckily said no but they were like let us show you it's great fun we declined and in fairness they didnt being it up again and we ended up having an great night without fisting in any shape or form |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"I was approached a few years ago for medical play, and I don't mean doctors and nurses.
A definite no from me
Intriguing. What’s medical play?  "
they had a room set up with looked like an operating table, needles and blades, freaked me out a bit |
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"I was once asked if I'd like hot wax on my nipples. Uuhhh, not my thing I'm afraid. Kick me in the balls instead please.
What have you been asked to do that crossed your boundaries and the answer was simply "No"."
Being fucked by a bloke. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I was approached a few years ago for medical play, and I don't mean doctors and nurses.
A definite no from me
Intriguing. What’s medical play? they had a room set up with looked like an operating table, needles and blades, freaked me out a bit"
Medfet is a broad category, not just needles or cutting. For some its gyno play using speculums and spreaders, others use suturing of eyes, lips, labia.
Its edge play and not something you shlukd enter into lightly. |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I was approached a few years ago for medical play, and I don't mean doctors and nurses.
A definite no from me
Intriguing. What’s medical play? they had a room set up with looked like an operating table, needles and blades, freaked me out a bit
Medfet is a broad category, not just needles or cutting. For some its gyno play using speculums and spreaders, others use suturing of eyes, lips, labia.
Its edge play and not something you shlukd enter into lightly."
Not enter into lightly??!! No flipping kidding if I'm gonna have my eyes and lips sutured! |
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By *izzy69 OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"A couple on a first meet wanted to fist my ass. The Wife luckily said no but they were like let us show you it's great fun we declined and in fairness they didnt being it up again and we ended up having an great night without fisting in any shape or form "
I see....so you gave them the finger on fisting but made a good fist of fingering each other.... |
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