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do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
Nothing that I wouldn't have with men from anywhere else.
Sex is sex for me, regardless of where I met the man from.
I don't have a partner to have to keep anything just for him, or only be intimate with, so I can do what I want.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing other than our rules that are always in place...
Can I ask...why would you do those things with someone you met outside fab but not fab meets?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. "
Idle curiosity but why do you only have limits in place for fab? |
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"Nothing other than our rules that are always in place...
Can I ask...why would you do those things with someone you met outside fab but not fab meets?
Lu "
just because in my experience with fab meets if i don’t set these limits then they’ll just take them as a given, and it makes me uncomfortable. natural meets i’ve always found to be more gentle and i’m more comfortable in general x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing other than our rules that are always in place...
Can I ask...why would you do those things with someone you met outside fab but not fab meets?
Lu
just because in my experience with fab meets if i don’t set these limits then they’ll just take them as a given, and it makes me uncomfortable. natural meets i’ve always found to be more gentle and i’m more comfortable in general x"
Fair enough...I've never noticed a difference tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No PPP, or humiliation or being disrespectful. But aside from that no, you can pretty much do what you want. Anything I'd do at home with my husband I'd do on a meet xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. "
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I kind of understand the no anal one .... can I ask why no kissing or nipple play?
Nipple play is just kissing and touching the nipples I guess (in my head it is unless I’m not doing something right ha).
Anal can hurt but in general kissing doesn’t ? Genuinely curious x
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. "
I can understand you not wanting to do anal, maybe just understand not kissing but I can’t for he life of me understand why you wouldn’t want nipple play. But I am male so maybe never understand x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also I have no boundaries at all...
Iv met couples but I don’t meet any that say no kissing as I like to kiss and it feels unnatural for me to not kiss. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
Since I play alone, there aren’t acts that I would feel threatened by if a partner did them or consider too “intimate”, such as kissing etc.
And I narrow down the list of people I could potentially meet by chatting online and then socials, so by the time we do have sex I would want it to be as intimate and pleasurable as possible... not a mechanical act of fucking. I can use toys for that. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"I stay away from these with 'up their own arse' lists because majority of the time they are nothing special themselves"
Not sure how having limits/boundaries makes people 'up their own arse'? |
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"I just seen it’s a couples profile so I get the no kissing rule - completely missed that! "
oh no i’m not a couple profile haha it randomly changed a few days ago i’m in the process of fixing that, i just don’t like kissing lol i find it gross haha |
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"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. m
I kind of understand the no anal one .... can I ask why no kissing or nipple play?
Nipple play is just kissing and touching the nipples I guess (in my head it is unless I’m not doing something right ha).
Anal can hurt but in general kissing doesn’t ? Genuinely curious x
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just cuz i have pierced nipples and so if it isn’t done gently it can hurt more or cause issues with the piercings, so i rule that out by just saying to leave them alone. because on my first few fab meets it wasn’t gentle nipple play, they were really rough with them and it hurt and caused issues! also i just find kissing in general quite gross, maybe i’m weird haha but i don’t like being kissed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. m
I kind of understand the no anal one .... can I ask why no kissing or nipple play?
Nipple play is just kissing and touching the nipples I guess (in my head it is unless I’m not doing something right ha).
Anal can hurt but in general kissing doesn’t ? Genuinely curious x
just cuz i have pierced nipples and so if it isn’t done gently it can hurt more or cause issues with the piercings, so i rule that out by just saying to leave them alone. because on my first few fab meets it wasn’t gentle nipple play, they were really rough with them and it hurt and caused issues! also i just find kissing in general quite gross, maybe i’m weird haha but i don’t like being kissed x"
That’s completely fair enough. We can’t all like the same thing.
I have a nipple pierced and someone did accident rip it out once but I think the ball was loose on one side so I let them off lol |
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"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. m
I kind of understand the no anal one .... can I ask why no kissing or nipple play?
Nipple play is just kissing and touching the nipples I guess (in my head it is unless I’m not doing something right ha).
Anal can hurt but in general kissing doesn’t ? Genuinely curious x
just cuz i have pierced nipples and so if it isn’t done gently it can hurt more or cause issues with the piercings, so i rule that out by just saying to leave them alone. because on my first few fab meets it wasn’t gentle nipple play, they were really rough with them and it hurt and caused issues! also i just find kissing in general quite gross, maybe i’m weird haha but i don’t like being kissed x
That’s completely fair enough. We can’t all like the same thing.
I have a nipple pierced and someone did accident rip it out once but I think the ball was loose on one side so I let them off lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I stay away from these with 'up their own arse' lists because majority of the time they are nothing special themselves"
People are entitled to have boundaries, and should feel they are respected, rather than them being a bad thing.
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By *wing66Couple
over a year ago
Burton-upon-trent |
"Yes of course I thought everyone had “boundary’s”
We have no kissing others ( apart from girl girl)
And then some more assumed ones like no anal etc"
Kissing is a must for us on a meet, makes it so much more passionate |
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"the main ones I've been asked to adhere to are either "no kissing" or "no anal"
I'm fine with what others want, and don't have massive interest in anal to start with."
Same here, I think I’d need to sit on my hands to keep away from the nipples though  |
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"I stay away from these with 'up their own arse' lists because majority of the time they are nothing special themselves
People are entitled to have boundaries, and should feel they are respected, rather than them being a bad thing.
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Exactly. Everyone needs to be comfortable and relaxed or the fun is just one sided. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. "
Not to pour scorn on your choices but that kind of meet sounds incredibly austere. Basically just PIV and done?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutes for me are be clean, be respectful and condoms for full sex. Personally I'm not into inflicting pain or scat, but otherwise I'm pretty laid back and like to get to know what others like. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"It is making a distinction between Fab meets and meets from elsewhere I find baffling.
why? i just feel more comfortable with natural meets. i still enjoy fab meets, but i’m more wary. "
So IMO it’s quite common. One that I discovered on fab and had this rule myself as a couple , is couples that avoid single men or women who play with single men. |
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"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place.
Not to pour scorn on your choices but that kind of meet sounds incredibly austere. Basically just PIV and done?
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maybe that’s how it seems. i still have lots of fun with my partners and we find lots of ways to enjoy it, but those are my limits and they’re always clear before i meet anyone so if they don’t like it they don’t have to do anything at all. it’s just how i like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My limits are more emotional than physical (though yes of course there’s physical limits).
I don’t want anyone on fab to try and become friends or develop feelings in any meaningful way. I’ll stop messaging if I sense that happening. I like to keep everything as fun and lighthearted as possible, without strings
Weird eh? But that’s me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do any of you guys have limits specifically for fab meets? i’m quite strict- i don’t allow kissing, nipple play or anal with fab meets. i do it for meets from other places, but here i always keep these limits in place. "
I don’t have any particular limits beyond the norm, as such. That said, I will see what others limits are and maybe use that as a guide as to whether I’d meet. I’m quite a sensual person, so most likely wouldn’t meet someone who doesn’t kiss for instance. |
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My boundaries and limits are not specific to fab, and I don't understand why they might be specific for fab.
I use condoms with anyone I'm not married to.
That's basically the boundary. None of my likes or interests are off the table. |
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