"Does this happen a lot on here?"
If you mean they send a friend request then once you've accepted ignore you, yes it happens a lot. If you've got friends only pictures it's often because they want to see them |
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"Does this happen a lot on here?
If you mean they send a friend request then once you've accepted ignore you, yes it happens a lot. If you've got friends only pictures it's often because they want to see them"
That is a terrible attitude!
Come to think about it, I think you are right! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"Does this happen a lot on here?
If you mean they send a friend request then once you've accepted ignore you, yes it happens a lot. If you've got friends only pictures it's often because they want to see them"
Spot on
Hence why most people only accept them from people they've met or spoken to for a while. |
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"Does this happen a lot on here?
If you mean they send a friend request then once you've accepted ignore you, yes it happens a lot. If you've got friends only pictures it's often because they want to see them
Spot on
Hence why most people only accept them from people they've met or spoken to for a while. "
I should follow this advice |
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"Does this happen a lot on here?
If you mean they send a friend request then once you've accepted ignore you, yes it happens a lot. If you've got friends only pictures it's often because they want to see them"
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was recently chatting and getting on really well with a women on here. We chatted in the phone, shared pics and videos. Next thing I was blocked and haven’t heard from her since. She is still active in fab in the forums. Puzzled  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, I've had people chat and chat then go silent. I assume it's because they feel we haven't hit it off but I do wish they would just say so instead of awkwardly slinking away.
I've only ever blocked people for repeatedly asking for meets during lockdown despite me saying no again and again. That to me indicates a lack of respect that would make a meet unpleasant anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this happen a lot on here?"
In fairness if I’m chatting with a guy and it turns out I know him, like he works at my daughters school CRINGE then I run for the hills and block  |
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Most people will not be attracted to most other people, so at each part of the getting to know you stage, you will find fewer and fewer people remaining.
This should be your primary expectation here. Every message, photo, conversation and interest review will screen people out. This is very positive for everybody, as it leaves just the more compatible left at each step, whether you decide against others or they decide against you. All of them may have had the dreamiest heights in mind at the start as well as felt disappointment when deleting happens.
If you don't decide on your realistic expectations, prepare to be faced with persistent surprise, shock, tears and stress, all of which were completely avoidable.
Keep your photos updated, stay honest and invest effort in to being realistic - and even more in finding and getting to know people. You will not be attractive to most of them or have matching preferences etc. This is fab life and always has been. |
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