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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe its been a bad week but I really don't know what the hell is going on!!
I've been searching for SINGLE women in my area, now I realise that being a single male makes me about as popular as a fart in a spacesuit with some people BUT the sheer bloody rudeness I've had is beyond a joke.
One 'couple' looked at my profile on Monday (I know this cos I've found the 'who looked at me link'), so not surprisingly I looked at them back. I received a very abrupt email from the woman of the couple telling me I had 'no business looking at them because they weren't looking for single males'. I mailed back and pointed out that THEY looked at me first and their profile did say they were looking for single males.
Immediatly blocked!
I have also been blocked by TWO other 'single' women after I mailed them (politely) having read their profiles and seeing I fitted their requirements/age range/etc. On both occassions they mailed me and said they didn't want contacting by single males - AGAIN even though their own profiles said differently!
I've also reported TWO 'single women' as their profiles (on both occasions) state 'they will only play with their partners' - surely this makes them a couple not bloody single!
I know single males get a bad rap on here but bloody hell when you play by the rules you still get a bad rap cos people don't read their own profiles!!
Makes me wonder exactly what the point is............
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You've done quite well getting a reply at all from a single female on here =P
Seriously though, I know they get bombarded with messages from rude males on here but doesn't excuse the response that you seem to have received after sending a polite message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Touch wood, (yeah yeah) i've not had a shitty response to date, a few polite no thanks a few no replies and that's about it, then again, i haven't mailed every woman or couple in my area (not saying you have) so i might get the same response as you eventually, but hey, it's like talking to women in a bar/nightclub, win some, lose some. no biggie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a single woman on this thread who deletes messages without replying. Oh the hypocrisy of offering advice!!"
**waving hands in the air enthusiastically**
HEY............THAT'S ME  |
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"There is a single woman on this thread who deletes messages without replying. Oh the hypocrisy of offering advice!!**waving hands in the air enthusiastically**
HEY............THAT'S ME "
Judging by other threads you are not alone in your devious, wanton, prickteasing pastime. You hussy, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Now go and sit on the naughty step and I might be along to spank your bum later.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a single woman on this thread who deletes messages without replying. Oh the hypocrisy of offering advice!!**waving hands in the air enthusiastically**
HEY............THAT'S ME
Judging by other threads you are not alone in your devious, wanton, prickteasing pastime. You hussy, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Now go and sit on the naughty step and I might be along to spank your bum later. "
Oh I am thoroughly ashamed........NOT!
but off to the naughty step anyway to await my punishment  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining they said no (thst's not a problem), its their damn right rudeness and how they got arsey with me. At the end of the day I only contacted them cos THEIR OWN profiles were inviting contact from single men.
They may well be inundated by single men contacting them and it is pissing them off, if that is the case they need to UPDATE their bloody profiles instead of getting shitty with genuine contacts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining they said no (thst's not a problem), its their damn right rudeness and how they got arsey with me. At the end of the day I only contacted them cos THEIR OWN profiles were inviting contact from single men.
They may well be inundated by single men contacting them and it is pissing them off, if that is the case they need to UPDATE their bloody profiles instead of getting shitty with genuine contacts."
Or use their filters  |
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"Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining they said no (thst's not a problem), its their damn right rudeness and how they got arsey with me. At the end of the day I only contacted them cos THEIR OWN profiles were inviting contact from single men.
They may well be inundated by single men contacting them and it is pissing them off, if that is the case they need to UPDATE their bloody profiles instead of getting shitty with genuine contacts."
You do have a good point actually, changing their profiles and using their filters would actually help both them and you out.
It also makes me smile when i look in the meets section and it has a message for example saying looking for a meet for tonight, followed by M F MF TV etc and when you click on their profile to message them it has No single males, if only people would put the correct info in it would save time, energy and probably make the site more successful from everyones point of view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"By the time I've got to Shrewsbury I'll need a filter for ma roll up.
Now is it a gentle tanning or a darned good thrashing you require m'Lady "
A filter for your roll up?
how attractive  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"There is a single woman on this thread who deletes messages without replying. Oh the hypocrisy of offering advice!!**waving hands in the air enthusiastically**
HEY............THAT'S ME
Judging by other threads you are not alone in your devious, wanton, prickteasing pastime. You hussy, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Now go and sit on the naughty step and I might be along to spank your bum later. Oh I am thoroughly ashamed........NOT!
but off to the naughty step anyway to await my punishment "
And don't forget your strap on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a single woman on this thread who deletes messages without replying. Oh the hypocrisy of offering advice!!**waving hands in the air enthusiastically**
HEY............THAT'S ME "
Miss Julie - you're a great big liar. The rejection you sent me was one of the nicest, politest I've ever had. So nice in fact that I might write to you again one day... |
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One 'couple' looked at my profile on Monday (I know this cos I've found the 'who looked at me link'), so not surprisingly I looked at them back. I received a very abrupt email from the woman of the couple telling me I had 'no business looking at them because they weren't looking for single males'. I mailed back and pointed out that THEY looked at me first and their profile did say they were looking for single males.
Immediately blocked!
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Maybe it's because you didn't fab their pics.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a single woman on this thread who deletes messages without replying. Oh the hypocrisy of offering advice!!**waving hands in the air enthusiastically**
HEY............THAT'S ME
Miss Julie - you're a great big liar. The rejection you sent me was one of the nicest, politest I've ever had. So nice in fact that I might write to you again one day..."
At least you got a reply, we weren't even worth a polite no.
Pet hate here coming out, we ALWAYS reply to everyone and we get a lot of messages! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a single woman on this thread who deletes messages without replying. Oh the hypocrisy of offering advice!!**waving hands in the air enthusiastically**
HEY............THAT'S ME
Miss Julie - you're a great big liar. The rejection you sent me was one of the nicest, politest I've ever had. So nice in fact that I might write to you again one day...
At least you got a reply, we weren't even worth a polite no.
Pet hate here coming out, we ALWAYS reply to everyone and we get a lot of messages!"
I attached a private note to your profile to remind me why I did not reply, I can remind you too if you like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well yes why not..pity you did not share that or just simply reply no thanks. Clearly you think you are above simple good manners. "
Absolutely not, I pride myself on my manners.
So, after your initial message, that did include face pics, inviting me to play with you both at yours, I asked you to please read my profile, to which you replied quite abruptly demanding a reply as you'd included face pics.
I then asked you to read my entire profile, to which the reply started FFS!!!
At this point I deleted without reading anymore.
My profile clearly states I am not looking for, nor interested in, couples unless I meet them in a club/party situation, nor do I like rudeness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well yes why not..pity you did not share that or just simply reply no thanks. Clearly you think you are above simple good manners. "
You should not be using the forums to air disagreements in relation to private messages, it is not discreet.
So you get lots of messsages, the single lady you massaged saved you a bit of time then by not replaying, ensuring you had an extra couple of minutes to reply to those who have messaged you, a bonus I'd say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No disagreement here, never used these forums before this week either...
We are rather tired of people putting themselves on a pedestal though, lot of it about on this site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No disagreement here, never used these forums before this week either...
We are rather tired of people putting themselves on a pedestal though, lot of it about on this site!"
Absolutely agree with you especially in these forums  |
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"No disagreement here, never used these forums before this week either...
We are rather tired of people putting themselves on a pedestal though, lot of it about on this site!"
Don't read or post then, simples innit (meerkatish type squeek)  |
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Forums are more popular because no one can afford to go to the ever decreasing local pub for a chinwag these days. Sad but true
Still brill for a bit of light hearted banter & full on piss taking though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry about it mate it's all one massive game on here there are loads of bullshitters on here most of them are single girls and couples whos profiles state a load of shit rules and regulations but when you look there only verification is from webcam or a phone call 3 years ago, after a bit you can spot the fakes most of the time just by reading the profile, it's normally the ones with massive long profiles co's they have all the time in the world to sit in and write about them selves while the real Swingers are out shagging haha |
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