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Who has the higher sex drive?
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I don't think the question should be who has a higher sex drive. As in both sexes you'd find people with lower sex drive and higher sex drive. Throughout the centuries, it was always men, however, who were portrayed as having higher sex drive or at least having more sexual partners than women. First, because they had much less stigma from having multiple partners - there is no physical way of finding out whether a man is still a virgin or not. A woman who was no longer a virgin before getting married was treated as "damaged goods". Some still are to this day.
Secondly, the consequences of having sex were (and are) much more serious for women than men as men can't get pregnant.
Wider use of condoms and the invention of the Pill certainly revolutionized the world of sex, where now both genders can enjoy multiple sexual partners without (too many) consequences. Still, though, women who had many sexual partners are called all the bad names whereas men are "stags", "players" etc. Only very recently the term "man whore" has been introduced, but is not yet used as widely as the female equivalent. |
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over a year ago
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There's research that men feel most horny in their late teens early 20s and women in their mid thirties and women get sexually adventurous in their 40 50s and up. |
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"There's research that men feel most horny in their late teens early 20s and women in their mid thirties and women get sexually adventurous in their 40 50s and up."
I must mentally still be in my early twenties then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need help - My G/F has a surfiet of testosterone and that makes her horny as hell 24x7. Sometimes difficult to keep up with her voracious sexual appetite during lockdown. Trying my best though ?? |
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By *unxxxMan
over a year ago
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Iam very shocked, thought it was me as a horny filthy male, or actually a male who just loves sex from a teenager,
It's not just me then women as well fantastic
Hopefully I will find an honest and loyal woman who wants a partner and loves great fun sex
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"My fella thought he thought about sex morning noon and night. Then he met me.  . They say opersits attract, us we just try and out sex each other. Makes for an interesting life. "
Same with me, I think about sex/Women things to do with Women etc all day but when It comes to sex she wins with the endurance and wanting it more |
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I (Mr) have always had a decent sex drive. However I had a girlfriend a few years ago that wanted sex at least 3 times a day, everyday, more at weekends. She couldn’t hold onto a long term boyfriend, to be honest it was just too much. In our marriage my wife definitely has the higher sex drive, that’s why she has 3 fuck buddies on the go at the moment. As she gets older her sex drive increases almost daily ! Not sure if any other women are affected by the moon but when there is a full moon she is totally insatiable. |
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I have always had a high sex drive since being sexually active. Multiple times a day. Where as my husband has always had a low sex drive, he was a once a month man 
I'm going through a marital breakdown atm and even though it's pretty rough, I can still be pretty horny. It took a massive nose dive when my mum was poorly and I was nursing her til she died at Christmas. It's coming gradually. I just need to meet that person/persons when we can that can help me with reviving my actual sex drive again  |
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My findings, as I’ve been around a while..
Men will fuck anything, especially desperate men or those not getting it at home ..
For me my sex drive isn’t what it was 10 years ago.. so I don’t meet that often anymore..
But chatting for years to many many wonderful ladies, I’ve discovered once over 35 ish their sex drive gets higher and higher every year ..
So as men’s settle out, ladies are sky rocketing.. |
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I personally think men have the higher sex drive, judging by their statuses as well. I can't speak for other women but I can control how I feel and because I've not met anyone since early last year I've not been missing sex, more just having the company and a cuddle x |
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"Men or women? Keen to hear people’s views and the reason for their answer
I'm single at the moment but I have always had a higher sex drive than previous boy friends..  "
Same. I find it’s quite common for men to think they have a ‘high’ sex drive and then they can’t keep up... |
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"Still, though, women who had many sexual partners are called all the bad names whereas men are "stags", "players" etc. Only very recently the term "man whore" has been introduced, but is not yet used as widely as the female equivalent. "
While I would fully agree that the disparity in names attached to promiscuous men and women is wrong, wouldn't it be more fun (and thus, to my mind at least, better) if equality came through ditching the negative words, connotations and concepts thrown at women rather than inventing new insults for men?
I'd rather be equal through us all being equally happy than equally sad. |
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