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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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Sorry but I am in one of my purists moods.
1. I know we are on Fab, but why does submission always equates to sexual submission?
2. Why does this sexual submission never seem to differ from ordinary sexual play?
3. How can a "dom/me sub relationship" that is purely consensual vanilla sex play be called D/S?
I am always puzzled by people calling themselves "doms", "masters" and "subs" whose only ability and interest is sexual.
4. It seems a lot of people don'know the difference between a "top" and "dom", "bottom" and "sub". |
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"Sorry but I am in one of my purists moods.
1. I know we are on Fab, but why does submission always equates to sexual submission?
2. Why does this sexual submission never seem to differ from ordinary sexual play?
3. How can a "dom/me sub relationship" that is purely consensual vanilla sex play be called D/S?
I am always puzzled by people calling themselves "doms", "masters" and "subs" whose only ability and interest is sexual.
4. It seems a lot of people don'know the difference between a "top" and "dom", "bottom" and "sub"."
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"Sorry but I am in one of my purists moods.
1. I know we are on Fab, but why does submission always equates to sexual submission?
2. Why does this sexual submission never seem to differ from ordinary sexual play?
3. How can a "dom/me sub relationship" that is purely consensual vanilla sex play be called D/S?
I am always puzzled by people calling themselves "doms", "masters" and "subs" whose only ability and interest is sexual.
4. It seems a lot of people don'know the difference between a "top" and "dom", "bottom" and "sub"."
This. None of my subs were ever of a sexual nature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry but I am in one of my purists moods.
1. I know we are on Fab, but why does submission always equates to sexual submission?
2. Why does this sexual submission never seem to differ from ordinary sexual play?
3. How can a "dom/me sub relationship" that is purely consensual vanilla sex play be called D/S?
I am always puzzled by people calling themselves "doms", "masters" and "subs" whose only ability and interest is sexual.
4. It seems a lot of people don'know the difference between a "top" and "dom", "bottom" and "sub"."
simple answer really there are no rules therefore people can be what and whom they want |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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Yes, that old chestnut. People can do what they want, but actions have a name, as does behaviour. The 100 metres is not the same as a marathon although both are based on running. Likewise bottoming is not the same as submission.
I had a female friend that put subslut in her profile name and wondered why all the messages she received were about sex. She had not done the research and had just liked the sound of "subslut". Some people like to be called a "dom", "master" or "sub" because it sounds good without knowing what is involved. Of course kink is a broad church, but there actions that fall out of it.
Too many people use BDSM words, poses or iconography because those things have an attraction. No research is done because they don't get beyond their own stereotype of BDSM or porn stereotypes of BDSM.
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