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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have mentioned on other threads but, being called daddy is the one big turn off for me. It is also an anti-attraction phrase."
I so get that can be so weird when it just comes out off nowhere. Its really one of the things that should be talk about before hands |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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"I have mentioned on other threads but, being called daddy is the one big turn off for me. It is also an anti-attraction phrase.
I so get that can be so weird when it just comes out off nowhere. Its really one of the things that should be talk about before hands"
I have walked out, mid sex, after a woman called me this. I'm also a real father as well so I think I just find it weird and makes me very uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The mention of using any kind of substance to enhance sex - legal or otherwise. It really turns me off instantly."
God yeah. You never know how someone can react to those thing. You don't ever want to be a situation where you don't have control. |
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"I have mentioned on other threads but, being called daddy is the one big turn off for me. It is also an anti-attraction phrase.
I so get that can be so weird when it just comes out off nowhere. Its really one of the things that should be talk about before hands I have walked out, mid sex, after a woman called me this. I'm also a real father as well so I think I just find it weird and makes me very uncomfortable. "
Good man!
Men with Ddlg fantasies who actually have daughters make my flesh crawl. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have mentioned on other threads but, being called daddy is the one big turn off for me. It is also an anti-attraction phrase.
I so get that can be so weird when it just comes out off nowhere. Its really one of the things that should be talk about before hands I have walked out, mid sex, after a woman called me this. I'm also a real father as well so I think I just find it weird and makes me very uncomfortable.
Good man!
Men with Ddlg fantasies who actually have daughters make my flesh crawl."
Don't forget guys who do that with son too lol. I had a friend Dad come onto me once when was 18. He keep calling me son and his boy it freaked me out so much never once when back to his place again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have mentioned on other threads but, being called daddy is the one big turn off for me. It is also an anti-attraction phrase.
I so get that can be so weird when it just comes out off nowhere. Its really one of the things that should be talk about before hands I have walked out, mid sex, after a woman called me this. I'm also a real father as well so I think I just find it weird and makes me very uncomfortable. "
I had that once and got ripped to fuck when I mentioned it. Thank fuck it isn't just me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Coffee breath.
The taste of coffee makes me feel sick so it’s a major turn off to have sex with someone who’s just had a cup. "
This why I alway carry mint and never order a drink until the other preson get their lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Coffee breath.
The taste of coffee makes me feel sick so it’s a major turn off to have sex with someone who’s just had a cup.
This why I alway carry mint and never order a drink until the other preson get their lol "
Aww very courteous  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Coffee breath.
The taste of coffee makes me feel sick so it’s a major turn off to have sex with someone who’s just had a cup.
This why I alway carry mint and never order a drink until the other preson get their lol
Aww very courteous "
I love coffee but know how off putting it can be to people. So I just play it safe. I don't want that to be the thing to have someone to go off me. I have hundreds of other ways I can screw up a social lol |
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"Women who boast about squirting and how far they can squirt, hot when it happens but boasting doesn't do it for me..."
Maybe it's not boasting but fair warning? We always warn our potential meets that Devil is a squirter and has little to no control over it. It's up to them then whether they still want to meet or not. |
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"I have mentioned on other threads but, being called daddy is the one big turn off for me. It is also an anti-attraction phrase.
I so get that can be so weird when it just comes out off nowhere. Its really one of the things that should be talk about before hands I have walked out, mid sex, after a woman called me this. I'm also a real father as well so I think I just find it weird and makes me very uncomfortable.
Good man!
Men with Ddlg fantasies who actually have daughters make my flesh crawl.
Don't forget guys who do that with son too lol. I had a friend Dad come onto me once when was 18. He keep calling me son and his boy it freaked me out so much never once when back to his place again."
A total NO NO for me all that Taboo Family role play....WTF..  |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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I once went round someone's house. She was housesitting. It was a dump but she managed to tidy up for them. The owners of the house had an elvis obsession and also an infatuation with masks. Was pretty odd having dozens of masks on every wall facing you. Super freaky. Clowns, babies, masquerade, wrestling, tribal  |
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Orgasm denial. I can't even be in the same room as people doing that. It triggers me.
No joke, last time it was three days before I'd got close to mentally recovering and able to piece together what had actually happened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Long or fake fingernails... cant stand them on anyone .. long, sharp, unhygienic and sometimes awfully textured like sandpaper...
I just cant stand fingernails not even my own as soon as i feel them past a certain point they're cut immediately so they're smooth... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The whole daddy/mommy thing 
I just really can't wrap my head around it. It seriously makes me feel sick. "
especially when you least expect it to happen...
First time I heard "yes DADDY!".... I just thought what the fuck? Haha it is bizarre... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive been texting with a guy that called me chick and im trying real hard for it not to give me the ick ... its not something a late 30s man should be saying - leave it for the 16 yr old girls |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been texting with a guy that called me chick and im trying real hard for it not to give me the ick ... its not something a late 30s man should be saying - leave it for the 16 yr old girls "
Ooo this reminds me of a girl I was seeing and she called me “boo” nope didn’t like that hahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been texting with a guy that called me chick and im trying real hard for it not to give me the ick ... its not something a late 30s man should be saying - leave it for the 16 yr old girls
Ooo this reminds me of a girl I was seeing and she called me “boo” nope didn’t like that hahah "
yeah im not a fan of pet names in general unless it comes over time from maybe an inside joke ... but if they really must at least let them be age appropriate
chick reminds me of those groovy chick bedding sets from the 90s  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been texting with a guy that called me chick and im trying real hard for it not to give me the ick ... its not something a late 30s man should be saying - leave it for the 16 yr old girls
Ooo this reminds me of a girl I was seeing and she called me “boo” nope didn’t like that hahah
yeah im not a fan of pet names in general unless it comes over time from maybe an inside joke ... but if they really must at least let them be age appropriate
chick reminds me of those groovy chick bedding sets from the 90s "
Chick makes me think of American guys like in the American pie films haha, boo just reminds me of the girl in monsters inc haha |
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"So what the dump little thing that you find that can kill or decrease your interest in someone? "
Smoking. I know it’s been said before, even if you haven’t had a smoke for the whole day, you can still taste it. It’s so off putting. |
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I’m sure this will be an unpopular opinion but gym obsession.
This comes from when I used to live with a girl who lived for the gym. She was textbook beautiful and all my mates wondered why I wasn’t attracted to her but she was just so obsessed and when not working out she was just boring... there was nothing else too her but meal prep and workout.
Each to their own and I admire the dedication and she will find someone who shares that life with her and they can enjoy it together. But definitely not for me, there’s more important things in life for me
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"pet names, lude messages first off, dodgy names, pushy.
bad kisser, if you can't kiss ...weeeellll you ain't gonna know how to use your mouth else where and i'm not always up for playing teacher. "
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"ive been texting with a guy that called me chick and im trying real hard for it not to give me the ick ... its not something a late 30s man should be saying - leave it for the 16 yr old girls "
Might be a regional thing. I had an uncle who called everyone younger than him Chick, kinda like everyone in the north call people Love or Pet. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not sure how weird it is but what are you into as a question...
Actually this is slightly more weird given it's Fab - feeling like you're being discussed with others when you've not really spoken. I can't explain it but it's a turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We really don't like the daddy/daughter thing. Not against others who are into it but just really turns us off.
Maybe its having teenage daughters that's the trigger, don't know  |
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"Women who boast about squirting and how far they can squirt, hot when it happens but boasting doesn't do it for me..."
I don't boast about it I apologetically warn any play partners as I get a bit embarrassed by it!  |
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"pet names, lude messages first off, dodgy names, pushy.
bad kisser, if you can't kiss ...weeeellll you ain't gonna know how to use your mouth else where and i'm not always up for playing teacher. "
All these |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being called babe, complete turnoff, any over the top endearments from men that I am not in a relationship with just puts me off.
Too many tacky tatooes not a fan of big beards quite like the designer stubble but lots of facial hair puts me off. Smelling if smoke and offer of illegal substances.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being hungry
Yes!! Same here"
For me I'd rather be hungry than Fuck on a full stomach.
Same when playing rugby, never eat at least 4 hours before the match.
Also socks seem to be an Achilles heel, never can cum with them on! |
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"ive been texting with a guy that called me chick and im trying real hard for it not to give me the ick ... its not something a late 30s man should be saying - leave it for the 16 yr old girls
Might be a regional thing. I had an uncle who called everyone younger than him Chick, kinda like everyone in the north call people Love or Pet."
ahem no we don't  |
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"I’m sure this will be an unpopular opinion but gym obsession.
This comes from when I used to live with a girl who lived for the gym. She was textbook beautiful and all my mates wondered why I wasn’t attracted to her but she was just so obsessed and when not working out she was just boring... there was nothing else too her but meal prep and workout.
Each to their own and I admire the dedication and she will find someone who shares that life with her and they can enjoy it together. But definitely not for me, there’s more important things in life for me
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This!
The reason I avoid gym obsessives is because they’re usually so terribly dull and self obsessed. Don’t get me wrong, I’d love some of their dedication, but not at the expense of having a personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure this will be an unpopular opinion but gym obsession.
This comes from when I used to live with a girl who lived for the gym. She was textbook beautiful and all my mates wondered why I wasn’t attracted to her but she was just so obsessed and when not working out she was just boring... there was nothing else too her but meal prep and workout.
Each to their own and I admire the dedication and she will find someone who shares that life with her and they can enjoy it together. But definitely not for me, there’s more important things in life for me
This!
The reason I avoid gym obsessives is because they’re usually so terribly dull and self obsessed. Don’t get me wrong, I’d love some of their dedication, but not at the expense of having a personality."
A mate of mine used to date a body builder- he was SO boring.
They couldn't eat in restaurants because 'food was for function not pleasure ' 
He thought of little else than the gym or his next souless meal
Bore off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a women farts in bed
It's a no no"
uggghh i once dated a guy that had no qualms about just doing huge loud farts in my bed when we were first dating and not even the decency to acknowledge it or make a joke of it or be even slightly embarrassed
put me right off him |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"When someone asks " what are you into". I usually reply " bingo camponology and trainspotting" lol."
We genuinely don't know how to answer this question. We don't do role play and such. I (Bry) am more of a watcher. Char likes some sub/Dom stuff but not with strangers. So our usual answer is "fucking". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a women farts in bed
It's a no no
uggghh i once dated a guy that had no qualms about just doing huge loud farts in my bed when we were first dating and not even the decency to acknowledge it or make
a joke of it or be even slightly embarrassed
put me right off him "
I don't think he was was aware of what he was doing
We all have habits that we are are not aware of |
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If during the messaging stage, I send a pic and they respond with "cute", that's the end for me. Instant turn off. Its probably a lifetime of being called cute instead of pretty or beautiful or sexy. It actually annoys me, cute is for puppies or small children, not half dressed women on swinging sites... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If during the messaging stage, I send a pic and they respond with "cute", that's the end for me. Instant turn off. Its probably a lifetime of being called cute instead of pretty or beautiful or sexy. It actually annoys me, cute is for puppies or small children, not half dressed women on swinging sites..."
Lol |
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"Women who boast about squirting and how far they can squirt, hot when it happens but boasting doesn't do it for me..."
Yeah strangely enough guys who boasts about bucket loads of cum and how far they can shoot. |
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"If during the messaging stage, I send a pic and they respond with "cute", that's the end for me. Instant turn off. Its probably a lifetime of being called cute instead of pretty or beautiful or sexy. It actually annoys me, cute is for puppies or small children, not half dressed women on swinging sites..."
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"If during the messaging stage, I send a pic and they respond with "cute", that's the end for me. Instant turn off. Its probably a lifetime of being called cute instead of pretty or beautiful or sexy. It actually annoys me, cute is for puppies or small children, not half dressed women on swinging sites..."
yea cute isn't a word I describe you as
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women who boast about squirting and how far they can squirt, hot when it happens but boasting doesn't do it for me...
Yeah strangely enough guys who boasts about bucket loads of cum and how far they can shoot. "
Another guy bashing post from nowhere well done! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine are bitten nails, excessive swearing outside of the bedroom, bad dress sense and BO....In my youth (Stupidly) dumped a girl at uni who bit her nails...she was a total slut too lol. But was just that one thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men wearing chains, I don’t even know why but I just can’t get past it "
I used to wear loads of gold in my early twenties then realised I looked ridiculous.
Luckily I managed to sell it all on when gold prices were quite high and pocketed some cash.
Only wear a modest watch these days |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Scuffed, dirty soles on the bottom of high heels. It's not even a big issue but I can be in the mood, raring to go and then I see it, have to do a bit of mental gymnastics to pull my silly self together.
Him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Scuffed, dirty soles on the bottom of high heels. It's not even a big issue but I can be in the mood, raring to go and then I see it, have to do a bit of mental gymnastics to pull my silly self together.
Him."
Yes agree bad scruffy shoes...again little things but devil is in the detail.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sure this will be an unpopular opinion but gym obsession.
This comes from when I used to live with a girl who lived for the gym. She was textbook beautiful and all my mates wondered why I wasn’t attracted to her but she was just so obsessed and when not working out she was just boring... there was nothing else too her but meal prep and workout.
Each to their own and I admire the dedication and she will find someone who shares that life with her and they can enjoy it together. But definitely not for me, there’s more important things in life for me
This!
The reason I avoid gym obsessives is because they’re usually so terribly dull and self obsessed. Don’t get me wrong, I’d love some of their dedication, but not at the expense of having a personality.
A mate of mine used to date a body builder- he was SO boring.
They couldn't eat in restaurants because 'food was for function not pleasure '
He thought of little else than the gym or his next souless meal
Bore off!"
I quite happy to go out and fill my face full of crap it's only 1 meal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The smell of smoking turns me off
Have been for a couple of meets where I have seen that awful vape thing with the sweet pungent smell in the air
I have walked out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone too over familiar on a first message. Such as calling me darling, sweetheart or baby.
Also anyone who wants me to call him daddy. "
Nothing wrong with being freindly but there a point where it just come across as creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Peircings  "
As above and also tatoos and beards...with a bald head and wearing a checked shirt...trying to look different or alternative has almost become a uniform.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men wearing chains, I don’t even know why but I just can’t get past it
I’m with you on that, or surf beads  "
gold chains really upset me too!
Don't even get me started on fabric bracelets or beads  |
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