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How to spot a swinger?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"
If someone gets asked at a checkout "Do you have a Nectar card?" and they say "Yes". That is how you know. |
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"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?
Not really, it surprised us when we first started swinging a meeting other people that some you wouldn’t imagine would be swingers in 1000 years "
It shows that we all some idea wrogly or rightly about the scene. It is diverse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah, it's when they are both openly checking you out!
On my very first meet with a M/F couple (Tasmin) I was chatting to a couple and the bar lady was chatting the woman up at the same time. |
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"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"
I wear an anklet or necklace with the initials H.W on, some swingers wear the stag and vixen symbol on a anklet the upside down pineapple is also a sign they swing so there are many ways to tell if you know the signs
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"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?
I wear an anklet or necklace with the initials H.W on, some swingers wear the stag and vixen symbol on a anklet the upside down pineapple is also a sign they swing so there are many ways to tell if you know the signs
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Queuing up on a Friday Saturday night in supermarkets in long macs and coats, complete with sunglasses going to the self service with alcohol and a pile of condoms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Queuing up on a Friday Saturday night in supermarkets in long macs and coats, complete with sunglasses going to the self service with alcohol and a pile of condoms "
Yeah that would be a give away. Or group of folks (singles and couples) dressed up in a pub middle of no where but close to a club...  |
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"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?
I wear an anklet or necklace with the initials H.W on, some swingers wear the stag and vixen symbol on a anklet the upside down pineapple is also a sign they swing so there are many ways to tell if you know the signs
N"
Mr M bought me a HW anklet but he said its for if I get lost.
Folk will know that we are from Hereford & or Worcesrer. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Since discretion is an essential prequisite for success within a swinging lifestyle, the most successful swingers are those who are discreet, secretive, confidential, and thus the most trustworthy.
Myself and my former partner had a longstanding arrangement with another couple whom we trusted; the relationship developed to the point where we regularly met for BB DVP (usually reverse cowgirl) that we all enjoyed.
No-one outside the two couples were ever aware of this successful swinging relationship. |
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"Since discretion is an essential prequisite for success within a swinging lifestyle, the most successful swingers are those who are discreet, secretive, confidential, and thus the most trustworthy.
Myself and my former partner had a longstanding arrangement with another couple whom we trusted; the relationship developed to the point where we regularly met for BB DVP (usually reverse cowgirl) that we all enjoyed.
No-one outside the two couples were ever aware of this successful swinging relationship."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Queuing up on a Friday Saturday night in supermarkets in long macs and coats, complete with sunglasses going to the self service with alcohol and a pile of condoms
Yeah that would be a give away. Or group of folks (singles and couples) dressed up in a pub middle of no where but close to a club... "
Haha that happened to us when we first went to Chams. We got the taxi to drop us off at a pub close by. Licky was dressed up and short tight black dress and stockings, it must have been so obvs where we were going!! |
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"They don't wear knickers to Asda."
I used to go commando a lot. Once I went to Asda and didn’t realise my buttons had popped open; my cock flopped out in the chilled aisle.
I definitely wear boxers to Asda now.
-Mr |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"The say they don't like sex but their conversation is mostly about sex and are always in the flirt mood/gear  , the body language when one mention some words used by all of us like Fab or Fabs, when you recognise them from a site like Fabs or others ... i know nothing about  "
There are those wives/girlfriends that always turn the conversation to sex after a few drinks and are really flirty , you just know they secretly want a threesome or foursome but it’s only going to happen when drink removes inhibitions and you would regret it. But these generally aren’t swingers , swingers I know are much more discreet |
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"The say they don't like sex but their conversation is mostly about sex and are always in the flirt mood/gear , the body language when one mention some words used by all of us like Fab or Fabs, when you recognise them from a site like Fabs or others ... i know nothing about
There are those wives/girlfriends that always turn the conversation to sex after a few drinks and are really flirty , you just know they secretly want a threesome or foursome but it’s only going to happen when drink removes inhibitions and you would regret it. But these generally aren’t swingers , swingers I know are much more discreet"
You are moving in different circles to me. Lol. |
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"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?"
Need to stop fantasising about what guy's and girls are up to and live in the moment you can not tell if the person is not will to put the themselves on display... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Queuing up on a Friday Saturday night in supermarkets in long macs and coats, complete with sunglasses going to the self service with alcohol and a pile of condoms
Yeah that would be a give away. Or group of folks (singles and couples) dressed up in a pub middle of no where but close to a club... "
Think the Asda has big weekend alcohol sales due to chams! Should have a swingers alcohol savers pass |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?
I wear an anklet or necklace with the initials H.W on, some swingers wear the stag and vixen symbol on a anklet the upside down pineapple is also a sign they swing so there are many ways to tell if you know the signs
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Mr M bought me a HW anklet but he said its for if I get lost.
Folk will know that we are from Hereford & or Worcesrer."
what does H W stand for? |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"Are there certain ways to identify swingers?
I wear an anklet or necklace with the initials H.W on, some swingers wear the stag and vixen symbol on a anklet the upside down pineapple is also a sign they swing so there are many ways to tell if you know the signs
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Mr M bought me a HW anklet but he said its for if I get lost.
Folk will know that we are from Hereford & or Worcesrer.
what does H W stand for? "
Hot water |
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I went through a period of looking for ankle chains and then when I saw one I’d try to see if it had ‘Hotwife’ on it or something but ended up with a crick in my neck and none of them ever did say anything anyway.
I’ve got one - it’s leather not a chain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Several years ago we purchased Chams Chameleon lapel badges to wear on introduction meets to make sure the other couples knew how to positively identify us. |
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I've met folks who just dropped the word "Chams" into the middle of their vanilla conversation.
Most of the other folks they were talking to were totally oblivious, but one couple started smiling which was the give away to me! |
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"I've met folks who just dropped the word "Chams" into the middle of their vanilla conversation.
Most of the other folks they were talking to were totally oblivious, but one couple started smiling which was the give away to me!"
That is clever |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Greerk squick? Must be a Welsh swing. "
Probably not, there are no letters K or Q in the Welsh alphabet. Unless of course it's a Welsh swing speaking English! |
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