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over a year ago
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I'm happy to display my face picture. I'm not ashamed of my proclivities nor am I interested in those who would judge me. My dearest friends and my family know I'm a swinger. What's more I feel I'm showing a committment to the scene and liberalism as a whole. Of course your milage may vary and who the fuck am I to judge anyone elses motives or preferences on here. Have a great day all
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"I send them if im interested in the person im talking to, otherwise they stay hidden.  "
This is the method we use. We both have professional lives that aren't really suited to us being in the open about swinging or me being openly bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to hide my face and try do fab as anonymously as I could until I declined a meet with this guy and he found my on insta and Facebook and harassed me there untill I blocked him so he sent screen shots of my fab profile to my mum... After that I just thought fuck it may as well just put my self out there unashamedly that way you don't give the twats the ability to out you and try shame you... I get recognised at qork/from work all the time and I'm at the point where I'm like whatever about it all |
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"I used to hide my face and try do fab as anonymously as I could until I declined a meet with this guy and he found my on insta and Facebook and harassed me there untill I blocked him so he sent screen shots of my fab profile to my mum... After that I just thought fuck it may as well just put my self out there unashamedly that way you don't give the twats the ability to out you and try shame you... I get recognised at qork/from work all the time and I'm at the point where I'm like whatever about it all"
What a horrible human being. That is terrible! |
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"I used to hide my face and try do fab as anonymously as I could until I declined a meet with this guy and he found my on insta and Facebook and harassed me there untill I blocked him so he sent screen shots of my fab profile to my mum... After that I just thought fuck it may as well just put my self out there unashamedly that way you don't give the twats the ability to out you and try shame you... I get recognised at qork/from work all the time and I'm at the point where I'm like whatever about it all"
And very pretty it is  |
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"I display, obviously. Not ashamed of my lifestyle xx"
It si not so much the shame of the lifestyle but tolerance towards our lifestyle is short unfortunately., especially in many work places.
It should be a personal decision and pictures can be sent anyhow on here or on other platforms. |
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"I used to hide my face and try do fab as anonymously as I could until I declined a meet with this guy and he found my on insta and Facebook and harassed me there untill I blocked him so he sent screen shots of my fab profile to my mum... After that I just thought fuck it may as well just put my self out there unashamedly that way you don't give the twats the ability to out you and try shame you... I get recognised at qork/from work all the time and I'm at the point where I'm like whatever about it all"
What a complete and utter arse head.
Me I'm a manger and have young children. I've got my mug shot in my friends pics and I've no problem sending it in messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I display, obviously. Not ashamed of my lifestyle xx
It si not so much the shame of the lifestyle but tolerance towards our lifestyle is short unfortunately., especially in many work places.
It should be a personal decision and pictures can be sent anyhow on here or on other platforms."
I'm a slut and I do porn. People can like it or not, I'm not bothered. And it has no bearing on my ability to do my job. I'm sure that would be strong grounds for discrimination xx |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I used to hide my face and try do fab as anonymously as I could until I declined a meet with this guy and he found my on insta and Facebook and harassed me there untill I blocked him so he sent screen shots of my fab profile to my mum... After that I just thought fuck it may as well just put my self out there unashamedly that way you don't give the twats the ability to out you and try shame you... I get recognised at qork/from work all the time and I'm at the point where I'm like whatever about it all"
Wow, what a vile individual! |
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Small town, public facing job, recognisable hair
I'd be more open, but I feel like id just get branded a perv or desperate.
I once told an ex I was bi and she told me I was just greedy, so fuck anyone knowing what I like aha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Displayed, I have nothing to hide, and discretion or anonymity is not required plus people can then decide whether there is thst initial attraction from the get go....instead of after few messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Displaying or not displaying?
What are your reasons? "
Not displaying but happily sending to anyone who I'm chatting with
If I was openly bi I'd probably display |
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"Displaying or not displaying?
What are your reasons? "
We share with those we get on with by message first, not ready to share on our public pics at all yet. Would hate to be out with family and someone not so discreet approaching us, we know someone this has happened to xx |
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"Displaying or not displaying?
What are your reasons?
We share with those we get on with by message first, not ready to share on our public pics at all yet. Would hate to be out with family and someone not so discreet approaching us, we know someone this has happened to xx"
It is a personal choice and people’s circumstances are different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's totally a personal choice. For me i have shared here but only when there is full trust built up or we are going to meet. I dont expect face pic either. If others happy share publicly then good for them but no one should be under pressure |
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"It's totally a personal choice. For me i have shared here but only when there is full trust built up or we are going to meet. I dont expect face pic either. If others happy share publicly then good for them but no one should be under pressure "
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"We have face pics we share with friends, not ashamed of being swingers but would lose our jobs if reported for bringing the profession into disrepute  "
Similar for me; small town, public facing job. It's why I don't meet people too local to me. |
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"We have face pics we share with friends, not ashamed of being swingers but would lose our jobs if reported for bringing the profession into disrepute
Similar for me; small town, public facing job. It's why I don't meet people too local to me."
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Obviously public, but actually hiding under a face full of makeup and a wig so feel a little less "naked" displaying it.
Although I understand people wanting to be discreet I do like to see a face when chatting so always ask for a pic. |
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"I have my pics in private which I do share with people that are interested but what annoys me is people asking for face pics in first message when they don’t have any pics at all"
That drive nuts |
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"We live in a tiny fish bowl called glossop. Everybody knows everybody's business. We have kids that we want to protect (well teens ) "
I have friends who used to live there - a night out was like a family reunion (much like it is here) |
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"We have face pics we share with friends, not ashamed of being swingers but would lose our jobs if reported for bringing the profession into disrepute
Similar for me; small town, public facing job. It's why I don't meet people too local to me."
Same for us, small town and public jobs. We’re always happy to send face pics if we hit it off with a couple local to us though |
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"We have face pics we share with friends, not ashamed of being swingers but would lose our jobs if reported for bringing the profession into disrepute
Similar for me; small town, public facing job. It's why I don't meet people too local to me.
Same for us, small town and public jobs. We’re always happy to send face pics if we hit it off with a couple local to us though "
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Personal choice for me, I have face picture in my private gallery.
I actually prefer someone get to know me as a person rather than being seen as a set of holes.
Added bonus you can tell a lot about a person when you decline to give a face picture off the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Public perception mostly... Im happy to share with friends or via message as I have nothing to hide, but cant be doing with local gossip if it became public knowledge  |
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"Always private. And even when I send on here I only send my social media profile pics so could be from there.
If I’m genuinely interested I face time and Snapchat super quick so no need too x"
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Our face pics are private. Happy to share once chatting for a bit. We choose not to go public to spare any blushes from all parties. Our children are now of adult ages and could possibly be on here or have friends on here. Don’t really want to put them into an embarrassing situation if outed without knowing.
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"Our face pics are private. Happy to share once chatting for a bit. We choose not to go public to spare any blushes from all parties. Our children are now of adult ages and could possibly be on here or have friends on here. Don’t really want to put them into an embarrassing situation if outed without knowing.
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It's our profile pic.
As far as we are concerned, we're just ourselves and what you see is what you get. People are either interested or they're not. You cant please everyone so why delay the inevitable possibility of that "sorry not for us" message once they do see your face?
Respect everyone's else right to not show their faces but we wont meet anyone without knowing what they look like first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's our profile pic.
As far as we are concerned, we're just ourselves and what you see is what you get. People are either interested or they're not. You cant please everyone so why delay the inevitable possibility of that "sorry not for us" message once they do see your face?
Respect everyone's else right to not show their faces but we wont meet anyone without knowing what they look like first. "
Who you referring to |
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"Always display in public uploads... this is what you’re going to look at and the rest is what comes with!
Not really. Send when it gets interesting "
Agreed send when we want to see and show more;) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I display mine. This lifestyle choice is nothing to be ashamed of and it doesn't bother me how I am judged"
You are a couple and there’s only female pics and face pics so not really |
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Mine's there to go some way to prove i'm not just an anon person with a fake profile, it's really me and what i look like.
No point arranging anything if you don't know what i look like.
That's just my point of view and not everyone will agree. |
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"Displaying or not displaying?
What are your reasons? "
I used to show mine - but now I work on a construction site with hundreds of men - so the chances of being recognised have increased considerably. Even if I didn’t lose my job if/when ‘outed’ it would make my working relationships (currently great) far more difficult.
Also - being honest - fab is a much smaller part of my life these days.
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"I display mine. This lifestyle choice is nothing to be ashamed of and it doesn't bother me how I am judged
You are a couple and there’s only female pics and face pics so not really "
And you know it wasnt the lady of the couple posting the comment how exactly? |
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I am displaying because I want the people to know I am genuine and not here to waste time. Also, I just really like the compliments (sue me) 
I don't really have anything to hide. To be fair though, I am wearing makeup and wigs in almost all my pictures on this profile, so not like it's easy to recognize me anyway. I did however recently create a profile on fabguys as a guy and put face pictures of both, looking like a man and all dressed up. I could easily be recognized there. |
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"I am displaying because I want the people to know I am genuine and not here to waste time. Also, I just really like the compliments (sue me)
I don't really have anything to hide. To be fair though, I am wearing makeup and wigs in almost all my pictures on this profile, so not like it's easy to recognize me anyway. I did however recently create a profile on fabguys as a guy and put face pictures of both, looking like a man and all dressed up. I could easily be recognized there."
Choices are made to display a picture or not fir different reasons and people should have the right to those choices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to hide our face pictures in friends only but we decided to be more open in our lifestyle which ment we started playing solo, we told our family and children ( they don't live with us and are old.enouvh to understand) that we see other people, we didn't want anyone seeing us out with someone else and put them in a differcult position as to tell the others partner or not and we didn't want them thinking we were cheating on each other, after that we had nothing to hide and made our face pictures public, our friends now about our lifestyle and we are really proud of our marriage and lifestyle. |
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I had mine, firstly for privacy (even though I’ve been recognised by my chin and lips on numerous occasions), secondly I hate all face pics of myself, I detest them and thirdly and most importantly if my ex found out he would make my life a living hell. Yes if he was on here he could tell by my body but he’s to conservative for this site but his friends may recognise my face. |
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Displaying. No one messages us if they do not like our faces, which cuts our numbers down to more likely. And we don’t care what people think about what we do in the bedroom. It’s not a taboo subject for us. Work cannot do anything about it. They wouldn’t dare. It’s no one’s business but ours. |
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We’re not ashamed of swinging but being from am Indian background it would be frowned upon and we would be vilified by friends and some family
This is our private life...our secret and
nobodies business but ours and our playmates
Anyone else feel the same way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is usually on display, unless I get the hump n hide it... I am ok with being on here, faces are what I am attracted to so assume others are too and as I only organise the local social now, a friendly face is needed I think |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"We’re not ashamed of swinging but being from am Indian background it would be frowned upon and we would be vilified by friends and some family
This is our private life...our secret and
nobodies business but ours and our playmates
Anyone else feel the same way?"
I feel the same way, but not because I'm from an Indian background! There is still a stigma attached to swinging and even within the swinging world, homophobia is rife.
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"Mine is usually on display, unless I get the hump n hide it... I am ok with being on here, faces are what I am attracted to so assume others are too and as I only organise the local social now, a friendly face is needed I think "
Hi Ariel, I like your "half face pic." Did you choose it for privacy reasons or just because it's a lovely photo?
I've always thought, it would seem to keep you anonymous from strangers, but anyone that new you could probably ID you straight away. Just wondering!
Gbat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Displaying or not displaying?
What are your reasons? "
On public profile, no chance.
I usually send one with a first message or friend request, because if I'm interested enough to want to communicate with someone I've already cleared them on my flake radar and think they deserve honesty. If it's a "no thanks, don't fancy ya", well you can't make fetch happen, eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine is usually on display, unless I get the hump n hide it... I am ok with being on here, faces are what I am attracted to so assume others are too and as I only organise the local social now, a friendly face is needed I think
Hi Ariel, I like your "half face pic." Did you choose it for privacy reasons or just because it's a lovely photo?
I've always thought, it would seem to keep you anonymous from strangers, but anyone that new you could probably ID you straight away. Just wondering!
Gbat
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It's my least facey, face pic... I had the hump the other day so hid my full, smiley one lol... I am ok with being identified... If you know me, then my face isn't really needed for that though |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
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"If you know me, then my face isn't really needed for that though"
Hah! I just checked out your pics. That's some identifiable ink there!
Nice profile pic!
Gbat x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Real issue with face pics is women and cpls demanding them, despite not showing their own face pics,even as an exchange."
Another reason mine has always been visible, when looking to play... Mine is out, I find it rude to expect me to converse with your genitals/abs, so delete messages without one, unless there is one on your profile. |
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