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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? |
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "
Cock size and body size are completely different issues . There is just as many woman here more than happy with guys with smaller cocks as I’m sure there’s guys here no more than happy with bigger woman . Your thread only suggest you have insecurities about yourself a lot of people are not so shallow |
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I am a larger lady (size 18) and it has never bothered me when I have read on profiles that a man prefers slimmer women. The key is to be polite about it, IMO. |
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"I am a larger lady (size 18) and it has never bothered me when I have read on profiles that a man prefers slimmer women. The key is to be polite about it, IMO. "
and are they worth it if their that shallow anyway?
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "
I can't say I've noticed any threads where women ask for men with over 8 inch cocks only to reply. A thread asking for women under size 10 only to respond would not go down well at all and I think you know that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
I can't say I've noticed any threads where women ask for men with over 8 inch cocks only to reply. A thread asking for women under size 10 only to respond would not go down well at all and I think you know that."
There are plenty. There’s one active now. |
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
I can't say I've noticed any threads where women ask for men with over 8 inch cocks only to reply. A thread asking for women under size 10 only to respond would not go down well at all and I think you know that.
There are plenty. There’s one active now."
Ok, I stand corrected there's one.
I think you'll find a very different reaction of you start a thread asking for only very slender women to respond |
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Everyone has a toolbox, some are large, some small, some old and worn and others pristine and rarely used etc. However, it’s what’s in the box that matters and making sure that you use the correct tool for the job and you know how to use the tool correctly, that is most important  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you ever started a thread that isnt really a way of writing about your cock? 
This wasn’t "
I think it is ....somehow you managed to crowbar mentioning it into your post  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You could start a thread for vagina min 8’ deep? Anatomy preferences is different to body shaming "
It isn’t
Weight can be controlled. Cock size cannot.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "
You can't compare cock size to body size
They're not comparable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its 2 different things. Cock size can’t be helped, body size can. I do agree that its a bit off that some women don’t like guys with a certain size cock considering it’s something guys can’t change. But as someone who has a bit of a dad bod when i see a profile that says gym fit bodies only I just move on, its my own doing that I have the body that I do, and I am able to change that. I think the real comparison here shouldn’t be cock size, but should be the issue of women can ask for guys to have a certain body type, but men are frowned upon if they only want women a certain size.
Whichever way you look at it it comes down to 2 things either insecurity or thinks highly of self. |
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There are regularly threads here appreciating bigger women, and threads appreciating slim women. I think this place tries to appreciate all shapes and sizes in general. I guess it must be frustrating if you've got a big cock but no one to use it on? I guess for a lot of women it's more about personality than penis size...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "
There are some judgemental a$$holes here ,just ignore them.
Some profiles mentions dick size is not important but when you read their veris left for other ...lol you will be surprised how many times they mentioned the size of the cock . Funny people. |
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "
do you never get bored of yourself small harold? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold? "
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on. |
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold?
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on. "
cant tell you how gutted we are about that, we had pinned all of our hopes on meeting nobody but you |
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Generally on here, people express their preferences and some people are put-out by it whilst others don't care... however it is not unusual for people to "not like" being excluded in any way.
It is "VERY" common for men to post slim/BBW/curvy ladies appreciation threads, or big/small/average breast appreciation threads and they rarely cause a stir. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a larger lady (size 18) and it has never bothered me when I have read on profiles that a man prefers slimmer women. The key is to be polite about it, IMO. and are they worth it if their that shallow anyway?"
How is it shallow for having a preference? |
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If people are really honest with themselves, oh course we have preferences as all we got to go by online is photos and videos. So oh course, we going to seek the ideal body to play with. I know us ladies have more of a luxury in choosing the ideal body than men... I know what I like from experiences with men |
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"I am a larger lady (size 18) and it has never bothered me when I have read on profiles that a man prefers slimmer women. The key is to be polite about it, IMO. and are they worth it if their that shallow anyway?
How is it shallow for having a preference?"
I have preferences to that said I don’t choose to voice them on fab and berate people . Also people need a personality no good being beautiful on the outside of your ugly on the inside |
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"Why do I feel like many themes are on some sort of repeating loop?
Think the guys in love with his own cock 
There are quite a few of them  "
Sorry but I find his “look at my cock” attention seeking threads rather sad obviously thinks a lot of himself which is very unattractive. I’d choose a gentleman with a nice personality all day over someone who thinks being superior is having a big cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold?
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on. "
I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..
As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..
So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...
I'm going on Google scholar to find it   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold?
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.
I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..
As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..
So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...
I'm going on Google scholar to find it "
Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages. |
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"Why do I feel like many themes are on some sort of repeating loop?
Think the guys in love with his own cock
There are quite a few of them
Sorry but I find his “look at my cock” attention seeking threads rather sad obviously thinks a lot of himself which is very unattractive. I’d choose a gentleman with a nice personality all day over someone who thinks being superior is having a big cock "
I honestly agree with you being fully honest in my opinion being more of a gentleman and have a modicum of decrorum is a far better quality. All the constant look at my cock type posts has put the Op in a certain box for most on the forums. The question is are you well you or are you just your cock? |
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Kind of agree but I guess those with less than 8" clicks haven't had vile abuse thrown at them because of it. Those who aren't the body perfect usually have and any thread about body shape often turns personal. |
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First messages from men which contain a pic of there cock saying I've got 8 inch+ dick just gets deleted. Im not interested in how big it is. Those advertising it are only interested themselves.
I've seen men's profiles saying only interested in slim woman and really doesn't bother me, it's there preference and saves time for the bigger ladies messaging them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold?
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.
I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..
As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..
So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...
I'm going on Google scholar to find it
Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages."
Averages are just taken on a population of a study, so to definitely say 1%, it would have to be based on bit more than on average, and taken from the whole population not just a percentage of the male population |
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By *odgerMan
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold?
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.
I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..
As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..
So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...
I'm going on Google scholar to find it
Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.
Averages are just taken on a population of a study, so to definitely say 1%, it would have to be based on bit more than on average, and taken from the whole population not just a percentage of the male population "
You need to brush up on your statustics...you only need a very small sample to get 95% certainty of an outcome. |
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold?
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.
I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..
As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..
So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...
I'm going on Google scholar to find it
Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.
Averages are just taken on a population of a study, so to definitely say 1%, it would have to be based on bit more than on average, and taken from the whole population not just a percentage of the male population
You need to brush up on your statustics...you only need a very small sample to get 95% certainty of an outcome."
But you need a larger sample size to get a more accurate result. Small sample sizes always have a margin of error. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold?
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.
I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..
As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..
So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...
I'm going on Google scholar to find it
Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.
Averages are just taken on a population of a study, so to definitely say 1%, it would have to be based on bit more than on average, and taken from the whole population not just a percentage of the male population
You need to brush up on your statustics...you only need a very small sample to get 95% certainty of an outcome.
But you need a larger sample size to get a more accurate result. Small sample sizes always have a margin of error. "
Larger samples also prove Hypothetical assumptions more easily, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a larger lady (size 18) and it has never bothered me when I have read on profiles that a man prefers slimmer women. The key is to be polite about it, IMO. and are they worth it if their that shallow anyway?
How is it shallow for having a preference?"
I thought exactly the same thing.
How does it make someone shallow if they state in a polite way they like slimmer women ...
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think anyone would care... Wanna start a thread looking for big dicks, big boobs, dad bods, red heads, blonds, bbw, smaller lady's... I don't think anyone would care as long as it wasn't worded in an offecive way, we are all grown ups, we all have our own preferences and realise everyone els had theres |
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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago
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I can't decide if this thread was just to inflame argument or not....
Let's face it .... weight is an emotive subject. Bar crazy circumstances it is also something WE can change. To gain or lose weight. It's OUR fault what weight we are. And that's why people get prickly about it. As someone is stating they don't fancy someone due to something they choose . And yes I mean choose .... we all choose what food goes in our mouth (again pre empting any random but rare cases)
Cock size isn't controllable ..... (and in my experience the bigger ain't always the better)
We are all allowed personal preference... to state what we find attractive .
It's HOW we do that which matters..... quite simply ... you can choose to be an asshole about it or not. Also can you choose to be offended by others preferences... but imagine living life so sensitive.
I think this site is good at recognising we all like a huge variety though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree? "
There's only one way to find out OP! Let's see the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold? "
Small Harold haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Point being missed spectacularly here "
Can you clarify what your point is then because I thought it was that it's funny a post looking for big cocks was received in good humour but if you made a post for thin lady's it wouldent be? And my point remains that I think it would be... There are threads all the time asking to see big cocks, blonds, red heads, hairy pussy, shaven pussy, bbw, athletic figures... As long as its not worded in an offecive way no one would view it as such, everyone is entitled to there preferances and we are all grown up enough to realise we are not to everyone's tase |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.
I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread. "
Me neither
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1132558 |
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I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.
I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread.
Me neither
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1132558"
Fair enough!
Don't see the double standard though - there are plenty of threads celebrating slim/athletic women too. |
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I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.
I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread.
Me neither
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1132558
Fair enough!
Don't see the double standard though - there are plenty of threads celebrating slim/athletic women too. "
I assume OP is body shaming and trying to make larger women feel undesirable but does not realise women use the forums as a filtering system. There is no double standards. Some men have big cocks, some women are slimmer. No comparison. |
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I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread.
I've been on fabs for years and never seen such a thread.
Me neither
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1132558
Fair enough!
Don't see the double standard though - there are plenty of threads celebrating slim/athletic women too.
I assume OP is body shaming and trying to make larger women feel undesirable but does not realise women use the forums as a filtering system. There is no double standards. Some men have big cocks, some women are slimmer. No comparison. "
I think he's also using it as a look at me I've got an 8 inch cock advert. |
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"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future "
Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.
Rather keep my sexual health intact |
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"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future
Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.
Rather keep my sexual health intact"
Because people who don't attend clubs are so much more conscientious about sexual health  |
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"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future
Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.
Rather keep my sexual health intact
Because people who don't attend clubs are so much more conscientious about sexual health "
Was just about to say the same I go to clubs and have a clean sexual health. The op’s statement there is so backhanded unless you go to clubs and know for certain you can’t make any assumptions |
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"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future
Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.
Rather keep my sexual health intact"
That’s a sweeping statement. A sexual disease can be caught anywhere. How I’m laughing now! |
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"I totally use forums as filtering system, definitely know who to avoid like covid in clubs in the future
Wouldn’t be seen dead in a club.
Rather keep my sexual health intact
Because people who don't attend clubs are so much more conscientious about sexual health "
Quality  |
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I don’t think think the 2 are compatible.
Body shape/weight/build is different to cock size. Women could ask for cocks over 8” and men could ask for women with tits a particular size, maybe. But size of person overall isn’t the same. |
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This post prods together a few popular questions
"when does a preference become a prejudice"
and
"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.
In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.
Women are in a minority so supply and demand means their preferences have more impact. This in turn can mean their voices on forums will be amplified by men, some genuine, some seeking to improve odds by ingratiating (white knight) and eliminating competition. Not that most fab women need their assistance!
And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.
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"This post prods together a few popular questions
"when does a preference become a prejudice"
and
"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.
In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.
Women are in a minority so supply and demand means their preferences have more impact. This in turn can mean their voices on forums will be amplified by men, some genuine, some seeking to improve odds by ingratiating (white knight) and eliminating competition. Not that most fab women need their assistance!
And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.
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That’s absolutely brilliant |
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"This post prods together a few popular questions
"when does a preference become a prejudice"
and
"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.
In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.
Women are in a minority so supply and demand means their preferences have more impact. This in turn can mean their voices on forums will be amplified by men, some genuine, some seeking to improve odds by ingratiating (white knight) and eliminating competition. Not that most fab women need their assistance!
And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.
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I do extremely well |
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"This post prods together a few popular questions
"when does a preference become a prejudice"
and
"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.
In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.
Women are in a minority so supply and demand means their preferences have more impact. This in turn can mean their voices on forums will be amplified by men, some genuine, some seeking to improve odds by ingratiating (white knight) and eliminating competition. Not that most fab women need their assistance!
And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.
I do extremely well "
Yeah right.... |
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"This post prods together a few popular questions
"when does a preference become a prejudice"
and
"why are women allowed to behave differently on here", plus a third question.
In short. Preference can easily be prejudice. It is the power to affect others where the issue becomes live. That power may be in numbers or direct/indirect influence over the prejudiced.
Women are in a minority so supply and demand means their preferences have more impact. This in turn can mean their voices on forums will be amplified by men, some genuine, some seeking to improve odds by ingratiating (white knight) and eliminating competition. Not that most fab women need their assistance!
And third question? Why is Op not getting enough. Cannot answer that. Thread subtext seems to be being hung like a donkey and acting like one may be a whole different prejudice.
I do extremely well
Yeah right...."
Hilarious youd even debate that haha |
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"Hi All,
I see some threads on here from a few ladies that suggest they want men over 8 inches only to post on their thread. This is warmly received by all. I don’t mind this and as a man who is over 8 inches (did I mention that? Think I might have) it doesn’t affect me too much. It’s a preference. I am surprised it is so warmly received however as dick size is not something they can control.
However if I was to start a thread for my preference - say... ladies who are under a size 10... would that be as warmly received? I predict it would be a barrage of abuse.
Just think it’s a little strange. Do you agree?
do you never get bored of yourself small harold?
Harold is bigger than me. I agree.
When have I said I was bigger? I’m still in the top 1% in the uk. That’ll do me.
I really have to be honest - I didn’t enjoy your profile at all. Like one bit. You don’t enjoy mine - we move on.
I enjoy your threads op, however I have to ask how do you know your in the 1% in the country..
As I don't recall being involved in a research project that measured the length and girth of my penis..
So unless every male has been involved, and empirical evidence priduced stating statically evidence then I'm a little bit lost...
I'm going on Google scholar to find it
Haha there is a size chart for every country - it’s mad. Taken on averages.
Averages are just taken on a population of a study, so to definitely say 1%, it would have to be based on bit more than on average, and taken from the whole population not just a percentage of the male population "
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Both are just a preference, as long as not rude either way what is the issue we all are on here to live out our fantasies and kinks. For some they want monster cocks others want to humiliate cucks and some just want to make friends and explore.
As long as polite nothing is offensive if a person won’t meet a particular ethnicity or size or what ever that’s there choice just like it’s yours to choose who you want to me.
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"I spoke a thousand words. ^"
Oh Jim.
I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.
I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.
You are not funny though.
There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.
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"I spoke a thousand words. ^
Oh Jim.
I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.
I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.
You are not funny though.
There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.
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I laughed  |
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"I spoke a thousand words. ^
Oh Jim.
I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.
I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.
You are not funny though.
There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.
I laughed "
You have my sympathy my man |
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"I spoke a thousand words. ^
Oh Jim.
I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.
I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.
You are not funny though.
There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.
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As Martin luther King said "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy". |
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"I spoke a thousand words. ^
Oh Jim.
I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.
I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.
You are not funny though.
There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.
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you say that but cockiness and negativity are quite close to the least attractive personality traits a person can have. also being close-minded, unkindness and having selective hearing. If his comment was was from chronic sarcasm it would be a different situation and also you didn't even have to make that comment in the first place. |
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"I spoke a thousand words. ^
Oh Jim.
I don’t think anyone has ever laughed at one or your “quips” on here.
I like funny. I even like funny from people that don’t like me - I appreciate funny.
You are not funny though.
There was a study done and sarcasm was the least attractive quality. Scoring below narcissism and arrogance.
you say that but cockiness and negativity are quite close to the least attractive personality traits a person can have. also being close-minded, unkindness and having selective hearing. If his comment was was from chronic sarcasm it would be a different situation and also you didn't even have to make that comment in the first place. "
Also actions speak louder than words |
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"Absolutely right. If you don’t like the preferences block the person don’t complain about it. I’m a big woman and over 50. I’d rather know preferences, makes it easier to avoid embarrassment "
Very true |
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