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Change position and/or activity. Focus on her pleasure whilst your own weighted excitement dims a little.
I wouldn't think of shopping, the queen or baseball as people suggest, as it will detract from your own enjoyment and focus.
Communication is important - e.g., you could ask your partner what she would enjoy during 'down time'. |
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Good question.
I know it is not designed to help with this, but if I know its going to be a long session etc I try to use Viagra. I know its not medically for this use, but it must trigger something mentally for me that makes me last, well as long as I need to, and the hard on it gives you is insane!
On the opposite side, a tactical wank just doesn't do it for me! I just lose all sexual urges and its never the same to get them back. Of course it will be different for everybody! |
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Slow it down, pull out, use your tongue for a bit, mix it up. If you really can't control yourself then all I can say is I hope you have an understanding partner, and that you can at least offer round 2 after popping. |
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It will vary by gender. Slow down, reduce contact volume and intensity, reduce whatever is most intensely stimulating. Change position and your physiology. Stand up, break all contact. Insert new mental content that is the opposite of arousing. Sharp squeeze of his nob glans. Move to a cold place. Advanced prep for the problem is better than blindly getting to the point of the problem. Lots more options,. Research |
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Perhaps you could verbalise that you’re getting too turned on and you want to fuck her : enjoy the moment for longer, so change position, or concentrate purely on her, or change the dynamic or mood slightly. I think that ownership would help come across as passionate, honest, share the fact she is turning you on, and help keep the mood or atmosphere very turned on.
Just an alternative to thinking of the Queen. Other royals are available.....Just not Harry or Meghan |
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"Practice edging "
That helps, also resisting the urge to contract the muscles in the lower abdominal and the groin area. It takes some training and practice, but if you can master that, you can more last much longer. Its a good idea to practice this procedure while masturbating |
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