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Regular or one offs?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular are better as the banter gets better and more to talk about the more regular you meet someone. I am looking for a regular lady or couple after lockdown has ended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy one offs immensely, something very sexual and arousing about it I find .. well for fab meets anyway ..
With proper meets outside of swinging I would build up over time to socialize and hangout with..
For me fab/swinging is just a play area that is something i like to switch off and on .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One offs are fun but we are still looking for a bi-femcouple for irregular meets. Had a few regulars in the past but life changes things swiftly in the scene. |
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I have been very lucky and had both, the regular was for some 8 months with a really nice couple from here. It got better and better and some of the fun was very hot, i have a video i was sent i keep mean to post it when i can blank out faces. |
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Regular for us. We find as you get to know people better the fun gets better and more relaxed. One offs are good at clubs for us, but we rarely find anyone within our boundaries at clubs. But in all fairness it’s also getting harder on sites too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone's tastes are different. One offs would do nothing for me. I don't get a variety thrill / rush. Life and experience teaches us what suits us. I like connecting with and getting to know the person first... it builds the chemistry for me. Without that it would feel like mechanical sex with a body instead of intimate sex with a woman I admire and like. Probably why clubs and casual one night stands lost appeal for me years ago.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always one offs until I find the one to be regular with. No way of telling for sure until a meeting of bodies.
You can click mentally. Meet. Have shit sex. Then what?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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regular for us but it's all about matching times when both parties are free to meet if you work or have a wife or girlfriend or boyfriend or husband at home its not that easy  |
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Had a few one off meets but definitely going for a long term regular guy once we are out of this
There has surly then has to be more chance to progress on things that way 
Next problem is finding one lol |
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Personally I’d much rather a regular/FWB setup.
But unfortunately I don’t think the swinging scene is as vibrant down my way as in more built up areas, and less swingers means less opportunities for finding regular playmates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely regular. Good to spend the time exploring each other's fantasies and needs and how to meet them. Never get bored; so much to try and enjoy in a friendly atmosphere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have had some excellent one offs that have perfectly suited our needs at that time. Equally we have had some utterly fantastic experiences with regular play partners.
So both have their merits and benefits in their own way.
Her x |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
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We enjoy both. What does annoy me is when single guys on here ask if they can be a regular when they haven't even met us. Like I'm going to say YES when I Don't even know if we would click !
Makes no sense and sounds desperate.
Mrs N |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy one offs immensely, something very sexual and arousing about it I find .. well for fab meets anyway ..
With proper meets outside of swinging I would build up over time to socialize and hangout with..
Totally agree
For me fab/swinging is just a play area that is something i like to switch off and on .. "
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"We enjoy both. What does annoy me is when single guys on here ask if they can be a regular when they haven't even met us. Like I'm going to say YES when I Don't even know if we would click !
Makes no sense and sounds desperate.
Mrs N"
Indeed mrs nN |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any comments?"
Ideally regular and most of my partners agree, though happy for one-offs to meet new people and try them out. Hope they become regulars too. |
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I love my older friends but I'm ok with making new friends but I hate the process of getting a new friend especially if you are in to it and it looks like it is going to happen but you get played in the end |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my case, one offs were usually because it wasn't worth doing again. I'd much rather find someone who wants "spectacular" regularly than "mediocre" once.
Hope springs eternal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my case, one offs were usually because it wasn't worth doing again. I'd much rather find someone who wants "spectacular" regularly than "mediocre" once.
Hope springs eternal. "
This is our answer too perfectly put x |
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"In my case, one offs were usually because it wasn't worth doing again. I'd much rather find someone who wants "spectacular" regularly than "mediocre" once.
Hope springs eternal.
This is our answer too perfectly put x"
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