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Does any of the wives on here ever had a boyfriend as regular feature in the marriage?
I was offered that possibility a few weeks ago. |
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Wife has a guy she sees about twice a year , more of a temp fuck buddy than boyfriend |
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Yes, I’ve been offered and accepted. it’s a beautiful thing to have but boyfriend part didn’t last very long as he also wanted to go exclusive and stop swinging which wasn’t something I preferred at that time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a girlfriend in addition to my marriage. I might have a boyfriend after lockdown, he's a guy I used to see before covid xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pansexual is the way to go |
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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago
lake ariel |
I too had a fwb but he got clingy and wanted more of my time than I could give, so it's once and done for me now  |
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By *rs biWoman
over a year ago
tuxford |
I have a boyfriends aswell as hubby.  |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
We have a guy that I see every now and then, but it's started to dwindle due to ?lockdown. Bry used to call him my boyfriend. We both like the idea but don't want it to take up too much of my time. |
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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago
essex and norfolk |
Happy to be someones boyfriend |
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Yes, it's an arrangement that works well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pansexual is the way to go"
You may have hit the nail on the head you know |
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I would love a married fwb but impossible to find anyone xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had an older guy that lived abroad that I met. I would not say that he was a boyfriend, just a meet. Xx |
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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago
Skegness |
Yes we have well wife had |
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As a cuck, I actively encourage my wife to have a boyfriend.
It’s not something that we do everyday and it’s really if she feels that she wants that extra relationship and all that goes with it at the time.
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It’s so hard to find the right guy
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We do, our profile is pretty well geared at that scene.
However, like others have said, finding the right lad is the challenge but so much fun when you do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's what we are here for mostly now. Would much prefer a bf over random meets |
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We both have had another partner over our time together, longest Sam has been with a bf was for 7 years. I think we identify as Poly. |
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When I was in a relationship with my son's mother she also had a boyfriend.This lasted for nearly 3 years.It's great when you can make this work!
Mike |
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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago
Cheltenham, Gloucestershire |
I have connections with several men who I meet fairly regularly (just to clarify, I don't meet them all together, although that would be fun! ), but I would term them playmates rather than boyfriends, apart from one who prefers the term lover.
We enjoy friendship with each other, and I'll often grow quite fond of them if we meet regularly over a long period of time, but there's never any romantic attachment (on my part), because I have everything I need in that respect, with my husband.
Good friendship with great sex is generally what I look for.
V x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perfect scenario for me given the chance |
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"I have connections with several men who I meet fairly regularly (just to clarify, I don't meet them all together, although that would be fun! ), but I would term them playmates rather than boyfriends, apart from one who prefers the term lover.
We enjoy friendship with each other, and I'll often grow quite fond of them if we meet regularly over a long period of time, but there's never any romantic attachment (on my part), because I have everything I need in that respect, with my husband.
Good friendship with great sex is generally what I look for.
V x"
It seems an ideal situation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was the third wheel in a M/F relationship. Me and the F would 'date' once a week which always finished in mind-blowing sex. It was mutually respective and we all got something out of it. |
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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago
Cheltenham, Gloucestershire |
"I have connections with several men who I meet fairly regularly (just to clarify, I don't meet them all together, although that would be fun! ), but I would term them playmates rather than boyfriends, apart from one who prefers the term lover.
We enjoy friendship with each other, and I'll often grow quite fond of them if we meet regularly over a long period of time, but there's never any romantic attachment (on my part), because I have everything I need in that respect, with my husband.
Good friendship with great sex is generally what I look for.
V x
It seems an ideal situation?"
Absolutely! I have totally freedom to be myself, to explore sexual connections with other people, and enjoy as much sex as I want/need. I share my adventures with my husband by way of photos, videos and telling him all about what I've been up to while we're having sex, which adds an extra element of horniness!
Enjoying this lifestyle has had a very positive impact on our marriage - I'm a free spirited woman, being confined or restricted in a relationship really doesn't suit me. Having the freedom to be completely myself, and be loved for who I am, is the most amazingly liberating feeling, and I love my husband so much for embracing everything I am, without trying to control or change me.
I should point out that my husband has the same freedom to explore connections with other people, but he's yet to meet anyone he wants to do that with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a been a boyfriend to a wife (married couple) for 4 years. Met on here actually and had great fun. We all became great friends so much so that i was invited to birthday parties and even played golf with hubby. No jealousy ego or clinginess and it worked. We sometimes would just have coffee and lunch when hubby worked away. Was an absolute amazing time.....miss it. So it can work nicely. |
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I fuck an old boyfriend quite often. |
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"Have a been a boyfriend to a wife (married couple) for 4 years. Met on here actually and had great fun. We all became great friends so much so that i was invited to birthday parties and even played golf with hubby. No jealousy ego or clinginess and it worked. We sometimes would just have coffee and lunch when hubby worked away. Was an absolute amazing time.....miss it. So it can work nicely. "
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I have a couple of wives that I see (or used to pre Covid) fairly regularly for some bf like meets. I always find the sex is better when you get to know someone and if their hubby knows about it then all the better |
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This sounds like polyamory.
My wife and I are in polyamorous. She currently has a boyfriend and a strong FWB connection. I have another wife (handfasted) and some other connections.
It's beautiful when it works. Requires lots of open communication and commitment to all the relationships. |
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"Pansexual is the way to go"
Now l think l might be pansexual |
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I was the boyfriend of a lady for about 2 years. Her husband encouraged our relationship which revolved around dinner dates, walks and mind blowing sex (sometimes with him watching). We all got something out of the experience. |
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Yes this works for me too
There has to be total trust between the husband the wife and the guy.
Pre COVID I was seeing a woman who I have known since school. Her husband works away lots and he likes to listen to us fucking on the phone and she talks to him during sex
I know him but he doesn’t know me
It’s very kinky and she tells him all about me without revealing my true self.
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"I was the boyfriend of a lady for about 2 years. Her husband encouraged our relationship which revolved around dinner dates, walks and mind blowing sex (sometimes with him watching). We all got something out of the experience. "
all happy
That is key! |
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"Does any of the wives on here ever had a boyfriend as regular feature in the marriage?
I was offered that possibility a few weeks ago."
Many moons I dated for married lady for a couple of years - she wasnt a swinger, but had boyfriends as well as husband (who knew and approved). When i was dating her - she had two other FWBs - what a lady! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few years ago my wife had a regular fuck buddy, started off as a mfm threesome,but as time went on she just wanted him on his own. She was developing feelings for him. In the end he decided he didn't want to see her anymore,he texted me to tell her. She took it badly & said if she couldn't have him she didn't want anyone else, including me. We've not had sex for over five years.
So it may work for some,but it was a big mistake for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are actually looking for such an arrangments with a proper guy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife has a fuck buddy. Makes me horny as hell if I think they are shagging. The reclaim sex is awesome.. Turned on just writing this post..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wife has a fuck buddy. Makes me horny as hell if I think they are shagging. The reclaim sex is awesome.. Turned on just writing this post.. "
If she's looking for another one m8 send me you're post code lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would defo love to have a local fwb aswell like lots of other people |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;) |
"Wife has a fuck buddy. Makes me horny as hell if I think they are shagging. The reclaim sex is awesome.. Turned on just writing this post.. "
I was seeing a lady for over 2 years, her hubby said the exact same thing.
Even went on holidays with them. She’d make him sleep in another room so he heard it all and it would make him wild for her when she went back  |
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A married woman who's relationship with her hubby has a cuckold or swinging dynamic is my version of the rarest of rare unicorns. |
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I (hubby) love the idea of the cuckoo dynamic. Mrs isn't so sure. |
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Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah had a boyfriend for around 6 months, then it fizzled out as he couldnt meet often enough. Another, but he decided we should break up our marriage after a few weeks so he could be exclusive...so he didnt work out oddly! |
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"Yeah had a boyfriend for around 6 months, then it fizzled out as he couldnt meet often enough. Another, but he decided we should break up our marriage after a few weeks so he could be exclusive...so he didnt work out oddly! "
I wonder why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know! we met him on fab, but he felt 'it was inappropriate to share a wife' therefore he would step up and take over the reigns to treat me better...he was just out a marriage so I let him down gently and ran |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years. "
How did you explain that to friends and family? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who need a boyfriend, i am in London |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?"
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone. |
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"Yeah had a boyfriend for around 6 months, then it fizzled out as he couldnt meet often enough. Another, but he decided we should break up our marriage after a few weeks so he could be exclusive...so he didnt work out oddly! "
A lot of single guys slide into that mindset but that's so not me. I've got used to living alone now and with a married woman I think the potential for my version of a harmonious balance is easier to achieve. |
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No but I've had girlfriends before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some brilliant posts....brings back great memories. The key is the no hangups or jealousy. had such great fun. Met loads of the 'hotwifes' friends....they all sussed it out and were envious she had two men satisfying her lol. |
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Love the idea of it, but I would want the dates, etc and not just the sex.
Realistically though, I wouldn't have the time!
- Amy. x |
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It seems a lot of people on this thread are confusing boyfriend with fuck buddy, if you are only meeting this person for sex then it's just a sex partner. A boyfriend would be like dating someone before you got married, so dates, spending time together outside of the bedroom, etc |
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"It seems a lot of people on this thread are confusing boyfriend with fuck buddy, if you are only meeting this person for sex then it's just a sex partner. A boyfriend would be like dating someone before you got married, so dates, spending time together outside of the bedroom, etc"
spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a boyfriends aswell as hubby. "
What another?.... wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This would suit me as I’m not looking for a full on relationship but this sounds interesting if I catch anyone’s eye get in touch . |
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"I have connections with several men who I meet fairly regularly (just to clarify, I don't meet them all together, although that would be fun! ), but I would term them playmates rather than boyfriends, apart from one who prefers the term lover.
We enjoy friendship with each other, and I'll often grow quite fond of them if we meet regularly over a long period of time, but there's never any romantic attachment (on my part), because I have everything I need in that respect, with my husband.
Good friendship with great sex is generally what I look for.
V x
It seems an ideal situation?
Absolutely! I have totally freedom to be myself, to explore sexual connections with other people, and enjoy as much sex as I want/need. I share my adventures with my husband by way of photos, videos and telling him all about what I've been up to while we're having sex, which adds an extra element of horniness!
Enjoying this lifestyle has had a very positive impact on our marriage - I'm a free spirited woman, being confined or restricted in a relationship really doesn't suit me. Having the freedom to be completely myself, and be loved for who I am, is the most amazingly liberating feeling, and I love my husband so much for embracing everything I am, without trying to control or change me.
I should point out that my husband has the same freedom to explore connections with other people, but he's yet to meet anyone he wants to do that with.
This is me too. Freedom to play and find other sexual relationships. The more I play with a lover the better it tends to get. I love the connection you can get when the attachment is greater x
V x"
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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago
Bridgwater, Somerset |
No but having a girlfriend as well as jay has been considered  |
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We are actually looking for such an arrangments with a proper man with 7.5 or 8" only thanks
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"It seems a lot of people on this thread are confusing boyfriend with fuck buddy, if you are only meeting this person for sex then it's just a sex partner. A boyfriend would be like dating someone before you got married, so dates, spending time together outside of the bedroom, etc"
Indeed. When I say my wife has a boyfriend, I mean they're in love. They have dates (non covid times) as well as exciting sex.
When I say in handfasted to second wife I mean we are in love, we date, go on holidays together. And yes, my live in wife and I do ask those things together too. |
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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago
Inverness |
We'd love to have a girlfriend for the lady in this couple, but it's an almost impossible thing to find up here! |
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Would really love this scenario, but with certain caveats such as single guy , fairly near , own place and living alone , experienced , and willing to send me lots of pics |
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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago
Bridgwater, Somerset |
"We'd love to have a girlfriend for the lady in this couple, but it's an almost impossible thing to find up here! "
Really we get loads of messages from couples and singles ladies in Scotland it's a little too far for us to travel from Somerset |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anyone wants a boyfriend |
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"Would really love this scenario, but with certain caveats such as single guy , fairly near , own place and living alone , experienced , and willing to send me lots of pics "
The thing is, it doesn't really work if you think of the boyfriend as a series of boxes to tick. Or girlfriend or whoever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spot on.....not all about the sex.....simple coffee/lunch/or shopping trip. Did all those as well have incredible sex with wife and as a mmf with hubby. |
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"Spot on.....not all about the sex.....simple coffee/lunch/or shopping trip. Did all those as well have incredible sex with wife and as a mmf with hubby. "
Ideal outcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife did. They went away together and they had nights together. All I asked for was a couple of naughty pics and to know she was enjoying herself. Worked well for us. |
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my wife has had a couple of long term bfs...keeps us both happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This sort of arrangement would suit me perfectly |
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"This sort of arrangement would suit me perfectly "
I’ve done this a few times and I would love to do it again, a perfect arrangement especially once we’re out of lockdown. |
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By *inranWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
I've had a couple of long term boyfriends alongside hubby.
The more love the better in my opinion as long as I have the right amount of time to sustain things properly. |
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My mrs has a boyfriend as well as me long term |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone. "
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement! |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!"
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands. |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands."
Bloody hell - that is lovely. I just love the thought of all three of you going to a pub/dinner and then going home. Everyone assuming that the other guy would sleep in the other room - and no one releasing that he would he would be the one sleeping with Silky that evening....wow! |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands.
Bloody hell - that is lovely. I just love the thought of all three of you going to a pub/dinner and then going home. Everyone assuming that the other guy would sleep in the other room - and no one releasing that he would he would be the one sleeping with Silky that evening....wow!"
We have a super king size bed so we all slept in the same bed each night with Silky in the middle |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands.
Bloody hell - that is lovely. I just love the thought of all three of you going to a pub/dinner and then going home. Everyone assuming that the other guy would sleep in the other room - and no one releasing that he would he would be the one sleeping with Silky that evening....wow!
We have a super king size bed so we all slept in the same bed each night with Silky in the middle "
Wow - now that is sexy - must be wonderful to be taking it easy while another man is having sex with your wife..and then its ur turn. Bliss! |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands.
Bloody hell - that is lovely. I just love the thought of all three of you going to a pub/dinner and then going home. Everyone assuming that the other guy would sleep in the other room - and no one releasing that he would he would be the one sleeping with Silky that evening....wow!
We have a super king size bed so we all slept in the same bed each night with Silky in the middle
Wow - now that is sexy - must be wonderful to be taking it easy while another man is having sex with your wife..and then its ur turn. Bliss!"
Sometimes it's nice to be able to have a night off |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands.
Bloody hell - that is lovely. I just love the thought of all three of you going to a pub/dinner and then going home. Everyone assuming that the other guy would sleep in the other room - and no one releasing that he would he would be the one sleeping with Silky that evening....wow!
We have a super king size bed so we all slept in the same bed each night with Silky in the middle
Wow - now that is sexy - must be wonderful to be taking it easy while another man is having sex with your wife..and then its ur turn. Bliss!
Sometimes it's nice to be able to have a night off "
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"It’s so hard to find the right guy
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I'm here |
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"Wife has a fuck buddy. Makes me horny as hell if I think they are shagging. The reclaim sex is awesome.. Turned on just writing this post.. "
If she needs an extra one, get in touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had 3 girlfriends over the last 10 years.
Really enjoy the female connection.
Would like another. X |
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"It’s so hard to find the right guy
X"
If I could be of any assistance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands."
Bliss |
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"I want to be that guy. Hehe  "
Good luck |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands."
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Intriguing group this and reading with interest x would live to part of an arrangement such as this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands.
Bloody hell - that is lovely. I just love the thought of all three of you going to a pub/dinner and then going home. Everyone assuming that the other guy would sleep in the other room - and no one releasing that he would he would be the one sleeping with Silky that evening....wow!
We have a super king size bed so we all slept in the same bed each night with Silky in the middle
Wow - now that is sexy - must be wonderful to be taking it easy while another man is having sex with your wife..and then its ur turn. Bliss!
Sometimes it's nice to be able to have a night off "
That exactly what we are looking for as well! To find a mature guy to be her boyfriend and be part of our marriage x |
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"Although it wasn't something we were looking for Silky ended up having a boyfriend who moved in with us for a number of years.
How did you explain that to friends and family?
We told them we met him at a gig, had the same interests in music and football so they just got used to seeing him here as he was either "coming over to watch the match or have a night drinking listening to music." It was never questioned by anyone. Family and friends just accepted he had become a mate of ours and assumed he slept in one of the other bedrooms. Our kids are grown up and have left home so we live alone.
Wow - what a lovely and erotic arrangement!
It really was. Both he and I had unusual work patterns so if I was in work at the weekend he would take her out for Sunday lunch or if I was working late he would take her to a bar and vice versa. If we were both free at the same time we would all go together. She effectively had two husbands.
Bloody hell - that is lovely. I just love the thought of all three of you going to a pub/dinner and then going home. Everyone assuming that the other guy would sleep in the other room - and no one releasing that he would he would be the one sleeping with Silky that evening....wow!
We have a super king size bed so we all slept in the same bed each night with Silky in the middle
Wow - now that is sexy - must be wonderful to be taking it easy while another man is having sex with your wife..and then its ur turn. Bliss!
Sometimes it's nice to be able to have a night off
That exactly what we are looking for as well! To find a mature guy to be her boyfriend and be part of our marriage x"
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
West Midlands |
This is definitely something for us to get into. Looking forward to it |
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"This is definitely something for us to get into. Looking forward to it"
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"Does any of the wives on here ever had a boyfriend as regular feature in the marriage?
I was offered that possibility a few weeks ago."
my wife had a toyboy for a few years a while back. I never got to watch or join in but had some sloppy seconds and a full rundown of the action. |
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Something i fell into for about 18 months until they moved abroad with work. Still chat with them now but the USA is a bit far for a weekly meet up |
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By *678Man
over a year ago
Surrey |
Ready and available for post-Covid regularity
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"Ready and available for post-Covid regularity
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good luck |
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By *678Man
over a year ago
Surrey |
"Ready and available for post-Covid regularity
good luck"
I’m sure I’ll need it |
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"Does any of the wives on here ever had a boyfriend as regular feature in the marriage?
I was offered that possibility a few weeks ago.my wife had a toyboy for a few years a while back. I never got to watch or join in but had some sloppy seconds and a full rundown of the action. "
mine did too |
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"Does any of the wives on here ever had a boyfriend as regular feature in the marriage?
I was offered that possibility a few weeks ago.my wife had a toyboy for a few years a while back. I never got to watch or join in but had some sloppy seconds and a full rundown of the action.
mine did too"
Wow |
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"She effectively had two husbands."
I have two wives, one legal and one handfasted.
Legal wife also has a boyfriend. Handfasted wife has another husband. |
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"I fuck an old boyfriend quite often."
Pre Covid, my wife entertained her childhood boyfriend. He use to come over once a month for a couple of hours of fun. It was my idea to invite him over. Glad she has someone to make her feel wanted like that. |
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"I fuck an old boyfriend quite often.
Pre Covid, my wife entertained her childhood boyfriend. He use to come over once a month for a couple of hours of fun. It was my idea to invite him over. Glad she has someone to make her feel wanted like that."
wonderful arrangement |
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"I have had 3 girlfriends over the last 10 years.
Really enjoy the female connection.
Would like another. X "
Good hunting x |
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weve been looking for this sort of arrangement for some time now- its never easy to find asomeone who wants this also but we persevere
"This is definitely something for us to get into. Looking forward to it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a boyfriends aswell as hubby. "
Does hubby know? |
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"I have a boyfriends aswell as hubby.
Does hubby know?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have 2 male FWB who I see alone, does that count? |
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"I have 2 male FWB who I see alone, does that count?"
Indeed it does lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 2 male FWB who I see alone, does that count?
Indeed it does lol"
Well then it’s great, I see them individually once every 1-2months (pre lockdown). One older one younger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have spoken about it and would like to meet a nice hung male to come and play with the missus on a regular basis. |
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"I have 2 male FWB who I see alone, does that count?
Indeed it does lol
Well then it’s great, I see them individually once every 1-2months (pre lockdown). One older one younger. "
Fantastic x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have 2 male FWB who I see alone, does that count?
Indeed it does lol
Well then it’s great, I see them individually once every 1-2months (pre lockdown). One older one younger.
Fantastic x"
It really is! |
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"I have 2 male FWB who I see alone, does that count?
Indeed it does lol
Well then it’s great, I see them individually once every 1-2months (pre lockdown). One older one younger.
Fantastic x
It really is!"
I am happy for you x |
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"We have spoken about it and would like to meet a nice hung male to come and play with the missus on a regular basis. "
Go for it |
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"We have spoken about it and would like to meet a nice hung male to come and play with the missus on a regular basis. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is our ideal scenario but extremely hard to find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, it works very well for me and hubby. |
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Hi had a meet with a female very nice every body was aware of situation .would love another such articles any one interested message me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was the third wheel in a relationship, we would even holiday together. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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Have many couples drifted from regular meets to exclusive bf?
Or when you say bf are you exclusive or all feee to meet others too? |
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"Have many couples drifted from regular meets to exclusive bf?
Or when you say bf are you exclusive or all feee to meet others too?"
Yes exclusive relationship |
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Would like this but only 6/7 meets a year |
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I think the hardest part of this is finding someone who lives close enough that’s your type. |
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"Yes, it works very well for me and hubby. "
Lovely profile. So much in common; just both seeking the perfect lover x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, it works very well for me and hubby.
Lovely profile. So much in common; just both seeking the perfect lover x"
Your profile is equally as lovely, as are your pics |
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Yes and it’s exceptional when it works |
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"Yes and it’s exceptional when it works "
it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is our ideal scenario but extremely hard to find "
Yes we think now it's impossible xx |
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"This is our ideal scenario but extremely hard to find
Yes we think now it's impossible xx"
Why? |
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By *rs spicyCouple
over a year ago
Chesterfield near centre |
I've had a boyfriend and FWB in the past and its worked well for us.
I currently have a vacancy or two to fill. |
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"I've had a boyfriend and FWB in the past and its worked well for us.
I currently have a vacancy or two to fill. "
I can imagine you will have a long queue of applicants for those vacancies x |
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By *bra30Couple
over a year ago
Near by |
We’ve spoke about it. But it’s just finding the time to commit to it and also finding the right man.
If I did do it I’d let Aaron have a girlfriend as well though |
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"We’ve spoke about it. But it’s just finding the time to commit to it and also finding the right man.
If I did do it I’d let Aaron have a girlfriend as well though "
That is very fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love my wife to have a bf and tell me the stuff they do. The thought of her going out to be fucked is unreal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does your partner know |
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A few years ago the wife had a fwb for around 18 months and now said she would love another |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just settle with 1 boyf..
You lot stop pinching 2...lol, leave us singletons something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few years ago the wife had a fwb for around 18 months and now said she would love another "
I think that's good she has had a fwb and it's even better that she wants another one x it's great that you don't mind that too m8 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love this"
So would a lot of people on here but wouldn't say so x well done you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love this
So would a lot of people on here but wouldn't say so x well done you x "
Unfortunately hubby doesn't like the idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love this
So would a lot of people on here but wouldn't say so x well done you x
Unfortunately hubby doesn't like the idea "
That's a shame x i remember you said that the last time xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We want this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We want this"
Quite right x i personally think it's a great thing to do x |
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Wish some of you who are receptive to this idea were a bit closer. On the three occasions that I have been the longer term extra guy in a couples so called stable relationship, it's ended on a sour note, as she became more emotionally attached to myself, with us spending quality time together, often overnight for several days, without him being made aware of what was happening, and me not knowing any different. I said that it was never going to happen again, but a few of the profiles I've just read could be temptation on the highest level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jane had a young guy she met regularly for over 10 years until he moved away worked well for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jane had a young guy she met regularly for over 10 years until he moved away worked well for us. "
That's exactly what I mean x |
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Wife has an older boyfriend we met on here a few years ago. They chat on the phone and go out for meals and shopping.
We both get on with him.
Wife is now also looking for a girlfriend. |
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Have had a boyfriend in the past and looking again (exclusive is possible) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If there's a bisexual couple around north Staffs and south Cheshire then I may be able to satisfy you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have had a boyfriend in the past and looking again (exclusive is possible)"
Oh to live near Telford |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs E has a position to fill too |
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I love this arrangement. It suits me really well. I had this before with someone on Fab. I met the wife regularly, had coffee with her hubby and kids sometimes, and we had great meets alone together.
It's nice when you can have that openess and respect boundaries and just be relaxed about the while arrangement.
I am actively looking for a new FWB now
Mx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a fantastic time being the boyfriend in a polyamorous relationship. We would go on dates, fuck. Netflix and chill, fuck. Even went on holiday together, fuck! |
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"I had a fantastic time being the boyfriend in a polyamorous relationship. We would go on dates, fuck. Netflix and chill, fuck. Even went on holiday together, fuck! "
Lucky man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I - Karl have a gf and Sheila used to have two boyfriends in Kent and is looking for a new one here in Wales |
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By *ands09Couple
over a year ago
West London |
Yes.. Mrs had a boyfriend for six years until he got married 2 years ago ..they have been to holiday together twice too... |
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"Yes.. Mrs had a boyfriend for six years until he got married 2 years ago ..they have been to holiday together twice too..."
That’s fantastic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*starts sending resumes* |
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"Mrs E has a position to fill too "
CV’s invited? |
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Played the boyfriend role a handful of times. Very enjoyable |
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I would be delighted to be invited but I wouldn’t think of myself as a boyfriend. |
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By *elkinMan
over a year ago
Derbyshire |
"I've had a boyfriend and FWB in the past and its worked well for us.
I currently have a vacancy or two to fill. "
I would love to fill any of your vacancies Mrs Spicy |
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Hey, i would be interested in this! Is there a couple / wife around the North?
Wink or mail me |
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Love this scenario and had some limited success locally. Main thing seems to be keeping it going as often a couple will have a lifestyle change or move etc. Be lovely to find a hotwife or single lady to get to know & build up a regular meet-up. xx |
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