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What's the first thing you look at on a profile?
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Distance first, then whether they can accommodate because i can't. Then i read the profile. If it's a couple of sentences I'll just pass. But if it's a great profile i will then look at pics. If they are all just cock pics or action pics i will again pass but usually interesting profiles will have a good variety of pics. |
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Scan the text first to see if it chimes with us (coherent sentences are a start, similar outlook next)
Look for verified next
Location and what they are looking for after that
Then have a look at photos
Is it any wonder we don’t find many profiles to message!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We read the bio. Doesn't matter how good someone looks, for us, their bio let's us know what type of people they are.
If it's only a few words, or just a list of demands, not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I'm really interested, their profile to see if we match. And their "what we are looking for section" to check if there is any interest in single guys. If we don't I will likely click away.
If their profile pic has caught my eye I will check out their gallery, fab anything that catches my eye and move on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Then verifications.. the amount and who they are from.
If they have verifications from certain people then I won’t meet.
It’s a wonder how I ever meet anyone lol |
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On the assumption that you mean someone who has messaged me instead of someone on the forums, it goes like this. First the bit at the top with their age, location, and avatar (if they have one). Then I scroll down to the info bit to see if they’re a smoker, then I read the profile text (if there is any). Then I scroll back up to look at their photos, then if they’re local, their veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Location then pictures.
If I like the pictures i will then look at height and age.
you sound like me in the way I filter through men... it's probably quite common for women to think this way. "
So hard to get all those stars aligned too haha |
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By *unichMan
over a year ago
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I look instantly for those little symbols for verification, supporter etc.
The more of them there are, the more credible I am likely to find the profile, and the more interested I might possibly be.
If it's just a mobile phone symbol, then I'll just move onwards, no matter how enticing the pictures or wording might be.... |
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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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Pics, as long as the profile has them of course. But, yes, that's the 1st thing us red blooded males look at. When we see a female form we instantly scan them to see if they're fuckable or not.
Sorry if that's too primeval in its brutal honesty but it harks back to more base functions of finding a mate. |
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"Age and marital status I presume?"
We look for how much effort has been put into it. Is it yet another lazy cock shot filled one liner with all the default tick box options selected or has the subject actually bothered to tell us something worth knowing. |
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"Pics, as long as the profile has them of course. But, yes, that's the 1st thing us red blooded males look at. When we see a female form we instantly scan them to see if they're fuckable or not.
Sorry if that's too primeval in its brutal honesty but it harks back to more base functions of finding a mate. "
Oh, we all know that’s the first thing men look at. The problem is that it’s usually also the last thing they look at, as they never make it to the text before messaging. |
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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"Pics, as long as the profile has them of course. But, yes, that's the 1st thing us red blooded males look at. When we see a female form we instantly scan them to see if they're fuckable or not.
Sorry if that's too primeval in its brutal honesty but it harks back to more base functions of finding a mate.
Oh, we all know that’s the first thing men look at. The problem is that it’s usually also the last thing they look at, as they never make it to the text before messaging."
And 99% of people on here are guilty as charged of that. Absolutely agree.
Always baffles me as many profiles make great reading. As well as giving vital clues as to potentially suitability of course. Anyway, that's their loss! |
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1)Recent face piccy
So i can see who i am talking to
Apart from toalkin with a dickjead if thry msg me with jusr dick piccys up
2)Then distance see of they are close by as i dont have a car
3)ALWAYS WILL CHECK THST THEY ARE SINGLE ONLY
If they say they are married or have a partner
Then state they are lookin for discreet sorry its a block
4)If they state they cannot accommodate
Just see who they say they live with
5) see how many veris they have
If they hsve a good fair few and the dates are close together-
Block, shows how sad n desperste they are just lookin to shag anyone n anything
6) Check the photos
7) read profile- see what interests u to msg them
The turnoffs
Are the ones who say they have been on before n left
But then come back on n stste if u had met them b4 askin thrm to leave a veri agsin
Dont get that they fucked someone them fucked off probably cos they met someone
Then come back on askin them to leave them a veri from when they had met prob 2 yrs ago
FUCK THAT
They left to stsrt seein someone so why shud u just leave them a veri wen they co.e back with a new profile
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By (user no longer on site)
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Distance see of they are close as I dont drive and may guys message me from Wales as I keep coming up as being 30 miles away were I can be over 170 miles away.
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"1)Recent face piccy
So i can see who i am talking to
Apart from toalkin with a dickjead if thry msg me with jusr dick piccys up
2)Then distance see of they are close by as i dont have a car
3)ALWAYS WILL CHECK THST THEY ARE SINGLE ONLY
If they say they are married or have a partner
Then state they are lookin for discreet sorry its a block
4)If they state they cannot accommodate
Just see who they say they live with
5) see how many veris they have
If they hsve a good fair few and the dates are close together-
Block, shows how sad n desperste they are just lookin to shag anyone n anything
6) Check the photos
7) read profile- see what interests u to msg them
The turnoffs
Are the ones who say they have been on before n left
But then come back on n stste if u had met them b4 askin thrm to leave a veri agsin
Dont get that they fucked someone them fucked off probably cos they met someone
Then come back on askin them to leave them a veri from when they had met prob 2 yrs ago
FUCK THAT
They left to stsrt seein someone so why shud u just leave them a veri wen they co.e back with a new profile
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see what their grammar is like! ?? |
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Age, pictures because that’s literally the first thing I see when I click on the profile. But the actually profile description is just as important as pictures. We’ll turn down a hot pic if we wasn’t on board with the description.
Haven’t really taken much notice of verification |
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We always look at the profile write up first to see if we tick their boxes and visa versa. Then look at their pictures, as there is no point getting excited looking out a members pictures to find out they don’t meet smokers etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Distance first as I have no intention of meeting anyone from stupid far away, then if they smoke or not as I dislike meeting people who smoke then once I know there are no deal breakers I'll check out the profile and pictures to see if the person interests me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at the pictures first and then if I like those I read what they're looking for. I look at their veris next to see what type of people they are attracted to. A well written bio is always good and shows they have a bit of something about themselves instead of the will fill in later brigade |
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