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"Are there single women on here that are into meeting couples. Or are they rarer than a unicorn?
It’s a myth , but does happen in a club environment "
We have never found single females in clubs, we have had more than our fair share of single females, however most have not been off here. As we are quite open about our lifestyle we get propositioned quite often! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.
It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr here. We've met single girls in a club, but still to find a girl on here who is also looking for the social side of things, which due to the dynamics we can totally appreciate.
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
It very much depends on whether I feel an attraction/connection with both members of the couple & what they can offer me. A lot of couples are very focused on what they want & forget that the single female isn't just there for their entertainment.
I prefer to meet couples in real life and get a feel for how their relationship works before I will consider getting involved.
Pre pandemic I had 2 couples who I would meet regularly. The first I met at a club & they then introduced me to the other couple. |
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We have some single friends that we play (pre covid) with quite regularly, and usually meet others either out and about or at clubs.
We’ve met a few from here but the vast majority not. We like to have a good connection and first and foremost be friends, think it can be a little tough on here. But they’re definitely out there, as long as you don’t treat them as a plaything to your relationship but a friend and actual human themselves you’d be surprised how many are up for playing with couples.
Our one friend said it’s less complicated, she knows neither of us are going to get weird or catch feels, although we care about her, and she doesn’t have any obligation to keep us entertained 9-5, so it works great for her life. |
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We've met several single ladies and played with the female of couples too.
It's about the connection but mostly about trust.
There must be a balance of needs, we always ask what she would like out of it. Preferences pop a cherry her for something she'd like to try or a wild fantasy . We've done only one fantasy so far, but would love to do more. 
We're also a kinked couple (Bi-Domme and a Bi-switch) so can introduce her to being a sub or Mr R can switch down to show her how to be a Domme. So, the girl if she's a newbie or an experience sub we have all her kinky bases covered. Come hither sweet lady, let us corrupt you even more xxx |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
"I’m open to playing with couples.
It’s just very off putting when you’re basically treated as their plaything and it’s only about their wants  "
Agree, we get soo many request from the male of the couple to meet her on her own, use words like wanting to share her!! |
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By *edlipsCouple
over a year ago
Crewkerne |
"I’m open to meeting couples, but it’s hard to find ones where I’m attracted to both, and I don’t feel like it’s all about their wants."
We always try to make it about the single person joining us. They have put their trust in us so make sure they go away smiling with shaky legs that way you're sure of a rematch. |
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Hi all we have met a some singles in clubs and at organised socials, and the odd party but never off fab. We like too make it so everyone gets what they want out of any meets we have, it's never just about us, we do like to wine and dine before we 69 lol  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do but im really fussy who I meet after having a bad experience. If the couple has plenty experience then great makes things easier otherwise everything is on their terms and I feel like the invader |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'd like to meet more couples - I think I'd find it easier than single men. The only thing that would make me a bit hesitant would be not wanting any weird dynamics, trying to find a couple where we all are attracted to each other.... yeah. It's not that easy sadly. |
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I've met a few couples.
Takes a bit of sorting and a social meet first but generally only meet if we all play but have been to a couples house where the girls play and the husband watches or films.
Great fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're are yet to meet a single lady, we have been offered put we werent all in agreement on the attraction we all have to be on the same wavelength!
And its amazing how many couples message just trying to meet the fem by herself, its a couples account for a reason?  |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
harwich |
its a fact that the more people involved the dynamics get harder weve always found three easy but four nearly impossible
its so hard with four not to just become two couples shagging next to each other with three every one is involved all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet a wonderful single lady for fun as a couple, plus my boyfriend has had a solo meet with her and they have Skype and play for each other as I watch them both...which I love. She has turned up as a surprise birthday treat for my boyfriend...and I enjoyed that too.
I would also play solo with her and we are planning a couples meet with her and her FWB when safe to do so. We tried to arrange a gangbang for her and I and one day we will go to a club with her... she has become a fantastic friend and playmate.
Her x
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By *S2LOOKCouple
over a year ago
Near Cardiff |
We're looking for single females but they do seem to be rare, despite the amount saying they're looking for a couple. Though, to be fair we haven't look very much with covid and all.
From reading some replies here I'm glad we discussed it with each other and agreed any female that we meet with takes more of a priority to make sure they're happy, comfortable and don't feel like a spare wheel or used in some way during a meet. At the end of the day hopefully were all looking for fun and that's what everyone will have experienced after any meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been open to meeting couples, but I agree with the issues that others have raised. Couples generally have too many rules, or they bring drama, or I am only allowed to play with one member, or they want me to be a sex toy for their amusement, or I am only attracted to one and not the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We exist. It can be challenging
Not if all 3 of you get on x
Sure. That's one of the issues"
I guess its hard to find one person to click with so two is harder.
I'm lucky I get on with them both.
Oh and they both get on with me lol x |
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Only twice in ten years have we managed to find single women to join us , at that was at house partys , never have at the club , well not yet anyway , have managed alone twice just private meets , but more fun when wife with me , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've found a lovely lady on here that wants to join us when it's safe to do so of course.
It's a shame as I think, like it's been mentioned some couples can be pushy, only use them as their play thing or have too many rules.
Shame some couples ruin it for other genuine couples though.
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We like to understand what the other lady wants and how we can help her too. The most important thing is maintaining the open communication to ensure we all know what eachother wants, likes, dislikes and how we can grow together. We like to get to know them on a social basis individually and as a couple so that they know our dynamic and can feel safe, secure and not feel like a third wheel for us to use. X |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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There is a difficulty for some couple and have seen this quite a few time. I have no interest in looking further than my own partner, she is the one who enjoys the FF side.
Lot of solo females are more interested in the both or the male while their female partner watches. Very few are interested in FF only even if the F is part of the couple.
Seen this come up a few times in the forums saying "only if both are interested", what if both aren't?
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"There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.
It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.
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This. 
I stopped meeting couples as a single because I’d end up feeling like a sex worker. I don’t want to be something to spice up someone's sex life, or a birthday gift to someone’s other half.
Just my experience, but I found the wives 'exploring their bi side' very sexually lazy, and the men terrified of upsetting them. It usually ended up with them lying back and being spoiled by both people.
Couple politics can be a nightmare, too. Very awkward entering a longtime dynamic. I found it easier to say 'no couples', after a while. |
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"There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.
It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.
This.
I stopped meeting couples as a single because I’d end up feeling like a sex worker. I don’t want to be something to spice up someone's sex life, or a birthday gift to someone’s other half.
Just my experience, but I found the wives 'exploring their bi side' very sexually lazy, and the men terrified of upsetting them. It usually ended up with them lying back and being spoiled by both people.
Couple politics can be a nightmare, too. Very awkward entering a longtime dynamic. I found it easier to say 'no couples', after a while."
Thats a huge shame, we would both enjoy getting to know you and seeing if we all clicked.
Its nice learning peoples opinions on what did or didn't work. Allows for us to become more aware x |
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"Are there single women on here that are into meeting couples. Or are they rarer than a unicorn?
It’s a myth , but does happen in a club environment "
Yes we once had a very hot club meet with a single lady |
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"There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.
It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.
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How very true! I have had a negative answer to this question up to very recently as I heard too many stories from my friends about couples mistreating sigle women.
Recently I decided that I would like to find out for myself rather than relying on what I've heard but I am rather cautious bearing in mind the inherent power imbalance.
After thinking about it quite a lot I realised that I can see a way how this might be possible for me, providing I could find a couple who would be a match.
It is a bit specific as the scenario I can see working for me would rely on the woman being in the lead, being the one who is very clearly attracted to me and who is happy to make me the centre of attention (hers alone or both, as she wishes) and a pet to play with - but a well treated and treasured pet who has to be impressed and seduced first. In any situation with a couple I just don't see myself prioritising a man, a woman's comfort is the most important thing for me so of course, if I feel any sort of weird dynamics where I am not sure if the woman is truly attracted to me or that she might be doing this to please the man I will just walk away.
I also see this as a potentially safer option than meeting men on their own and also a way to explore my potential bisexuality without hurting another woman as I don't want to be a "tourist" so to speak.
Just like anything we really want - it all requires time, effort and luck.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are women who play solo that meet couples, but as with everything its about connection, attraction and timing.
It can be hard for a couple to appeal to single women due to what they want to get out of an encounter.
This.
I stopped meeting couples as a single because I’d end up feeling like a sex worker. I don’t want to be something to spice up someone's sex life, or a birthday gift to someone’s other half.
Just my experience, but I found the wives 'exploring their bi side' very sexually lazy, and the men terrified of upsetting them. It usually ended up with them lying back and being spoiled by both people.
Couple politics can be a nightmare, too. Very awkward entering a longtime dynamic. I found it easier to say 'no couples', after a while."
Totally get this but we are a FWBS couple and not exclusive. There isn’t any drama with us just great sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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used to meet couples as a couple and as just me but i got fed up with all the emotional crap that came with it so ill only play with couples in a club now... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I meet couples when the dynamic is right between all three of us. Ive met though fab and in clubs. Ive had good and bad experiences so im not as excited about as i once was but im certainly still open to it  |
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They are some about but personally Not found any on here that D is into as final decision is hers!
Only single girls we've met are a couple of Ds friends from Uni and one from a hot tub group on Facebook lol |
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By *rs RavensongWoman
over a year ago
Cheltenham, Gloucestershire |
I'm open to meeting couples, as long as I'm not just expected to play with the woman for the man's entertainment. I'd want everyone to be fully involved, and obviously need to feel attracted to both parties.
The experience I've had with couples has been very hot...going down on her while he fucks me, and vice versa, him cumming on our faces we kiss...so many erotic possibilities!
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I guess we must be doing something wrong. We have been unable to attract a single lady to join us and to build up s friendship.
To be honest we have stopped looking, as we find it very frustrating chatting to single ladies for them then stop chatting. |
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We’ve met more single women than couples and guys. It helps being fully bisexual, I think maybe being genuine and not pushy remember the ladies feelings. Takes a bit of guts for girl to go meet two people.
Also helps if you just genuinely like a right good laugh. |
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