As we all know in swinging the dynamics change quite often & we usually like to build up to a meet, chatting, cam etc etc but are now thinking about "off the cuff meets " when allowed obviously.
Which are better in your experience?
Happy fabbing all xx |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"As we all know in swinging the dynamics change quite often & we usually like to build up to a meet, chatting, cam etc etc but are now thinking about "off the cuff meets " when allowed obviously.
Which are better in your experience?
Happy fabbing all xx"
Think both are good....sometimes good to build up, bit of sexy anticipation etc.....but then sometimes good for the unexpected...especially for the person who's not expecting it. If you're doing the finding then its not really spontaeneous but if you get invited over when its not expected then that can be really exciting...
Settling down for Corrie one min...ten messages later, quick shower and in car 30 mins later...that is exciting  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Not a chance .The one time I met a guy who I had only chatted to for a couple of days was the worst and scariest meet I ever had.It was just a social but went south really fast when we got back to our cars so no I will never meet again without chatting for a good while . |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
In a club we will meet up with guys we have chatted with beforehand ... but also we "off the cuff" will invite a man or three to join us in play when the circumstances feel right. The lady is always in charge and these "extra hands" can be most appreciative and attentive. x Anne |
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"Clubs are best for this. Every night is different and you don't know exactly who will be there. But you know the people are real, and what you see is what you get  "
We have said this too.
And a club night is def on the cards, a first for us, dont try dont know |
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over a year ago
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I've had a couple of meets at the drop of a hat and they've been fine. I do prefer to talk for longer first by text and calls and get to know the person a little xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on who your meeting ...Guys tend to be off the cuff but with a couple theres a bit more to work out ..lol
Thats not to say after a few ciders we wouldnt meet a couple off the cuff x |
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"Not a chance .The one time I met a guy who I had only chatted to for a couple of days was the worst and scariest meet I ever had.It was just a social but went south really fast when we got back to our cars so no I will never meet again without chatting for a good while ."
This just no...... maybe it’s a single female thing but not a chance in hell would I meet someone after a few messages. |
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All my best meets have been planned and we had a social first.
I once took a chance and met someone faster with no social, I didn't really get much out of it let's just say.
So I stick to what works for me. |
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"As we all know in swinging the dynamics change quite often & we usually like to build up to a meet, chatting, cam etc etc but are now thinking about "off the cuff meets " when allowed obviously.
Which are better in your experience?
Happy fabbing all xx"
had a fair few off the cuff meets that have been great and it can work fine , clubs are fantastic too as you can have obviously meet and chat to the person before playing or not , great pics by the way , what a stunner |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
When I was part of a couple we would quite often do off the cuff meets, not something I'd be comfortable doing as a single female though. The only occasional exception to that is within the safety of a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We much prefer to chat for at least a few weeks first.. weve noticed a few that just give up and disappear after a few days when they realise we arent going to meet straight away. |
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"We much prefer to chat for at least a few weeks first.. weve noticed a few that just give up and disappear after a few days when they realise we arent going to meet straight away. "
We have also noticed this, patience is a virtue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met someone within 30 minutes of chatting she's been at my house.Ive spent weeks chatting to others before meeting.
Luckily there's only one that turned out bad and another that was just stupid.The rest have been amazing. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
The shortest time frame for a meet we have had was a week, and that was because we started chatting one weekend and arrange a meet for the following weekend.
It was a decent enough meet, we had enough time to establish boundaries, what people wanted to get out of it etc. |
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I prefer to get to know someone in a social rather than over messages/ phone/ cam
Get to know straight away if you wanna progress to a play meet or not (which may be straight after the social)
Otherwise you could have invested so much time but not feel it in person.
So in summary, yeah go for it |
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"As we all know in swinging the dynamics change quite often & we usually like to build up to a meet, chatting, cam etc etc but are now thinking about "off the cuff meets " when allowed obviously.
Which are better in your experience?
Happy fabbing all xx"
Have been doing most meets with long build ups and we absolutely love that. But did one where I never spoke to guy, husband set it up. We did it as a dogging meet, the bloke had veris so husband had a bit of an idea and they had been chatting. It was so hot, absolutely loved meeting a stranger and would definitely love to do it again. Freya x |
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