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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi,
I know what my husband gets out of watching me with another man and women too and what I enjoy about it . I'm just intrigued to know what you guys get from it? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was married we did quite a bit on the scene, it’s really hard to pin down why it’s so sexy. It’s something to do with wanting your partner to be attractive and wanted by other guys, yet she’s still yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I know what my husband gets out of watching me with another man and women too and what I enjoy about it . I'm just intrigued to know what you guys get from it? Xx"
I love 'Reclaim' sex. |
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"Hi,
I know what my husband gets out of watching me with another man and women too and what I enjoy about it . I'm just intrigued to know what you guys get from it? Xx"
I've not watched you have sex so couldn't say lol
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By *onny135Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
For me, it's something of a privilege (or an honour, if you will) to be invited to meet with a couple. Helping them fulfill a fantasy or just for fun & pleasure, it's an amazing experience playing with a wife whilst her hubby watches and maybe joins in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I loved watching my ex wife being with other guys,
Massive turn on,
She always told me when it happened and we then had amazing sex,
We could be together or her on her own,
Coming home from work knowing she'd been with a guy was great x |
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I love being watched by hubbies. Knowing that you are having someone else’s wife is a real turn on. I love that gasp as I first enter her and the way her eyes always have a look of delighted shock and then she always looks at hubby as if to say “I will always love you but this is me time now” - heaven! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A had one to explain, for me, its seeing the pleasure in her face as she's with another guy, being a slut, being a hot wife and more importantly being my wife. We absolutely love it, and the openness about it all, being able to discuss who she fancies with no jealousy involved. |
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"A had one to explain, for me, its seeing the pleasure in her face as she's with another guy, being a slut, being a hot wife and more importantly being my wife. We absolutely love it, and the openness about it all, being able to discuss who she fancies with no jealousy involved."
a very good understanding of how we tackle this ... it is about energizing our relationship with me being with other men (and also pleasuring me) x Anne
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
London/ South East |
"Never tried it yet but the thought of watching my wife enjoying herself being sexually confident is a massive trunk on! With any sex act the more she enjoys it the harder I get!!"
My kind of couple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have discussed this so much in our house and the thought of both of us watching the other with someone else is a big turn on for us and something we hope to happen when it’s safe xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the confidence it gives my wife, when she’s prepping for a meet. I prefer not to watch, so she can totally let go, and do what she wants.
I love the fact that I feel jealousy, pride and horny as fuck all at the same time.
But the reclaim sex is always amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love how turned on and excited it gets us how my wife reacts to the attention . Watching her is my favourite thing and joining in makes it even more exciting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s just like watching your own wife in a porn film and seeing and hearing the pleasure she gets .my wife is extra horny and I get the benefit after "
Lmao totally agree |
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Anticipation
Watching her being adored
Her confidence at how desireable she is
Breaking the (pointless) taboos
Seeing her extended pleasure
The sheer naughtiness
then
The safe intense tender intimacy of sex afterwards - without theatrics - you *know* how to get each other off and do so (and more) to reaffirm you as a couple.
It is probably addictive too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I know what my husband gets out of watching me with another man and women too and what I enjoy about it . I'm just intrigued to know what you guys get from it? Xx"
Live porn show with your favourite man as the star.
What’s not to like?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I know what my husband gets out of watching me with another man and women too and what I enjoy about it . I'm just intrigued to know what you guys get from it? Xx
Live porn show with your favourite man as the star.
What’s not to like? "
Your not wrong there  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love watching Paul with other women, it's a real turn on. I think part of it is knowing what they are experiencing with him that does it for me."
I can certainly relate to that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s a weird mix of jealousy, pride and horn ! Amazing watching your partner enjoying and being enjoyed ! "
Mixed bag of emotions but yeah, mostly horny ?? |
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Over the years I have thought about this - being the "gentleman friend" or wifelover is my side of things but I think it is the role of the "extra man" to see that both halves of his playmate couple have fun - and to do that it helps to understand what it is that the husband enjoys...
Rightly or wrongly, I think in many cases it is the extreme conflict of emotions.
The negative emotions that might be in play (and everyone is different!) are embarrassment, humiliation, jealousy, anger, fear, inadequacy, shame - maybe more.
The positive emotions could be pleasure, sexual arousal, excitement, satisfaction, love for one's partner....
The fact that it is a single action that is giving rise to all or many of these strong but wildly conflicting emotions I think causes an intensity of emotion that is hard to achieve in everyday life - maybe similar to the buzz achieved by those addicted to dangerous sports. I think it is this "hit" that not only causes the husband to enjoy the experience - but what makes him want to come back for more!
On the other hand, if the negative emotions overwhelm the positive - well you are not cut out for this activity!  |
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