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My question is if you are only meeting others for purely sexual gratification (you dont want to marry them) does age difference matter. Providing all are over the age of consent. |
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To us it doesn't matter that much but we tend to draw a line with people who are similar age or younger than our kids.
We don't knowingly go below mid 30's. Although in a club we don't ask for birth certificates.  |
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For us there is no upper age limit really. As long as the guy can get up and stay up. In fact my wife quite likes being the younger one (and being around 50 our options are diminishing!) she struggles to get her head around why she would be attractive to, let’s say a 23 year old. She often asks, why is he even on here? She has said she draws the line when they are the same age, or younger than our kids. |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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For me sex isn't simply about self gratification, it has more meaning to me which the people I talk to know. So age is a factor in this as I need that connection with someone which, I don't get with someone who is a lot younger, I'm also not attracted to youger people on a physical level and struggle on a mental level, I'm not saying younger people are less mature but, I find it hard to connect on that level.
Each to there own so long as all are consenting adults. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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It certainly matters to me, I have absolutely no inclination to get intimate with anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent. I also won't have sex with anyone I don't like enough to enjoy spending time with in a non sexual way.
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"It matters to us and that's all that matters. "
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There's also a huge difference for me in playing at clubs and on a 1 on 1 . I wouldn't necessarily ask for proof of age in a club or at a party  |
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over a year ago
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No way do we want to play with people the same age as our kids, just doesn't sit right. But that's our personal preference other people will feel differently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age isn't exactly and issue to us, more importantly is a connection, and the ability to hold an intellectual conversation.
Do agree with other posters who have said we wouldn't want to play with people who are our kids ages though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Il always look for older women as I’m generally more attracted to them so for me age is important in that sense.
But overall they have to have the right personality to click it’s not just about the sex for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe there have been similar posts.
My question is if you are only meeting others for purely sexual gratification (you dont want to marry them) does age difference matter. Providing all are over the age of consent."
Personally I’ve no interest in meeting any women/couples but my wife only meets much younger than us which is one of my kinks so it works for me.!!
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"It certainly matters to me, I have absolutely no inclination to get intimate with anyone young enough to be my child or old enough to be my parent. I also won't have sex with anyone I don't like enough to enjoy spending time with in a non sexual way.
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this to an extent for me - 100% agree in terms of arranging meets from the site and chatting before / during/ after meets - i’m a stimulate my mind aswell as my body kinda gal ,
also what others have said about physical attraction - i don’t find people just out their teens or people that look ages with my parents and above attractive (caveat that with anymore and yet - as i get older my tastes obviously track upward with me)
i would be less worried about it during a club meet because that would be more likely to be about just meeting there and then , just that once for only sex - unless they said y in conversation that made me uncomfortable and put me off, chances are on a club meet its all about physical attraction |
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Of course it matters. Why do some people think it is just sex? Jesus, you still have to fancy the other people. The only circumstances we could foresee where it might not be an issue is in a glory hole scenario or blindfold situation but if it was us, we would still want to vet who was participating. It really isn't a free for all! |
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"To some it will do especially if they have kids of a similar age. I can understand why. "
Exactly! I don’t want them to be closer to my children’s ages or my parents ages than they are mine. There are plenty of people outside our age ranges who are attractive and our age limits aren’t set in stone but we would feel more comfortable with people closer to our ages.
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