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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love bareback with people I know and trust but always use a condom at new meets, what are your preferences? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condom with almost everyone except Sir. Only one or two exceptions and with Sir's approval. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condoms until in a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you not use and condom with a stranger you met on the internet? Saying that, even a stranger you met down the pub or club (when we’re allowed too again).
I do prefer not to use a condom and everyone will say the same but it’s not worth risk imho |
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Condoms are awful but a necessary evil. |
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Can’t understand why people don’t always play safe. Quite a few reasons to - ie sti’s. Intrigued to know the number of infections bareback players pick up. |
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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago
Barnsley |
Condom always unless I’m in a relationship and we’ve both been tested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condom unless were exclusively just meeting one and other.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love bareback with people I know and trust but always use a condom at new meets, what are your preferences? "
My preference - obviously bareback, a totally superior experience.
Meeting someone off t’internet for a bit of a knee-trembler - condom on obviously!
So bareback whilst far, far better is only with those I’m in a relationship with |
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Safe with everyone but my partner. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I love bareback with people I know and trust but always use a condom at new meets, what are your preferences?
My preference - obviously bareback, a totally superior experience.
Meeting someone off t’internet for a bit of a knee-trembler - condom on obviously!
So bareback whilst far, far better is only with those I’m in a relationship with"
Exactly what he said. |
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By *rwoppaMan
over a year ago
st helens |
Always a comdon damit who wants drip dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BB FTW or For paying Child benefit
Condoms for some to avoid troublesome
#tuesdayRhymes |
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Without a condom is always going to feel better. Using a condom is not so much a preference as necessary way of protecting ourselves from you-know-what.
With each other we don't use protection because I've had the snip and I'm now a jaffa. We would use them with anybody else. Luke |
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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago
Greater Manchester |
Always, always with a condom when swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bareback! for deffs.
Feels so much better.  
However if I got told to wear a condom then I would.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My preference is not to use my penis at all, in fact, to be super safe I won’t even show up. |
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"Condoms until in a relationship"
As above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wrap it up b4 you slap it up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condom |
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Of course bareback is better, but being married it's just with the Mrs, safer than taking home unanticipated 'gifts' |
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Always a condom, not into playing russian roulette with anyone unless we in a full on relationship and trust each other. |
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Hasn’t this subject been done to death? It’s like Russian Roulette without, & don’t think anybody prefers sex with a condom over bare, but surely safety comes first, it’s like all the people wanting to meet during a pandemic. Whatever your thoughts it’s a risky business & it’s not for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condoms with new meets, insane otherwise, waiting to catch the sti bullet otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Raincoat every time! |
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"Condoms with new meets, insane otherwise, waiting to catch the sti bullet otherwise "
Or a baby. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms with new meets, insane otherwise, waiting to catch the sti bullet otherwise
Or a baby."
Or if super lucky both |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condom |
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Only use condoms for phone sex,
Don't want to catch hearing aids |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condom, I'd never do bareback with anyone but my husband. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never use condoms... But then I'm pretty sure my hand is clean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No condoms ever with the Mrs... I don’t need anyone else either so bareback it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bare for me, I know the risks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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condoms always |
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Bare for us, yes there are risks but life is full of risk |
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By *htcMan
over a year ago
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Bareback as honestly can't wear condom's even the non latex ones have a serious reaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bareback with the right person is always preferable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard to answer.
Bare if tested |
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Bareback is so much more fun but reality is we like to stay safe so hubby fills me but for others it's condom......or you can cum all over my tits  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not wanting sex with anyone but him, so bare. I LOVE him filling me |
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Good for you, Jessica, for being consistent about bareback and acknowledging the risks. Have you had a STI? I got one years ago:pubic lice and was wearing a condom. Good reason to trim or shave your pubes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mostly bareback..tho i leave it up to the guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love bareback with people I know and trust but always use a condom at new meets, what are your preferences? "
Why would you want to risk your own and other people health like that?
Its just not worth the hassle to be unsafe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Protection with anyone else unless its inked
(Miss) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a rule condom.
But with time trust and right person maybe not. King |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go away for weeks at a time, come back and see the same threads on a never ending loop
Its just like betamax.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about for oral sex? Health advisors say you should wear condoms for that too but really who does that....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about when giving woman oral sex do you use protection then?????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although kissing is considered to be low-risk when compared to intercourse and oral sex, it's possible for kissing to transmit CMV, herpes, and syphilis.
So do you use protection for kissing as well ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although kissing is considered to be low-risk when compared to intercourse and oral sex, it's possible for kissing to transmit CMV, herpes, and syphilis.
So do you use protection for kissing as well ??? "
surely you covered peoples logic to not using protection for kissing in your own post / it is considered to be low risk
people are not wearing condoms to remove 100% of risk because they are not 100% effective - they wear them to lower risk to an acceptable level for them... for most , the risk with kissing is already sufficiently low |
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In Risk Assessments we call it Risk Appetite. The level of risk one is willing to take. For me, 100% condom. No socks, no port. Why would I trust anyone on this scene when that person could have trusted another person that trusted someone else who trusted a person that trusted a new person
I trust nobody but me in rhe scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although kissing is considered to be low-risk when compared to intercourse and oral sex, it's possible for kissing to transmit CMV, herpes, and syphilis.
So do you use protection for kissing as well ???
surely you covered peoples logic to not using protection for kissing in your own post / it is considered to be low risk
people are not wearing condoms to remove 100% of risk because they are not 100% effective - they wear them to lower risk to an acceptable level for them... for most , the risk with kissing is already sufficiently low "
What about when a woman received oral sex where there is more of a risk do you use protection then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although kissing is considered to be low-risk when compared to intercourse and oral sex, it's possible for kissing to transmit CMV, herpes, and syphilis.
So do you use protection for kissing as well ???
surely you covered peoples logic to not using protection for kissing in your own post / it is considered to be low risk
people are not wearing condoms to remove 100% of risk because they are not 100% effective - they wear them to lower risk to an acceptable level for them... for most , the risk with kissing is already sufficiently low
What about when a woman received oral sex where there is more of a risk do you use protection then? "
really you could just take my last response and swap out the word oral for kissing
but for the avoidance of doubt
protection is not a black and white issue where if you deem it appropriate in one scenario you must use it in all
people will risk assess the situation and decide what is an acceptable level of risk for themselves - that could mean protection with one person but not another or it could mean protection for one sexual act but not another
for most that means they reserve bareback for their long term partner but are more lenient when it comes to oral - if that doesn’t match up with your requirements just find someone that does rather than challenging peoples own assessment of what they are comfortable with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bareback x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condoms all the time. |
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"I love bareback with people I know and trust but always use a condom at new meets, what are your preferences? "
Be safe and keeping other safe, thus only bareback when it is the right time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Although kissing is considered to be low-risk when compared to intercourse and oral sex, it's possible for kissing to transmit CMV, herpes, and syphilis.
So do you use protection for kissing as well ???
surely you covered peoples logic to not using protection for kissing in your own post / it is considered to be low risk
people are not wearing condoms to remove 100% of risk because they are not 100% effective - they wear them to lower risk to an acceptable level for them... for most , the risk with kissing is already sufficiently low
What about when a woman received oral sex where there is more of a risk do you use protection then?
really you could just take my last response and swap out the word oral for kissing
but for the avoidance of doubt
protection is not a black and white issue where if you deem it appropriate in one scenario you must use it in all
people will risk assess the situation and decide what is an acceptable level of risk for themselves - that could mean protection with one person but not another or it could mean protection for one sexual act but not another
for most that means they reserve bareback for their long term partner but are more lenient when it comes to oral - if that doesn’t match up with your requirements just find someone that does rather than challenging peoples own assessment of what they are comfortable with "
Well the best option is to inform your doctor that you're a swinger and get a vaccinated against most STDs which is what I have done. |
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I definitely know what I prefer, but also know what I should do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you go bear, I’ll be there?
Skin on skin, slip it in?
I need more quips like this.
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A dame can be used it’s a rectangular female condom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interests me though when people say condoms until in a proper relationship ....
At what stage do you class it as a proper relationship & go bareback ....
And by doing so does anything you might catch just become Un-catchable because you’ve agreed you’re in a relationship?
People don’t agree to be in a relationship & go & have a test done & wait for negative results before they stop using a confirm do they .... |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
No jacket, no sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no glove no love |
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Bareback for hubby, for everyone else, it's bareback also! Love creampies x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bareback for hubby, for everyone else, it's bareback also! Love creampies x"
How many guys have you fucked & told them that can rodeo you but they’ve said they would prefer to wear a condom? |
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Both if we have met before and know thembare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love bareback with people I know and trust but always use a condom at new meets, what are your preferences? "
Agree. Only bareback with one couple I've been seeing for a couple of years, and they had only just started then themselves. We've committed to using condoms with anyone else. |
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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago
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"Interests me though when people say condoms until in a proper relationship ....
At what stage do you class it as a proper relationship & go bareback ....
And by doing so does anything you might catch just become Un-catchable because you’ve agreed you’re in a relationship?
People don’t agree to be in a relationship & go & have a test done & wait for negative results before they stop using a confirm do they ...."
That's exactly what I did in my relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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always go rubbered up with meets even if i know them, ho knows what they have been up to, but with my long term partner i go bare, as i knoe she wouldnt go behind my back, and if she did she would tell me, and then rubber up until shes been tested, but that would be the end of our relationship, swinging is very different to cheating, and she knows that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"always go rubbered up with meets even if i know them, ho knows what they have been up to, but with my long term partner i go bare, as i knoe she wouldnt go behind my back, and if she did she would tell me, and then rubber up until shes been tested, but that would be the end of our relationship, swinging is very different to cheating, and she knows that"
How many contradictions in 1 post |
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"I love bareback with people I know and trust but always use a condom at new meets, what are your preferences?
My preference - obviously bareback, a totally superior experience.
Meeting someone off t’internet for a bit of a knee-trembler - condom on obviously!
So bareback whilst far, far better is only with those I’m in a relationship with"
This, always this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"always go rubbered up with meets even if i know them, ho knows what they have been up to, but with my long term partner i go bare, as i knoe she wouldnt go behind my back, and if she did she would tell me, and then rubber up until shes been tested, but that would be the end of our relationship, swinging is very different to cheating, and she knows that
I dont see any, we would still meet for sex as we know each others bodys well, but the love would be gone, if you cant put something constructive then why post, these replyes are why i dont use the forums much anymore
How many contradictions in 1 post "
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
I've been very risky over this past year but so far, my hand is sti free and not pregnant. |
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People don’t agree to be in a relationship & go & have a test done & wait for negative results before they stop using a confirm do they ...."
Me and the vanilla ex (none fab) did this. Condom until both of us tested clear after a few months of dating. |
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Condoms always for us when with anyone but ourselves. Although it takes away a lot of the feeling it's safety first so.... Don't be silly and protect your willy. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Condom always, unless it’s a relationship and we’ve both been tested.
The risk of unwanted pregnancy or infections is not worth it at all in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just come out of a 9 year relationship so bareback has been the norm for me. Loved cumming in her pussy. Wearing a hat is going to be my new norm now   |
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"I've just come out of a 9 year relationship so bareback has been the norm for me. Loved cumming in her pussy. Wearing a hat is going to be my new norm now "
I know what you mean! I came out of a 15 year relationship, it’s a whole new world with all the different types and brands lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just come out of a 9 year relationship so bareback has been the norm for me. Loved cumming in her pussy. Wearing a hat is going to be my new norm now
I know what you mean! I came out of a 15 year relationship, it’s a whole new world with all the different types and brands lol"
I better order some samples then, sure I've got plenty of time before I actually need one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If all agree I am a bare backer , we all know our history |
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"Why would you not use and condom with a stranger you met on the internet? Saying that, even a stranger you met down the pub or club (when we’re allowed too again).
I do prefer not to use a condom and everyone will say the same but it’s not worth risk imho"
This ^^ I hate condoms but would never in a million years go bareback unless in a relationship xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really hate the feel of condoms, but other than with each other it's condoms only |
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I need to feel as much as possible. My cock is not as sensitive as I would like. Even thinnest condom is like wearing a wellie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get her to take a std test and go on the pill before a meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer bareback with Sir but would insist on protection with anyone else |
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By *ipster8Man
over a year ago
South Lincs |
You can’t beat bareback!!
However meeting on here I would always play safe. In time with a regular meet I’d consider BB. But there would have to be a lot of trust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd much prefer Bare Back... But hey we can't... I defo don't want an STI...
The only way I go Bare Back is if I have accompanied potential sex partner to the STI clinic and make sure he's tested for EVERYTHING... And yes I've done this, to be 100% safe...
It's down to trust then that they're not fking someone else bare back after the all clear....
But hey apparently condoms don't protect us from EVERY STI |
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We prefer bare with regulars, hence the preference for longer term and not quickies |
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Preferably bareback but only play safe. |
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago
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Preferably bareback, fwb organised an gangbang and had everyone get tested and bring upto date results and thats main time I've done without .. was well worth it though   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd much prefer Bare Back... But hey we can't... I defo don't want an STI...
The only way I go Bare Back is if I have accompanied potential sex partner to the STI clinic and make sure he's tested for EVERYTHING... And yes I've done this, to be 100% safe...
It's down to trust then that they're not fking someone else bare back after the all clear....
But hey apparently condoms don't protect us from EVERY STI "
didnt know that |
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"Why would you not use and condom with a stranger you met on the internet? Saying that, even a stranger you met down the pub or club (when we’re allowed too again).
I do prefer not to use a condom and everyone will say the same but it’s not worth risk imho"
This person won't say the same, always prefer a condom, less mess and the guy often lasts longer so win win. Not everyone is the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play bare usually, I know the risks, but sex without him being able to finish inside isn't satisfying for me. It's an important part. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With trusted couples I meet regular it is bareback, especially nice to for sloppy seconds. Safe with new partners and also get tested regularly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If in a relationship once both tested then bareback. If just meets with people at parties then I would wear a condom. |
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"I play bare usually, I know the risks, but sex without him being able to finish inside isn't satisfying for me. It's an important part. Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I play bare usually, I know the risks, but sex without him being able to finish inside isn't satisfying for me. It's an important part. Xx"
Yes so much better skin on skin when both sets of fluid mix together.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd much prefer Bare Back... But hey we can't... I defo don't want an STI...
The only way I go Bare Back is if I have accompanied potential sex partner to the STI clinic and make sure he's tested for EVERYTHING... And yes I've done this, to be 100% safe...
It's down to trust then that they're not fking someone else bare back after the all clear....
But hey apparently condoms don't protect us from EVERY STI
didnt know that"
It’s true.
You can still get pubic lice, herpes, genital warts etc. |
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any guy who asks me for bareback on the first meet gets blocked straight away. if they’ve asked me to, chances are they have to other girls and lord knows what diseases they have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously prefer bareback, but would only be with someone I was in a relationship / fucking regularly. Otherwise I’d have a condom, but for obvious reasons I’d prefer bareback! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always condoms, if you cant even look after yourself you cant look after others |
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"Always condoms, if you cant even look after yourself you cant look after others"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good for you, Jessica, for being consistent about bareback and acknowledging the risks. Have you had a STI? I got one years ago:pubic lice and was wearing a condom. Good reason to trim or shave your pubes. "
a condom is not going to stop anyone catching pubic lice ? |
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I prefer condoms.
Said no one ever.
Condoms do a job but with good sex it's a small inconvenience that worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The joy of Mr having the snip, I always get filled to the brim... |
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"Preferably bareback, fwb organised an gangbang and had everyone get tested and bring upto date results and thats main time I've done without .. was well worth it though "
That must have taken some organising? |
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"Condom always unless I’m in a relationship and we’ve both been tested."
Agree! |
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over a year ago
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"Condoms until in a relationship"
Want a relationship with me ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms until in a relationship
Want a relationship with me ?? "
Nah but I might play with you a bit  |
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"Good for you, Jessica, for being consistent about bareback and acknowledging the risks. Have you had a STI? I got one years ago:pubic lice and was wearing a condom. Good reason to trim or shave your pubes.
a condom is not going to stop anyone catching pubic lice ?"
The only condom that'll stop you getting pubic lice (or crabs, as it is known in other circles) is a full body condom!!
That said, condoms with any new partners. I've found that Skyn ones will give a near-bareback feel |
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over a year ago
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Condom everytime,really not worth the risk...skyns are my preference by far!
No sti's or babies wanted here  |
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"Condom everytime,really not worth the risk...skyns are my preference by far!
No sti's or babies wanted here "
Noted |
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"Condoms until in a relationship
Want a relationship with me ??
Nah but I might play with you a bit "
This isn’t kiss marry avoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms until in a relationship
Want a relationship with me ??
Nah but I might play with you a bit
This isn’t kiss marry avoid "
No, it's a sex site forum  |
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"Condoms until in a relationship
Want a relationship with me ??
Nah but I might play with you a bit
This isn’t kiss marry avoid
No, it's a sex site forum "
Well....if you’re offering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms until in a relationship
Want a relationship with me ??
Nah but I might play with you a bit
This isn’t kiss marry avoid
No, it's a sex site forum
Well....if you’re offering "
I wasn't.... |
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"Condoms until in a relationship
Want a relationship with me ??
Nah but I might play with you a bit
This isn’t kiss marry avoid
No, it's a sex site forum
Well....if you’re offering
I wasn't...."
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For couples, if you're (hopefully) being honest with each other, then whatever risks you take, you take together. If one of you catches something, there's a good chance the other gets it.
As a single guy, I feel like getting a std, if it's something incurable, then I'm still looking for a relationship but now with the added difficulty of having to explain I have an std - so that's definitely not worth the risk.
If I was in a relationship, and we decided to exclusively bareback with another couple, that would be fine.
That's the difference between people who are on the site to hookup with lots of people vs those who want something regular with a another to experience something new (cucking, dom/sub, bi-play, reclaim sex etc)
Curious now if anyone feels the same, as this never seems to get mentioned in these threads. |
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Trustex are my favourites they are really tough and they make coloured ones |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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Got to be condoms on here with people who you don't really know. But bareback with regulars or in a relationship. Condoms are like taking a bath with your socks on lol. But bareback with people you don't know is like playing Russian roulette |
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Have to know them too for bareback. |
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over a year ago
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Condoms always with one exception. I only bare back with my longterm special friend  |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
If you are not in a L.T.R, why would you risk it |
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Condoms to fuck
Bare back for sucking cock or licking puss xxxxx |
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"Condoms to fuck
Bare back for sucking cock or licking puss xxxxx "
thats right |
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Bareback is only for each other condoms all the way!
Remember if you can’t be careful buy a pram! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms to fuck
Bare back for sucking cock or licking puss xxxxx "
Way only a condom to fuck and not for oral? |
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Condoms until I find a long term cuckold couple that ticks all my boxes. |
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K is the only barebacker in our life.
C |
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we prefer bareback but if the other party want safe tats OK.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we prefer bareback but if the other party want safe tats OK.
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Bareback is great, but better safe than sorry |
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admitting you prefer bareback sex with "strangers" on here is like admitting to your family you are a swinger - you just don't do that, or very few do.
So think its the 80/20 rule, 80% play bare but wil never admit it openly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only person allowed bareback is Mr |
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Better without but condoms until safe! |
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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago
Hyde |
Condoms with newbies and casuals....
Without condoms once both committed and tested and commit to regular testing and no bareback with others
I love getting to the no condom point tho.... leaving and feeling the dampness in my knickers as a reminder of what we've done is sexy |
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By *luboyoMan
over a year ago
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"Only use condoms for phone sex,
Don't want to catch hearing aids"
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
I don't particularly like condoms, but I would prefer to be safe rather than sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condoms with newbies and casuals....
Without condoms once both committed and tested and commit to regular testing and no bareback with others
I love getting to the no condom point tho.... leaving and feeling the dampness in my knickers as a reminder of what we've done is sexy "
Brilliant comment x that's the best part for me too xx |
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over a year ago
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Condoms until tested |
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By *ae1985Woman
over a year ago
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Had a guy contact me recently asking if I did bareback, when I said no I didn't want the risk of anything I was told to shut up and stop complaining!
Total tw@!
Condoms every time for me regardless of who you are. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Condoms to the point both are committed to begin regular play mates FB And built up the trust to enjoy more of each other then possibly without and still get regularly checked |
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By *ampicCouple
over a year ago
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My CHOICE IS BAREBACK. If all parties agree, however, if condom is used i am happy to accommodate. One of my kinks is an addiction to CUM and i love the feeling of it on, in,over my body as well as drinking it all up like my life depended on it.
I’m aware its not the most popular stance on this subject but to me the pleasure far outweighs any risk or issues that can arise. |
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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago
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Condom always unless in a relationship |
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over a year ago
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Wrap your joker or don't get no poke her |
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over a year ago
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"admitting you prefer bareback sex with "strangers" on here is like admitting to your family you are a swinger - you just don't do that, or very few do.
So think its the 80/20 rule, 80% play bare but wil never admit it openly."
That’s the first time I have ever seen the 80/20 rule (Pareto principle) referred to for bareback sex! |
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over a year ago
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No party without party hat lol. It's ok with regulars but it's like playing Russian roulette with people who you don't know |
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By *pl83mfCouple
over a year ago
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"Condoms until in a relationship"
Definitely agree with this! |
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over a year ago
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Safe always until a mutual relationship of trust has been established with everyone involved |
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By *aylonMan
over a year ago
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"admitting you prefer bareback sex with "strangers" on here is like admitting to your family you are a swinger - you just don't do that, or very few do.
So think its the 80/20 rule, 80% play bare but wil never admit it openly."
Facts |
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over a year ago
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It's very easy to get caught up in the 'moment'. Play safe and ALWAYS use protection with a new sexual partner. |
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"Bare for me, I know the risks xx"
Love honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People will always have their preference , do what you like but be safe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Boring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"admitting you prefer bareback sex with "strangers" on here is like admitting to your family you are a swinger - you just don't do that, or very few do.
So think its the 80/20 rule, 80% play bare but wil never admit it openly."
in the tinder community i would say 80/20 judging by how many guys don’t seem to be pro active or even come prepared with protection, more often than not it will be me reaching into the drawer which tells me they would have chanced bareback if i hadn’t steered it another way
on here though i think peoples eyes are more open about how common stds are , we dont have this naive “oh they look like a nice guy/ girl so are probably ok” train of thought so i think the ratio is no where near as bad as 80/20
just my experience as someone who had met single men in both capacities |
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"admitting you prefer bareback sex with "strangers" on here is like admitting to your family you are a swinger - you just don't do that, or very few do.
So think its the 80/20 rule, 80% play bare but wil never admit it openly.
in the tinder community i would say 80/20 judging by how many guys don’t seem to be pro active or even come prepared with protection, more often than not it will be me reaching into the drawer which tells me they would have chanced bareback if i hadn’t steered it another way
on here though i think peoples eyes are more open about how common stds are , we dont have this naive “oh they look like a nice guy/ girl so are probably ok” train of thought so i think the ratio is no where near as bad as 80/20
just my experience as someone who had met single men in both capacities "
This totally makes sense and I agree 100% ! |
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over a year ago
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I use a rubber glove works out really cheap because they come in packs of 100 and each glove gets 5 uses so that's 500 shags if I run out of them I find crisp packets work or sandwhich bags if your feeling flush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure I agree about Tinder. Nearly all my meets off there have been bare and although a couple offered to use protection most didn't even mention it xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bare for me, I know the risks xx
Love honesty "
It really annoys me how many lie about it on here. So many play bare, possibly even the majority. But few admit it. Just be honest! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bare for me, I know the risks xx
Love honesty
It really annoys me how many lie about it on here. So many play bare, possibly even the majority. But few admit it. Just be honest! Xx"
I feel the same way but quite a lot of people don't want to be judged so they don't want to admit it. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not sure I agree about Tinder. Nearly all my meets off there have been bare and although a couple offered to use protection most didn't even mention it xx"
I date a lot and the women from tinder and pof never mention condoms I always wear one because of my lifestyle, most women I meet are relatively newly single and looking to let there hair down and have no idea about the amount of stds out there I often get told don't worry about the condom I'm on the pill or implant and I have to tell them I always wear a condom and get tested every few weeks
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I prefer bare back but only do this with people I know and trust |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure I agree about Tinder. Nearly all my meets off there have been bare and although a couple offered to use protection most didn't even mention it xx I date a lot and the women from tinder and pof never mention condoms I always wear one because of my lifestyle, most women I meet are relatively newly single and looking to let there hair down and have no idea about the amount of stds out there I often get told don't worry about the condom I'm on the pill or implant and I have to tell them I always wear a condom and get tested every few weeks "
Different experiences I guess. I think I've met one guy off Tinder who used one.
Totally agree with getting tested regularly. I do every month when active xx |
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I am meeting a couple after lock down who like to cuckold and he then cleans up. We are going to try a Femmedom (yes they are still available).I can then ejaculate safely inside her and hopefully it will trickle out for him? |
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