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Bareback or condom
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to remain unfertilised and free of clunge rot so safe all the way for me 
Clunge rot  shall remember that one "
I hear its a terrible affliction but one I have gladly never experienced  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condom with new partners always
How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?"
As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condom with new partners always
How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?
As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think. "
If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condom with new partners always
How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?
As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.
If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with"
Whoa poor hypothetical girlfriend being damned for her fella being sensibly cautious |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Condom with new partners always
How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?
As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.
If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with"
It's not about "trustworthy" though is it? Some STIs have a window period of three months - so if someone barebacked with another partner just before you met them it would take that long to have a 100% clear test.
You might trust them completely, but would you, or they, trust every link in the chain prior that? Or wait for the test to confirm it? I know what I would do in that circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Condom with new partners always
How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?
As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.
If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with"
I'd assume and hope she would be as cautious as I, not really to do with trust though, more that I don't want STI's or an unexpected pregnancy  |
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"Condom with new partners always
How long would you have to be going out with your new girlfriend to start bareback?
As long as it takes to establish that neither are barebacking with anyone else and we both tested and clear. Wouldn't really put a timescale on it I don't think.
If you waiting months to find out if your new girlfriend is shagging other people then shesnot trustworthy or someone you would want to be with"
Erm, hang on a minute there! This is a swingers site, so unless you're talking about vanilla relationship, I would not expect anyone I meet on here to be exclusive.
And answering your question, OP: yes, like others, I do prefer bareback but, like others, I would not go bareback with any random meets. Long term partner (even if just swinging partner)- yes, with regular testing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely prefer bareback, there is no better feeling than feeling your partner gripping and also feeling the wetness, but always safe sex with new partners and encounters, I personally hate condoms, but totally get why we need to use them, but like somebody else said there is a lot more to a sexual encounter than just penetration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always play safe
Yes BB feels better
However I get too into my own head about BB and it messes up the play for me because I can’t stop the cycle of worry.
I only ever played BB with a “non long term partner” when I was around 20. Certainly enjoyed it but never have again after that. Not because I had a bad experience but just don’t want to take the risk! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I obviously prefer bare back but can't do it...safe sex all the way... But if in a relationship... He needs to get a full sti check with me with him... Untill results are clear |
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I’m quite shocked at the amount of people who wouldn’t wear condoms as standard with anyone off Fab  You can’t tell just from looking at someone what STIs they may have.
I was only happy with my long-term partner not using condoms - which, yes, feels nice - but still have regular tests as we played with different people.
We all indulge in a very high-risk activity, it’s not worth taking chances!  |
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