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Masturbate.....
I have only had sex once in the last 12 months, as covid-19 has put a stop to any playing etc.....
just curious how often do you treat yourself.... simply asking as I don’t think I have enjoyed myself enough this last 12 months!
Do you feel more relaxed when you have?
I’m guessing guys do it a lot more ??? |
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I do it as often as I can, a little difficult that my kids are pretty much adults now so it’s hardly ever quiet. Though I held off for a while but when I finally decided to play I had 10 orgasms in a relatively short period of time. I was very relaxed after that but I could of kept going
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"The joys of having a man indoors 
You notice any difference in yourself if you don’t? "
Very true
Erm, I wouldn't say so no! Although sometimes I enjoy that time to myself (don't get me wrong I LOVE sex) think it's good to have that time to yourself every now and again.
Her x |
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"Once or twice a week.
I'm really envious of you ladies who can cum more than once in a session  "
Sometimes it takes hard work  . I like to cum at least twice. Find it easier if I edge the first one |
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Interesting on the comments so far, I have a child too and does limit being able to get lose yourself in the moment!
I had a free morning for myself and woke up fruity and thought hmmm going to treat myself and managed three orgasms in a very short space of time!
Porn is my go to, and looking at some playmates pics on here....
I think I need to treat myself more often....
just feel so tense lately...
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"Interesting on the comments so far, I have a child too and does limit being able to get lose yourself in the moment!
I had a free morning for myself and woke up fruity and thought hmmm going to treat myself and managed three orgasms in a very short space of time!
Porn is my go to, and looking at some playmates pics on here....
I think I need to treat myself more often....
just feel so tense lately...
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I find if your tense and masturbate it releases some of that bad energy. Definitely take some more time out for yourself OP it'll do you wonders.
Her x |
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"I don't treat myself often, like once a week or two, but when I do it's more than one. But I have to stop before the brain exploding headache starts  "
Oh god I've experienced that pain and it's agony!  |
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"Once or twice a week.
I'm really envious of you ladies who can cum more than once in a session
I can go about 10+ times   "
I hear you I like to keep going until I can’t take anymore!
Don’t feel finished otherwise |
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"Interesting on the comments so far, I have a child too and does limit being able to get lose yourself in the moment!
I had a free morning for myself and woke up fruity and thought hmmm going to treat myself and managed three orgasms in a very short space of time!
Porn is my go to, and looking at some playmates pics on here....
I think I need to treat myself more often....
just feel so tense lately...
I find if your tense and masturbate it releases some of that bad energy. Definitely take some more time out for yourself OP it'll do you wonders.
Her x"
Now schools are back I might enjoy some “me” time in the sheets for the whole day ha! |
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"Once or twice a week.
I'm really envious of you ladies who can cum more than once in a session
I can go about 10+ times
I hear you I like to keep going until I can’t take anymore!
Don’t feel finished otherwise "
Same here!  |
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"Gosh, I feel rather inadequate. Probably only once or twice a week "
Please don’t.... I have probably only played with myself a handful of times over the last 12 months....
Although I will be stepping it up now.... |
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"Once or twice a week.
I'm really envious of you ladies who can cum more than once in a session
I can go about 10+ times
I hear you I like to keep going until I can’t take anymore!
Don’t feel finished otherwise
Same here! "
When my legs shake and I can’t stand ha!
Love that feeling |
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"Once or twice a week.
I'm really envious of you ladies who can cum more than once in a session
I can go about 10+ times
I hear you I like to keep going until I can’t take anymore!
Don’t feel finished otherwise
Same here!
When my legs shake and I can’t stand ha!
Love that feeling "
Definitely! What's the point otherwise
I find I can't stop just after 1 or 2, I just enjoy it way too much |
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"And so you should OP, having a release is definitely good for the soul
What’s your chosen method that gets you off best ? Asking for a friend  "
Haha! I’m sure my chosen method is different to other ladies!
I fantasise.... watching threesomes MMF of course... and imagining I was the girl!
Vibrator all the way for me! |
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"Once or twice a week.
I'm really envious of you ladies who can cum more than once in a session
I can go about 10+ times
I hear you I like to keep going until I can’t take anymore!
Don’t feel finished otherwise
Same here!
When my legs shake and I can’t stand ha!
Love that feeling
Definitely! What's the point otherwise
I find I can't stop just after 1 or 2, I just enjoy it way too much "
Yes!! It’s the hormones and the adrenaline racing all over my body... it’s addictive....
It’s like ordering a cake..... I would never leave any, infact might get two pieces ha! |
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"Once or twice a week.
I'm really envious of you ladies who can cum more than once in a session
I can go about 10+ times
I hear you I like to keep going until I can’t take anymore!
Don’t feel finished otherwise
Same here!
When my legs shake and I can’t stand ha!
Love that feeling
Definitely! What's the point otherwise
I find I can't stop just after 1 or 2, I just enjoy it way too much
Yes!! It’s the hormones and the adrenaline racing all over my body... it’s addictive....
It’s like ordering a cake..... I would never leave any, infact might get two pieces ha! "
Best way to describe it! Leaves you wanting more & more |
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"And so you should OP, having a release is definitely good for the soul
What’s your chosen method that gets you off best ? Asking for a friend
Haha fingers and my wand or a small vibrator if I have to be quiet . Fingers get me squirting dildos don’t. To much information? "
Fingers are definitely more precise to hit the sweet spot |
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"And so you should OP, having a release is definitely good for the soul
What’s your chosen method that gets you off best ? Asking for a friend
Haha fingers and my wand or a small vibrator if I have to be quiet . Fingers get me squirting dildos don’t. To much information?
Fingers are definitely more precise to hit the sweet spot"
Oh absolutely |
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"Gosh, I feel rather inadequate. Probably only once or twice a week
Please don’t.... I have probably only played with myself a handful of times over the last 12 months....
Although I will be stepping it up now.... "
Thank god for that. Was begining to think I'm an aberration! |
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"I have a small golden bullet from Ann summers was only a £5 it’s my favourite thing ever!!!
Just pretty noisy
Rabbit is my go to 
Lovely black one! "
I now have an attachment for my wand that acts like a rabbit which is great as it’s really powerful I just can’t use it when anyone’s home which is all the time at the moment |
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"I have a small golden bullet from Ann summers was only a £5 it’s my favourite thing ever!!!
Just pretty noisy
Rabbit is my go to
Lovely black one!
I now have an attachment for my wand that acts like a rabbit which is great as it’s really powerful I just can’t use it when anyone’s home which is all the time at the moment "
That must be sooo frustrating.....
so hard not having any space |
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"Gosh, I feel rather inadequate. Probably only once or twice a week
Please don’t.... I have probably only played with myself a handful of times over the last 12 months....
Although I will be stepping it up now....
Thank god for that. Was begining to think I'm an aberration! "
There are no rules to live by |
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"I have a small golden bullet from Ann summers was only a £5 it’s my favourite thing ever!!!
Just pretty noisy
Rabbit is my go to
Lovely black one!
I now have an attachment for my wand that acts like a rabbit which is great as it’s really powerful I just can’t use it when anyone’s home which is all the time at the moment
That must be sooo frustrating.....
so hard not having any space "
Oh absolutely |
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"Since I’ve been working from home it can be multiple times a day
Lucky you... helps the day go by "
Ow it definitely does. Makes those boring conference calls that little bit more exciting! |
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What an interesting topic it seems!!
Those of you daily, you lucky buggers!!
Those with kids... enjoy your free time when you have it!
I will be having a few treats a week now! Until the clubs reopen |
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About 2-3 times a year. It is extremely difficult for me to orgasm and when I finally do I am too sensitive for anything else that day. I do have a willing husband though so that reduces any need for self play.
Lily |
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Can't get out of bed in the morning until I've played at least twice, and can't sleep at night unless I've had at least one release first
Always been the same whether single or in a relationship, pre-covid, during covid, and have no intention of changing post-covid |
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"Can't get out of bed in the morning until I've played at least twice, and can't sleep at night unless I've had at least one release first
Always been the same whether single or in a relationship, pre-covid, during covid, and have no intention of changing post-covid "
Wow!! |
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"Can't get out of bed in the morning until I've played at least twice, and can't sleep at night unless I've had at least one release first
Always been the same whether single or in a relationship, pre-covid, during covid, and have no intention of changing post-covid
Wow!! "
Ha ha ermmm what can I say? I have a chaotic life and it's my stress release mechanism  |
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"Can't get out of bed in the morning until I've played at least twice, and can't sleep at night unless I've had at least one release first
Always been the same whether single or in a relationship, pre-covid, during covid, and have no intention of changing post-covid
Wow!!
Ha ha ermmm what can I say? I have a chaotic life and it's my stress release mechanism "
Go you!! No harm in it |
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Ha ha ermmm what can I say? I have a chaotic life and it's my stress release mechanism "
Same here. I need to release that tension at the end of the day or there is no chance my brain will switch off to allow me to sleep, if M isn't here then I have to takes matters into my own hands.
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"Can't get out of bed in the morning until I've played at least twice, and can't sleep at night unless I've had at least one release first
Always been the same whether single or in a relationship, pre-covid, during covid, and have no intention of changing post-covid
Wow!!
Ha ha ermmm what can I say? I have a chaotic life and it's my stress release mechanism
Go you!! No harm in it "
No harm at all... incredible |
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"Masturbate.....
I have only had sex once in the last 12 months, as covid-19 has put a stop to any playing etc.....
just curious how often do you treat yourself.... simply asking as I don’t think I have enjoyed myself enough this last 12 months!
Do you feel more relaxed when you have?
I’m guessing guys do it a lot more ???"
not a single lady and I try not to do it to often or it gets where I do it way to much.. but normally twice a day at least... maybe less if my partner Is off work |
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I love the fact that some ladies like to share their masturbation habits, I wish more women would be more open about it. As everyone knows, guys will wank and cum whenever they have the chance, and are more than happy to discuss it (me included) Keep flicking your beans girls, and feel free to tease us guys with your stories and descriptions. |
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