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Should I go all the way with a trans woman?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants |
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You have started many threads on a similar vein to this one, and the only possible answer is to stop making it into such a big thing and sticking labels on everyone. Do what makes you feel comfortable, with a person your comfortable with. |
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"You have started many threads on a similar vein to this one, and the only possible answer is to stop making it into such a big thing and sticking labels on everyone. Do what makes you feel comfortable, with a person your comfortable with. "
This.
Your meeting sometime you really find attractive. Just do what comes naturally and try to ditch the worries about what you should be doing. |
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What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)? "
Mainly a TV that looks like a woman but then a lot of CD's are very attractive too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think perhaps you need you decide within yourself what you want and why. Think about what your limits would be. Meeting anyone without resolving what seems to be an anxiety over where your sexuality lies is not likely to be a satisfying meet.
Don't get hung up on definitions. If you connect with someone you fancy, great. Concentrate on how you feel, not how you or others would define it.
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)?
what about DVDS?
Mainly a TV that looks like a woman but then a lot of CD's are very attractive too"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)?
Mainly a TV that looks like a woman but then a lot of CD's are very attractive too"
So is it important whilst looking feminine they also have a cock that you can suck and play with? (In response to you mentioned oral fun)
When you say go all the way what specifically are you wanting to experience with a TV? Are you just wanting to fuck them anally or are you wanting a TV to fuck you?
Answering these questions first and subsequently making peace with your sexual orientation would probably be a decent first step prior to actually arranging and meeting a TV for sexual play.
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)? "
That’s an inaccurate and misleading explanation. A TV (to use the language of Fab which is itself outdated) is a man who dresses as a woman and gets sexual pleasure from doing so. A trans woman is a woman even if she hasn’t undergone any surgery and isn’t taking hormones, and even if she isn’t “out” to friends, family, colleagues and therefore can’t present as a woman full-time. |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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Do you have a lot of offers or are you just presuming you will be able to meet with as many TV, TS, CD as you message because I think you may be jumping the gun and also by presuming you will be in charge of what happens, remember it's a two way thing and whay would you not be prepared to please as well as be pleased? Or do you intend to just have a look? Just doesn't seem to have been thought through properly? I think anything should be thought through properly before even approaching someone for a potential meet. I'm only asking this as it seems very presumtious you will even get a meet when the men far outnumber everyone else so I don't think we get to choose very often. |
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants"
Ever consider that anyone you wish to meet, whether a trans woman, a cis woman, a TV/CD, or anyone else, will have their own wishes and desires? Maybe think of people as people, not fantasy playthings. Fetishising people is pretty awful actually. And many trans women aren’t keen on chasers. So when you say you “plan” to meet “a lot” of trans women, bear in mind that they might not want to meet you.
Honestly, this is one of those situations where it would be more appropriate to hire an escort - an escort won’t mind if all you want is a blowjob, as long as you’re paying. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)?
Mainly a TV that looks like a woman but then a lot of CD's are very attractive too
So is it important whilst looking feminine they also have a cock that you can suck and play with? (In response to you mentioned oral fun)
When you say go all the way what specifically are you wanting to experience with a TV? Are you just wanting to fuck them anally or are you wanting a TV to fuck you?
Answering these questions first and subsequently making peace with your sexual orientation would probably be a decent first step prior to actually arranging and meeting a TV for sexual play.
KJ"
Well she does wish for me to have sex with her (anal) but I would be the one giving it to her |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants
Ever consider that anyone you wish to meet, whether a trans woman, a cis woman, a TV/CD, or anyone else, will have their own wishes and desires? Maybe think of people as people, not fantasy playthings. Fetishising people is pretty awful actually. And many trans women aren’t keen on chasers. So when you say you “plan” to meet “a lot” of trans women, bear in mind that they might not want to meet you.
Honestly, this is one of those situations where it would be more appropriate to hire an escort - an escort won’t mind if all you want is a blowjob, as long as you’re paying."
Oh but I can be very easy going so I'm happy to grant a woman's wishes but yes I'm not sure about this as I just hope I won't have regrets but I do fancy trans woman a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)?
Mainly a TV that looks like a woman but then a lot of CD's are very attractive too
So is it important whilst looking feminine they also have a cock that you can suck and play with? (In response to you mentioned oral fun)
When you say go all the way what specifically are you wanting to experience with a TV? Are you just wanting to fuck them anally or are you wanting a TV to fuck you?
Answering these questions first and subsequently making peace with your sexual orientation would probably be a decent first step prior to actually arranging and meeting a TV for sexual play.
KJ
Well she does wish for me to have sex with her (anal) but I would be the one giving it to her"
Talk to her.
Discuss your misgivings.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)?
Mainly a TV that looks like a woman but then a lot of CD's are very attractive too
So is it important whilst looking feminine they also have a cock that you can suck and play with? (In response to you mentioned oral fun)
When you say go all the way what specifically are you wanting to experience with a TV? Are you just wanting to fuck them anally or are you wanting a TV to fuck you?
Answering these questions first and subsequently making peace with your sexual orientation would probably be a decent first step prior to actually arranging and meeting a TV for sexual play.
KJ
Well she does wish for me to have sex with her (anal) but I would be the one giving it to her"
Some TV's would enjoy fucking you. Would you consider that if the wanted to that as well?
What about the cock play?
Are you (as your profile suggests) just looking for a TV to play with your cock and give you a blow job only.
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Are you happy to return the favour and play with and suck their cock as well? (Which your opening post on this thread hints at)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)?
Mainly a TV that looks like a woman but then a lot of CD's are very attractive too
So is it important whilst looking feminine they also have a cock that you can suck and play with? (In response to you mentioned oral fun)
When you say go all the way what specifically are you wanting to experience with a TV? Are you just wanting to fuck them anally or are you wanting a TV to fuck you?
Answering these questions first and subsequently making peace with your sexual orientation would probably be a decent first step prior to actually arranging and meeting a TV for sexual play.
KJ
Well she does wish for me to have sex with her (anal) but I would be the one giving it to her
Some TV's would enjoy fucking you. Would you consider that if the wanted to that as well?
What about the cock play?
Are you (as your profile suggests) just looking for a TV to play with your cock and give you a blow job only.
OR
Are you happy to return the favour and play with and suck their cock as well? (Which your opening post on this thread hints at)
KJ"
I would be happy with all cock play. I would actually like to do everything in return but somehow worried :/ as it would be my first time even properly meeting a TV/TS woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you understand by a trans woman? A TV (who may live as a woman on a relatively permanent or just temporary basis but has male parts of the anatomy) or a TS (who is committed to living as a woman on permanent basis, and may have even gone through the surgery to at least remove male parts of the anatomy)?
Mainly a TV that looks like a woman but then a lot of CD's are very attractive too
So is it important whilst looking feminine they also have a cock that you can suck and play with? (In response to you mentioned oral fun)
When you say go all the way what specifically are you wanting to experience with a TV? Are you just wanting to fuck them anally or are you wanting a TV to fuck you?
Answering these questions first and subsequently making peace with your sexual orientation would probably be a decent first step prior to actually arranging and meeting a TV for sexual play.
KJ
Well she does wish for me to have sex with her (anal) but I would be the one giving it to her
Some TV's would enjoy fucking you. Would you consider that if the wanted to that as well?
What about the cock play?
Are you (as your profile suggests) just looking for a TV to play with your cock and give you a blow job only.
OR
Are you happy to return the favour and play with and suck their cock as well? (Which your opening post on this thread hints at)
KJ
I would be happy with all cock play. I would actually like to do everything in return but somehow worried :/ as it would be my first time even properly meeting a TV/TS woman"
In that case I would change your sexuality to Bi-curious because there's nothing female or straight about playing with / sucking a cock at the same time there's also absolutely nothing wrong with it at all.
This would actually show to potential TVs that your comfortable with having oral / full sex with a biological man.
Many TVs including a few we are lucky to call friends wouldn't entertain a guy who has his profile set to straight. Changing it to Bi-Curious will give you a better chance of finding what you seek.
If after meeting a TV you find you enjoyed it then awesome you can change it to bisexual. If the experience wasn't something you enjoyed or want to repeat then at that point changing back to straight would be appropriate.
Good luck on your journey
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all"
I imagine lots of men join fab planning to meet with a lot of women.... many end up very disappointed.
I suspect you need to do some research so you understand a little more about the people you’re hoping to be intimate with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants"
I deffo have a massive thing for trannys
But ive noticed ( not all) but the majority absolutely adore themselves
I mean to the point of cringeworthy
Some are nice but 80% ive spoke to are absolutely rude and ignorant
Good luck
Hope you find a decent personality in one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have started many threads on a similar vein to this one, and the only possible answer is to stop making it into such a big thing and sticking labels on everyone. Do what makes you feel comfortable, with a person your comfortable with. "
100% could not agree more
What’s the worst that’s gonna happen??? |
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" I deffo have a massive thing for trannys
But ive noticed ( not all) but the majority absolutely adore themselves
I mean to the point of cringeworthy
Some are nice but 80% ive spoke to are absolutely rude and ignorant
Good luck
Hope you find a decent personality in one "
I suspect perceived "rudeness or ignorance" may be down to your approach going by the context of your post  .... however I doubt it's as cringeworthy as using the derogatory terminology 'tranny'. An offensive term to describe a group you claim to be into.... now THATS cringeworthy.... |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants
I deffo have a massive thing for trannys
But ive noticed ( not all) but the majority absolutely adore themselves
I mean to the point of cringeworthy
Some are nice but 80% ive spoke to are absolutely rude and ignorant
Good luck
Hope you find a decent personality in one "
Yeah hope you find a nicer personality in your self transwomen are not rude or ignorant no need to generalise |
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants
I deffo have a massive thing for trannys
But ive noticed ( not all) but the majority absolutely adore themselves
I mean to the point of cringeworthy
Some are nice but 80% ive spoke to are absolutely rude and ignorant
Good luck
Hope you find a decent personality in one "
 Oh dear! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants"
Green arrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants"
Consider myself straight but might get post cum blues with added rage.. |
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants
I deffo have a massive thing for trannys
But ive noticed ( not all) but the majority absolutely adore themselves
I mean to the point of cringeworthy
Some are nice but 80% ive spoke to are absolutely rude and ignorant
Good luck
Hope you find a decent personality in one "
such a catch.
I’m more sympathetic to the 80% as there’s obviously some issues with your messages or approach if 8/10 are rude to you.
The ‘tranny’ remarks certainly shows ignorance as well. |
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Agreed tyranny is an offensive term dont use it like ever. I myself years ago was straight then went to bi now im a homoflexible gay and couldn't be happier but it's not all about labels. Having sex with a TV or Ts will not make you gay just open minded and treat them the same you treat a cis woman and you can't go wrong they are still human after all   I've met pre and post op women and they are very lovely women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you should just admit you are gay and stop thinking your straight cause a guy wears womens clothes 
That's enough about you. But their discussing Trans people  "
Hahaha brilliant |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
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On the subject of trans - is there, or should there be an expectation for a trans woman (or man) to tell a prospective partner of their previous life? After all, a woman or man who was born in “the right” gender is not expected to reassure a partner “it’s alright darling, I was born this way”. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants"
You know the rules…..First date first base 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Waste of time if you’re going to have a complex about it and feel guilty afterwards. There’s a reason why trans women give straight guys a wide berth and exactly what you mentioned. If I was going to go with someone trans/cd/tv I would throw the straight label in the bin. Though if you want to put it down to experimenting, there’s always that. If you meet someone who is trans, have fun and don’t like it, chalk it to experience or just have fun with it. If you’re not sure. Don’t waste their time. |
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"Waste of time if you’re going to have a complex about it and feel guilty afterwards. There’s a reason why trans women give straight guys a wide berth and exactly what you mentioned. If I was going to go with someone trans/cd/tv I would throw the straight label in the bin. Though if you want to put it down to experimenting, there’s always that. If you meet someone who is trans, have fun and don’t like it, chalk it to experience or just have fun with it. If you’re not sure. Don’t waste their time."
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants"
Just go with the flow! Don't think too much. If the attraction and spark is there who cares! x |
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"I'm planning to meet with a lot of trans woman as I admire them all but should I go all the way with one or should I take it slow? (for example oral)
I consider myself straight but there is something about them. I worry if being straight stops me from going all the way and in a way I would feel bad not giving a trans woman all she wants"
I considered myself straight when I met my first trans woman we went on a date like any man and woman would. After we got back to hotel well we did typical sexy things shared shower was lovely for breaking tension. Followed by alot of kissing and cuddles on bed we both got aroused but having her aroused was no problem in end. Actually was fantastic I fucked her like I fucked any woman just different hole was all. Then she offered to to same to me if I wanted to try it? I was unsure but gave it a go and I never looked back was amazing. |
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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago
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There's some encouraging replies here but also a lot of conflation of transwomen and tv's.
Both the OP and at least one replying have mentioned liking transwomen despite being straight?
Transwomen ARE women so there's no straight conflict there, and one of the best experiences you can give a teanswoman is making her feel validated in her gender identity. Stop focusing so much on what genitals people have and more on who they are and what shared experiences you want and you'll have better sex and make genuine trans friends.
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