Looking for answers.
We have experience in swing as couple, but sometimes it comes to my mind(The male) to try with another man and I am streight for all my life.
Don't know why is coming to me and i am terrified i will feel different if I try, or that my future wife will not enjoy me doing it.
It doesn't come all the time, but when it does, feeling is strong.
Any advice?
Should i try in MMF, MMFF, or just me and another man, to see how it goes?
Thank you all.
Anyone in my situation? XX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why on earth are you terrified at your own urges and drives?
I see your on your profile that your partner is bi.
Discuss it with her, surely because of her sexuality she'd at least be sympathetic. |
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"Why on earth are you terrified at your own urges and drives?
I see your on your profile that your partner is bi.
Discuss it with her, surely because of her sexuality she'd at least be sympathetic."
Maybe becouse i was all my life Alpha male and it might make me look weaker in front of her...
Or i might not enjoy it and wouldn't whant any one to know about it? |
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By *oerow16Man
over a year ago
Essex/ London |
" Looking for answers.
We have experience in swing as couple, but sometimes it comes to my mind(The male) to try with another man and I am streight for all my life.
Don't know why is coming to me and i am terrified i will feel different if I try, or that my future wife will not enjoy me doing it.
It doesn't come all the time, but when it does, feeling is strong.
Any advice?
Should i try in MMF, MMFF, or just me and another man, to see how it goes?
Thank you all.
Anyone in my situation? XX"
I felt like this at first wasn't sure if I actually wanted it
On a meeting with a woman she played with my arse then pegged me it was good so after this I thought right it's time to try the real thing got talking to a few guys chatted to one for a while to get comfortable with him then we met in a hotel just us to it was really good didn't disappoint have now been with a few guys now but would definitely like to try bi mmf |
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It’s not for everyone but if your wife is comfortable about it and you feel very drawn to exploring your bi side give it a try. In many ways a mfm is a good way to test the water. I think three play better as one than any other combination and if you find the right toe of guy,(e will ease you into it.
For me it started with everyone caressing one another until you felt relaxed then it just flowed naturally from there. I enjoyed the sensuality of it and being an oralist it didn’t take long to move onto fellatio. I enjoyed sucking a nice cock and she enjoyed encouraging us. I loved how hevpleasured my hole as he stated sucking me. At the next meet we went further and enjoyed anal sex too. I don’t do,it often but I do enjoy feeling a nice cock,in me as I’m pleasuring his wife.
The thing I would say is that it opens the door to further sexual combinations. It’s amazing what woman and two bi men can enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very weird feeling indeed I've also felt this way from time to time I have no attraction men at all but have had the urges to see what it would be like to suck off another guy |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
" Looking for answers.
We have experience in swing as couple, but sometimes it comes to my mind(The male) to try with another man and I am streight for all my life.
Don't know why is coming to me and i am terrified i will feel different if I try, or that my future wife will not enjoy me doing it.
It doesn't come all the time, but when it does, feeling is strong.
Any advice?
Should i try in MMF, MMFF, or just me and another man, to see how it goes?
Thank you all.
Anyone in my situation? XX"
The very first thing is to discuss this with your wife. She might like the idea of it, then it would be something you could explore together. |
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"This is how I felt at first still don't find men attractive just enjoy the sex lol "
Its the same for me. I don't fancy men , but when I've met with bi couples, one of them regularly for 3 years, it brings a whole new unbeatable dynamic to the fun! |
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Maybe becouse i was all my life Alpha male and it might make me look weaker in front of her...
Or i might not enjoy it and wouldn't whant any one to know about it?"
I would never, ever see that as looking weak. I'd admire your openness to explore new territory. Also, you're allowed to not enjoy something as much as you expected - just say the word. Again, it's all about trying it. Be open with the other person about your worries, and find somebody who is willing to be gentle with you - at first! |
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" Looking for answers.
We have experience in swing as couple, but sometimes it comes to my mind(The male) to try with another man and I am streight for all my life.
Don't know why is coming to me and i am terrified i will feel different if I try, or that my future wife will not enjoy me doing it.
It doesn't come all the time, but when it does, feeling is strong.
Any advice?
Should i try in MMF, MMFF, or just me and another man, to see how it goes?
Thank you all.
Anyone in my situation? XX"
I feel you bro so much more stigma for a guy , it’s almost a double standard that for a woman to be bi it’s fine , really hope you find clarity and get to express your self freely soon mate . |
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Maybe becouse i was all my life Alpha male and it might make me look weaker in front of her...
Or i might not enjoy it and wouldn't whant any one to know about it?
I would never, ever see that as looking weak. I'd admire your openness to explore new territory. Also, you're allowed to not enjoy something as much as you expected - just say the word. Again, it's all about trying it. Be open with the other person about your worries, and find somebody who is willing to be gentle with you - at first!"
Thank you. |
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By *odjamMan
over a year ago
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I think you just need to go with the flow. If you are uncomfortable with it then stop and explain why. The other guy will understand.
Having said that I am sure, once you get over your nervousness, you will love it. It's without doubt the best and horniest fun. |
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