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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. " Yep, I enjoy meeting guys, giving and receiving oral and do t find guys attractive.. but I wouldn’t class myself as straight, definitely bi, and enjoying it. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. " I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that? | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. " | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " If you suck cock and you are a guy you are not straight. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that?" Well straight means you go for someone of the opposite sex. Bi means you like both men and women. Bi Curious would mean you like the opposite but you are curious and willing to explore & play with the same sex as yourself.... which you are as you like to play with men. You can’t call yourself straight if you like to play with men in a sexual way. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. " thats the thing many guys are not attracted to men but like to play still so its no point labelling | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that? Well straight means you go for someone of the opposite sex. Bi means you like both men and women. Bi Curious would mean you like the opposite but you are curious and willing to explore & play with the same sex as yourself.... which you are as you like to play with men. You can’t call yourself straight if you like to play with men in a sexual way. " this | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that? Well straight means you go for someone of the opposite sex. Bi means you like both men and women. Bi Curious would mean you like the opposite but you are curious and willing to explore & play with the same sex as yourself.... which you are as you like to play with men. You can’t call yourself straight if you like to play with men in a sexual way. " Nobody said its straight. I dont think I'm straight. Labeling is shit but "bi-curious" I dont think explains it well either. Fuck it, who wants to be put in to a box anyway. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. " In my book, g.a.y Simply put nothing bi about it. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. thats the thing many guys are not attracted to men but like to play still so its no point labelling " Yet in your opening post you wrote straight guys... using a label | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men If you suck cock and you are a guy you are not straight. " ^ this | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that? Well straight means you go for someone of the opposite sex. Bi means you like both men and women. Bi Curious would mean you like the opposite but you are curious and willing to explore & play with the same sex as yourself.... which you are as you like to play with men. You can’t call yourself straight if you like to play with men in a sexual way. " ^ and this | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that? Well straight means you go for someone of the opposite sex. Bi means you like both men and women. Bi Curious would mean you like the opposite but you are curious and willing to explore & play with the same sex as yourself.... which you are as you like to play with men. You can’t call yourself straight if you like to play with men in a sexual way. Nobody said its straight. I dont think I'm straight. Labeling is shit but "bi-curious" I dont think explains it well either. Fuck it, who wants to be put in to a box anyway." The original poster said ‘any straight guys’. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that? Well straight means you go for someone of the opposite sex. Bi means you like both men and women. Bi Curious would mean you like the opposite but you are curious and willing to explore & play with the same sex as yourself.... which you are as you like to play with men. You can’t call yourself straight if you like to play with men in a sexual way. " what about if you like mmf but not bi mmf. Does that mean you aren't straight because you enjoy dp | |||
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"I think any man that likes sucking cock are gay. Sorry if that offends but obviously gay. " Bi sexual | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " Yes, the term I use for them is Greedy | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " I love getting ears deep with a curvy gal but i adore is seeing a nice shiny helmet in my face n slowly deepthroating it | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men I love getting ears deep with a curvy gal but i adore is seeing a nice shiny helmet in my face n slowly deepthroating it" | |||
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"Another classic Fab debate. Why not just drop the obsession with labels and let people do what they want if it doesn't hurt anyone?" | |||
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"I think any man that likes sucking cock are gay. Sorry if that offends but obviously gay. " Why would "gay" be offensive? | |||
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"I think any man that likes sucking cock are gay. Sorry if that offends but obviously gay. Why would "gay" be offensive? " Being gay is not offensive but the statement is... to everyone! | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. thats the thing many guys are not attracted to men but like to play still so its no point labelling I HATE these LABELS ...... it's just about SEX ..... if you're happy then great ...... LABELS must have so much responsibility for the deaths of so many people being LABELLED any type of label I mean . Please Stop with the pursuit of a damn Label :'-( " | |||
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"I know labels can be handy but in terms of expressing sexual behaviour I long for the day when everyone can just describe themselves as “sexual”. Then when you connect with people you can express it in whatever way you want together. " ?? This ?? ???????? | |||
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"I sort of see what they mean...I play with girls but would never be interested in a relationship with a girl. I don't mind playing with girls in the heat of the moment and when I have had a few...hubby calls me bi-alcoholic. Guys, obviously, can be the same " Bi-Alcoholic....that’s hilarious and pretty much describes my wife. | |||
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"If you suck cock , you are not straight ! Just embrace your sexuality ! " That’s what I was meant to say | |||
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"Welcome to the 21st century duck head. Grow up this world need's more feminine gay men than criticising strait headed wanders who think there gods gift. A bit like you. Grow the fuck up an stick too your own business regardless of sexual orientation. Wouldn't like it if we were saying we don't like black people would you. No so fuck off Do tell me @ Shinebright, or do educate me about leaving comments on a public forum what should and I shouldn't say. " I would have thought any education would do. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. " this | |||
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"Who cares about labels, just enjoy the sensation " Well said! | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. Yep, I enjoy meeting guys, giving and receiving oral and do t find guys attractive.. but I wouldn’t class myself as straight, definitely bi, and enjoying it. " Looool then why does your profile say “straight” | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men me too.. I go to bi meets outdoors during the day. I love the thrill of sucking a cock, getting a faceful of hot spunk while I film it. But the guy can be old or young, good looking or not, it doesn't matter as I'm only interested in the thrill of the sexual act... I don't want a BF ?? That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that?" | |||
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"I think any man that likes sucking cock are gay. Sorry if that offends but obviously gay. " .... I am married, have had 3 female fuck buddies / friends with benefits , love to suck and lick pussy, sniff knickers... And have absolutely NO interest in having a BF or being in a relationship with a bloke, gay or bi... But put a nice cock in front of my face, and I'll suck it til the spunk shoots over my face... How TF does that make me G A Y? ???????? | |||
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"Christ.. some low tolerance in the room tonight! Bi-Curious is a rubbish label. I just say I’m orally-bi as I enjoy occasional cock play but don’t fancy men and have zero interest in kissing or anal. I find that most ‘curious’ guys are somewhere in the same ballpark. " BALLPARK RANGER ... that's a good name for us cock suckers | |||
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"What I think would be a good addition to the standard profile would be a slider with gay at one end and straight at the other. To he zero point in the middle being bisexual. That said it's nothing to get hung up on." Totally agree with this. I think gender and sexuality are both on a sliding scale like this! | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " I only like being fucked, no kissing, sucking. Am I gay? | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " Bi guys then | |||
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"I think any man that likes sucking cock are gay. Sorry if that offends but obviously gay. .... I am married, have had 3 female fuck buddies / friends with benefits , love to suck and lick pussy, sniff knickers... And have absolutely NO interest in having a BF or being in a relationship with a bloke, gay or bi... But put a nice cock in front of my face, and I'll suck it til the spunk shoots over my face... How TF does that make me G A Y? ????????" You seem really confused. You are sexually and romantically attracted to women; but obviously sexually attracted to men—not romantically. You are bisexual, and heteromantic/heteroamourous. | |||
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"Well I enjoy playing with guys infront of their partners but wouldn’t ever want to play alone because it doesn’t turn me on. Call it gay, bi, whatever you like who cares! " We care because we don’t want to play with Bi men and make that clear on our profile. Your profile says your straight but clearly your not. It’s cool. Just be honest with yourself. | |||
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"You don’t have to be attracted to guys to find a rock hard cock a turn on " | |||
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"Christ.. some low tolerance in the room tonight! Bi-Curious is a rubbish label. I just say I’m orally-bi as I enjoy occasional cock play but don’t fancy men and have zero interest in kissing or anal. I find that most ‘curious’ guys are somewhere in the same ballpark. Spot on I am orally by nothing more nothing less. " | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " Same sex , sex means your bi or gay thems the facts ! | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that? Well straight means you go for someone of the opposite sex. Bi means you like both men and women. Bi Curious would mean you like the opposite but you are curious and willing to explore & play with the same sex as yourself.... which you are as you like to play with men. You can’t call yourself straight if you like to play with men in a sexual way. this " | |||
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"I think any man that likes sucking cock are gay. Sorry if that offends but obviously gay. .... I am married, have had 3 female fuck buddies / friends with benefits , love to suck and lick pussy, sniff knickers... And have absolutely NO interest in having a BF or being in a relationship with a bloke, gay or bi... But put a nice cock in front of my face, and I'll suck it til the spunk shoots over my face... How TF does that make me G A Y? ???????? You seem really confused. You are sexually and romantically attracted to women; but obviously sexually attracted to men—not romantically. You are bisexual, and heteromantic/heteroamourous. " This is exactly right. | |||
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"I think any man that likes sucking cock are gay. Sorry if that offends but obviously gay. .... I am married, have had 3 female fuck buddies / friends with benefits , love to suck and lick pussy, sniff knickers... And have absolutely NO interest in having a BF or being in a relationship with a bloke, gay or bi... But put a nice cock in front of my face, and I'll suck it til the spunk shoots over my face... How TF does that make me G A Y? ???????? You seem really confused. You are sexually and romantically attracted to women; but obviously sexually attracted to men—not romantically. You are bisexual, and heteromantic/heteroamourous. This is exactly right. " Thank you. Finally someone who understands terms. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. Yep, I enjoy meeting guys, giving and receiving oral and do t find guys attractive.. but I wouldn’t class myself as straight, definitely bi, and enjoying it. " Same.. | |||
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"You don’t have to be attracted to guys to find a rock hard cock a turn on " Hahahahahaa erm yes you do Jesus Christ ...... a penis belongs to a man so to find his cock attractive you are attracted to men. This comment wins the internet today | |||
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"I think the term is situationally-bi. In a threesome situation with a MF couple, if everone is happy and turned on then I have played with the man. But I think it's horny because it's making the woman horny and that in turn is making me more horny. It's not a case of I really suddenly fancy the bloke. I'd probably turn down the offer if it was just him. I just see it as one of the possibilities of a threesome, it doesn't define my sexuality, but to avoid (or possibly prompt) questions I have put bi-curious on my profile." Bi curious is to be curious about having sex with someone the same sex as you as well as the opposite sex. As soon as you have played with someone of the same sex and decided you like it you’re bi sexual not bi curious surely. | |||
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"See, here's the thing There are three types of people who will agree with you about the 'straightness' of guys that suck cock 1. Other guys in denial about their own sexuality 2. The partners of (some of) these guys 3. Guys that will appease your thoughts to get a chong on your cock or a gobble off you At the very, very least they are bi-curious, more often bi-sexual and sometimes on the gay bus, but not ready to go on the top deck just yet I have a somewhat love / hate relationship with labels In some respects, I feel they are necessary, even if they are often too rigid in their interpretation In other respects, I feel they propagate phobias They are, in effect, too powerful and come with a whole gambit of conortations - and it is those conortations that people struggle to accept Whether or not you like to pleasure other guys says nothing about you as a man or as a person, except you like sucking guys off occasionally It's not a reflection, yet we so often think it is Only if and when we lose the power of the label, only if we lose the assumed immasculating effects of two guys together will we see open and honest representations of sexuality, certainly from blokes " There is a lot in what you wrote and the descriptors we use can become irrelevant and outdated as well. "Straight" is a strange one in my opinion and even bisexual or bi-curious do not express some of the nuances. I can relate to this in a sense that I am mildly attracted to women but not in the same way that I am to men. Despite having had some experiences and supposedly bi-curious not being a relevant descriptor anymore, I also would not call myself bisexual - the attraction to women I feel is not as strong as the one I feel to men. Whether that is because I love women in a kindred spirit sort of way, feel not very competent in intimate situations with them, do not want to experiment at the cost of hurting another woman or heteronormative upbringing, I do not know - maybe it is a mixture of all these factors. I find that in my case heteexible is a more accurate description than bisexual. Some of the above posts from men mentioned being drawn to certain things like blowjobs with another man in a threesome situation and I completely relate to that and think that this is very understandable. The problem is twofold - judgement from others (hence denying anything other than being "straight"), categorising too much (you are either "straight" or bisexual) and men's dishonesty around sex as well as thirsty neediness. If someone is bisexual it does not mean that they will want to have sex with every gender every time, it's not an automatic button that goes on. I don't want to have sex with every woman I meet, neither do I want to have sex with every man I meet, it is not only a matter of attraction but of mutual choice - if I am attracted to a woman and would like to do sexual things with her but she is not interested then guess what? It will not be happening. Preference is just a start, the rest is opportunity and mutual choice. | |||
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"See, here's the thing There are three types of people who will agree with you about the 'straightness' of guys that suck cock 1. Other guys in denial about their own sexuality 2. The partners of (some of) these guys 3. Guys that will appease your thoughts to get a chong on your cock or a gobble off you At the very, very least they are bi-curious, more often bi-sexual and sometimes on the gay bus, but not ready to go on the top deck just yet I have a somewhat love / hate relationship with labels In some respects, I feel they are necessary, even if they are often too rigid in their interpretation In other respects, I feel they propagate phobias They are, in effect, too powerful and come with a whole gambit of conortations - and it is those conortations that people struggle to accept Whether or not you like to pleasure other guys says nothing about you as a man or as a person, except you like sucking guys off occasionally It's not a reflection, yet we so often think it is Only if and when we lose the power of the label, only if we lose the assumed immasculating effects of two guys together will we see open and honest representations of sexuality, certainly from blokes There is a lot in what you wrote and the descriptors we use can become irrelevant and outdated as well. "Straight" is a strange one in my opinion and even bisexual or bi-curious do not express some of the nuances. I can relate to this in a sense that I am mildly attracted to women but not in the same way that I am to men. Despite having had some experiences and supposedly bi-curious not being a relevant descriptor anymore, I also would not call myself bisexual - the attraction to women I feel is not as strong as the one I feel to men. Whether that is because I love women in a kindred spirit sort of way, feel not very competent in intimate situations with them, do not want to experiment at the cost of hurting another woman or heteronormative upbringing, I do not know - maybe it is a mixture of all these factors. I find that in my case heteexible is a more accurate description than bisexual. Some of the above posts from men mentioned being drawn to certain things like blowjobs with another man in a threesome situation and I completely relate to that and think that this is very understandable. The problem is twofold - judgement from others (hence denying anything other than being "straight"), categorising too much (you are either "straight" or bisexual) and men's dishonesty around sex as well as thirsty neediness. If someone is bisexual it does not mean that they will want to have sex with every gender every time, it's not an automatic button that goes on. I don't want to have sex with every woman I meet, neither do I want to have sex with every man I meet, it is not only a matter of attraction but of mutual choice - if I am attracted to a woman and would like to do sexual things with her but she is not interested then guess what? It will not be happening. Preference is just a start, the rest is opportunity and mutual choice." I can understand all that I have very different needs from a man than I do a woman The dynamics are completely different With women, I need attachments, physically and emotionally With a guy I can be far more carnal Physically, I find women more attractive than men Emotionally, I have more connection with women than I do with men The killer comes in that sexually, certainly in casual terms, I seem to connect more with men Casual sex brings out my baser side and I struggle to marry that with the emotional bonding I get from women I am currently in a relationship with a guy and whilst it is a loving one, it is far more transactional than those I've had with women I think I might have strayed a little from the OP now however | |||
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"See, here's the thing There are three types of people who will agree with you about the 'straightness' of guys that suck cock 1. Other guys in denial about their own sexuality 2. The partners of (some of) these guys 3. Guys that will appease your thoughts to get a chong on your cock or a gobble off you At the very, very least they are bi-curious, more often bi-sexual and sometimes on the gay bus, but not ready to go on the top deck just yet I have a somewhat love / hate relationship with labels In some respects, I feel they are necessary, even if they are often too rigid in their interpretation In other respects, I feel they propagate phobias They are, in effect, too powerful and come with a whole gambit of conortations - and it is those conortations that people struggle to accept Whether or not you like to pleasure other guys says nothing about you as a man or as a person, except you like sucking guys off occasionally It's not a reflection, yet we so often think it is Only if and when we lose the power of the label, only if we lose the assumed immasculating effects of two guys together will we see open and honest representations of sexuality, certainly from blokes There is a lot in what you wrote and the descriptors we use can become irrelevant and outdated as well. "Straight" is a strange one in my opinion and even bisexual or bi-curious do not express some of the nuances. I can relate to this in a sense that I am mildly attracted to women but not in the same way that I am to men. Despite having had some experiences and supposedly bi-curious not being a relevant descriptor anymore, I also would not call myself bisexual - the attraction to women I feel is not as strong as the one I feel to men. Whether that is because I love women in a kindred spirit sort of way, feel not very competent in intimate situations with them, do not want to experiment at the cost of hurting another woman or heteronormative upbringing, I do not know - maybe it is a mixture of all these factors. I find that in my case heteexible is a more accurate description than bisexual. Some of the above posts from men mentioned being drawn to certain things like blowjobs with another man in a threesome situation and I completely relate to that and think that this is very understandable. The problem is twofold - judgement from others (hence denying anything other than being "straight"), categorising too much (you are either "straight" or bisexual) and men's dishonesty around sex as well as thirsty neediness. If someone is bisexual it does not mean that they will want to have sex with every gender every time, it's not an automatic button that goes on. I don't want to have sex with every woman I meet, neither do I want to have sex with every man I meet, it is not only a matter of attraction but of mutual choice - if I am attracted to a woman and would like to do sexual things with her but she is not interested then guess what? It will not be happening. Preference is just a start, the rest is opportunity and mutual choice. I can understand all that I have very different needs from a man than I do a woman The dynamics are completely different With women, I need attachments, physically and emotionally With a guy I can be far more carnal Physically, I find women more attractive than men Emotionally, I have more connection with women than I do with men The killer comes in that sexually, certainly in casual terms, I seem to connect more with men Casual sex brings out my baser side and I struggle to marry that with the emotional bonding I get from women I am currently in a relationship with a guy and whilst it is a loving one, it is far more transactional than those I've had with women I think I might have strayed a little from the OP now however " Thank you for sharing, it was interesting to read for me personally. I see that my comment has been intercepted by a random emoji! | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " Yes 100% | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " If a guy sucks cock he is not straight. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that?" Perhaps there should be a new category “cock-curious” | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. " Was thinking that very thing myself. | |||
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"You can say pigeon holes, labels whatever you like, purely straight guys don't suck cock or desire to have their cock sucked, fact! You can dress it up anyway you like but at least own your sexuality. Absolutely nothing wrong with being bisexual or gay so just say so, the use of the straight tag isn't doing anyone any favours, screams denial. " | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. In my book, g.a.y Simply put nothing bi about it." Not gay at all as gay men are attracted to a man. If there's no attraction but they still want cock play they're certainly not gay but neither are they straight. Bi playful maybe | |||
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"You can say pigeon holes, labels whatever you like, purely straight guys don't suck cock or desire to have their cock sucked, fact! You can dress it up anyway you like but at least own your sexuality. Absolutely nothing wrong with being bisexual or gay so just say so, the use of the straight tag isn't doing anyone any favours, screams denial. " No but it improves their odds of scoring women / couples on sites like this. Simple logistics and playing odds productivity. be easier if guys just ran two profiles if worried that much about it. I know couple of my friends do . Though once you get into club meets it all goes the window anyway as it’s irrelevant at that point of time . | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " My swinging gf would enjoy making me but I didn't enjoy it | |||
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"I'm bi and enjoy cock fun but not attracted to men just their cocks and cum" | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " there seems to be a lot of them on here. | |||
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"I think labels are a good thing. They help define your interests and help you find like minded people. Some people won’t meet bisexuals, others will only meet bisexuals. I don’t understand why people would want to hide their sexuality, or claim to be straight when they are clearly bisexual. If you like sucking cock…. Embrace it. You don’t have to marry them!" This 100% | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that? Well straight means you go for someone of the opposite sex. Bi means you like both men and women. Bi Curious would mean you like the opposite but you are curious and willing to explore & play with the same sex as yourself.... which you are as you like to play with men. You can’t call yourself straight if you like to play with men in a sexual way. this " Rather than just enjoy the experience folk get too hung up about sexuality putting too much emphasis on labels. | |||
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"I like straight men who like blow jobs from men, just means they like blow jobs nothing more" lol. Well I guess everyone is entitled to their opinion but only “fab straight” guys like blow jobs from men. Straight men would give it a wide body swerve. | |||
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"I'm not attracted to men but would love to try sucking a married guy as his wife watched .then 69 and fully taste cum " This is me... Orally bi curious with a sexy couple teaching me the way | |||
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"I like straight men who like blow jobs from men, just means they like blow jobs nothing more" Yeah, right 😏 | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men That would at least make you bi-curious and not straight. I dont think bi Curious quite explains it. Surly if your bi curious then your just curious about men. Iv been with men on different occations in a sexual way but still I dont find men attractive. It's just the cock play that turns me on. How does bi curious explain that?" We'd say you were well past the 'curious' stage. | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " I don't fancy guys but like the idea of mutual wanking and sucking, particularly in an mfm. I experimented in my teens but not since. | |||
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"Most of the messages I get on here are from “straight” guys who would love to suck my cock. I’m not attracted to men, however in a group situation I find being open to anything makes for a more enjoyable experience. I’m “Fab Bi-Sexual” " Spot on... | |||
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"Another classic Fab debate. Why not just drop the obsession with labels and let people do what they want if it doesn't hurt anyone?" This... | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " There no such thing! | |||
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"Playing devil's advocate here. Can a straight guy commit a gay act and still be straight?? Just because you cut someone's hair once dose that make you a barber? If a vegetarian trys something they wouldn't usually try are they no longer vegetarian? I have no skin in this argument just stirring the pot a little haha " Yes, I think a straight guy can commit a gay act once. Experimentation and all that. It's when it's more than once they can stop calling themselves straight. Two strikes and you're pushed from the straight line. | |||
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"Playing devil's advocate here. Can a straight guy commit a gay act and still be straight?? Just because you cut someone's hair once dose that make you a barber? If a vegetarian trys something they wouldn't usually try are they no longer vegetarian? I have no skin in this argument just stirring the pot a little haha Yes, I think a straight guy can commit a gay act once. Experimentation and all that. It's when it's more than once they can stop calling themselves straight. Two strikes and you're pushed from the straight line." That's a fair assessment | |||
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"Playing devil's advocate here. Can a straight guy commit a gay act and still be straight?? Just because you cut someone's hair once dose that make you a barber? If a vegetarian trys something they wouldn't usually try are they no longer vegetarian? I have no skin in this argument just stirring the pot a little haha " . Yes I would say so, maybe "curious" before, tried it, did nothing for him, so straight | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " Hi. I’m a bi fem that didn’t come out to family till my 20s but had secret experiences. I think by the sounds of it you are certainly bisexual. Before sexual interactions of the same sex that’s bi-curious. After you have had sexual interactions with the same sex, and enjoy it and repeat, I would certainly consider that to be fully bisexual. I think maybe you are a lot early in your journey with the same sex and you’re still figuring yourself out. But asking peoples opinions isn’t the way to go on your own sexuality.. that’s for you to learn and grow with. Maybe one day you will have a change of heart and it could be a phase, experiences, that depends on you. X | |||
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"Any straight guys who love sucking cock but are not attracted to men " Don’t overthink and just enjoy it, we are all here to experience things. It doesn’t make you gay lol | |||
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