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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think that this has been a discussion in the past but, I was looking through profiles nearby this evening and, I saw someone I know. I’ve been a member here for well over a year and this is the first time I’ve seen someone I know!
I haven’t contacted them and I won’t, unless they contact me  but, I wondered how others would react when they see someone they know on fab?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We block them as we don’t want to see what they’re up to and don’t want them to see what we’re up to.
Lou x "
That’s probably the better idea, insulate them and me to minimise the risk of anything getting awkward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually got contacted recently on fab by some old friends we lost touch with. Really lovely to hear from them and once lockdown is over we’ll probably meet them again socially x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found a family member. It was a bit awkward. I blocked them."
Very awkward I would think! I haven’t seen anyone that close to me.....yet. The couple I’ve seen on here I know locally and have, when we were allowed, had drinks with them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unless I know them very well and can gauge pretty well how they’d react to me knowing I always ignore their profile."
I don’t know them that well so, it’s best that I’ve ignored them. As others have suggested, I may block them too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I actually got contacted recently on fab by some old friends we lost touch with. Really lovely to hear from them and once lockdown is over we’ll probably meet them again socially x"
Now, that is a good story of fab putting people back in touch |
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On the few occasions I have been contacted by someone that knew me ( I used to display face pics ) , I didn't like it , invasion of privacy blah blah blah , not that I cared that they knew , more because I found the whole thing awkward and would have preferred that they kept the knowledge to themself .
I would not contact someone I recognise  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On the few occasions I have been contacted by someone that knew me ( I used to display face pics ) , I didn't like it , invasion of privacy blah blah blah , not that I cared that they knew , more because I found the whole thing awkward and would have preferred that they kept the knowledge to themself .
I would not contact someone I recognise "
My thoughts too! I don’t really mind if someone I know, knows that I’m on fab but, privacy is something we all appreciate from time to time and we should all be left to enjoy our time here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was first introduced to FAB by a lady I worked with. We're really good close friends, not in a sexual way just friends. Well she told me about FAB and what she had been getting up to, hence the reason I'm here. I was looking at local profiles and low and behold I stumbled on to hers, she never had face pictures on her initial profile and then I did what I can never undo and clicked on her profile. I saw the un thinkable, and the worse thing about it was she would have known I looked at her profile as it was part of my settings. That was an awkward conversation we had, explaining that to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It has happened to us where by someone who knows us found us on here things got absolutely crazy he threatened to tell our family if we didn’t have sex with him trouble was his wife and family didn’t know he was on here but as our family does know it very much backfired on him as far as I’m aware he was kicked out by his wife |
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"I was first introduced to FAB by a lady I worked with. We're really good close friends, not in a sexual way just friends. Well she told me about FAB and what she had been getting up to, hence the reason I'm here. I was looking at local profiles and low and behold I stumbled on to hers, she never had face pictures on her initial profile and then I did what I can never undo and clicked on her profile. I saw the un thinkable, and the worse thing about it was she would have known I looked at her profile as it was part of my settings. That was an awkward conversation we had, explaining that to her."
I have recommended Fabs to several of my vanilla friends , for the ones that did join I would kind of expect them to have a nose and I would do the same if I stumbled upon their profile ... I just would rather not discuss their findings |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It has happened to us where by someone who knows us found us on here things got absolutely crazy he threatened to tell our family if we didn’t have sex with him trouble was his wife and family didn’t know he was on here but as our family does know it very much backfired on him as far as I’m aware he was kicked out by his wife "
He is a bloody idiot. |
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Not so much noticed on here but I went to a club in the north east with a couple from here and walked in to discover a family member. I left the lovely people I had traveled with and luckily they understood the situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a work colleague contact me on my original fab profile. Naively I told him that I knew him and therefore wasn’t interested. After that he just wouldn’t let it go, despite me blocking him he set up a fake profile and continued to try and meet with me. Ended up deleting my profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very big on discretion and most of my friends would totally fail to get it if they knew I was on here (although a fair few know I enjoy kink). But if I found someone I knew and liked and wasn't family, well why not say hi? |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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If your both on here I don’t see the big deal.
I wouldn’t block them because I knew them. I’d say hi. They may not be my type but no need to hide. You could bump into at a club...... then what?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found a family member. It was a bit awkward. I blocked them.
I blocked my family member too.
Her x
Do you speak to each other off FAB?"
Yes, and we both know each other is on here.
We agreed that blocking each other was best for discretion and respect of privacy for each other.
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been contacted by a few people from the outside world on here...we’ve had a chat and an are you interested and off we go. I don’t see it as an issue. Mutual respect and acknowledge. |
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I've been lucky so far (I think).
I shouldn't be on here, I'm bad.
And I do take risks too, especially at night, by revealing my face pics.
I have recognised one young woman on here as one of my step-daughters friends, but I've not seen her for months on here, so she could of seen me and blocked me. |
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"I've been lucky so far (I think).
I shouldn't be on here, I'm bad.
And I do take risks too, especially at night, by revealing my face pics.
I have recognised one young woman on here as one of my step-daughters friends, but I've not seen her for months on here, so she could of seen me and blocked me. "
I wonder how many guys go looking for women they know and fancy to see if they have public pics on here??? |
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I’ve been recognised on a webcamming site a couple of times, but they were more shocked than I was. It’s a bit of a turn on knowing somebody (who isn’t going to share with the world) knows that side of me. |
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I hate it when people say they know you! I’ve had people say are you called Laura I know you! And I’m thinking oh thats funny because L is the male haha! Also someone messaged me saying they saw me get fucked at quest and it wasn’t me i only play in private rooms with people I know it was a much slimmer lady than me our only similarity is we are both blonde. I found it really rude blocked straight away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See I'm kinda opposite to most as I would love to find someone I know,let's face it we are all for the same thing.
Nothing to hide or be ashamed of unless of course you shouldn't be on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one size fits all answer. depends on your relationship with the person and what you both want.
If i saw a neighbour on here and discovered she was a cock loving nympho why would that stop me messaging her? i'd be up front and say that it's separate from our "normal" relationship but as long as we were both discrete why should it matter if we know each other. In fact it could help ensure discretion and make arranging meets a whole lot easier.
If you are truly discrete it should not matter. |
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I came across a work colleague who is in my team - she is very open about her using the site - and tells me all about the people she sees and recognises including other people we work with or their partners!
I am much more discrete (and have to be) so no one knows I am here but I can’t say I don’t have a wry smile when she tells me her new ‘swingers site story’ and I play along in mock disbelief |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I came across a work colleague who is in my team - she is very open about her using the site - and tells me all about the people she sees and recognises including other people we work with or their partners!
I am much more discrete (and have to be) so no one knows I am here but I can’t say I don’t have a wry smile when she tells me her new ‘swingers site story’ and I play along in mock disbelief "
Why do you have to be discreet? Are you cheating? |
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"I came across a work colleague who is in my team - she is very open about her using the site - and tells me all about the people she sees and recognises including other people we work with or their partners!
I am much more discrete (and have to be) so no one knows I am here but I can’t say I don’t have a wry smile when she tells me her new ‘swingers site story’ and I play along in mock disbelief
Why do you have to be discreet? Are you cheating?"
Maybe its because people don't want everyone knowing thier private business! |
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"I came across a work colleague who is in my team - she is very open about her using the site - and tells me all about the people she sees and recognises including other people we work with or their partners!
I am much more discrete (and have to be) so no one knows I am here but I can’t say I don’t have a wry smile when she tells me her new ‘swingers site story’ and I play along in mock disbelief
Why do you have to be discreet? Are you cheating?
Maybe its because people don't want everyone knowing thier private business! "
Exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was chatting with a local guy on a prev profile when I saw his face pic I told him straight away I recognised him, he was cool with it he recognised me too, we are now firm fab friends |
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