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"Two opposing views I thought it was somewhere inbetween"
you decided the rules and go as far as you want, but also ask the others what their limits are.
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"Two opposing views I thought it was somewhere inbetweenyou decided the rules and go as far as you want, but also ask the others what their limits are. "
This... You go as far as your comfortable but I'd say soft swing is anything barring full on sex so abit of touching and oral |
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"Swapping partners but sex with own partner only. You can kiss, caress ,lick, suck the other partner, even finger but no penetration. "
That’s exactly how we do Soft Swing, everything up to full sex with the other couple, but we we did leave it open that if Mrs SW want to go to Full Swop it was ok with me and we’re both ok with the change. |
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"Anything except penetration I believe. Big fan of soft play  "
This is our understanding. I would definitely say kissing is in.
However, you shouldn't let terminology define what you can and can't do. If you like X and not Y, that's between you and whoever you are involved with. Don't let conventional understanding of words dictate what you look for or decide to get up to. |
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There are no set rules for any sort of swinging, it's down to the couple/person. For us it's (lots of) touching, oral, sucking. It's important to find out what people are into to ensure a good meet. Communication is the key! Communicate with others and each other. Have fun  |
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We understand it to be anything other than penetration with opposite partner.
We are soft only but state on our profile we are same room watch only.
Always good to agree ground rules first |
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"For us it’s everything up to penetration.
We’re happy with full swap, but if meeting a couple for soft play we’ll play by their rules.
We’ve had some very sexy and intimate soft play meets. "
This is what we think of when we see soft swap or play. As we both love foreplay, it's still a win! |
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"You are in the same room and bed next to the other couple but you only play with your partners.
No kissing, maybe spontaneous touching."
With our own partners, this would be our definition of parallel play. Mrs SW |
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I think the strictest definition is "no penetration" and then it's on a sliding scale depending on what your boundaries are.
We consider ourselves on the softer side of soft swap, where we don't actually swap but prefer everyone to be involved in one heap Mostly we just play alongside another couple with some occasional touching and kissing  |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
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weve done both but find soft swing more erotic sometimes you can start of as soft and then it progresses if everyone is comfortable with that its all about communication one thing we cant do is no kissing a good snog can be better than a bad shag |
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"I think the strictest definition is "no penetration" and then it's on a sliding scale depending on what your boundaries are.
We consider ourselves on the softer side of soft swap, where we don't actually swap but prefer everyone to be involved in one heap Mostly we just play alongside another couple with some occasional touching and kissing "
We hope to get to wales in the summer covid permitting.
We would love to meet up if you guy's fancy a meet.
Understand were outside your age range |
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All this talk about soft swing, touching caressing each others partners and in reality we can do feck all.
Its so frustrating ??
But yeah everything that people are comfortable with bar penetration  |
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"Two opposing views I thought it was somewhere inbetweenyou decided the rules and go as far as you want, but also ask the others what their limits are.
This... You go as far as your comfortable but I'd say soft swing is anything barring full on sex so abit of touching and oral "
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