Are there many young women on fab who enjoy this or indeed other more niche areas of submission? We have had some wonderful experiences in the past
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Lol cat ears, anal plug tail and collar. With sexy langerie  heaven 
I can’t believe your not owned. "
i broke both my feet by falling three years ago and now i have fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue..ive been a bit through the mill, just picking myself up again. atm i haveto use a chair to get about, so not quite as easy practically as it used to be..im still a bit lost, between my old world and my new one x |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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The first time I ran into it was 5 years ago at the Facility. There were three cats in full cat outfits. Onesies with tails, and paws and they had the ears. You could roll rubber balls at them and there had stuffed toys with which they played. Plus cat like playing with each other. It does not need to be sexy, just taboo and fun.
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Certainly great fun in a chillin environment, with a kitty curled up, head on your lap as you stroke their hair
Drinking from a cat bowl in a club, snowball for milk ??
Kitty ears, collar, tail etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Certainly great fun in a chillin environment, with a kitty curled up, head on your lap as you stroke their hair
Drinking from a cat bowl in a club, snowball for milk ??
Kitty ears, collar, tail etc etc"
The drinking from a bowl that's hot. Kitty play is very fun  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Certainly great fun in a chillin environment, with a kitty curled up, head on your lap as you stroke their hair
Drinking from a cat bowl in a club, snowball for milk ??
Kitty ears, collar, tail etc etc"
Milk or water for milk surely? Mixing alcohol and BDSM play is rarely a good thing regardless of the amount imo as it can affect your judgement and reactions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Certainly great fun in a chillin environment, with a kitty curled up, head on your lap as you stroke their hair
Drinking from a cat bowl in a club, snowball for milk ??
Kitty ears, collar, tail etc etc
Milk or water for milk surely? Mixing alcohol and BDSM play is rarely a good thing regardless of the amount imo as it can affect your judgement and reactions."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Certainly great fun in a chillin environment, with a kitty curled up, head on your lap as you stroke their hair
Drinking from a cat bowl in a club, snowball for milk ??
Kitty ears, collar, tail etc etc
Milk or water for milk surely? Mixing alcohol and BDSM play is rarely a good thing regardless of the amount imo as it can affect your judgement and reactions."
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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I will say upfront I have never believed that self impairment through drink should be an excuse for anything, particularly where there is a potential to harm someone.
However, I would suggest the position in regard to alcohol is more nuanced than do not mix play and alcohol. Some play is like driving a car and drink driving is an absolute no. But some play is like sex and although there is a rule of general application sex and alcohol don't mix, in fact many couples drink moderate amounts of alcohol and have sex.
A BDSM example would be at high protocol event where dinner is served and subs are in attendance I doubt are alcohol free affairs.
Another is if I have my sub at my house naked and serving me alcohol and food (cold cuts and salad), I can see no issue here. Nor if she had been wearing kitty ears whilst serving me and having a drink herself.
Everything in life has risk, I would suggest the position to be avoided is where doing the BDSM activity and having the potential for poor decision making creates a likely risk of harm. |
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"I will say upfront I have never believed that self impairment through drink should be an excuse for anything, particularly where there is a potential to harm someone.
However, I would suggest the position in regard to alcohol is more nuanced than do not mix play and alcohol. Some play is like driving a car and drink driving is an absolute no. But some play is like sex and although there is a rule of general application sex and alcohol don't mix, in fact many couples drink moderate amounts of alcohol and have sex.
A BDSM example would be at high protocol event where dinner is served and subs are in attendance I doubt are alcohol free affairs.
Another is if I have my sub at my house naked and serving me alcohol and food (cold cuts and salad), I can see no issue here. Nor if she had been wearing kitty ears whilst serving me and having a drink herself.
Everything in life has risk, I would suggest the position to be avoided is where doing the BDSM activity and having the potential for poor decision making creates a likely risk of harm."
In moderation alcohol can help you to relax a little. I'm not saying 27 pints of Stella is a good idea but one or two?
People who have to be shit faced to play are not our cup of tea and we have declined to in the past with a lovely young lady who ended up not being able to stand up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will say upfront I have never believed that self impairment through drink should be an excuse for anything, particularly where there is a potential to harm someone.
However, I would suggest the position in regard to alcohol is more nuanced than do not mix play and alcohol. Some play is like driving a car and drink driving is an absolute no. But some play is like sex and although there is a rule of general application sex and alcohol don't mix, in fact many couples drink moderate amounts of alcohol and have sex.
A BDSM example would be at high protocol event where dinner is served and subs are in attendance I doubt are alcohol free affairs.
Another is if I have my sub at my house naked and serving me alcohol and food (cold cuts and salad), I can see no issue here. Nor if she had been wearing kitty ears whilst serving me and having a drink herself.
Everything in life has risk, I would suggest the position to be avoided is where doing the BDSM activity and having the potential for poor decision making creates a likely risk of harm.
In moderation alcohol can help you to relax a little. I'm not saying 27 pints of Stella is a good idea but one or two?
People who have to be shit faced to play are not our cup of tea and we have declined to in the past with a lovely young lady who ended up not being able to stand up. "
I think mixung alcohol and play is a person decision, RACK at the end of the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Certainly great fun in a chillin environment, with a kitty curled up, head on your lap as you stroke their hair
Drinking from a cat bowl in a club, snowball for milk ??
Kitty ears, collar, tail etc etc"
Wow I love this. I saw some porn years ago and love the cats ears ever since. I never knew it was a actual "thing".  |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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"I will say upfront I have never believed that self impairment through drink should be an excuse for anything, particularly where there is a potential to harm someone.
However, I would suggest the position in regard to alcohol is more nuanced than do not mix play and alcohol. Some play is like driving a car and drink driving is an absolute no. But some play is like sex and although there is a rule of general application sex and alcohol don't mix, in fact many couples drink moderate amounts of alcohol and have sex.
A BDSM example would be at high protocol event where dinner is served and subs are in attendance I doubt are alcohol free affairs.
Another is if I have my sub at my house naked and serving me alcohol and food (cold cuts and salad), I can see no issue here. Nor if she had been wearing kitty ears whilst serving me and having a drink herself.
Everything in life has risk, I would suggest the position to be avoided is where doing the BDSM activity and having the potential for poor decision making creates a likely risk of harm.
In moderation alcohol can help you to relax a little. I'm not saying 27 pints of Stella is a good idea but one or two?
People who have to be shit faced to play are not our cup of tea and we have declined to in the past with a lovely young lady who ended up not being able to stand up. "
As a single guy on the scene I did a fair bit of pickup play at clubs, but always refused to play with bottoms who were d*unk. But I have had subs and bottoms who I played with regularly, and if it was public play they would like a single glass of wine to settle their nerves. Initially I refused, but they were experienced grown women who could ordinarily drink me under the table, so I could live with them having a glass of wine. However, I don't drink and do bondage or impact or edgeplay. |
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It is interesting to see how the dots have been joined. A little alcohol does nothing constitute being blind d*unk. It also does not mean that being in the kitty space will result in sex. There is a great deal more to the dynamic than bdsm and sex. It is certainly possible to enjoy the less physical aspects. We certainly would not condone the use of alcohol and/or drugs when clearly awareness is important. Everything should be consensual and wanted, even things like cnc has the first c |
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