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What do you mean by genuinely honest, honest about what?
We trust each other but he knows not to leave me alone with a packet of chocolate digestives.
Again secrets about what? I will never tell what his Christmas present is until the day. |
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I'm half a couple and I trust my partner totally.
I always know who he's chatting with and him me and we always communicate about meets as a couple.
We met on here, so we were both already into swinging. |
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"What do you mean by genuinely honest, honest about what?
We trust each other but he knows not to leave me alone with a packet of chocolate digestives.
Again secrets about what? I will never tell what his Christmas present is until the day."
How true is this??? MrKC buys fruit & nut to stop me eating his chocolate - I can't eat nuts (  ) - thatsxa huge lack of trust right there but he's honest why he does it!! |
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Im single but i know a good few swinging partners x trust is the main thing in a swinging marriage. I know that some couples end up getting divorced because of the jealousy that sets in. Some people go behind their partners back and play with regulars . You can't let the green eyed monster get inside your head  |
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Im half of a couple and i trust my wife and she trusts me.
She tells me when something new starts up and tells me when she is meeting someone and what happened and if i ever started to talk to someone i will tell her. |
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"What do you mean by genuinely honest, honest about what?
We trust each other but he knows not to leave me alone with a packet of chocolate digestives.
Again secrets about what? I will never tell what his Christmas present is until the day.
How true is this??? MrKC buys fruit & nut to stop me eating his chocolate - I can't eat nuts ( ) - thatsxa huge lack of trust right there but he's honest why he does it!! "
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We both trust each other 1000% you need trust in any relationship otherwise in my eyes it don't work without it.
Never, ever keep secrets. Unless it's to suprise them with a nice gesture/gift obviously 
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There is no issue with trust here, we are open to each other about everything.
As regards trust, without it any relationship is not in a great place and you need honesty for there to be trust about what each want and need from the relationship. So we are spot on here... |
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We met as singles on here and so there was a transition of us breaking ties with others. We were honest about everything.
As a couple, we have complete trust in each other. We are on a couple of sites and we chat to different people, sometimes individually but always with a view to meeting together and we share everything.
The only time I don’t share if I’m arranging a sexy surprise guest for C...but again she trusts me implicitly that it’s going to be what she wants.
I wouldn’t trust C with my chocolate though
K
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I don't see how it would work without openness and trust? One of the epic things about a great relationship is being able to be totally open and totally yourself with fear of being being shunned by your partner. I understand openness can be very scary and comes with its own difficulties. I think its also important to have an adult mentality and to accept each other warts and all. But when you have that openness you never have to be alone again. It's liberating and makes you a pretty unstoppable team. |
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"We met on Fab, and now have a 'Fab' baby.
A couple that plays together (with others) stays together. "
Awww I love these kinda stories.
We’re the same every is on the table and the only secrets I keep is birthday surprises (which drive him nuts but I enjoy the torture  ) |
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We are always honest with each other if I ever go on a meet on my own she always wants a detailed account of what happened during our sex session when I get home seems to turn her on big time lol |
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"...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?
...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?
...How do you feel about keeping secrets?
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We don’t keep secrets, trust each other like life depends on it |
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We trust each other 100%.
Apart from Christmas or birthday presents. Truth is never revealed until the actual day.
We always felt before we started to swing that we trusted each other and were 100% honest that has been proved all the time we’ve been swinging, we tell each other everything good and bad.
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"...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?
...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?
...How do you feel about keeping secrets?
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Our experience here tells us that almost all married or long term cpls are honest with each other , can't be sure about fuckbuddies.
We have met a so called long term partnered cpls where the male was asking my wife's number in secret and wanted to meet her behind his partners back .
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Yes we trust each other ,if we didn’t we would not swing , we mainly play as a couple and any solo meets are allways agreed before hand , or soon after , I don’t think any couples without trust should ever contemplate swinging ,or any relationship for that matter |
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We've been watching Temptation Island. We're both 100% that we would leave the Island with each other. We'd have a flirt and fun, but always go back to each other. It's an in Joke in our house that Blackpool is doing a Temptation Island |
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"Yes we trust each other ,if we didn’t we would not swing , we mainly play as a couple and any solo meets are allways agreed before hand , or soon after , I don’t think any couples without trust should ever contemplate swinging ,or any relationship for that matter "
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We trust each other implicitly, the mrs has been on holiday with a female friend and visited clubs every night whilst away, there’s no secrets between us, we tell each other everything that happens as for us it’s a turn on anyway, I have visited clubs on my own also with her blessing.
If there wasn’t trust then we wouldn’t and couldn’t be in this lifestyle.
We’ve had conversations with people who are curious about trying swinging and always our advice to them is communication is paramount, you must take your time and have frank discussions about each other’s expectations and there must be complete trust for it to work. |
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"...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?
...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?
...How do you feel about keeping secrets?
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You can’t be on the swinging scene if your not honest with your partner. Things will just end badly. I am totally honest with my wife and she is with me. If your not honest don’t start swinging silly silly. |
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"...How many of you are genuinely honest with eachother?
...Do you trust your swinging partner / wife / husband?
...How do you feel about keeping secrets?
Totally agree. Swinging is an erotic sexy lifestyle and trust goes with it
You can’t be on the swinging scene if your not honest with your partner. Things will just end badly. I am totally honest with my wife and she is with me. If your not honest don’t start swinging silly silly. "
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over a year ago
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What do you mean by genuinely honest, honest about what?
We trust each other but he knows not to leave me alone with a packet of chocolate digestives.
Again secrets about what? I will never tell what his Christmas present is until the day.[it's jafacakes I can't trust her with] |
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