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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all. Now i know its not everybody's bag but seeing as we can't meet off fab. Who likes to get into imaginative. Wild,flirty and kinky conversation? I thought most would be up for it as it's safe and pressure free.
So far I'm the only one.
Just wondered if I was alone in my weirdness  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm up for it love a bit of dirty talk the imagination is a wonderful thing xxx"
Exactly. Better than porn because its interactive. Albeit remote lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's something I've only ever enjoyed with someone I've met before, know well and lust after
I find it near impossible to get turned on by a complete stranger messaging me filth |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does nowt for me.. surely theres an 0898... number you can use"
Haha thanks. I'm not that desperate. In normal times I wouldn't meet anyone without a chat that lead to a flirt that led to a sharing of imaginations.
Got to be a connection.
I get that people think it's just a seedy way to get off but it's not the case for everyone.
Mental stimulation without any hassles. You click. You meet when able. Or not. Still fun letting the imagination fly? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me. "
Totally understand that.
However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?
I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.
Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me.
Totally understand that.
However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?
I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.
Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol."
How do I find meets? Conversation, often related to forum discussions & occasionally (but not very often) in response to a well thought out, interesting, message. That conversation will then sometimes result in enough of a spark to lead to a social meet, when the spark is still there in real life then things progress.
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"Hi all. Now i know its not everybody's bag but seeing as we can't meet off fab. Who likes to get into imaginative. Wild,flirty and kinky conversation? I thought most would be up for it as it's safe and pressure free.
So far I'm the only one.
Just wondered if I was alone in my weirdness "
Mmmm love some filthy horny messaging...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me.
Totally understand that.
However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?
I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.
Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol."
I find it pointless indulging in "naughty chat" with someone I haven't met. I never know if I actually fancy someone until I've met them in person. So to indulge in sex chat, and then meet in person and not fancy them would be a bit awkward.
Obviously you can kinda tell from a pic if you're attracted to someone or not. Unfortunately, not everyone looks like their pics.
I guess we're all on here for different reasons and have our own boundaries. Personally, I save the flirting and sex talk for in person |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
"With someone I've met, or chatted to enough to establish a connection, it can be fun. With random strangers it does absolutely nothing for me.
Totally understand that.
However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?
I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.
Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol.
I find it pointless indulging in "naughty chat" with someone I haven't met. I never know if I actually fancy someone until I've met them in person. So to indulge in sex chat, and then meet in person and not fancy them would be a bit awkward.
Obviously you can kinda tell from a pic if you're attracted to someone or not. Unfortunately, not everyone looks like their pics.
I guess we're all on here for different reasons and have our own boundaries. Personally, I save the flirting and sex talk for in person "
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"It's something I've only ever enjoyed with someone I've met before, know well and lust after
I find it near impossible to get turned on by a complete stranger messaging me filth"
Aye same, have to have met them first and there be some sort of chemistry for me to do all that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's something I've only ever enjoyed with someone I've met before, know well and lust after
I find it near impossible to get turned on by a complete stranger messaging me filth"
Totally Agree ^^^^^^^
A complete stranger sending extremely sexually graphic detailed essay type 1st msgs is a complete Turn-Off. It's taking Perv to another level
Does absolutely nothing for me...a complete stranger like with no connection/chemistry whatsoever & no idea what they even look like & it happens quite often on here ... Yes True |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"However. How do you find meets on fab if it isn't for a good old chat 1st. Not being rude but surely the conversation moves on eventually to sex. Likes and dislikes before agreeing to meet?
I'm not talking about just messaging filth from the start. I'm talking about the whole process. Chatting rubbish, hopefully laughing that leads to flirting that leads to sexting that may lead to meeting.
Example. I tend to foolishly put "anyone fancy a naughty chat that may end in a meet" Obviously thats cutting to the chase. "Wouldn't you think it weird if I put "looking for a nice conversation about anything. Hopefully that will lead to flirting and sharing ideas before meeting" serious question lol."
Its glaringly obvious that when messaging turns to sexting, its to aid the male have a wank and get off.
If the messaging doesn’t turn to sexting the male gets bored and buggers off.
It is possible to have conversations with people without resorting to filth, and in all honesty its better to have a social first before delving into sexual likes and dislikes in my opinion.
If you cannot hold a conversation or catch our imagination without resorting to filth, then it would be hard to find a connection and for us to want to spend time with you.
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I find it a total turn off and just fake n fantasy freeks.
All just full of talk n no sction
If ur thst obsessed with it thrn why not act them out instead of just talkin thr shit.
Also
Going on cam
Sittin thete watchin a complete stranger just wankin off whilst they ask u to sit infrom of s camera playin with your pussy.
Totally off putting sorry
If anything it will just be physically 1-2-1 in the flesh for me
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well. Interesting opinions.
Personally I like to have a good natter about most things but at the end of the day, fabs a sex site. If by the end of the conversation,(even if its after quite some time) I'm not mentally stimulated in a sexual way. No point trying to meet, even socially. If I wanted weeks and weeks of platonic conversations, I'd re join Facebook 
Each to their own but I want to be
excited to meet someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own indeed OP
My way of doing things has fared me well over the years, and I've had a LOT of fun in person (which is my preference).
Seems the majority of women on here aren't overy keen on sexting.
Do whatever works for you and have fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well. Interesting opinions.
Personally I like to have a good natter about most things but at the end of the day, fabs a sex site. If by the end of the conversation,(even if its after quite some time) I'm not mentally stimulated in a sexual way. No point trying to meet, even socially. If I wanted weeks and weeks of platonic conversations, I'd re join Facebook
Each to their own but I want to be
excited to meet someone."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to seriously be a gender divide on this subject ... and (funnily enough) I'm in the ladies camp. Does absolutely nothing for me at all, if anything it bores me, but I don't have any sex chats on here as prefer to meet first and for that to happen there has to be some form of mental connection that comes from normal chatting. Actual sexual chemistry only happens in person for me so without knowing a person and having had physical relations first and knowing their (& them mine) signaling it's a definite no here |
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I do enjoy it but only now with men I’ve met as my time on fab has taught me that the men that like to indulge are less likely to actually meet in person (when we could) so for me it’s a kind of screening as ‘meeters don't chat and chatters dont meet’
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Nope it's not something I'm interested in either especially with people I haven't met. Like others said it tends to be guys who are horny when they message ask for it and seem shocked that sexting to get them off is not something I'm into.
With someone I meet it can be good up to a point . |
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