Hubby and I are new to the swinging scene, yet to partake of the fruit due to lockdown. But after being on Fab for a few months I've noticed that people tend to have their preferences to how they engage with the scene. Some stick to the forums, some stick to cams, some hate clubs, some love clubs. I guess it just intrigues me that there is so many ways to find what you're looking for  |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Hubby and I are new to the swinging scene, yet to partake of the fruit due to lockdown. But after being on Fab for a few months I've noticed that people tend to have their preferences to how they engage with the scene. Some stick to the forums, some stick to cams, some hate clubs, some love clubs. I guess it just intrigues me that there is so many ways to find what you're looking for "
The scene is quite diverse and everyone has their own aspects which they enjoy.
Forums often used as a way to get noticed, cams some just want to exhibit and be watched. We have always found clubs to be a dissapointment. Other love the anonymity.
The hardest part of being new to the scene is working out which aspects work for you. What people are actually looking for will change, not only with preference with time within the scene. People will often go through the try everything, everyone. In the end what is one person's is not necessarily another's and you'll naturally gravitate towards the aspects that you get the most out of |
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As you say OP, everyone will have their own preference. For me it's a club as I love spontaneity and just going with what feels good in the moment. I also love swinger holidays. You will find your way I'm sure. |
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over a year ago
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98% of the site have nothing to do with the forums ive only started using them in the last 3 years and ive been on here since the site started ..
you'll also find less than 25% use clubs because if it was more all the clubs would be full are they never were unless xmas/new year
so that leaves alot of home swingers and then the dreamers and fanatist
but then with the site being mainly men those percentages above look good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh and op as a couple clubs are very much the best place to start as it opens your eyes to things good and sometimes bad and you get to talk to others who have years under there belts ...but untimely its down to what you and your partner wants ...best of luck in this great lifestyle  |
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