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Was running a pub and my last customer of the night was talking to me,we swapped numbers and had a bit of a snog then went home (seperatley) starting talking on phone and we got into swinging conversation.
I was shocked at first,and he told me to just browse this site,so I did for a few months.(I have a high sex drive) I then found out he started sleeping with my neighbour! (Lies and insults flew about)
So I decided to join and I've never looked back,loved it.
He still messages me now and is always asking me what I'm doing and if I will go see him.
(after me telling him thankyou for recommending this site)
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"Was running a pub and my last customer of the night was talking to me,we swapped numbers and had a bit of a snog then went home (seperatley) starting talking on phone and we got into swinging conversation.
I was shocked at first,and he told me to just browse this site,so I did for a few months.(I have a high sex drive) I then found out he started sleeping with my neighbour! (Lies and insults flew about)
So I decided to join and I've never looked back,loved it.
He still messages me now and is always asking me what I'm doing and if I will go see him.
(after me telling him thankyou for recommending this site)
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Good for him to recommend the site |
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I’ve always had a high sex drive and a desire to experiment, which led me to kink play and fetish clubs in my early 20’s. From there finding the swinging scene was a fairly natural progression.
20 years later and I still love it. It’s clearly just part of who I am and what I enjoy. |
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"I’ve always had a high sex drive and a desire to experiment, which led me to kink play and fetish clubs in my early 20’s. From there finding the swinging scene was a fairly natural progression.
20 years later and I still love it. It’s clearly just part of who I am and what I enjoy."
All of us here have a high sex drive  |
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over a year ago
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I know this will bring some haters out of the woodwork, I persuaded my ex-wife to try escorting (we always used to fantasy about sleeping with other people, friends/colleagues etc) got her to advertise on a well know site and she loved it but it was just her, then we progressed to swinging later in our relationship.
Trying to write a book about the whole thing! I’ll be brave one day and share a chapter on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on the cocktails with my bestie, we got slightly tipsy and started speaking about doing sexual stuff with other people with our partners, went back to J with the idea and he was on board just as much as I was, although we have always fantasied about having another female in the bedroom with us so... It's not like it was a brand new idea I guess |
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I was in a sexless marriage. My then-wife told me I wasn't going to get any from her so I might as well go out and get it somewhere else.
The wife of a family friend was on the scene and I got involved through her. |
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By *ampire69Man
over a year ago
Birmingham West Midlands |
I am a midlands based professional photographer, i was asked to take some high quality pictures, adult style and i asked a few questions as to what they were going to be used for, i did not even know that this website existed, saw my pictures on here and got hooked simple as. |
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"Was running a pub and my last customer of the night was talking to me,we swapped numbers and had a bit of a snog then went home (seperatley) starting talking on phone and we got into swinging conversation.
I was shocked at first,and he told me to just browse this site,so I did for a few months.(I have a high sex drive) I then found out he started sleeping with my neighbour! (Lies and insults flew about)
So I decided to join and I've never looked back,loved it.
He still messages me now and is always asking me what I'm doing and if I will go see him.
(after me telling him thankyou for recommending this site)
Good for him to recommend the site "
I'm really glad he did |
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Always had the fantasy, started in my early 20’s, but very hard to get into, as it was Polaroids and messages in papers etc. 25-30 years on confessed to Mrs SW, I was more than still interested and here we are, a year later, now waiting to get back too it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs got hooked on a TV drama called 'Take Me' which surrounded a swinging group of which one was a murderer starring Robson Green  
She'd come to bed horny and then one night out in the car she confessed to wanting to watch me with someone else xxx naughty girl  |
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We gradually grew to love it, tried sex clubs and parties.
Discovered that we were both more interested and more turned on if it was me having the fun.
Suited me as I loved the attention, and the fact there were so many guys out there much more impressively endowed than hubby.
Hence the cuckold aspect, which we both get a kick out of playing about with. Xxx
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By *u4rFunMan
over a year ago
wigan |
Was in Blackpool on lads day out and arrived early by train . Was in pub and got talking to couple guys at bar watching football. They asked me over to there table where wife’s where sat . After Chatting asked did I want go a spa club they said lol so said yes and when inside they laughed and said I hope your broad minded ha ha The rest is history x loved it x |
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"Always had the fantasy, started in my early 20’s, but very hard to get into, as it was Polaroids and messages in papers etc. 25-30 years on confessed to Mrs SW, I was more than still interested and here we are, a year later, now waiting to get back too it "
Much easier now with internet and meetings sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wasn't getting much sex at home,so suggested it to my wife,to my surprise she said yes. We had a couple's profile for a while,but for various reasons she decided it wasn't for her,but said I could carry on solo,so here I am. |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
"Mrs got hooked on a TV drama called 'Take Me' which surrounded a swinging group of which one was a murderer starring Robson Green
She'd come to bed horny and then one night out in the car she confessed to wanting to watch me with someone else xxx naughty girl "
Incredible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out at the pub with my wife in our late 20’s. We bumped into an ex boyfriend of hers and had a drink with him. When he went to the bar to get a round she told me he had been fingering her under the table and she hadn’t dared say anything.
We were both so turned on that we invited him back to ours for a drink and went for it. |
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"Always had the fantasy, started in my early 20’s, but very hard to get into, as it was Polaroids and messages in papers etc. 25-30 years on confessed to Mrs SW, I was more than still interested and here we are, a year later, now waiting to get back too it
Much easier now with internet and meetings sites "
Yes a lot easier, got to bless the inventor of the internet lol and more opportunities to. It took a while to get back around to it again (too long really). Enjoyed it before LD and looking forward to getting going a again. |
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By *andRCouple
over a year ago
barry |
Our first threesome was in our first couple of years together when she was just 18, being as bi as she is we have now had 25 years together constantly enjoying the pleasuring of sharing another female.
Last 3 ish years we have broadened our horizons with clubs and sites etc and included the whole other couple thing.
Life is for living and REGRET NOTHING as we always say.
Xx G |
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I’d been celibate for almost 2 years after a horrid breakup and whilst I wasn’t ready for a relationship I was gagging for a bonk. One of my (very vanilla, or so I thought) sewing friends recommend Fab. She’d been on it for years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coming home unexpectedly early when on nights to hear wife getting fucked, went upstairs to see a neighbour buried deep in her, after a few words! She told me to join in... so that was first time mfm with her.... since then never looked back |
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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago
hitchin |
Mrs f has always got attention front guys when out and lived to flirt over tine she used to tell me about her flirting, as you set rules and get more used to it flirting became more and she was allowed to explore which she did. Natural progression bought us here to find partners but she still much prefers a good old fashioned might on the pull flirting and fucking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fantasised about mmf threesomes for years. Decided to open our relationship as we both fancied other people. Tried that which was good but we both loved threesomes even more and that's been my preference ever since. |
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Married young, (Childhood sweetheart's) did all the proper things according to others. Time passed, nest emptied and we decided it was time to try out what others usually do before they get married. We fast forwarded past the Sow your oats stage back then. So we are checking out what we missed, but doing it together....well trying to.?? |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
louth, Ireland |
We had talked about fantasies for years and how mrs gs was bi curious, then about 2 years ago we was told about FAB so joined for mrs Gs to fulfill that fantasy, but since joining we have broadened our play and really enjoyed it so far |
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"Wife and I when first dating had a unplanned evening involving her ex. It all then just started from that.
Originally back in 2000 I was dating a Dutch girl that got me into things. "
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I got chatting to a bloke on a web site. He asked if he could email me some photos (before pics could be sent to phones). I said yes. He then sent me photos of him dressed in women's clothes (not in the least bit feminine) he asked me to show my friends and to tell him what they thought of him. So I did. I told him that they didn't think he was pretty. He asked if they were laughingat him... emails went back and forth and he, basically, got off on the humiliation. He loved it. The more he loved it. The more I gave him. I was intrigued why someone would get off on that (never heard of anything like it, at that point). I said that I wouldn't have thought he'd get many takers, to amuse him on POF (apart from me!! ). He said he has more success on Fab.... curiosity lead me here.... so thank you to the wanna be tv. I wish I still knew you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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that's a nice end to that message.. we mostly came through the fetish and bdsm side too.. tje bdsm community can often be conflicted about sex itself and we enjoy the more sexual side of kink
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I'd never heard of Fab- heard about a porn cinema in Walsall so paid a visit. A woman came in with her Dom and "entertained" everyone. Chatted to them afterwards and was asked if I was on Fab.
The rest is history.
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A combination of a couple of things.
First,I was working nights and not getting a lot of weekends off,so being still in my 20s,going out to meet people on a Tuesday night the conventional way was really working. So I started going to Rio's in Kentish town. That's where it started for me. I also have a thing about playing with attached ladies,so mixing with like minded people was perfect. |
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"A combination of a couple of things.
First,I was working nights and not getting a lot of weekends off,so being still in my 20s,going out to meet people on a Tuesday night the conventional way wasn't really working. So I started going to Rio's in Kentish town. That's where it started for me. I also have a thing about playing with attached ladies,so mixing with like minded people was perfect. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got divorced after a long sexless marriage and wanted to experience life before I settled down again. Discovered I adore fucking other guy’s wives whilst they watch and join in. |
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I had been in a sexless marriage for many years so that when I was propositioned on a skiing holiday (I was holidaying alone) and experienced a night of the best sex of my life! An instant convert, they also introduced me to Fab. |
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By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago
preston |
Playing Pool in the pub one summers evening, three or four young lads sat stirring and making lewd comments about R's short skirt and blouse. Afterwards talked about which one she would have invited back and she suggested more than one!!.... and here we are. |
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My best mate at school (in the days when everything was in black & white) were swingers. He showed me Polaroids of them. I was fascinated & hooked from that moment. Two vanilla marriages later here i am trying to make up for lost time |
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By *ikkiHbiWoman
over a year ago
Cleethorpes |
My fwb who I met on tinder, ended up chatting about wanting to try stuff, said I'd have liked to try some fun with a girl, next weekend he brought me one
Then escalated pretty rapidly with any request I had he would organise it for me
Quite lucky with him really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a fuck buddy who mentioned that she was interested in getting a 3sum MMF, we looked online and found Fab, we met 3 different guys and she loved it, didn’t stay here long, I then re joined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is embarrassing n I was very niave so please don’t laugh
Anyway was talking to a guy from tinder for ages (who was supposed to be a Dom) n he was very convincing!!! Anyway one particular day told me blah blah how he owned me etc.... n that he wasn’t involved with anyone, then that evening invited well demanded I attend a sex group party at his house included me in a group chat on what’s app n to cut a long story short it materialised he was a sub for soneone in that group chat he still demanded I went to the sex party n then changed it from a Sunday afternoon to a Tuesday n I work n he was demanding I called in sick so I gave him a bit chat back in this group chat which questioned his masculinity n he then blocked me. In this group chat they were talking about fab so I thought I’d take a look n ironically he was one of the first guys to message me stating he would be a good dominant n would happily train me
I just took the piss to be honest but I learnt a hell of a lot from that situation lol |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
harwich |
started with us fantasising about having a girl friend to share that eventually happened then nothing for a couple of years then a second girl wandered into out lives and stayed for a few years when she moved on we looked at contact mags and loot to find another girl .Speakiing to a couple they told us about a club close to us we went and that was the start of the most exciting 20 years coming to an end now as no one wants us but hell its been great
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We had fantasy for years about mmf then a engineer at G's works started play her some attention. We talked and said to pass her number to him. 2 days later he call round for a coffee when I was at work, the reclaim sex was amazing. We've been playing mainly at clubs or hotels since |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
My ex husband was in the lifestyle before we met, he brought the subject up about a year into our relationship and I thought why not, there were things I wanted to try and it seemed the perfect way to |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
We were talking to a friend about looking for play partners and he suggested Fab.
The kink scene can be hit or miss with people interested in mixing sexual and BDSM play, so here we are. |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Saw my then GF give a guy a blow job to a guy at vanilla party. She didn’t know I’d seen her.
On the way home in the car I told her what I’d seen how it made me feel we had some great sex right there and then on the side of the road. That was I was starting to swinging |
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By *edlipsCouple
over a year ago
Crewkerne |
Had come out of a sexless marriage after going 10 years with nothing,joined POF and a young lad suggested i set up a Fab profile. Had never heard of it,so set one up and had some great meets, helped me explore my bi side more and then met my partner R swinging. We still have a fantastic relationship and sex life. Can't wait to start sharing again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both played on here as singles previously but never met up  i john was introduced to fab by a cpl i met through the AOL swinging/bi/gay chatroom. Jenny was introduced by a cpl she also met as a single on here. We met on a dating site, Through our chats she addmitted to me she had been on a swinging site and hoped it would not put me off as she did not want to lose me. Her eyes lite up when i told her i had done the same journey on here. Then she was excited when we chatted about swinging and if we should give it a go. As soon as covid buggers off we can get on with meeting and playing with others. Hopefully not to long down the road   |
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Myself and Mrs Brum has been together about 3 months. One night lying in bed she mentioned she would like to try sex with another woman, at the time I was aware of another popular swinging site. So I mentioned it to her and discussed our options etc then joined. At first we wanted only a woman, but learnt the hard way the trials and tribulations of that so after 12 months had our first meet with a couple for girl girl swap only. That was 2013 and we are still looking for a female but enjoying the search. |
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over a year ago
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"Myself and Mrs Brum has been together about 3 months. One night lying in bed she mentioned she would like to try sex with another woman, at the time I was aware of another popular swinging site. So I mentioned it to her and discussed our options etc then joined. At first we wanted only a woman, but learnt the hard way the trials and tribulations of that so after 12 months had our first meet with a couple for girl girl swap only. That was 2013 and we are still looking for a female but enjoying the search. "
Bring her down this way what covid dies down. We can watch her and jenny playing jen loves pussy as much as cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It started with a d*unk Tom blurting it out during the first lockdown and is now something we spend a lot of time talking about, hopefully the talking turns to action at some point this year when safe to do so xx |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
We met as singles on here, I was just interested to expand my bi side and SSS had been on here for years. Never thought he’d be interested in me being such a noob
Decided to carry on as a couple, and never looked back.
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
I was introduced into the scene as a young jobbing photographer in the 80s in London, by couple while living in Pimlico. Also the swinging scene got me into the fashion industry at the time -
My OH was reluctantly introduced into the scene by her Ex in order to try and save her marriage - Failed.
We met and very happy, obviously the scene hold a special place for us. We have both seen the best and the worst the scene can offer
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bloke at work was all over the wife, kept asking to meet her, and asked to share a room with her on works Christmas do
I said if she did I wanted to watch
went from there, really surprised me as she had never shown any inkling |
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"Was running a pub and my last customer of the night was talking to me,we swapped numbers and had a bit of a snog then went home (seperatley) starting talking on phone and we got into swinging conversation.
I was shocked at first,and he told me to just browse this site,so I did for a few months.(I have a high sex drive) I then found out he started sleeping with my neighbour! (Lies and insults flew about)
So I decided to join and I've never looked back,loved it.
He still messages me now and is always asking me what I'm doing and if I will go see him.
(after me telling him thankyou for recommending this site)
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Now this sounds like a pub and landlady we should all visit |
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I’ve done the Gay/ TV club scene and Fetish clubs so it’s natural for me to look for other venues that I can dress safely and full of potential for an enjoyable experience.
In a vanilla relationship however if my partner wants to join me on a night out as Steph, I’d most likely just stick to the Tgirl scene and not take her to clubs. |
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Back before the internet I used phone chatlines, from which I occasionally got late-night or early hours meets with women all over the country - I was in Cambs and later Milton Keynes in those days...
....one night, I got chatting to a woman in Leeds, who invited me to visit her the following evening - and it wasn't until it was all arranged that she told me she was married, and asked if it was OK if her husband watched!
That was completely new to me - I'd visited a married woman whose husband was on nights, but the idea of a husband watching had never crossed my mind! I was nervous, to say the least - but all went well, and the rest is, as they say, history! |
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