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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How much chatting time or messaging you need to do before you comfortable meet for social?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it depends a few weeks a month

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By *eterinpantiesukMan over a year ago

southam

Like to chat a bit to be sure we know what we are planning to do and both going to enjoy it. I find the chat bitquite enjoyable but better if there is a prospect of actually doing it.

I find that if there is no meet within a few days then it never happens but different at the moment of course

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By *irty PrettyWoman over a year ago

Cardiff

It varies a lot for me. I only chatted with my FWB for a day before we met for a social. On the other hand, Covid has meant that I’ve been talking to a couple of people for a year or more without being able to have a social. Before Covid, it normally depended on when diaries could be matched up.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman over a year ago

Newcastle

I hate chatting online, so I'm looking to arrange a social within the first couple of messages.

Different strokes for different folks though

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By *rad670Man over a year ago

South Lakes

Even to meet for a social I reckon it takes a while to build trust and confidence that it wouldn't be a disaster, I would be suspicious if it happened within a couple of messages or inside a few weeks. Plenty of time to get to know people lately although I also wonder just how patient and bothered people are when no chance of meeting soon.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

In the distant past before the Zombie Apocalypse if I was interested in someone I prefered to meet for a social sooner rather than later

Endless chat with randoms doesn't float my boat.

Covid changed the goalposts rather.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Can really depend on the person and how the conversation flows to how soon I feel happy to meet socially

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By *AYENCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We prefer to arrange a social quite quickly if and when we find someone interesting.

We have little time or interest in message ping-pong, as we believe that we'll all only know if we're on the same page when we meet in person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I like to have a social quite quickly as messaging is an awful form of communication! The only way to actually find out if you get on with someone is to meet them in person I find

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By *c69funCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

We don't bother with long chats as we've found that you often don't get to know the real person.

We prefer to have a face to face meet where there is less chance of encountering timewasters.

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