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Being made to cum, struggle to let go. Help please
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When being given a BJ or hand job I often struggle to cum. I think it is because I can't "relax" or let go,
Anyone had this and got any tips or any techniques that always gets you off.
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"When being given a BJ or hand job I often struggle to cum. I think it is because I can't "relax" or let go,
Anyone had this and got any tips or any techniques that always gets you off.
I'm guessing you can wank yourself off with no problems
My advice would be to just enjoy it and not to worry about spunking too soon.
Remember you can always cum again
A few women I've been with get a bit disappointed "
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Can be difficult to cum if you're used to a certain pressure and rhythm when wanking.
If that happens I've sometimes helped things along by wanking while in their mouth. Or putting my hand on their's & showing the right pressure & rhythm.
It's nothing to worry about & I'm sure women can have the same problem cumming when they're fingered or licked. |
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"Can be difficult to cum if you're used to a certain pressure and rhythm when wanking.
If that happens I've sometimes helped things along by wanking while in their mouth. Or putting my hand on their's & showing the right pressure & rhythm.
It's nothing to worry about & I'm sure women can have the same problem cumming when they're fingered or licked."
Yes very true. Sometimes a guy just naturally mirrors the pressure and pace that I use myself to make myself cum, in which case he'll make me cum easily. Other times there's a jarring of techniques. It just needs a bit of communication, and also for the orgasm to not be seen as a requirement, otherwise it puts pressure on everyone and actually prevent it from happening. |
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