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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?
Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance? "
Yes and he got a punch cause he hurt me |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"Anal is a power play position? "
Not if it's done properly.
As in, a conversation in advance and preparation.
It can often be initiated by the lady or the guy. Not necessarily by one in particular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry |
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"I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry "
Understand and agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry
Understand and agree "
Having said that, pre agreed “role” play (won’t divulge forever getting banned) can be satisfying and amazing for both it’s all about communication and respect |
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"I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry
Understand and agree
Having said that, pre agreed “role” play (won’t divulge forever getting banned) can be satisfying and amazing for both it’s all about communication and respect "
Yogurt is a very good friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t call it dominance I’d call it non consent, anal is something that can be intense but has to be done in the right circumstances. If I thought a man had swapped holes intentionally without pre agreeing He would be sorry
Understand and agree
Having said that, pre agreed “role” play (won’t divulge forever getting banned) can be satisfying and amazing for both it’s all about communication and respect
Yogurt is a very good friend "
Not what SLimmers world Tells me  |
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If it the male half talking here then ask yourself that question..how would you feel if your partner just decided to put a dildo in your ass without warning or consent.and not suggesting that this is something you do however there are men out there think just because its there they have the god given right to have it......just a different way of looking at it from a womans perspective...we always decide before any play happens between us weather we are in the mood for that..xx  |
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"If it the male half talking here then ask yourself that question..how would you feel if your partner just decided to put a dildo in your ass without warning or consent.and not suggesting that this is something you do however there are men out there think just because its there they have the god given right to have it......just a different way of looking at it from a womans perspective...we always decide before any play happens between us weather we are in the mood for that..xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?
Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance? "
Thats not dominance, thats not permissive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last year I met a lady in Leicester for an afternoon's fun; whilst riding me cowgirl she rose up and repositioned herself to ride me anally, a pleasant surprise as she was really tight there. |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"Last year I met a lady in Leicester for an afternoon's fun; whilst riding me cowgirl she rose up and repositioned herself to ride me anally, a pleasant surprise as she was really tight there."
Oh..think you missed the question. |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
I would of thought just sticking it in there without any warning would be rather uncomfortable. One woman I was with sticked her finger inside me without warning me first and I jumped  I don't think I was prepared for it.. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I had an ex do this to me and no it was not enjoyable at all. It hurt like hell to the point ai needed medical help the following day .It wasn't him being dominant it was him being a thug and a bully and ended our relationship.
It is not something that should be done to prove 'dominance' in fact it is the complete opposite and shows a complete lack of understanding of the dom sub relationship.If it is done without permission and consent well it's something completely different. Anyone ever trying that to me again would be kicked out faster than they could blink. |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"I had an ex do this to me and no it was not enjoyable at all. It hurt like hell to the point ai needed medical help the following day .It wasn't him being dominant it was him being a thug and a bully and ended our relationship.
It is not something that should be done to prove 'dominance' in fact it is the complete opposite and shows a complete lack of understanding of the dom sub relationship.If it is done without permission and consent well it's something completely different. Anyone ever trying that to me again would be kicked out faster than they could blink. "
So, to be sure, no anal |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I had an ex do this to me and no it was not enjoyable at all. It hurt like hell to the point ai needed medical help the following day .It wasn't him being dominant it was him being a thug and a bully and ended our relationship.
It is not something that should be done to prove 'dominance' in fact it is the complete opposite and shows a complete lack of understanding of the dom sub relationship.If it is done without permission and consent well it's something completely different. Anyone ever trying that to me again would be kicked out faster than they could blink.
So, to be sure, no anal "
Not with someone who has no respect for the person they are with no.  |
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By *odgerMan
over a year ago
Coventry(ish)London |
"I had an ex do this to me and no it was not enjoyable at all. It hurt like hell to the point ai needed medical help the following day .It wasn't him being dominant it was him being a thug and a bully and ended our relationship.
It is not something that should be done to prove 'dominance' in fact it is the complete opposite and shows a complete lack of understanding of the dom sub relationship.If it is done without permission and consent well it's something completely different. Anyone ever trying that to me again would be kicked out faster than they could blink.
So, to be sure, no anal
Not with someone who has no respect for the person they are with no. "
Well that's fair enough...all in the communication...I always try and understand the do's and dont's before I meet anyone
Normal one's are stay away from my ass or my toes |
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"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?
Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance? "
No it hasn't and if a guy did it he'd be out the door quick smart. It's not dominance. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Just "going for it" anally without any preparation or warning can be an incredibly painful experience, so would have to ask why on earth anyone would think that's the right thing to do never mind a pleasurable one.
Anal is something you need to prepare for and relax into and that can only come with prior warning and preparation for most people.
Has nothing to do with dominance in a sexual way (although it may form part of a dominant roleplay that has been pre agreed, but then the dominance comes from the roleplay and not the act as such) either but everything to do with dominance in an abusive bullying way.
As a bisexual guy, anyone attempting to penetrate me and "go for it" without warning and my agreement, would get short shrift at best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last year I met a lady in Leicester for an afternoon's fun; whilst riding me cowgirl she rose up and repositioned herself to ride me anally, a pleasant surprise as she was really tight there.
Oh..think you missed the question."
It's the reverse of the question, anal wasn't discussed and I wasn't expecting the lady to receive it. |
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"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?
Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance? "
Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe. |
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"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?
Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?
Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe."
Correct. I really do not mind as long as he asks and puts on another condom. |
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"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?
Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?
Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe."
This. Any male who tried this would regret it.
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"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?
Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?
Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe."
Glad I'm not the only one thinking this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"While fucking a lady, have you ever thought about swapping holes and sticking your cock in her arse and going for it?
Ladies has this happened to you and you enjoyed the dominance?
Have you ever heard of “consent”? I know, it’s a crazy idea, but you should try it. “Sticking your cock in her arse and going for it” without consent is not dominance, it’s r*pe."
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I've thought about it but I wouldn't do it unless it was absolutely understood that is what she wanted.
You cannot assume that just cos a lady wants a cock in her pussy that you can stick it anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy anal sometimes, but without the right mindset and preparation it can 1) hurt a lot and 2) trigger my PTSD. I only do it with people I really trust.
It is something that should be discussed beforehand. It's not okay to just stick it in and go for it without obtaining consent first. |
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