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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it hot or wrong.....
Lately been chatting to a couple who could be my nan and grandad, obviously not met them but love chatting with them.
Just not sure if it's wrong or not to want to meet them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its whatever turns you on....there are no rules.
If you like the idea then go for it when safe.
I think they are very lucky  "
There is a few rules like make sure there home before the street lights come back on. |
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It really is down to the individuals. Certainly in the past I have been with women 20 years my junior and one ten years older than me. What is important is what age they are in their heads not on their birth certificate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be disgusted at the thought of a 30 year old dude going out with an 18,19 or 20 year old. Like, it would make me feel repulsed.
But the last year, my biggest fantasy has been fucking someone young and horny. Perhaps because of my own taboo about it in the past it has become appealing now?
Also, maybe men struggle to come to terms with their age and don't see it as an issue as much. But obviously plenty women like it young too.
Attraction is ultimately weird, but fluid! |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
Blyth |
There's very nearly 20 years between me and my fb. I wouldn't have expected a woman that much younger would fancy me but she instigated it and we've been fb's for quite a while now. It's done my ego the world of good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a number. If you want to play with them, they want to play with you and you’re all safe and happy.... then go for it and enjoy it! There’s 23 years between my fella and I. Don’t worry about what other people think. Do what feels right to you.  |
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Age is just a number if they /you are happy just go for it we had a couple of meets with a young guy he was very well mannered dressed well smelt nice turned up on time respected us couldn’t fault him not like some our age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do what makes you happy and what your comfortable with and never feel pressured or like you have to do anything just do what makes you happy and always keep safe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a 21 year old and a 30 year old I see regular. Age doesn't mean a thing if there's a mutual attraction and chemistry. Go for it OP . You have nothing to loose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The gf bf couple I meet are physically older than me.Hes 41 shes 30.
Mentally they are the same age lol.We get on so well and don't stop laughing.So to me if you have that sexual and mental attraction then that's all that counts x |
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"Is it hot or wrong.....
Lately been chatting to a couple who could be my nan and grandad, obviously not met them but love chatting with them.
Just not sure if it's wrong or not to want to meet them. "
fab is a safe and non judgemental space to meet and explore. if your instinct says yes. go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my girlfriend have a 13 year age gap and we’ve been together for 3 years.
People had a lot to say in the beginning but I don’t really notice much these days. She does have the odd immature moment, you just have to get used to it!
Sex is amazing!! |
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My view might be unpopular here, so apologies if it offends...
I think age gaps are fine when you’re both (I’m struggling for the right words) established adults. A 30 and a 50 year old, no problem etc.
But OP as you’re a teenager I worry what much older people would feel that they would have in common with you to arrive at a mutually respectful and healthy meet. I read your profile that you say you want teaching, and I suppose that that might lead to older Fabbers feeling that they’d like a chance to do that. Is that healthy? I’m not so sure. That might be what you’re looking for, but you must be careful. Navigating Fab in my late 30’s has been a horror show at times. There are some great people here, but many aren’t. Lots of liars, cheats and manipulators, which isn’t necessarily and age thing, but have your wits about you. My view would be that the bigger the age gap, the more unsavoury it is when it involves a person your age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it hot or wrong.....
Lately been chatting to a couple who could be my nan and grandad, obviously not met them but love chatting with them.
Just not sure if it's wrong or not to want to meet them. "
If you get on with someone then age is not important |
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"Is it hot or wrong.....
Lately been chatting to a couple who could be my nan and grandad, obviously not met them but love chatting with them.
Just not sure if it's wrong or not to want to meet thlfem. "
nothing wrong with it as long as you are all happy |
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I expect some will consider this prudish but...
Whilst on the surface, age is just a number, in reality I think older people have a level of responsibility/duty of care when we're talking about those 40+ getting involved with people who are still teenagers or very early 20s.
People of that age very often aren't sure what they're doing or what they really want, and can be vulnerable to a bit of a power imbalance with older people.
Not to say such things can't work out, but the older person(s) should be very careful and considerate and ensure good communication. |
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One of my regular friends is 21 years younger than me, and we have joked that we must look like 'Daddy and daughter' when we check in at hotels. I'm even older than her mother! But our age gap isn't an issue when we're together..... |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
It is down to personal choice, we are an older couple but we have a lower limit cos like fair few on here, we have kids older than many on here.
We'd have a drink and a laugh but anymore not likely. We are not (I'm) the kind of guy who wants to have a youngster woman hanging on my arm, well within reason - partner is 7 years younger |
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Each to their own as the saying goes but it does nothing for me at all.
I've got kids in their late 20's and will never meet anyone within 10 years of their age.
I've seen lots of couples say the same without being challenged but my experience is that when I say it I've had other guys come back at me and I've been called a liar and told that if presented with the opportunity I would take it like most men.
It's very easy to say that age is just a number but as has already been said on this thread different levels of sexual maturity can cause issues and being older doesn't always equate to being more sexually mature.
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"So much as I like younger women I say stay clear of much older men infact thinking of you in a daughter way I say leave and come back when you are older"
I would say the same thing. I realise we’re adults at 18, but I think scene requires a level of maturity to survive it that just isn’t possible at 18/19. And I think a young person could/would likely be preyed upon in a really unsavoury way. I think I’m showing my age, but it makes me uncomfortable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My view might be unpopular here, so apologies if it offends...
I think age gaps are fine when you’re both (I’m struggling for the right words) established adults. A 30 and a 50 year old, no problem etc.
But OP as you’re a teenager I worry what much older people would feel that they would have in common with you to arrive at a mutually respectful and healthy meet. I read your profile that you say you want teaching, and I suppose that that might lead to older Fabbers feeling that they’d like a chance to do that. Is that healthy? I’m not so sure. That might be what you’re looking for, but you must be careful. Navigating Fab in my late 30’s has been a horror show at times. There are some great people here, but many aren’t. Lots of liars, cheats and manipulators, which isn’t necessarily and age thing, but have your wits about you. My view would be that the bigger the age gap, the more unsavoury it is when it involves a person your age. "
I think this is solid and carefully worded advice |
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I'm 63 and regularly messaged by young ladies in their 20's and 30's who have a thing for older guys. One of them is a gorgeous irish woman who is 7 months pregnant.
We often make each other cum with sex chat. We all enjoy it so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it hot or wrong.....
Lately been chatting to a couple who could be my nan and grandad, obviously not met them but love chatting with them.
Just not sure if it's wrong or not to want to meet them. "
I met with a woman who’s older than my mum before and we were both comfortable in each other’s company |
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By *andRCouple
over a year ago
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To the OP we agree with many in that age is just a number.
However in agreement with Miss Lovely , the scene does require a certain level of maturity rarely found in youngsters. We have experienced a "relationship" with a female young enough to be our child and when it was good it was amazing but her age and lack of stability eventually ruined things.
But if you are honest with yourself about your expectations and desired outcome then go for it.
Enjoy all of life's pleasures while you can as life is too short for regrets.
Xx G |
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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I get lots of messages from younger guys some very much younger. I always say, have you seen my age? The most common reply is, age is just a number and anyway I like older, that's fine by me, I like younger  |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
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I think in terms of relationships its probably a bigger thing that in swinging, as often (though by no means always) a big age gap will mean different wants, needs, expectations, etc.
When it comes to swinging or play, I find it less of an issue, and the person's maturity and attitude would be more important. I guess lots of people do still play closer to their own age, purely because its easier to find others with the same outlook and who you get on with. I wouldn't rule anyone out on age alone though. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
The age gap is only an issue if you let it become one.
You can meet for a social only.
We have met a few younger people, and while we know there is no sexual chemistry, we are still friends and keep in touch.
They use our experience to help learn and understand what they like. |
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By *napppaMan
over a year ago
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"Is it hot or wrong.....
Lately been chatting to a couple who could be my nan and grandad, obviously not met them but love chatting with them.
Just not sure if it's wrong or not to want to meet them. "
Absolutely not, how are you going to discover what you really like without experimenting a little?
BTW, I'm late 40's feel free to message me!  |
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